Re: [Goanet] Goan Tolerance (Letter in Goan Daily,,OHeraldo)

2010-07-02 Thread Jeffrey Paschal DSouza
I just hope you did not mean me because i did open it on the ferry warf 
at divar as it was very cold and chilly and a toilet is not in view but 
then im not a ghanti although i visit the ghats once a year. Do come to 
bastora and count the number of ghanti shudd goans with ration cards it 
does make me feel an unshudd goan cheers jeff


[Goanet] Goanet: Goan Tolerance

2010-07-02 Thread JoeGoaUk
FN,
I wont be wrong If I say that  the re-zipping  Goanetter was FN himself :-)
What you do or did under the cover of darkness or under the tree or in the 
bushes 
in a village (where there are no toilets around) was quite understandable and 
was 
never been a big issue.
 
But JoeGoaUk mainly talks about the city life through his photos of the those 
people (not necessarily ghantis)  who are peeing out in the open  right on  the 
promenade etc 
such as this one (taken yesterday)
http://www.flickr.com/photos/dirtypanjim4/4751795015/

Quote:
Goan Tolerance
I was returning with a Goanetter from Chorao island last evening, and
we were waiting for the ferry to take us over to the Pomburpa end.
Thank goodness JoeGoaUk or Rajan Parrikar isn't around, the
Goanetter said, as he re-zipped his fly!
It took me a second or two to comprehend what the heck he was talking
about. By then the ferry had arrived, so we hurriedly got ready for
the ride. FN


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Re: [Goanet] Goanet: Goan Tolerance

2010-07-02 Thread Frederick Noronha
JoeGoaUk: After receiving your mail below, I have tried talking to
myself, and making sure to keep a time-lag in my understanding of what
I tell myself.

But I found it to be very boring and predictable. So I'll stop it for now :-)

Glad that you've made an exception for me and my boorish Goanetter
friend (who is he, btw, any guesses?) As for those guys peeing in the
towns, is it possible they too come from villages, and, er, behave
like villagers?

Secondly, would you know of any reason for the resistance (by some) to
use the Sulabh toilets? The charge of Re1/Rs2 is not very steep for
most of us anyway. And while most Sulabhs are maintained in a passable
way (much better than the old government-run, unmanned toilets, but
still a long way to go), there are a few luxury Sulabhs too.

Some months back (not sure now), the one at the ferry crossing near
the Mandovi was almost clean-enough to sleep it. But I think it cost
Rs 5 instead of the usual lower rate. FN

Frederick Noronha
+91-9822122436
+91-832-2409490

On 2 July 2010 23:39, JoeGoaUk joego...@yahoo.co.uk wrote:
 FN,
 I wont be wrong If I say that  the re-zipping  Goanetter was FN himself :-)
 What you do or did under the cover of darkness or under the tree or in the 
 bushes
 in a village (where there are no toilets around) was quite understandable and 
 was
 never been a big issue.

 But JoeGoaUk mainly talks about the city life through his photos of the those
 people (not necessarily ghantis)  who are peeing out in the open  right on  
 the
 promenade etc
 such as this one (taken yesterday)
 http://www.flickr.com/photos/dirtypanjim4/4751795015/

 Quote:
 Goan Tolerance
 I was returning with a Goanetter from Chorao island last evening, and
 we were waiting for the ferry to take us over to the Pomburpa end.
 Thank goodness JoeGoaUk or Rajan Parrikar isn't around, the
 Goanetter said, as he re-zipped his fly!
 It took me a second or two to comprehend what the heck he was talking
 about. By then the ferry had arrived, so we hurriedly got ready for
 the ride. FN


[Goanet] Goan tolerance

2010-06-30 Thread Bernice Pereira

I compliment  Inacio D'Silva on his Beautifully expressed letter in Goanet 
dated 29th June.
 
Already the ecology, groundwater, fauna and flora are messed up, hills  are 
concreted, culture is commercialised (where is the true spirit of the Carnival, 
St. John's feast that we knew in those days of yore).  Actually I see nothing 
left unless we act fast.
 





Re: [Goanet] Goan Tolerance

2010-06-30 Thread Pandu Lampiao
The answer is peroxide my friend.
Instead of being bhailes, one instantly changes to 'inside', like
instant coffee.
Wish I could post my picture with my blond curly hair..
Errr.don't forget the eyebrowsperoxide them that is if
not,you may look like you walked off a Charlie Chaplin sets.

Accents...ah yes. I thought you would ask. Try not to say too
mucha lot of 'yeahs', talk a little loud and mix accents, so you
confuse and hopefully, blend.
Should you see another bhaile approach, someone who looks like they
got off the boat, turn thy nose up. Peroxide costs money you know.

Ah, don't forget when you mention Mississauga, make it sound
likesome exotic godforsaken place in Afrika.

Gotta go, my hair looks a little.hairdresser appointment ( at
least, they know my true colors)!

On Wed, Jun 30, 2010 at 12:02 AM, Vasant Baliga vabal...@yahoo.com wrote:
 This article in Time Magazine shows how some Americans feel about 
 immigration.There is a large Goan Community in New Jersey-and I wonder how 
 Canadians would feel about the old and new Mississauga!Are the Goans 
 Bhailes in the US and Canada?Food for thought!!
 Regards
 Vasant
 MY OWN PRIVATE INDIA
 http://www.time.com/time/magazine/article/0,9171,1999416,00.html
 By Joel Stein
 I am very much in favor of immigration everywhere in the U.S. except Edison,
 N.J. The mostly white suburban town I left when I graduated from high school 
 in
 1989 — the town that was called Menlo Park when Thomas Alva Edison set up shop
 there and was later renamed in his honor — has become home to one of the 
 biggest
 Indian communities in the U.S., as familiar to people in India as how to
 instruct stupid Americans to reboot their Internet routers.
 My town is totally unfamiliar to me. The Pizza Hut where my busboy friends
 stole pies for our drunken parties is now an Indian sweets shop with a
 completely inappropriate roof. The AP I shoplifted from is now an Indian
 grocery. The multiplex where we snuck into R-rated movies now shows only
 Bollywood films and serves samosas. The Italian restaurant that my friends 
 stole
 cash from as waiters is now Moghul, one of the most famous Indian restaurants 
 in
 the country. There is an entire generation of white children in Edison who 
 have
 nowhere to learn crime. (See pictures of Thomas Edison's Menlo Park.)
 I never knew how a bunch of people half a world away chose a random town in
 New Jersey to populate. Were they from some Indian state that got made fun of 
 by
 all the other Indian states and didn't want to give up that feeling? Are the
 malls in India that bad? Did we accidentally keep numbering our parkway exits
 all the way to Mumbai?





[Goanet] Goan Tolerance

2010-06-30 Thread Vasant Baliga
JC has put it very well-

I believe that as long as .. Panchayats (Oh those fine local govt
entities) and the Sir Paunches are lured by the 33 pieces of silver,
and as long as there are corrupt lawyers (e.g. the ones who dump their
plaintiff clients and go with the other party AFTER contracting with
the plaintiffs) the land of Goa will be littered with concrete.
Goa is now facing a food security problem,due to urban sprawl-Who is 
responsible for this Bhaile mess?
Tara Patel says it all in her piece in the Goan Observer-It is Goenkars who 
sell their land and elect the crooks who rule Goa!
http://goanobserver.com/goa-heading-towards-‘zero-food-security’.html
Goa heading towards ‘zero food security’!
By Tara Patel
ASK ANYONE - if anyone cares! The fact remains that despite all the public 
money being poured into subsidising to promote agriculture and horticulture in 
Goa, this primary and vital food security segment continues to be in the 
doldrums. And to think that Goa at the time of Liberation was still a lush 
paddy green landscape, self-sufficient in the basics of food…the staple 
xitt-coddi i.e. fish curry and rice, with coconuts, local vegetables and fruit 
thrown in.
You will say post-Liberation a lot of bhaile came pouring into Goa’s “garden of 
paradise” and to this day they’re buying up fallow agricultural land to build 
palatial bungalows and residential condominiums for all the richie riche of the 
world keen on buying one or yet another piece of paradise (never mind if it’s a 
dying piece of paradise)! Yes, but who’s selling? Niz Goenkars and a bunch of 
politicians anxious to make their pile for the next seven generations so that 
if they’re out of power tomorrow it will not matter (count the politicians in 
the real estate brokerage business in Goa!).





[Goanet] Goan tolerance

2010-06-30 Thread Carvalho
I was returning with a Goanetter from Chorao island last evening, and
we were waiting for the ferry to take us over to the Pomburpa end.

Thank goodness JoeGoaUk or Rajan Parrikar isn't around, the
Goanetter said, as he re-zipped his fly!

It took me a second or two to comprehend what the heck he was talking
about. By then the ferry had arrived, so we hurriedly got ready for
the ride. FN
---
What is this world coming to? Just because JoeGoaUK is not around to capture a 
goanetter, el flagrante delicto, does it mean another Goanetter, Frederick 
Noronha, has to encourage this Goanetter to leave his imprint on the many 
sediments that make up the Mandovi river? 


Could Frederick not have used his endless lectures on environmental 
preservation 
to convince this man that such an act will ultimately cause more damage to the 
ecological balance of Goan soil, than all the tourism and tourism related lager 
released on casino-ferry boats put together? 


Let me guess? It's just blond lager that Frederick objects to vociferously. 
Guinsess is fine with our man Frederick :-)

Best,
selma


 


Re: [Goanet] Goan Tolerance (Letter in Goan Daily OHeraldo)

2010-06-29 Thread Frederick Noronha
On 29 June 2010 08:20, J. Colaco   jc cola...@gmail.com wrote:

 BTW: The last day to legally prevent uninhibited migration into Goa
 was Dec 19, 1961

Was there no large-scale migration into Goa before Dec 19, 1961? Where
did all the Goans come from then? And were all our rulers before
then Goan too? FN

PS: I know you will turn around to say the in-migration then wasn't so
proportionately large.  But please do a fact-check on your history,
who is labelled an insider and who an outsider.


Re: [Goanet] Goan Tolerance (Letter in Goan Daily OHeraldo)

2010-06-29 Thread J. Colaco jc
On 29 June 2010 04:57, Frederick Noronha fredericknoro...@gmail.com wrote:

Was there no large-scale migration into Goa before Dec 19, 1961?  did
all the Goans come from then? And were all our rulers before  then
Goan too? FN

==

Response:

1: While what FN says is correct, his statement refers to a tangential
point I was not making.

2: I invite FN to concentrate on the phrase 'legally prevent
uninhibited migration'.as in immigration control, which, I submit
once again to Arwin, cannot be applied post 1961.

3: I will further add here that, even to (say) the UK and USA, there
has large scale migration. But those countries have had and still do
have the capability to 'legally prevent uninhibited migration'.

jc

Earlier I had stated this: BTW: The last day to legally prevent
uninhibited migration into Goa was Dec 19, 1961


Re: [Goanet] Goan Tolerance (Letter in Goan Daily OHeraldo)

2010-06-29 Thread Arwin Mesquita
Lets put ur logic to all other Indian States and Other Indian Countries. How
are Indian States divided today?

Why have borders/identities and lets be a jolly good cocktail?

Let everyone do it and perhaps I could agree!!

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On 29 June 2010 08:20, J. Colaco   jc cola...@gmail.com wrote:

 BTW: The last day to legally prevent uninhibited migration into Goa
 was Dec 19, 1961

Was there no large-scale migration into Goa before Dec 19, 1961? Where
did all the Goans come from then? And were all our rulers before
then Goan too? FN

PS: I know you will turn around to say the in-migration then wasn't so
proportionately large.  But please do a fact-check on your history,
who is labelled an insider and who an outsider.


Re: [Goanet] Goan Tolerance (Letter in Goan Daily OHeraldo)

2010-06-29 Thread Frederick Noronha
Arwin, Are you suggesting that the borders of other states are closed
to Goans going and settling there? We already have what you call a
jolly good cocktail... and Goans have been benefitting from this for
some generations now. FN

On 29 June 2010 17:33, Arwin Mesquita arwinmesqu...@gmail.com wrote:
 Lets put ur logic to all other Indian States and Other Indian Countries. How
 are Indian States divided today?
 Why have borders/identities and lets be a jolly good cocktail?
 Let everyone do it and perhaps I could agree!!


Re: [Goanet] Goan Tolerance (Letter in Goan Daily OHeraldo)

2010-06-29 Thread Inacio DSilva
I agree with Arwin Mesquita on the subject he has written. With regards to us 
Goans accepting ourselves as part of the Indian Union, we already have. But has 
India accepted that Goans are part of what collectively defines India? What is 
India? Is it not a collection of states each with their unique language  
culture? Together this becomes India. And if Goans want to preserve a part of 
what defines India, then definitely they should be  are well within their 
rights.

With regards to influx of people, it's not about Goan or Indian here. Goa 
doesn't have sufficient residential land. It's as simple as that. To be able to 
settle in Goa, rules are blatantly violated resulting in hills being cut, farms 
being filled etc. If this is acceptable  nobody minds an ecological disaster, 
then fine, we can welcome destruction of the environment. 

Another fact is more the people more the strain on the civic services. Clean 
drinking water, proper garbage disposal, power, law enforcement etc, need to 
keep with the sudden dramatic increase in population.

I mean it's not just the rights of the people here. What about the rights of 
the environment? We accused the colonial powers of exploiting our resources. 
Are we doing any better? 

How do we explain in a country thats mostly vegetarian, Tigers are on the brink 
of extinction? It's nothing but the two predators (human  tiger) competing for 
territory. One needs more land to reside  thus one of them has to give  we 
know where that's going. So once the Indian tiger, a symbol of India, 
disappears, can we blame the colonial powers?

I think we should look at Arwin's article  understand it thoroughly. Finally, 
when you analyze it, the focal point really comes down to effective proper 
planning with a vision for the future. How does the Government of Goa  India 
see Goa 5, 10, 20 years down the line? An overpopulated  polluted state  with 
crumbling infrastructure or a state with proper management where it's citizens 
enjoy healthy environment  are proud that their customs  traditions are 
preserved?

Planning ( especially for the future) is severely lacking in India which 
leaves inhabitants frustrated  this frustration gets manifested in ways 
similar to the Marathi agitation against outsiders.

Unfortunately, media  people are quick to cry  react with Traitor or 
Disloyal to India. I guess this is much easier then solving the root cause of 
the issue. I mean, hey, why bother providing a solution, just accuse a whole 
section of people (if they complain) that they don't love India  they'll feel 
bad  fall back in line. Indians are extremely emotional anyways. Really easy 
to keep unhappy people in line, isn't it? In history (Europe), when people were 
unhappy revolutions occurred. Here, not so I guess.

And as I've mentioned in the beginning, it is the parts (states) that make the 
whole (India). You take away one  India ceases to exist. How India would 
prosper if it ensures that all parts effectively come together in a proper 
synergy, without strain or preferential treatment on few individual parts.

Of course, if the constitution states that conformance of only North Indian or 
any other particular non-Goan culture is what truly defines India, then in that 
case, I'm sorry to say that India shouldn't exist.

I am proud of my Goan identity  culture which contributes to define India  
India's uniqueness among nations.






[Goanet] Goan Tolerance

2010-06-29 Thread Vasant Baliga
This article in Time Magazine shows how some Americans feel about 
immigration.There is a large Goan Community in New Jersey-and I wonder how 
Canadians would feel about the old and new Mississauga!Are the Goans Bhailes 
in the US and Canada?Food for thought!!
Regards
Vasant
MY OWN PRIVATE INDIA
http://www.time.com/time/magazine/article/0,9171,1999416,00.html
By Joel Stein
I am very much in favor of immigration everywhere in the U.S. except Edison, 
N.J. The mostly white suburban town I left when I graduated from high school in 
1989 — the town that was called Menlo Park when Thomas Alva Edison set up shop 
there and was later renamed in his honor — has become home to one of the 
biggest 
Indian communities in the U.S., as familiar to people in India as how to 
instruct stupid Americans to reboot their Internet routers.
My town is totally unfamiliar to me. The Pizza Hut where my busboy friends 
stole pies for our drunken parties is now an Indian sweets shop with a 
completely inappropriate roof. The AP I shoplifted from is now an Indian 
grocery. The multiplex where we snuck into R-rated movies now shows only 
Bollywood films and serves samosas. The Italian restaurant that my friends 
stole 
cash from as waiters is now Moghul, one of the most famous Indian restaurants 
in 
the country. There is an entire generation of white children in Edison who have 
nowhere to learn crime. (See pictures of Thomas Edison's Menlo Park.)
I never knew how a bunch of people half a world away chose a random town in 
New Jersey to populate. Were they from some Indian state that got made fun of 
by 
all the other Indian states and didn't want to give up that feeling? Are the 
malls in India that bad? Did we accidentally keep numbering our parkway exits 
all the way to Mumbai?





[Goanet] Goan Tolerance (Letter in Goan Daily OHeraldo)

2010-06-28 Thread Arwin Mesquita
 *http://www.oheraldo.in/newscategory/Letters/13*
*Goan Tolerance
Arwin Mesquita, Abu Dhabi
*There is currently a lot of criticism about the ‘tolerance’ of Goans, as
they are in increasing numbers speaking out against the fast deterioration
of Goan culture and identity with the rapid influx of migrants and the fast
changing demographics. I do appreciate that tolerance is the need of the
hour to make the world a better place, but let us put tolerance into a
correct perspective for Goa.

Nobody can dispute the enormous tolerance and hospitality exhibited by
Goans, simply from the fact that around 40 per cent of the population of Goa
is non-Goan. I would like for the critics to compare this with the
demographics of other states. If they keep silent, it is because they don’t
face the same crisis.
As Goans, we should continue to be tolerant, respectful and hospitable to
all people. But this does not mean it is wrong for us to put in safeguards
right now to reverse the erosion of Goan identity and protect Goan
interests.

In the UAE, where I temporarily reside, the vast majority are non-nationals.
Many are allowed to even buy land, but restrictively. This country in its
wisdom has put in fair safeguards to ensure that the UAE will always remain
with its own people.
We are all Indians, but India is made up of so many cultures and identities,
each of which has a right to be preserved and protected. Even European
governments today realise that there is a logic in migrant control, and are
converting Europe into a sort of fortress, with increasingly tighter
immigration policies. Those being accepted are made to undergo compulsory
integration into the local population.

In the homes that we live in, we can and should be very tolerant and
hospitable to our guests, or any person for that matter. But does this mean
that we should give away our homes to them? Surely, nobody will dispute
this!

-- 
Please post your comments on my Blog: http://goanidentity.blogspot.com/

Please also see below:
1. Benaulim Village Action Committee: http://www.bvacbenaulim.blogspot.com/
2. Rape of Goa : http://www.parrikar.com/blog/the-rape-of-goa/
3. MAND - an adivasi-rights resource centre : http://mandgoa.blogspot.com/
4. EVERY GOAN SHOULD SEE THIS VIDEO:
http://infochangeindia.org/Infochange-documentary.html
5. For the Love of Konkani: http://www.radiogoa.net/
6. Goa's Identity Movement website: http://www.goamag.net/gim
7. Goa's Identity Movement group on Facebook:
http://www.facebook.com//#/group.php?gid=193497031686
8. Official Government Site NRI Office (GOA): http://www.globalgoans.org.in/


Re: [Goanet] Goan Tolerance (Letter in Goan Daily OHeraldo)

2010-06-28 Thread J. Colaco jc
 Arwin Mesquita arwinmesqu...@gmail.com wrote:

We are all Indians, but India is made up of so many cultures and
identities, each of which has a right to be preserved and protected.

Even European governments today realise that there is a logic in
migrant control, and are converting Europe into a sort of fortress,
with increasingly tighter immigration policies. Those being accepted
are made to undergo compulsory integration into the local population

==

COMMENT:

It is time for Goans to (perhaps, finally) accept that Goa is firmly a
part of the Indian Union. Nothing will ever change that.

As of December 1961, Goa and Goans are governed as per the Indian Constitution.

Until Arwin Mesquita manages to (single or two-handedly) amend the
constitution, there is NOTHING he or anyone else can do about the
influx of Indian citizens from other parts of India into Goa.

No point telling us about Kashmir. At the point of accession, the
Kashmiris organised their demands. No such event took place with the
freedom fighters of Goa.

No point referring to the tighter immigration controls brought about
by European countries. First of all, Goa is not a country. It is a
State within the Indian Union. Immigration control is not a State
responsibility in India.

Even in Europe, citizens of the first set of member-states have every
right to enter any country within the EU to look for a job.and IF
they have funds, to buy a house. Even Konkani-only speaking Goans with
Portuguese nationality can do that.  In fact, any body from anywhere
in the world (who does not have a known criminal record) can buy a
house (say) in the UK or Eire (at least). All you need is clean funds.

So, I say to Arwin: Get used to the facts of life. Nobody can legally
prevent any Indian citizen from migrating to Goa. Not even your new
pal, Shri Winston.

BTW: The last day to legally prevent uninhibited migration into Goa
was Dec 19, 1961

jc


Re: [Goanet] Goan Tolerance

2008-08-13 Thread Santosh Helekar
--- On Tue, 8/12/08, Arwin Mesquita [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote:
 
Can you put your Anti-Goan identity views on the Goan newspapers; lets see 
what Goans in Goa have to say about it? I am sure you have the addresses.
 

Arwin,

I have copiously expressed my views on Goanet about our many Goan identities 
and the need to promote the wholesome aspects our culture among Goan Indians 
and non-Goan Indians. I have also spoken out against your misguided notion of 
insulating Goa from the rest of the world by inventing a non-existent singular 
Goan identity. I find Goanet a more convenient medium for public expression. 
Newspapers are slow. 

BTW, I am still waiting for you to provide me with a definition of your unique 
Goan identity.

Cheers,

Santosh


Re: [Goanet] Goan Tolerance

2008-08-13 Thread Rajan P. Parrikar
To Goanet -

Santosh Helekar writes to a sensible Arwin Mesquita:
I have copiously expressed my views on Goanet about 
our many Goan identities...


No kidding.  What insights into the realm of the blindingly 
obvious are you going to copiously reveal next?


BTW, I am still waiting for you to provide me with a 
definition of your unique Goan identity. 

I'm afraid you will have to wait until the unique Goan
cows come home after copiously depositing their 
their 'views' at the base of electric poles.

For the rest of you Niz Goenkars, there is no wait.  
See -

http://www.parrikar.org/misc/Insiders-Outsiders.pdf


Warm regards,


r


Re: [Goanet] Goan Tolerance

2008-08-13 Thread Santosh Helekar
--- On Wed, 8/13/08, Rajan P. Parrikar [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote: 
 
 I'm afraid you will have to wait until the unique Goan
 cows come home after copiously depositing their 
 their 'views' at the base of electric poles.
 

I guess this is an admission that there is no unique singular Goan identity.

This is further clear from the following quote from 
http://www.parrikar.org/misc/Insiders-Outsiders.pdf;

Consider the Goan Identity as a starting point. We may zoom down into this 
parent Identity and within it locate islets of constituent Identities threaded 
to it: the Goan Hindu Identity, the Goan Catholic Identity, and so on. We 
further break down the Goan Hindu Identity into, say, the Bamon Identity, the 
Daivadnyas, the Gomant Maratha Samaj Identity, etc. You can
slice it in directions other than caste or religion. For instance, within the 
Goan Identity you could tease out the Sashtikaar Identity, the Bardezkaar 
Identity, etc. Still more Identities may be extracted from these 
sub-Identities.
...Rajan Parrikar

So when he zooms the camera on Arwin's identity, Rajan's identity and Romlo's 
identity, he finds that they are all very different. The real question is which 
of these casteist identities Arwin and Rajan want to preserve.

Cheers,

Santosh


Re: [Goanet] Goan Tolerance

2008-08-13 Thread Rajan P. Parrikar
To Goanet -


Santosh Helekar wrote:
I guess this is an admission that there is no unique singular 
Goan identity.


You are still guessing about this?  Reminds me of what 
Einstein once said of a scientist: The man can calculate 
but he can't think.

So when he zooms the camera on Arwin's identity, Rajan's 
identity and Romlo's identity, he finds that they are all very 
different. 

Hallelujah!  Does this mean you have stopped guessing?
Will you take your test now or do you need more time
to prepare?

Santosh Helekar is here on Goanet and not on BihariNet or
AndhraNet or BongNet or TamilNet or KannadaNet for no
other reason other than he identifies himself with Goans 
and the Goan milieu.  On all those other *Nets he would 
be quickly laughed out of town as an outsider.  So while 
he rambles on about how there is no unique Goan Identity,
he simultaneously seeks comfort here in the embrace 
and warmth of the very Identity he professes doesn't 
exist uniquely, namely the Goan Identity.

Warm regards,


r


Re: [Goanet] Goan Tolerance

2008-08-13 Thread JOHN MONTEIRO
  By its very nature, tolerance is only possible as individual act that you or 
I can bestow.
   
  You cannot force tolerance upon others to accept as a way of life, even for 
one second, those who prefer not to accept this rule are not necessary 
intolerant either.
   
  Tolerance can be catching.. much like a cold or fever, but not 
create the heat or the other extreme, cold. By example you can gain much by 
tolerating certain (non-violent, non-malevolent) acts.
   
  Somewhere in-between I suppose, is tolerance.
   
  I learned a bit of it from being a husband  a father, I  had none of it as a 
child or a friend...
   
  Shame really, I may have well found a way to accept EVERYTHING that is 
written by some posters, but choose not to, oh well its cause I am part of the 
human condition.
   
  It would be nice thought if we had mentors, gurus at an earlier 
age.. in life's ways..
   
  John Monteiro.


Regards
  John Monteiro  


Re: [Goanet] Goan Tolerance

2008-08-13 Thread Mario Goveia
Date: Wed, 13 Aug 2008 00:41:00 -0700 (PDT)
From: Rajan P. Parrikar [EMAIL PROTECTED]

http://www.parrikar.org/misc/Insiders-Outsiders.pdf

The following are excerpts from Insiders and Outsiders
By Rajan P. Parrikar
Published on Goanet on Friday, Dec 21, 2007

Consider the Goan Identity as a starting point. We may
zoom down into this parent Identity and within it
locate islets of constituent Identities threaded to
it: the Goan Hindu Identity, the Goan Catholic
Identity, and so on. We further break down the Goan
Hindu Identity into, say, the Bamon Identity, the
Daivadnyas, the Gomant Maratha Samaj Identity, etc.
You can slice it in directions other than caste or
religion. For instance, within the Goan Identity you
could tease out the Sashtikaar Identity, the
Bardezkaar Identity, etc. Still more Identities may
be extracted from these sub-Identities.

Mario observes:

Rajan,

Even after re-defining ancestry as identity and
zooming in and out as convenient to the point of your
essay, you have also eloquently made the point,
perhaps unintentionally, that there is no one Goan
identity, and you have done so better than anyone
else:-))

While, as a Capitalist, I heartily endorse the final
conclusion of your essay, even while I may disagree
with how you got there, surely you know from living in
the USA that it is Capitalism that considers all men
and women to be created equal, just some more equal
than others [:-))] whereas Marxists distinguish
between the elite who know what's good for everyone
else better than they do, and everyone else:-)) 

In writing your essay, you have also passionately
continued the well-known Indian tradition of doggedly
dividing themselves into sub-groups and building often
impenetrable walls between each other with your use of
ancestry and sub-ancestries to defend your notion of
who is an Insider and who is an Outsider.

Take my identity as an example. I was born and grew up
in Madhya Pradesh as essentially a Catholic Bhayya, to
parents of Goan ancestry.  I am now an American of
Indian-Goan ancestry, with my Bhayya youth somewhere
in my subconscious.

In some sense I am a congenital Outsider.

Some considered me an Outsider in MP.  Others,
including some virulent Hindu-supremacists who knew me
well, did not, probably because my inclusive attitude
and all-around achievements as a student-athlete and
patriot completely undermined their notions of
supremacy.

Some may consider me an Outsider in Goa, others may
not.  Believe me, I can play both roles equally well
now that I'm a part-time Ponjekar:-))

As someone who grew up in one democracy and is now a
citizen of two democracies, do I care?  Of course not.

There is one salient fact that seems to supercede
these often jejune concerns of Insider, Outsider,
Goan, non-Goan.  Let's call it R-E-A-L-I-T-Y based on
tangible, often brutal, facts.  The opposite of this
is E-M-O-T-I-O-N and S-E-N-T-I-M-E-N-T based on hopes
and dreams and fantasies.

The reality is that, as King Canute proved to skeptics
centuries ago, there are certain things one cannot
stop.  He could not stop the tide from coming in, just
as Goans cannot stop other Indians from coming in
either, rant and rave as they might.

Years ago we couldn't stop European colonialism. 
Later the colonialists couldn't stop us.  Now Goans
cannot stop non-Goans.  Deal with it.

The trick in coping with all the angst is an
Americanism you must be familiar with, When life
hands you lemons, don't suck them, make lemonade!

Goans, especially vociferous and opinionated leaders
like yourself, need to differentiate between the
Outsiders like the Celinas, Katrinas, Twinkles, and
others less well known, who come in and enhance Goa,
and those whom you have spent a good deal of time and
money railing against and opposing, those who want to
deface Goa for their own benefit.  Paradoxically, the
latter group includes several Insiders, which makes
kheema out of the notion that this issue can be
simplified to a tussle between Insiders and Outsiders,
or Goans and non-Goans.






Re: [Goanet] Goan Tolerance

2008-08-13 Thread Santosh Helekar
--- On Wed, 8/13/08, Rajan P. Parrikar [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote:
 
So while he rambles on about how there is no unique Goan Identity,
he simultaneously seeks comfort here in the embrace and warmth of the very 
Identity he professes doesn't exist uniquely, namely the Goan Identity.
 

Ignoring the inconsequential emotional remarks in the rest of Rajan's latest 
post, in the above excerpt, he appears to be confused about the meaning of the 
words unique and identity! It should be obvious to anybody that there is 
nothing unique about being part of a mailing list whose members have some 
association with your place of birth, and there is nothing unique about being 
born in any place on earth. We also know that the 10,000 or so members of 
Goanet have tens, if not hundreds, of different identities.

Now, as for what he says below, we know that no Kannadiga, Bihari, Andhra or 
Tamilian has ever been laughed out of town on Goanet, despite being abused by a 
few Goans like Rajan who happen to believe that they are unique.

Cheers,

Santosh

P.S. I ask Rajan to tell me what similarities (in their many identities) does 
he see between him and Arwin when he zooms his camera on them, and why is he 
more different from Vidyadhar than from Arwin.


--- On Wed, 8/13/08, Rajan P. Parrikar [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote:

Santosh Helekar is here on Goanet and not on BihariNet or
 AndhraNet or BongNet or TamilNet or KannadaNet for no
 other reason other than he identifies himself with Goans 
 and the Goan milieu.  On all those other *Nets he would 
 be quickly laughed out of town as an outsider.  





[Goanet] Goan Tolerance.

2008-08-12 Thread Mario Goveia
Date: Mon, 11 Aug 2008 23:08:24 +0400
From: Arwin Mesquita [EMAIL PROTECTED]

There is currently a lot of talk about the tolerance
of Goans, particularly because Goans are in increasing
numbers, starting to speak out against the
fast deterioration of Goan Culture  Identity; mainly
with the rapid influx of Non-Goans/Migrants and hence
the fast changing demographics. 

Mario asks:

I don't see increasing numbers - just a small
handful of Goans, dreaming of days gone by.  The
increasing numbers more correctly describe the
new-Goans who have discovered the beauty and charm
of Goa.

There are, in fact, several Goan Identities, each in
the eye of its beholders, some of which, like the
caste system, continue the damage they have done for
centuries and need to be abolished by being shunned in
day-to-day decisionmaking.

Arwin wrote:

In the UAE, where I temporarily reside for example,
the vast majority is non-nationals and many are
allowed to even buy land restrictively, but this
country in its wisdom has put in fair safeguards to
ensure that the UAE will always remain with its own
people.

Mario observes:

The UAE is a tribal society just barely emerging into
the civilized world, not some paragon of national
virtue and tolerance that Goans should follow.

Besides, the UAE is a federation of several small
autocratic sheikdoms, whereas Goa is a part of highly
civilized democratic republic and any Indian can
choose to live there.  Arwin still doesn't seem to see
the difference.

Arwin wrote:

To drive home my point, say for instance in the homes
that we live in, we can be very tolerant  hospitable
to our guests or any person for that matter, but does
this mean that we should give away our homes to the 
said people? Surely nobody will agree to this, not
even the critics.

Mario observes:

You have no point, Arwin.  A private home is not a
state within a country.  Non-Indians who choose to
live in Goa do not need the permission or tolerance or
hospitality of local Goans, though thankfully, most
Goans are tolerant and hospitable.





Re: [Goanet] Goan Tolerance

2008-08-12 Thread Santosh Helekar
Good to see this thoughtful opposition to the continuing incitement of hatred 
against non-Goan Indians in all its forms. The solution to Goa's problems is 
law-abiding Goans. There should be a grass roots campaign to promote honesty in 
public affairs, and respect for the law, for each other, and for our heritage, 
rather than whine and complain day in and day out, and blame others for our 
problems. 

Cheers,

Santosh


--- On Tue, 8/12/08, Mario Goveia [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote:
 
 
 I don't see increasing numbers - just a
 small
 handful of Goans, dreaming of days gone by.  The
 increasing numbers more correctly describe the
 new-Goans who have discovered the beauty and
 charm
 of Goa.
 
 There are, in fact, several Goan Identities, each in
 the eye of its beholders, some of which, like the
 caste system, continue the damage they have done for
 centuries and need to be abolished by being shunned in
 day-to-day decisionmaking.
 
 


[Goanet] Goan Tolerance.

2008-08-11 Thread Arwin Mesquita
There is currently a lot of talk about the tolerance of Goans, particularly
because Goans are in increasing numbers, starting to speak out against the
fast deterioration of Goan Culture  Identity; mainly with the rapid influx
of Non-Goans/Migrants and hence the fast changing demographics. While I full
appreciate that Tolerance is the need of the hour to make the world a better
place, I want to put tolerance into a correct perspective for Goa. Nobody
today can dispute the enormous tolerance  hospitality exhibited by Goans in
Goa, simply with the fact that 40% of the population of Goa is Non-Goans; I
would like for the critics to compare this, with the demographics of other
states in India.



We, Goans should continue to be Tolerant  Hospitable to all other people,
but this does not mean it is wrong for us Goans to put in safeguards now, to
reverse the erosion of Goan Identity  protect Goan interests. In the UAE,
where I temporarily reside for example, the vast majority is non-nationals
and many are allowed to even buy land restrictively, but this country in its
wisdom has put in fair safeguards to ensure that the UAE will always remain
with its own people. Yes we are Indians, but India is made up of some many
cultures  identities; each of which has a RIGHT to be preserved/protected.



To drive home my point, say for instance in the homes that we live in, we
can be very tolerant  hospitable to our guests or any person for that
matter, but does this mean that we should give away our homes to the said
people? Surely nobody will agree to this, not even the critics.

* *

*Arwin Mesquita.*


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Re: [Goanet] Goan Tolerance

2008-04-07 Thread anand virgincar

  
   Mr Arwin Mesquita said :
   
   # There is currently a lot of talk about the tolerance of Goans, 
particularly   because Goans are in increasing numbers, starting to speak out 
against the   fast deterioration of Goan Culture  Identity; mainly with the 
rapid influx   of Non-Goans/Migrants and hence the fast changing demographics. 
While I full   appreciate that Tolerance is the need of the hour to make the 
world a better   place, I want to put tolerance into a correct perspective for 
Goa. Nobody   today can dispute the enormous tolerance  hospitality exhibited 
by Goans in   Goa, simply with the fact that 40% of Goa's population is 
Non-Goans; I would   like for the critics to compare this, with the 
demographics of other Indian   states.# Yes we are Indians, but India is 
made up of some many   cultures  identities; each of which has a RIGHT to be 
preserved/protected.# To drive home my point, say for instance in the homes 
that we live in, we   can be very tolerant  hospitable to our guests or any 
person for that   matter, but does this mean that we should give away our homes 
to the said   people? Surely nobody will agree to this, not even the critics.
 
   Anand Virgincar's comments ( and for once focussing on the  other  
Parrikar ) :
 
   I submit that Bab Arwin ( who I get the impression is a soft hearted chap 
like
   me ) and many others , including in the Goan newspaper / audiovisual media
   can say today what is stated above is because Dr Rajan Parrikar had the 
courage
   to go against the politically correct snobbishness and bring this delicate 
and
   difficult issue up for discussion in the first place.
 
   There have been a flurry of postings recently slamming Rajan for his style of
   dialogue and his preference for strong language. I submit that if softies 
like
   Arwin or me had broached the subject rather than Rajan , we would  have
   been swatted aside like flies by the same old same old same old same old
   humanitarian armchair keyboard sermonistas and the hearsay finding report
   fame communal hatred harmonistas.not to mention the freelancers with
   their one point agenda's to help these Congress corrupticians stay in power.
 
   I am incapable of employing Rajan's inimitable robust style. But this is the 
   only way to silence the same old proponents and wake up the sushegaad
   Goenkars. My sincere advice to you , Rajan , is continue going the way you 
have 
   done over the last year or so. But also, ignore the ignoraumuses there
   is much work to be done and you cannot afford to waste your time arguing
   with these time wasters.
 
   And as you have shown with the Panjim PIL , I know you will pursue your
   noble goals using entirely legal means. Those who cannot see the core 
   message in your literary efforts and accuse you of xenophobia and sundry
   characteristics , have no idea of the velvet hand you wield behind the 
   iron glove. If they cannot read between the lines, it is their problem , not
   yours. There is a limit to Goan toleranceand you have warned us in the
   nick of time that this limit is very near , if not already here. Whether the
   humanitarians wish to help us find a sensible solution or continue to engage
   in their sermonisation ( while Goa builds up to boiling point ) is their 
problem,
   not yours.
 
 
   warm and sincere regards,
   anand
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[Goanet] Goan Tolerance

2008-04-06 Thread Arwin Mesquita
There is currently a lot of talk about the tolerance of Goans, particularly
because Goans are in increasing numbers, starting to speak out against the
fast deterioration of Goan Culture  Identity; mainly with the rapid influx
of Non-Goans/Migrants and hence the fast changing demographics. While I full
appreciate that Tolerance is the need of the hour to make the world a better
place, I want to put tolerance into a correct perspective for Goa. Nobody
today can dispute the enormous tolerance  hospitality exhibited by Goans in
Goa, simply with the fact that 40% of Goa's population is Non-Goans; I would
like for the critics to compare this, with the demographics of other Indian
states.



We, Goans should continue to be Tolerant  Hospitable to all other people,
but this does not mean it is wrong for us to put in safeguards now, to
reverse the erosion of Goan Identity  protect Goan interests. In the UAE,
where I temporarily reside for example, the vast majority is non-nationals
and many are allowed to even buy land restrictively, but this country in its
wisdom has put in fair safeguards to ensure that the UAE will always remain
with its own people. Yes we are Indians, but India is made up of some many
cultures  identities; each of which has a RIGHT to be preserved/protected.



To drive home my point, say for instance in the homes that we live in, we
can be very tolerant  hospitable to our guests or any person for that
matter, but does this mean that we should give away our homes to the said
people? Surely nobody will agree to this, not even the critics.

* *

*Arwin Mesquita, Abu Dhabi   *