[Goanet] RE: Confessions of an Ex-Expatriate

2005-12-12 Thread Philip Thomas
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Do I detect a little xenophobia here? From someone who lives abroad? Pretty
ironic I'd say.[Mario Goveia]

On a private boate cruise along the Mandovi the other day I heard to my
amazement a visiting expatriate suggest seriously to me that the Navy might
be doing a good thing by restricting the flow of foreign tourists into Goa!
I had assumed that the flow of foreign tourism by air to Goa would be a good
thing especially in view of the torrent of migrants pouring in over land. My
only response was why cant the decision be left to the Goa government to
take by design rather than by default? Later I thought if this is the job of
the military (to restrict foreign tourists) then it should be done all over
the country (Rajasthan, U.P., M.P etc) not just Goa. The government's
tourism policy would certainly go for a big toss, right?



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[Goanet] Re: Confessions of an ex-expatriate

2005-12-07 Thread Vivian D'Souza
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V.M. de Malar in his usual exquisite eloquence, echoes my sentiments exactly.

  Goa is becoming the destimation of choice for foreigners from every nation 
on this planet, while native Goans believing that the grass is greener in 
foreign lands, are seemingly desperate to emigrate abroad. 
   
   Often, I hear the comment that  I would like to go to London or the USA or 
Portugal for 3 to 5 years and return.  Perhaps they have heard that the 
streets  in these countries are paved with gold  ?.  While many of those who 
have emigrated to foreign lands are living comfortable lives, one needs to 
delve into other parameters of what that comfortable life entails. And for 
every person who has made the successful transition to a comfortable life, 
how many are there who are just eking out a living ? In the West,  Youth is 
worshipped, and the older one gets, unless one is an esteemed Professional, 
like a Physician, his utility diminishes and so also his chance of climbing 
the economic ladder.  And woe be on you when you are older, for you are looked 
upon as a has-been,  Respect for the elderly is absymal.  In contrast, in 
Goa, every one call me Uncle, and  each day during my strolls through my 
village,  my spirits are uplifted by  cheery greetings of good morning Uncle 
or Hello Uncle from youngsters  (many of whom I do  not know personally)  
going to school or work,.. In Goa my silver hair gets me respect. 
   
How is the quality of life in the West, measured in terms of  limited 
quality family time, strained inter-personal relationships within families, 
the break-up of families, children of immigrants aping their new-found peers 
and living in live-in relationships ?  Is that the kind of life one aspires 
to ?  One only realizes the stress level one endures in the advanced countries 
of the West, after one has the opportunity to step back and spend time in 
the old country where values are refereshingly old-fashioned, friendships 
genuine, and respect for elders a part of the culture. Foreigners are 
discovering this.  
   
  That's the other side of the coin. Viva Goa !

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