Re: [gmx-users] use of the mailing list

2011-08-19 Thread Junior Nebeker
Sure Mark.  If your interest is in patrolling the Gromacs mailing list, then
I'll leave you to it.

On Thu, Aug 18, 2011 at 9:40 PM, Mark Abraham mark.abra...@anu.edu.auwrote:

  On 19/08/2011 1:41 PM, Junior Nebeker wrote:

 Correct.  Other people (who are new to this list) need your help, and
 unless their requests are way out of line, there's no reason to adopt a
 haughty attitude in responding.


 There's never a case for rudeness, but when (for example) people have been
 asking questions on the mailing list for years and still haven't absorbed
 the advice available here http://www.gromacs.org/Support, then one can get
 frustrated. Expressing a little of that can help people realise how to
 participate more effectively in the discussion. One's family doctor can ask
 a lot of patient questions about what is wrong because you're paying them a
 lot of money. If people who might give free help don't feel that their time
 is valued, they might stop giving it. One way of demonstrating this is to
 ask questions that show one's willingness to work on the problem by
 providing lots of relevant diagnostic information. See
 http://www.catb.org/~esr/faqs/smart-questions.html

 Mark

 P.S. I'm not intending to express particular criticism of the original
 poster in this thread


 On Thu, Aug 18, 2011 at 5:05 PM, Mark Abraham mark.abra...@anu.edu.auwrote:

 On 19/08/2011 9:32 AM, Junior Nebeker wrote:


 Hey mark,

 If you are really sick of asking people for such information, why do you
 even care to respond to this mailing list?


  Because I'd rather teach someone to fish than either give them fish or
 watch them starve.


 Mark
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Re: [gmx-users] use of the mailing list

2011-08-19 Thread Mark Abraham

On 20/08/2011 1:13 AM, Junior Nebeker wrote:
Sure Mark.  If your interest is in patrolling the Gromacs mailing 
list, then I'll leave you to it.


If you have something constructive to contribute, please do. Otherwise, 
please don't.


Mark
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Re: [gmx-users] use of the mailing list

2011-08-19 Thread Amit Choubey
On Fri, Aug 19, 2011 at 8:13 AM, Junior Nebeker junior.nebe...@gmail.comwrote:

 Sure Mark.  If your interest is in patrolling the Gromacs mailing list,
 then I'll leave you to it.


I think before you type your response you should consider that Mark has
helped several hundred times over this mailing list.


 On Thu, Aug 18, 2011 at 9:40 PM, Mark Abraham mark.abra...@anu.edu.auwrote:

  On 19/08/2011 1:41 PM, Junior Nebeker wrote:

 Correct.  Other people (who are new to this list) need your help, and
 unless their requests are way out of line, there's no reason to adopt a
 haughty attitude in responding.


 There's never a case for rudeness, but when (for example) people have been
 asking questions on the mailing list for years and still haven't absorbed
 the advice available here http://www.gromacs.org/Support, then one can
 get frustrated. Expressing a little of that can help people realise how to
 participate more effectively in the discussion. One's family doctor can ask
 a lot of patient questions about what is wrong because you're paying them a
 lot of money. If people who might give free help don't feel that their time
 is valued, they might stop giving it. One way of demonstrating this is to
 ask questions that show one's willingness to work on the problem by
 providing lots of relevant diagnostic information. See
 http://www.catb.org/~esr/faqs/smart-questions.html

 Mark

 P.S. I'm not intending to express particular criticism of the original
 poster in this thread


 On Thu, Aug 18, 2011 at 5:05 PM, Mark Abraham mark.abra...@anu.edu.auwrote:

 On 19/08/2011 9:32 AM, Junior Nebeker wrote:


 Hey mark,

 If you are really sick of asking people for such information, why do you
 even care to respond to this mailing list?


  Because I'd rather teach someone to fish than either give them fish or
 watch them starve.


 Mark
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Re: [gmx-users] use of the mailing list

2011-08-19 Thread Junior Nebeker
Of course I know of Mark's contributions.  However, one's contributions, big
or small, shouldn't excuse him/her from being rude to others.  That's my
constructive feedback - take it or leave it.

On Fri, Aug 19, 2011 at 9:51 AM, Amit Choubey kgp.a...@gmail.com wrote:



 On Fri, Aug 19, 2011 at 8:13 AM, Junior Nebeker 
 junior.nebe...@gmail.comwrote:

 Sure Mark.  If your interest is in patrolling the Gromacs mailing list,
 then I'll leave you to it.


 I think before you type your response you should consider that Mark has
 helped several hundred times over this mailing list.


 On Thu, Aug 18, 2011 at 9:40 PM, Mark Abraham mark.abra...@anu.edu.auwrote:

  On 19/08/2011 1:41 PM, Junior Nebeker wrote:

 Correct.  Other people (who are new to this list) need your help, and
 unless their requests are way out of line, there's no reason to adopt a
 haughty attitude in responding.


 There's never a case for rudeness, but when (for example) people have
 been asking questions on the mailing list for years and still haven't
 absorbed the advice available here http://www.gromacs.org/Support, then
 one can get frustrated. Expressing a little of that can help people realise
 how to participate more effectively in the discussion. One's family doctor
 can ask a lot of patient questions about what is wrong because you're paying
 them a lot of money. If people who might give free help don't feel that
 their time is valued, they might stop giving it. One way of demonstrating
 this is to ask questions that show one's willingness to work on the problem
 by providing lots of relevant diagnostic information. See
 http://www.catb.org/~esr/faqs/smart-questions.html

 Mark

 P.S. I'm not intending to express particular criticism of the original
 poster in this thread


 On Thu, Aug 18, 2011 at 5:05 PM, Mark Abraham 
 mark.abra...@anu.edu.auwrote:

 On 19/08/2011 9:32 AM, Junior Nebeker wrote:


 Hey mark,

 If you are really sick of asking people for such information, why do
 you even care to respond to this mailing list?


  Because I'd rather teach someone to fish than either give them fish or
 watch them starve.


 Mark
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[gmx-users] use of the mailing list

2011-08-18 Thread Mark Abraham

On 19/08/2011 1:41 PM, Junior Nebeker wrote:
Correct.  Other people (who are new to this list) need your help, and 
unless their requests are way out of line, there's no reason to adopt 
a haughty attitude in responding.


There's never a case for rudeness, but when (for example) people have 
been asking questions on the mailing list for years and still haven't 
absorbed the advice available here http://www.gromacs.org/Support, then 
one can get frustrated. Expressing a little of that can help people 
realise how to participate more effectively in the discussion. One's 
family doctor can ask a lot of patient questions about what is wrong 
because you're paying them a lot of money. If people who might give free 
help don't feel that their time is valued, they might stop giving it. 
One way of demonstrating this is to ask questions that show one's 
willingness to work on the problem by providing lots of relevant 
diagnostic information. See 
http://www.catb.org/~esr/faqs/smart-questions.html


Mark

P.S. I'm not intending to express particular criticism of the original 
poster in this thread




On Thu, Aug 18, 2011 at 5:05 PM, Mark Abraham mark.abra...@anu.edu.au 
mailto:mark.abra...@anu.edu.au wrote:


On 19/08/2011 9:32 AM, Junior Nebeker wrote:


Hey mark,

If you are really sick of asking people for such information,
why do you even care to respond to this mailing list?


Because I'd rather teach someone to fish than either give them
fish or watch them starve.


Mark
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