Hi Abhay,Ran
answers to ur questions.
1. NO. for HIV virus to enter ur body it has to be in direct contact with the
blood. unless the mucosa is broken, the virus cant enter. it cannot jump over to
the other side.
2. YES. all bodily fluids secreted by human can have LIVE HIV virus in it. the
only exception being saliva. The HIV virus again in anal sex can only pass if
there is direct contact with blood. Anal sex is known to have bruises and cuts
invisible to naked eye and so unsafe anal sex does have a high, very high
incidence of HIV transmission, even when u dont see a visible cut.
for following questions -
1. is it OK to suck as many as possible.
The 'OK' has to be decided by you. the only issue is how safe are u in
practicing sex be with one partner or multiple partners.
2. Is there any harm of throat infection by sucking some 4-6 friends
more ?
NOT, unless one of them is already suffering from a STD.
3 Kya chusna aur fir Semen Pina health ke liyea koi problem karega?
NO, unless the person on whom ur performing oral sex is suffering from
disease.
Having said that, there are much more potential fatal infections than HIV that
are silently passed from one partner to other in unsafe sex and are virtually
uncurable, for e.g Human Papilloma VIrus. DO google it and see its reference in
the website of Centre for Disease Control, atlanta.
--- In gay_bombay@yahoogroups.com, vgd67 vgd67@... wrote:
Abhay, Ran,
I am no expert, least of all a gold medallist doctor, but just someone who
has say through innumerable meets organised by GB on safe sex, HIV and anal
issues, and by doctors who have lots of PRACTICAL EXPERTISE in this area.
I am stressing practical expertise because in medical issues, as in most
things in life, there are no 100% clear cut answers. Instead you have
probabilities - strong ones, weak ones, but nearly always with a very small
chance of something unusual happening.
So this means that you can do something which is 99.9% safe, but it is still
possible for you to fall into that 0.1% where something goes wrong. Now, of
course, it is very unlikely for this to happen it is a reasonable view that
given the odds you might as well take the risk. Most of us take much worse
risks when we walk down the street every day where given bad driving the
chances are certainly much more than 0.1% that we might have an accident, but
we do it.
But it is also possible that you might be one of those people not happy with
these odds. You feel 0.1% is still too much of a risk, because it is still a
risk and the consequences of things going wrong are too bad for you to take
that risk. In which case you would be justified in deciding not to do what
that action is.
This is one reason why people involved in talking about the risks of sexual
activity avoid the term 'safe sex' because that implies that there is
something like 100% safe sex and that is really not quite correct. Instead
they use the 'safer sex' because that reminds you that the risks are always
there, but relative, and it is up to you to decide what level you are
comfortable with.
This is also why it is better talking to a doctor with practical expertise in
this area (you didn't say what your gold medallist friend was a specialist in
- if it was orthopedics, for example, his indepth knowledge of HIV might be
lower than that of a epidemiologist or sexual health specialise). If doctors
aren't experts they will tend to play safe, as they should, and emphasise the
worst case scenarios. But it might be better for you to get more informed
advice, which would be realistic about the risks.
I realise this doesn't sound helpful when guys want clear answers to the
complexities of sex, and don't want to have to keep thinking about risk all
the time. But it is realistic to think about risks and what you would be
comfortable with and are likely to stick to and then go ahead and have sex on
the basis of having thought it through.
So here's my response to your questions, but please keep in mind that nothing
I say can be quite definitive, but is an opinion which you must evaluate with
others to see what you understand and works for you.
--- In gaybom...@yahoogroups.com, Tintin Mumbai India tintin1975in@ wrote:
1) Someone (a gold medalist doctor by education and profession) told me
that the skin inside mouth (and below tongue) is so thin that some
medicines (like medicine for heart problems for quick relief) can be
absorbed into blood directly from the mouth.
*Does that mean, HIV virus too can be absorbed from semen taken in mouth
into blood from the mouth, even if there is no cut in mouth or throat or
abdomen?*
I think a molecule of medicine and a virus like HIV are not quite the same
thing so one can't compare the absorbability of the two. The reason you
should be careful about unprotected oral sex is not the risk of absorbtion,
but the
