Re: g_b 'To be or not to be'

[Tapesh Maj]

So what else can you do apart from having  fake currency in your wallet and
then let the man steal them . Finally inform the cops !!!

Tapesh M.






On Wed, Feb 2, 2011 at 9:21 AM, Abe  wrote:

>
>
>  hi gays,
> I have this guy who invites me to his home everytime he is in town, he
> wants me to carry drinks for the occasion, and after sharing the bed when i
> take a cool bath, he empties my purse.  I like him very much, and we
> enjoy the encounters each other; but again,I have no other option. What
> should I do?
> Abe
>
>  
>

Re: g_b 'To be or not to be'

[Aditya Bondyopadhyay]

Isn't it obvious, keep lots of counterfeit currency in your purse, and
keep all your real money in some other place, like in a secret pocket
in your undie...

On 2/2/11, Abe  wrote:
> hi gays,
> I have this guy who invites me to his home everytime he is in town, he wants
> me
> to carry drinks for the occasion, and after sharing the bed when i take a
> cool
> bath, he empties my purse.  I like him very much, and we enjoy the
> encounters
> each other; but again,I have no other option. What should I do?
> Abe
>
>
>

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Re: g_b Regarding GB meeting at Mulund on 30.01.2011

[Manoj]

Hi Sumedh,
 
I am happy you did feel good coming for it. Look forward to have you for the 
events we have ahead too   :-)
 
Rgds
Manoj

--- On Wed, 2/2/11, Sumedh Sarang  wrote:


From: Sumedh Sarang 
Subject: g_b Regarding GB meeting at Mulund on 30.01.2011
To: gay_bombay@yahoogroups.com
Date: Wednesday, 2 February, 2011, 12:43 PM


  









  

Dear friends,

On Sunday 30.1.2011 I first time attended the meeting of Gb held at Mulund. The 
organizers gave us a warm welcome; especially there were five to six new comers 
who were also attending the meeting for the first time.


All members were friendly and co-operative. Everyone was having a special 
quality, talent in each. 

I became very much enthusiastic after attending the Gb meet. I really thank you 
very much you all for your co-operation.


The experience was superb and amazing



With warm regards


Sumedh 

g_b Do What You Feel to be Right

[dunno76]

Do what you feel in your heart to be right – for  you'll be
criticized anyway. You'll be damned if you do, and damned if  you don't.
- Eleanor Roosevelt

Re: g_b Re: GB Special Sunday Meet on Relationships on 6 February 2011

[Sanjay Lulla]

reminds me of something that happened a few years back in this part of the 
world. A radio JOck was reading out Valentine messages on Valentine day. He 
read 
one message " Hi this is Shirley and this message is for Ahmed [are you tuned 
in?]
Shirley has to say that on this Valentine day I want you to know that WE ARE 
THROUGH ITS OVER FINITIO DONT EVER COME BACK"

the next message was read in a shaky frightened voice :-)
 little prince-Sanjay N Lulla 





From: Deep 
To: gay_bombay@yahoogroups.com
Sent: Wed, February 2, 2011 9:45:09 AM
Subject: g_b Re: GB Special Sunday Meet on Relationships on 6 February 2011

  
A suggestion, ofcourse. Why would it be a complaint? We are all glad that 
events 
like these are being organized. 

I guess nobody thought of the appropriateness of hosting a 'Relationship Meet' 
just before Valentine's Day.

Deep
http://gaynotes.blogspot.com 

--- In gay_bombay@yahoogroups.com, "lukn_4_friend"  wrote:
>
> Dear gaymanproud...
> 
> what was that message about..a suggestion or complaint or what..??
> 
> 
> 
> --- In gay_bombay@yahoogroups.com, "Deep" gaymanproud31@ wrote:
> >
> > Wouldn't it have been more appropriate to host this event the day before
> > Valentine's Day (Sunday, Feb 13)?
> > More people are in the 'mood' of romance around that time!
> > I guess the venues have already been booked by now since, I believe, the
> > GB Film Fest is probably scheduled on Sunday, Feb 13.
> > Having said that, I will agree with folks on this forum who will shout
> > loud and clear that every day is Valentine's Day for the couples in
> > love
> > Deephttp://gaynotes.blogspot.com
> > 
> > 
> > --- In gay_bombay@yahoogroups.com, "GayBombay Events" 
> > wrote:
> > >
> > > GB Special Sunday Meet on Relationships
> > >
> > >
> > >
> > >
> > >
> > >
> > >
> > >
> > >
> > >
> > >
> > >
> > >
> > >
> > >
> > > What do gay guys mean when they say, I am looking for relationship?
> > >
> > > Sex?
> > >
> > > An affair till it doesn’t get boring?
> > >
> > > A trophy boyfriend to flaunt to the world?
> > >
> > > A partner to introduce to parents as life partner?
> > >
> > > A relationship of convenience, strictly to take care of loneliness and
> > old age?
> > >
> > > A big shot to enjoy expensive gifts and lifestyle?
> > >
> > > A cute boyfriend just for the heck, because a friend has one?
> > >
> > > An adorable guy to fall in love with and stay together and committed
> > till death?
> > >
> > > Gay relationships are complicated. Guys who desperately want a
> > relationship, have no clue what they want out it. Some want to take a
> > break from mindless, marathon sex. For some, seeking relationship is a
> > passing phase. Some guys just want to prove that they were not
> > responsible for their last break up.
> > >
> > > Some couples get very close and make room for doubts and insecurity.
> > Some give enough space and bond with infidelity. One partner wants to be
> > open about their polygamy; other partner wants to pretend monogamy. One
> > wants to stay closeted, other wants to do masters in PDA. One is married
> > to woman; his boyfriend is divorced to political correct friends.
> > >
> > > Now the good news is, there are some couples who have sailed over
> > these rough waters. Couples who have been in a rock solid, strong
> > relationship spanning 1 year to more than 20 years. Couples who are
> > going to share their stories, insights and experiences to address your
> > queries.
> > >
> > > Well, if you find all this boring, here is the fun quotient. A rapid
> > fire round to judge the most eligible guy for relationship,
> > compatibility test for couples and match fixing.
> > >
> > > Here is your chance to get an inside view of long-distance, open,
> > bisexual, short-term and whatnot relationships. Or meet guys who are
> > single and happy by choice.
> > >
> > > If you wish to attend this special meet as a couple or are interested
> > in contesting for Â"Most Eligible Guy for RelationshipÂ", pals
> > shoot an email to : umang73sheth@
> > >
> > >
> > > Day, Date & Time:
> > > Sunday, 6th February, 2011 between 3 pm and 6:30 pm.
> > >
> > > Cover:
> > > Free Entry.
> > >
> > > Venue:
> > > Roti Restaurant (formerly Zouk),
> > > Hotel Imperial Palace,
> > > Telli Galli,
> > > Andheri (East);
> > > Mumbai
> > >
> > > Directions:
> > > Hotel Imperial Palace is a 5 minute walk from Andheri station on the
> > East side. Walk up the Andheri Kurla Road (towards the Highway) and turn
> > right into Telli Galli. It’s the 3rd building on your right.
> > >
> > > But if youÂ're driving and taking the Andheri flyover, from West
> > to East, make a left turn at the signal at the end of the flyover. Or if
> > youÂ're driving on the highway make a left turn at the Andheri
> > flyover road and a right turn at the signal before the flyover. This is
> > Telli Galli. Almost towards the end of this road, close to Andheri Kurla
> > Road (perpendicular to Telli Galli),

g_b Re: 'To be or not to be'

[Deep]

Dear naive (?) Abe,
You mean you have allowed him to empty your purse more than once? Are
you serious?
Are you so desperate for sex that you are willing to be robbed? Follow
my advise  pal, use your right hand on your *+&^ (or are you a lefty?)
and pour all those drinks down your own throat. Throw away that
prostitute's number.
Next time he is in town ask him if he would like to surrender to the
police himself or would he like your help in calling the police to get
arrested.

Regards,Deephttp://gaynotes.blogspot.com
--- In gay_bombay@yahoogroups.com, Abe  wrote:
>
> hi gays,
> I have this guy who invites me to his home everytime he is in town, he
wants me
> to carry drinks for the occasion, and after sharing the bed when i
take a cool
> bath, he empties my purse.  I like him very much, and we enjoy the
encounters
> each other; but again,I have no other option. What should I do?
> Abe
>

Re: g_b Re: GB Special Sunday Meet on Relationships on 6 February 2011

[sameer sawant]

Hi guys,

Do u think such meet is helping to gay world..I think its waste of time and 
only 2 or 3 guys only do chapar chapar..

So please do something different.




--- On Wed, 2/2/11, Deep  wrote:

From: Deep 
Subject: g_b Re: GB Special Sunday Meet on Relationships on 6 February 2011
To: gay_bombay@yahoogroups.com
Date: Wednesday, 2 February, 2011, 11:15 AM







 



  



  
  
  A suggestion, ofcourse. Why would it be a complaint? We are all glad that 
events like these are being organized. 
I guess nobody thought of the appropriateness of hosting a 'Relationship Meet' 
just before Valentine's Day.
Deephttp://gaynotes.blogspot.com 

--- In gay_bombay@yahoogroups.com, "lukn_4_friend"  wrote:
>
> Dear gaymanproud...
> 
> what was that message about..a suggestion or complaint or what..??
> 
> 
> 
> --- In gay_bombay@yahoogroups.com, "Deep" gaymanproud31@ wrote:
> >
> > Wouldn't it have been more appropriate to host this event the day before
> > Valentine's Day (Sunday, Feb 13)?
> > More people are in the 'mood' of romance around that time!
> > I guess the venues have already been booked by now since, I believe, the
> > GB Film Fest is probably scheduled on Sunday, Feb 13.
> > Having said that, I will agree with folks on this forum who will shout
> > loud and clear that every day is Valentine's Day for the couples in
> > love
> > Deephttp://gaynotes.blogspot.com
> > 
> > 
> > --- In gay_bombay@yahoogroups.com, "GayBombay Events" 
> > wrote:
> > >
> > > GB Special Sunday Meet on Relationships
> > >
> > >
> > >
> > >
> > >
> > >
> > >
> > >
> > >
> > >
> > >
> > >
> > >
> > >
> > >
> > > What do gay guys mean when they say, I am looking for relationship?
> > >
> > > Sex?
> > >
> > > An affair till it doesn’t get boring?
> > >
> > > A trophy boyfriend to flaunt to the world?
> > >
> > > A partner to introduce to parents as life partner?
> > >
> > > A relationship of convenience, strictly to take care of loneliness and
> > old age?
> > >
> > > A big shot to enjoy expensive gifts and lifestyle?
> > >
> > > A cute boyfriend just for the heck, because a friend has one?
> > >
> > > An adorable guy to fall in love with and stay together and committed
> > till death?
> > >
> > > Gay relationships are complicated. Guys who desperately want a
> > relationship, have no clue what they want out it. Some want to take a
> > break from mindless, marathon sex. For some, seeking relationship is a
> > passing phase. Some guys just want to prove that they were not
> > responsible for their last break up.
> > >
> > > Some couples get very close and make room for doubts and insecurity.
> > Some give enough space and bond with infidelity. One partner wants to be
> > open about their polygamy; other partner wants to pretend monogamy. One
> > wants to stay closeted, other wants to do masters in PDA. One is married
> > to woman; his boyfriend is divorced to political correct friends.
> > >
> > > Now the good news is, there are some couples who have sailed over
> > these rough waters. Couples who have been in a rock solid, strong
> > relationship spanning 1 year to more than 20 years. Couples who are
> > going to share their stories, insights and experiences to address your
> > queries.
> > >
> > > Well, if you find all this boring, here is the fun quotient. A rapid
> > fire round to judge the most eligible guy for relationship,
> > compatibility test for couples and match fixing.
> > >
> > > Here is your chance to get an inside view of long-distance, open,
> > bisexual, short-term and whatnot relationships. Or meet guys who are
> > single and happy by choice.
> > >
> > > If you wish to attend this special meet as a couple or are interested
> > in contesting for Â"Most Eligible Guy for RelationshipÂ", pals
> > shoot an email to : umang73sheth@
> > >
> > >
> > > Day, Date & Time:
> > > Sunday, 6th February, 2011 between 3 pm and 6:30 pm.
> > >
> > > Cover:
> > > Free Entry.
> > >
> > > Venue:
> > > Roti Restaurant (formerly Zouk),
> > > Hotel Imperial Palace,
> > > Telli Galli,
> > > Andheri (East);
> > > Mumbai
> > >
> > > Directions:
> > > Hotel Imperial Palace is a 5 minute walk from Andheri station on the
> > East side. Walk up the Andheri Kurla Road (towards the Highway) and turn
> > right into Telli Galli. It’s the 3rd building on your right.
> > >
> > > But if youÂ're driving and taking the Andheri flyover, from West
> > to East, make a left turn at the signal at the end of the flyover. Or if
> > youÂ're driving on the highway make a left turn at the Andheri
> > flyover road and a right turn at the signal before the flyover. This is
> > Telli Galli. Almost towards the end of this road, close to Andheri Kurla
> > Road (perpendicular to Telli Galli), is Hotel Imperial Palace, on your
> > left.
> > >
> > >
> > \
> > 
> > > This event is organised by www.gaybombay.org
> > >
> >
>





 





 



  

g_b Debriefing Meeting for QAM 5th February 2011: CEFE office @ 6 pm

[Pallav]

Dear All

Hope you all enjoyed the QAM Pride March 2011 and the QAM Pride Week.

If you have anything to say, good , bad, ugly , here is your opportunity to
come and say it at the QAM debriefing meeting
where we will discuss the Pride Week and the actual March.

This debriefing helps the QAM organising committees to get community
feedback and plan events in line with community requirements.

Request all organisers of events , well wishers and participants to be there
at the HST CEFE office in SCruz west and give us their valued feedback.

Please circulate widely .

Address and directions

The Humsafar Trust/Center for Excellence (CEFE)
Riviera CHS, Flat 1, Ground Floor
15th Road, Near RBI Colony
Santacruz (W) Mumbai 400 050
Phone: +91 22 32449474

http://maps.yahoo.com/#mvt=m&lat=19.077784&lon=72.832006&zoom=18


You can take a rickshaw from Scruz station , you will cross SV road and come
onto Linking road.
The Krishna Mandir is a good land mark. Go past the mandir and take the
first right.
You can also say Murugan Chawls.

g_b Difficult to find a Partner

[Sameer Raj]

Hi everyone,
well i am writing this not as someone who is new or fighting with the identity 
but as a person who has tried everything to find a correct soulmate our world.i 
have written many mails (subject : In search of a life partner) seeking for the 
person that i would be happy to spend my life with.
but all replies i get hovers around sex and only sex or i am married and so and 
so yrs old complete secrecy assured... sometimes they are so direct that it 
becomes hard for me to understand that does the gay world means just having one 
night stands or a hook up ..is there nothing called love in this 
world

well i believe that being gay is nothing wrong and one should be proud of it, i 
would like to say that the only things that matters is not a hook up or a night 
stand but love and commitment which would last forever because at the end this 
is wat we all have to live with. 

i would not like to write more as i am short of words about how sorry i feel 
for 
those who think that being gay is just about having a night stand..

Re: g_b Homosexuals Seek Greater Acceptance in India

[Bloot Fontaine]

You fishing for hilarious answers dahling? Just give him an electric shock up 
the you-know-where, yar! Hahahahahahahaha!

--- On Wed, 2/2/11, geldmann...@yahoo.com  wrote:


From: geldmann...@yahoo.com 
Subject: Re: g_b Homosexuals Seek Greater Acceptance in India
To: gay_bombay@yahoogroups.com
Date: Wednesday, 2 February, 2011, 8:07 AM


  



Should we attempt at a dialogue with doctors or individuals like Narula? And 
how?

What does this forum think?

Srini


Sent via BlackBerry®


From: modera...@gaybombay.in 
Sender: gay_bombay@yahoogroups.com 
Date: Wed, 2 Feb 2011 00:19:21 +0530
To: 
ReplyTo: gay_bombay@yahoogroups.com 
Subject: g_b Homosexuals Seek Greater Acceptance in India

  



Homosexuals Seek Greater Acceptance in India
Rebecca Byerly | New Delhi, India  January 31, 2011 

Photo: VOA - R. Byerly 
Some gays have felt more comfortable 'coming out' about their sexuality since 
the Delhi High Court decriminalized consensual homosexual activity in 2009
Gay rights activists in India are seeking broader acceptance for homosexual 
men, lesbians and transgenders that goes beyond legal protection against 
criminal prosecution.  But change is slow to come. It was just in July 2009, 
when the Delhi High Court repealed Section 377 of the Indian Penal Code, the 
law that made same sex activity illegal in India. 

Homosexual men, lesbians and transgenders in New Delhi are marching to the beat 
of a new era. Since the Delhi High Court decriminalized consensual homosexual 
activity between adults, some gays have felt more comfortable "coming out" 
about their sexuality and attending functions like this gay pride parade in New 
Delhi late last year.  

For Sambhav Sharma, the repeal of the law gave him the courage to tell his 
grandmother that he is gay. To show their support, family members joined him in 
the parade. "This is the consequence of Article 377. Because of that, I was 
able to convince my family to come down here and celebrate my 'Azadi,' my 
freedom," he said.
Many gay men and women in India are not as comfortable as Sharma acknowledging 
their sexuality.  In a conservative society like India, homosexuality is still 
widely taboo. That is why these parade participants wear masks to hide their 
identities.

Anjali Gopalan is the founder and executive director of the Naz Foundation, a 
non-profit organization that works on HIV/AIDS and sexual health issues in New 
Delhi.  "I think the battle now is the battle for rights.  The battle has to be 
for the right to marriage, the right to adopt, the right to inherit - rights 
which citizens of this country take for granted. And when I say citizens of 
this country, obviously the people who are taking it for granted is the 
heterosexual community because gay people don't have these rights.  That's the 
long battle now."

Gopalan says that even in metropolitian areas, some parents think they can 
change their homosexual children - make them heterosexual - with electric shock 
treatments. Others believe homosexuality can be cured in some way.

That is what teacher Rajendra Narula believes. He attended a recent event in 
Delhi called "Gay Rights are Human Rights."  "I think it's possible to treat 
homosexuality. It's just a matter of taking some hormones or counseling and 
it's absolutely correctable," he said.

Gopalan says Narula and others who consider homosexuality an illness, or wrong, 
need to be taught that is not true. And both she and Sharma say as India 
develops they hope the government will give more rights to homosexuals.

"This is just the beginning. Everywhere we want our legal rights.  That can be 
achieved by the recognition that the government will give us. And it will 
happen."
 
 
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Re: g_b Re: [gb] Wednesday's woe

[Bloot Fontaine]

Imagine what an itsy bitsy teensy weensy orgasm you would have with just one 
sperm yar! Regards!

--- On Wed, 2/2/11, Sanjay Lulla  wrote:


From: Sanjay Lulla 
Subject: g_b Re: [gb] Wednesday's woe
To: gaybom...@yahoogroups.com, "G_B" 
Date: Wednesday, 2 February, 2011, 10:48 AM


  






why are a million sperms produced when only one is necessary for conceiving? 
They are masculine they wont ask for directions and accidentally only one hits 
home.
 little prince-Sanjay N Lulla 






From: asfan 
To: gay_bombay@yahoogroups.com; gaybom...@yahoogroups.com
Sent: Wed, February 2, 2011 6:48:22 AM
Subject: [gb] Wednesday's woe

  






What do men and sperm have in common?

They both have a one-in-a-million chance of becoming a human being.

Re: g_b 'To be or not to be'

[asfan]

Don't carry the bottles and don't take the cold bath.
asfan

--- On Wed, 2/2/11, Abe  wrote:
From: Abe 
Subject: g_b 'To be or not to be'
To: gay_bombay@yahoogroups.com
Date: Wednesday, 2 February, 2011, 2:51 PM


  





hi gays,
I have this guy who invites me to his home everytime he is in town, he wants me 
to carry drinks for the occasion, and after sharing the bed when i take a cool 
bath, he empties my purse.  I like him very much, and we enjoy the encounters 
each other; but again,I have no other option. What should I do?
Abe

Re: g_b 'To be or not to be'

[shedge_sushant]

Hey you like him that is ok but when he is doing something wrong with you 
T think you should understand he don't respect you he wants only money and 
nothing he is just taking you for granted avoid him end of the day you are 
going to get hurt that you love wrong person in your life so step back take 
care love you ..sush
Sent on my BlackBerry® from Vodafone

-Original Message-
From: Abe 
Sender: gay_bombay@yahoogroups.com
Date: Wed, 2 Feb 2011 01:21:23 
To: 
Reply-To: gay_bombay@yahoogroups.com
Subject: g_b 'To be or not to be'

hi gays,
I have this guy who invites me to his home everytime he is in town, he wants me 
to carry drinks for the occasion, and after sharing the bed when i take a cool 
bath, he empties my purse.  I like him very much, and we enjoy the encounters 
each other; but again,I have no other option. What should I do?
Abe