g_b Re: Sexual Tension - Amazing Short Movie

[Tintin Mumbai India]

Errata: Actually it is "Sexual Tension: Volatile" of 2012

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On Fri, Aug 30, 2013 at 9:57 PM, Tintin Mumbai India  wrote:

> Hi Guys,
>
> Today I watched a short gay movie, "Sexual Tension" on FB.
> I dont know if it can be shared on the group or not, so I am not posting
> the link here.
>
> Amazing movie.
> Well made, well presented.
>
> I wish, I could make such small movies based on Gay themes.
> Just google for it (or ask me in personal replies).
> I am sure you will love it.
>
> Abhay
>
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g_b Thursday's Thought

[asfan]

 
 


> 
> 
>Three large black 
ladies were getting ready to take a plane trip forthe very first 
time.
>
>The first lady said, 'I don't know bout y'all, but I'm gunna put me 
on sumhot pink panties 
beefo' I gets on dat plane.'
>
>'Why you gonna wear dem fo?' the other two 
asked.The first replied, 
'Cuz, if dat plane goes down and I'm out dare laying butt-up in a conefield, 
dey 
gonna find me first.'
>
>The second lady said, 'Well, then I'm a-gonna wear 
me some floeresant orangepanties.'
>
>'Why 
you gonna wear dem?' the others asked.
>
>The second lady answered, 'Cuz if 
dis hare plane is goin' down and I befloating butt-up in 
the oshun, dey can see me first.'
>
>The third lady says, 'Well, I'm not 
gonna wear any panties.'
>
>'Wot? No panties?' the others asked in 
disbelief.
>
>The third lady says, 'Dat's right girls, you hears me right. I 
ain'twearing no panties, 
cuzhoney, dey always 
look for da Black Box first!'

Re: g_b Need Help! Really confused about my sexual orientation,depressed,unhappy,worried

[Jason Wineke]

hey, I read your email, and first of all, whatever your going threw just take 3 
breaths, deep in and out breaths. its going to be ok. just keep telling 
yourself that whatever the situation is, its going to be ok. just calm down and 
when u feel anxious just keep taking breaths, in and out. in and out. I found 
this book by joyce myers, called learn to manage your emotions. its a really 
good book and it really does helps calm my nerves down. look into it and let me 
know the outcome. thanx. 
Jason.

On Sun, 8/25/13, rahulboob  wrote:

 Subject: g_b Need Help! Really confused about my sexual 
orientation,depressed,unhappy,worried
 To: gay_bombay@yahoogroups.com
 Date: Sunday, August 25, 2013, 7:04 PM
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
  
 
 
 
   
 
 
 
   
   
   Hi all,
 
   Right now I'm 21 years old, and all this confusion
 started happening when I was 16, when I felt I was getting
 attracted to a guy. I don't know if it was real
 attraction or want of a friend. < I had always been an
 introvert till now, focusing on acads mainly and staying
 away from guys > Time passed, but the feeling that I was
 gay started increasing with time. I started feeling more and
 more unhappy.
 
 
 
 And Right now, it has reached that limit, where I can't
 tolerate it anymore. I don't know how to figure out.
 There are days I feel I'm okay. But then again, I feel
 sometimes that I am bi and sometimes, that I am gay. Also, I
 am really apprehensive of going out now. I can't attend
 classes, go to parties and enjoy my life as I really should
 be. I feel really bad about myself. I feel that all my
 friends are enjoying their life totally, dating girls,
 studying, working for their future, while I am here stuck
 with this fact. 
 
 
 
 I really need to know what to do. I am also quite worried
 about the fact that a few of my friends know about this
 thing and what if they tell everyone else. What about my
 future? Will I have keep lying always if I am gay? I have
 given a hint to my parents, but how will I actually tell
 what being "gay" is? How will they react ? how
 will everyone react?
 
 
 
 I am only 21. Wondering how will I spend rest of the years
 of my life. I don't want to be like this always. 
 
 
 
 I really need some good advice on all of this. I'll be
 really thankful to you. And Most importantly, How do I find
 out if I am really gay ?
 
 
 
 Thanks a lot !
 
 Rahul.
 
 
 
 
 
 
  
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
   
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 

g_b Sexual Tension - Amazing Short Movie

[Tintin Mumbai India]

Hi Guys,

Today I watched a short gay movie, "Sexual Tension" on FB.
I dont know if it can be shared on the group or not, so I am not posting
the link here.

Amazing movie.
Well made, well presented.

I wish, I could make such small movies based on Gay themes.
Just google for it (or ask me in personal replies).
I am sure you will love it.

Abhay


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g_b Dating Rules to Meet Someone

[Aditya Bondyopadhyay]

Read it all at:

http://www.serguapos.com/ge/ge68.html

Aditya Bondyopadhyay
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Re: g_b Need Help! Really confused about my sexual orientation,depressed,unhappy,worried

[Aditya Bondyopadhyay]

Rahul,

What us not clear from your mail is which part of India you are based in. This 
is important as in most metro cities there are ample gay support networks and 
structures now that you can plug into.

It's clear that you are conflicted and still seeking finality about the 
question if your sexual orientation. However if for five years you have avoided 
guys and still feel attracted toward them, then it's likely that you are in 
fact gay (or bi). Your comfort and personal closure will begin the day you 
acknowledge this as a fact and stop fighting it! This is simply because it 
cannot be fought! It has to be accepted and you must learn to become 
comfortable with it.

You can begin to rebuild your stressed and conflicted mind only after you get 
to this acceptance if who you are! For afterwards, it will not be about how to 
change something that you cannot change anyway, but more about what best to 
make if it!

If you can come to this acceptance, I'd  ask you to get connected. You do not 
have to have only straight friends, if their lifestyles 'other' you amongst 
them. It does not mean that you stop being friends with them, it only means 
that you remain their friends on your terms and if those terms are not 
acceptable to them, them may be those specific friends are worth dropping from 
your friends list.

It also means that you stop judging your life constantly by their standards, a 
set if standards that cannot be applied to you in any case.

Once you connect with gay support networks, you'd get into a support structure 
where you can observe alternate possibilities in those you come into contact 
with. It's not an overnight process, and you must give adequate time. But it 
would certainly give you the option of not having tongued or defend yourself 
all the time, both very stressful. 

You do not have to come out to your patents, at least not right now. Most 
Indian parents are not hot wired to treat their children as sexual beings, 
therefore if you Di not discuss it with them, it's ok! In any event you should 
not broach this until such time you are sure yourself and you also have the 
economic and support to stand up on your own irrespective of their reaction to 
your disclosure! Broaching this subject now may lead them to try to 'change' 
you, which believe me, will completely fuck up your life and happiness for good!

You being a student, I'd suggest you get on to the queer campus group(s) on 
Facebook, especially the one for your city, if it exists. There you'll find 
more people with your age group who are comfortable with themselves! 
Participate in these forums, don't be a silent observer! Participation will 
open you to newer options and possibilities and will certainly clear things in 
your mind!

Finally, it's not easy, but if you accept your reality, you will live a more 
honest, stress free, and happy life. Ultimately, that is YOUR LIFE, that you 
life that you live by your choices, and not live it by other' expectations, 
others' values, or others' dictates! That is a life of freedom, that is true 
liberty! Otherwise you will live what is essentially a life of mental and 
emotional slavery, which can be very destructive of the self!

I wish you well!

Regards and best,

Aditya Bondyopadhyay
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On 26-Aug-2013, at 12:34 AM, "rahulboob"  wrote:

> Hi all,
> Right now I'm 21 years old, and all this confusion started happening when I 
> was 16, when I felt I was getting attracted to a guy. I don't know if it was 
> real attraction or want of a friend. < I had always been an introvert till 
> now, focusing on acads mainly and staying away from guys > Time passed, but 
> the feeling that I was gay started increasing with time. I started feeling 
> more and more unhappy.
> 
> And Right now, it has reached that limit, where I can't tolerate it anymore. 
> I don't know how to figure out. There are days I feel I'm okay. But then 
> again, I feel sometimes that I am bi and sometimes, that I am gay. Also, I am 
> really apprehensive of going out now. I can't attend classes, go to parties 
> and enjoy my life as I really should be. I feel really bad about myself. I 
> feel that all my friends are enjoying their life totally, dating girls, 
> studying, working for their future, while I am here stuck with this fact. 
> 
> I really need to know what to do. I am also quite worried about the fact that 
> a few of my friends know about this thing and what if they tell everyone 
> else. What about my future? Will I have keep lying always if I am gay? I have 
> given a hint to my parents, but how will I actually tell what being "gay" is? 
> How will they react ? how will everyone react?
> 
> I am only 21. Wondering how will I spend rest of the years of my life. I 
> don't want to be like this always. 
> 
> I really need some good advice on all of this. I'll be really thankful to 
> you. And Most importantly, How do I find out if I am really gay ?
> 
> Thanks a lot !
> Rahul.
> 
> 

g_b Laughter is the magical impulse of life

[dunno76]

Laughter is the magical impulse of life. - Julian Pencilliah (OM:
Rekindling the Light Within 
)

  
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The true purpose is to see things as they are, to observe things as they
are, and to let everything go as it goes. - Shunryu Suzuki (OM,
Rekindling the Light Within 
)

  
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I love myself, therefore, I behave in a loving way to all people for I
know that that which I give out returns to me multiplied. - Louise Hay
(more Louise Hay love quotes and sayings
 )

  
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Don't hold on to anger, hurt or pain. They steal your energy and keep
you from love. - Leo Buscaglia (more Leo Buscaglia love quotes and
sayings 
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Some things need to be Let go before other things can be Let in. -
Marianne Williamson (OM: Rekindling the Light Within
 )

Let go ... Let in

  
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You influence the world not only by what you do, but by who you are. -
Marianne Williamson (OM: Rekindling the Light Within
 )

YES! In case you are not aware of it; you are influencing the world in a
deeper and more profound way than you think. Look no further but to
those immediately around you - your family, friends, co-workers,
associates, and passerby in your everyday life. How are you influencing
their lives by what you are doing and by simply being who you are?

As Abraham Lincoln
  said,
"Whatever you are, be a good one."

  
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All our dreams can come true, if we have the courage to pursue them. -
Walt Disney (OM: Rekindling the Light Within
 )

  
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It's time to get your hopes up, enlarge your vision, and get ready for
new things. - Joel Osteen (OM: Rekindling the Light Within
 )

  
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Forgiveness is the needle that knows how to mend. - Jewel (more Jewel
love quotes and sayings
 )

  
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Love is like a precious plant ... you've got to really look after it and
nurture it. - John Lennon (more John Lennon's love quotes and sayings
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g_b Looking for friends in London

[Kumar Kk]

Hi I m 35 yr in London nd wanna make friendship with good guys ,  i m basically 
from mumbai .  Waiting for replies 

Re: g_b Counselling areas in or around Delhi.

[Aditya Bondyopadhyay]

Hi Rahul,
If you are able to afford the costs of professional therapy, I'd suggest you 
get in touch with doctor Jitendra Nagpal. You can get his contact details from 
just dial.

http://doctor.ndtv.com/expert/ndtv/expertid/239/Dr_Jitendra_Nagpal.html

Best,

Aditya Bondyopadhyay
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On 27-Aug-2013, at 12:20 AM, "rahulboob"  wrote:

> Hi guys,
> I wish if you could let me know about some counselling areas in or around 
> Delhi, that might help me figure out what's really the problem. If It's 
> something that has crept into my find or if I am really gay.
> Please help!
> 
> Thank YOu.
> Rahul.
> 
> 

g_b A Gay Survey was conducted, related to Planet Romeo. - Results are Amazing.

[Tintin Mumbai India]

Hi Guys,

I am not sure if the link attached here qualifies the group guidelines or
not, but assuming it does (moderators should decide on this), I am sharing
it here.

https://www.planetromeo.com/blog/data/2013/appsurvey/AppSurvey-EN.pdf

The link is about the results of a Survey conducted by www.PlanetRomeo.com,
a popular gay dating site, about users' views about BAN on its APP on Apple
& Android.
Seems Nokia did not ban it.

If not the survey, the results are really interesting, so I thought of
sharing those with you.

Abhay


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g_b Wednesday Wonder

[asfan]

A sexually active middle aged woman informed her plastic surgeon that she 
wanted  her vaginal lips reduced in size because, over the years they have 
become loose and floppy.

Out of embarrassment, she insisted that the surgery be kept secret and, of 
course, the surgeon agreed.
 
Awakening from the anesthesia, she found 3 roses carefully placed beside her on 
the bed.
 
I forget if I have posted this before..  If so, please pardon me.
Asfan.

 
Outraged, she immediately called in the surgeon."I thought I specifically asked 
you not to tell anyone about my operation"!
 
The surgeon told her he had carried out her wish for confidentiality and that 
the first rose was from him. "I felt so sad for you, because you went through 
this all by yourself."
 
"The second rose is from my nurse. She assisted me in the surgery and 
understood perfectly, as she had the same procedure done some time ago."
 
"And what about the third rose?" she asked.
 
"That's from a man in the burn unit - he wanted to thank you for his new ears."

g_b Gay Guide Lisbon - Portugal

[Peter P]

Hi Guys:

Lisbon The gay scene is flourishing, so the Portuguese capital is one of the 
number one 
gay destinations in Europe. His abundant freedom and tolerance have turned 
Lisbon into 
one of the perfect gay destinations. Prepare your dollars or euros to go for a 
ride! Here is 
the comprehensive Gay guide Lisbon !>

Gay Guide Lisbon - Portugal


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g_b Liquid Lounge Presents GB’s 15th Anniversary Party on 31st August 13 – It’s a Saturday Nite party

[Dee]

Liquid Lounge Presents GB’s 15th Anniversary Party on 31st August 13 – It’s a 
Saturday Nite party

Date: Saturday – 31st August 2013.
Time: 9 pm to 01 am.
Cover Charge: Rs 750/- - To defray the expenses of the party
NO CREDIT CARDS

Venue:
Liquid Lounge (above Karma)
Sukh Sagar, 534 S.V.P. Road ,
Mumbai 47.
(Near Girgaum Chowpatty and Opera House; opposite Standard Chartered Bank. 
Charni Road is the closest station).


DETAILS on www.gaymumbai.org

Re: g_b Need Help! Really confused about my sexual orientation,depressed,unhappy,worried

[Nav Nav]

Dear Rahul,

At this point I would like to share few of my experience which I went though 
during my late teens. Yes, I was also in the same situation at that stage with 
full of confusing about what I went through is normal or abnormal. I had no one 
to share my feeling, was always upset and sad. In-fact I had strong crush on 
one of my friend/class mate who was very close to me but didn't expressed it 
any time. We use to sit always next to each other in class rooms. I was so much 
attached that I wasn't able to tolerate if he takes one day leave to school. 
But later when I grew-up and became a computer literate I discovered the truths 
about my self from the internet world. I still beleave that being Gay is not 
abnormal, it is as natural as being straight.
As far as my experience is concerned, you can find out your orientation by 
being truthful to yourself. Ask yourself how much you get attracted to Men and 
Women. Be calm and try to analyze your behavior towards men and women. I hope 
you will also get the answer as I could get from myself. Take your time.   

I beleave that my experience could be of little help to you.

Naveen

  



 From: rahulboob 
To: gay_bombay@yahoogroups.com 
Sent: Monday, 26 August 2013 12:34 AM
Subject: g_b Need Help! Really confused about my sexual 
orientation,depressed,unhappy,worried
 


  
Hi all,
Right now I'm 21 years old, and all this confusion started happening when I was 
16, when I felt I was getting attracted to a guy. I don't know if it was real 
attraction or want of a friend. < I had always been an introvert till now, 
focusing on acads mainly and staying away from guys > Time passed, but the 
feeling that I was gay started increasing with time. I started feeling more and 
more unhappy.

And Right now, it has reached that limit, where I can't tolerate it anymore. I 
don't know how to figure out. There are days I feel I'm okay. But then again, I 
feel sometimes that I am bi and sometimes, that I am gay. Also, I am really 
apprehensive of going out now. I can't attend classes, go to parties and enjoy 
my life as I really should be. I feel really bad about myself. I feel that all 
my friends are enjoying their life totally, dating girls, studying, working for 
their future, while I am here stuck with this fact. 

I really need to know what to do. I am also quite worried about the fact that a 
few of my friends know about this thing and what if they tell everyone else. 
What about my future? Will I have keep lying always if I am gay? I have given a 
hint to my parents, but how will I actually tell what being "gay" is? How will 
they react ? how will everyone react?

I am only 21. Wondering how will I spend rest of the years of my life. I don't 
want to be like this always. 

I really need some good advice on all of this. I'll be really thankful to you. 
And Most importantly, How do I find out if I am really gay ?

Thanks a lot !
Rahul.