g_b Serial killer may be a rich psycho, says gay activist

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Serial killer may be a rich psycho, says gay activist
Times Of India, Mumbai.


Anil Singh | TNN

Mumbai: Is the hunt for the south Mumbai 'serial killer' on the right track?
Is the police missing the wood for the trees? Gay rights activist Ashok Row
Kavi believes so. According to him, the 80-member special investigation team
(SIT) should look for a rich psychopath rather than rounding up beggars and
pavement dwellers.
  The police have said that the post-mortem of the latest victim, a
30-year-old unidentified man whose body was found on the foot overbridge
near the I-T office at Churchgate on Thursday, showed that he was a passive
homosexual. The police believe that the other victims too were homosexuals,
although the final forensic report is awaited.
  Kavi believes that the killer is a rich man because beer cans (which have
been found at the site of three of the seven murders) are generally bought
by those moving around in cars. "All this talk of the killer taking the last
train home is crap. This man has independent transport,'' says Kavi.
  It's a matter of conjecture whether both the sex act and the murder
occurred in the car but the police are not saying anything so far. Kavi says
the police theory that the killer is a well-built six-footer only confirms
his suspicion that the murderer is a rich man who works out in a gym.

The police are unwilling to comment on gay activist Ashok Row Kavi's theory
that the south Mumbai serial killer may be a rich psychopath. "We can't
arrive at any conclusion, at the moment we are simply going through all the
evidence,'' said joint police commissioner (law and order) Arup Patnaik.

  Why is a rich man prowling the streets at night for vagrants, which all
but one of the victims, a cabbie, apparently were? Kavi says that it's for
the thrill of anonymous sex. Besides, vagrants are the easiest targets. On
the murder motive, Kavi said it was a manifestation of the killer's
self-hatred. "This man is probably uncomfortable with his own sexuality,''
he surmises. His advice to the cops is "to overcome their aversion to
homosexuals and to take the help of the gay community in profiling the
killer instead of shooting in the dark''.
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Re: g_b Re: �delhi� Re: my Intro....to Rahul Singhal (Delhi)

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come on guys
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feels about RS.
  No one is right or wrong...every one is writing his opinions..needless to 
mention opinions are based on experiences ..which in bigger picture is known as 
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  There are few who look at life with negative vision n there are other who 
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looking guy..wants to be with goos looking guys...appreciated his positiove 
outlook or positive attitudes for life...he might had faced bad experiences or 
good or whatever it is..but his positive attitude is appreciable
   
  What u say guys

Tuhin Roy <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> wrote:
  Hi

Well...well...why there is so fuss about my mail...dont you think that I am 
right...Let me ask rahul...is he sure himself...that he will get a loving, good 
looking life partner..he is looking for...badi-badi baatein har koi karta 
haibut those who think who are hot, good looking, sincere, looking for 
relationship.will they REALLY go for guys like Rahul...come on dear...be 
practicaltheres a hell lot of difference between truth and 
lecturing.

TR

vin <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> wrote:  Dear Naveen and others,

I totally agree on this. Sex alone is not the mantra. You do need a loving 
partner howsoever he may look. After al beauty lies in the eyes of the 
beholder. We are all going to get old, sooner or later and looks will change. 
We might as well accept it. What may not change is the mind, the thoughts. So 
look for those.

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g_b Getting over someone � Doesn�t mean forgetting that person

[dunno76]

A story which I received in my email a few years back. Something very
true from the story, "Getting over someone … doesn't mean
forgetting that person." And it is very important to know that we
must go on with our life in order not to disappoint them. We must also
understand that it is not how we honored them after they were gone but
rather how we treated them when they are with us. Never hesitate to show
your care and concern to people that you love and to people around you.
There might not always be a tomorow to act.

I never thought I could ever get over the death of Julia. She is
everything in my life, and she is even more important than myself. The
time she spent in the hospital was the most painful moment in our life.
I knew that she feels a great deal of pain incurred by the cancerous
cells in her body, but she never once shown the pain in front of me;
this, I have always believed that she was trying to prevent me from
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would just chat and act like everything was normal.

Many would have thought that we are running away from reality. We never
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the other party being sad. It would be very difficult for me to describe
how we felt, you have to feel it yourself to know exactly what I mean by
that.

The day I lost her to cancer … it still lives so vividly in my mind;
I could never forget the way she struggled to breath the last breathe.
The pain must be killing her. It really hurts me to see her suffered.
How I wished I could bear part, if not all her pain she had to undergo.
But the only thing I could do was to watch her losing her battle to
death. I held on to her hand as usual until she left … without me.

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lost. There was no light to guide me. She was not only a guide but had
been my closest soul companion. The first thing that came to my mind
then was to leave this place with her; I can't bear to let her go on
this journey alone or should I say I can't leave without her. And
so, I tried to follow her. But I am glad that I live till today. She
would never have agreed to the idea of me going with her; she would have
wanted me to carry on with my life.

I am grateful to john for discovering my act of foolishness. He sent me
to a psychiatrist shortly after that incident, saying that I needed
professional help. I didn't want to argue with him then, and so I
just go for the therapy.

The therapy didn't help a bit. I could not live a normal life. I
could not get Julia out of my mind. Everything I do, her images would be
there. Somehow, subconsciously, she seems pretty much alive to me. I
could see her making breakfast every alternate morning and when it was
my turn to make breakfast, I would always make an extra set for her. I
could also see her cutting the grasses and tending to our garden of
roses besides me every weekend. And she would still sit by my side to
watch sunset with me every evening. All this I never tell anyone; all
they would say would be,'' she is dead already and you are probably
having illusions.'' Maybe the main reason why I never tell anyone is
that I can't accept the fact that they're right,

she's dead.

All these things carry on for two to three years. During that period, I
even played the game we invented together called `Connection'.
Whenever anyone of us wants to talk, the party whom initiated would say:
"connect?" then the other party will say: "connected'.
Every time, I would imagine her saying "connected" and I would
start to tell her all the things I had done and how much I had missed
her.

It went on for two to three years until … I not quite sure what
actually hits me, but one night, she appeared in my dreams and we talked
about lots of things, and I can't wait to tell her all the things I
did. Suddenly, she held on to my hand, looked me in my eyes and with
tears in her eyes, she said," Ben, please wake up, I'm dead
already. It hurts me, more than you know, knowing that you are wasting
your time. Please, for my sake, wake up." I woke up crying in my bed
that morning, realizing how foolish I actually am. And I started to live
my life once again.

I realized that it hurts a lot to see the one that we love so dearly
passed away, and it's never easy to get over someone whom had once
shared our life. But getting over someone doesn't mean forgetting
that person. We place them close to us, here in our heart to always
remember them. And whenever we think of them, we will just reach into
our heart for the image of them. In so doing, they live

g_b Re: «delhi» Re: my Intro....to Rahul Singh al (Delhi)

[Tuhin Roy]

Hi

Well...well...why there is so fuss about my mail...dont you think that I am 
right...Let me ask rahul...is he sure himself...that he will get a loving, good 
looking life partner..he is looking for...badi-badi baatein har koi karta 
haibut those who think who are hot, good looking, sincere, looking for 
relationship.will they REALLY go for guys like Rahul...come on dear...be 
practicaltheres a hell lot of difference between truth and 
lecturing.

TR

vin <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> wrote:  Dear Naveen and 
others,
 
 I totally agree on this. Sex alone is not the mantra. You do need a loving 
partner howsoever he may look. After al beauty lies in the eyes of the 
beholder. We are all going to get old, sooner or later and looks will change. 
We  might as well accept it. What may not change is the mind, the thoughts. So 
look for those.
 
 Regards
 Vin
 
 
 
   


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Re: g_b About to turn str8

[Bloot Fontaine]

I'm not sure about how to reply to this because words written without any such 
intention suddenly appear in print to be offensive and others too must have had 
that experience, so, without meaning to be opinionated, offensive or demeaning 
to anyone in any way, the problem I have come across quite often is that when I 
approach a guy and I like him and he likes me, he STILL resists interaction 
because of a preconcieved notion that being gay makes one less of a man.
  This notion would be offensive to women also as being women does not mean 
they are inferior to men. So also, being gay does not make you an inferior man, 
but how do you convince one who has such notions and is also stubborn!
  This IS a problem I have faced often, and have been defeated by it!
  Regards to all.


  If a person can't deal with his being gay then it is society that 
needs 
treated! The only reason a person thinks he can't be gay is because 
society has lied to him about it.

LOL - okay, now how do I get the whole world to agree with me?

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