Re: g_b why are we gay?prasanth

Thu, 13 Oct 2005 12:20:30 -0700

I was planning on replying to this thread.. but was away. But I do believe suhail khan has summed it up much better than I could have.
Thanks Suhail.


suhail khan <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> wrote:

hi prasanth
 
ok you mean to say that its upbringing that decides whether you will be gay or straight. now i want to ask, is this the upbringing, that has lead to creation of every single  homosexual in this world. atleast i dont think so. And please do your homework before writing. it has been proven that it has almost nothing to do with parenting, upbringing and circumstances, visit some genuine web sites and search if it was upbringing that lead to creation of every single homosexual in this world,infact it has been proven by pschologists that irrespective of the upbringing you give to your child, if he is destined to be a gay he will be a gay, and this statement i have written is medically proven.if you want you can visit oprah winfrey's site, and can get information on effect of upbringing on a child's  sexual orientation. i mean its surprising to even think that upbringing lead to creation of every single homosexual in this world.
so according to prasanth parents of all homosexuals were over protective and shielded them from the big bad world, surprising!!!!!!!
 
and yes friends also read this line by prasanth: "Your carving to become the macho man could  further your desire to have a man." i really didnt know till date that if i desire to be macho i will become straight.he further writes "If a person really desires to change his orientation, he is more likely to succeed if he really wants to" again great, so according to him its all fault of homosexuals ,that till date they have not made up their minds that
they will behave straight, according to him we are all so happy and feel blessed and highly gifted being gay, that we just dont want to become straight,irrespective of what society thinks of us. according to him we get some pleasure hiding our sexuality from the world and feel pleasure when our class-mates make fun of homosexuals or the society laughs at homosexuals, and so we dont want to change.
read this line of his message: "It is purely because I choose to be one due to factors  affecting my upbringing, circumstances and emotions." sorry but neither were my parents over protective, nor one day i sat and thought for hours and finally decided that i will be attracted to boys. it may be the case with some, but definitely not with me.
bye

prasanth kumar <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> wrote:

Hi

I don't think being gay is because GOD wanted us to be like this or because we are born gay. It is more to do with parenting, upbringing and circumstances. Psychological factors also affect a person to become a gay or straight. If your parents are over protective and shield you from the big bad world , there is every chance that you develop female tendencies of being soft and timid. Your carving to become the macho man could further your desire to have a man.I think it is all in the mind. If a person really desires to change his orientation, he is more likely to succeed if he really wants to. It is all about being confortable with one's sexuality. If I choose to like men than women, it is my choice and I making this choice not because I was born that way or GOD made me. It is purely because I choose to be one due to factors affecting my upbringing, circumstances and emotions.

 

 





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