STT: Will you forgive him?
- Ok, will you forgive your wife?
What for? What she has done?
- She cheated on you.. she slept with some one…, will your forgive her?
I don’t believe you, I know she will never do this to me..we are
together for 10 years with 2 kids…
- What if it is true?
Well, she is finished. End of our marriage.
- Come on, it’s a mistake she feel guilty about it now,
she wants to confess.. she loves you
No means no, I will never forgive her
- Ok, what about you? Did you remain faithful to your wife?
I mean, you never slept with anybody during the 10 years?
‘Uloi re ogi kiteak asa?’
In this world, as a husband or wife, we often face so many problems.
We are human beings so we are bound to make mistakes. Most mistakes
are easily forgiven and forgotten but there are certain mistakes which
are very hard to forget or forgive such as the one mentioned above.
Often we men think, it’s Ok for we are men or some may even say,
it’s OK as we have to live away from our wives for years and so it’s
not a big deal if we sometimes pay Friday or Sunday visits
to Srilankans/ Philippines or other nationalities onshore or at office
or workplace etc
How about the wives? They too live away from their husbands for
years. It’s OK for them too? Women wants or their expectations
are same as men. Infact, where we were in our teens, we understood
from our seniors that women need more than men.
Marriage is built on love, sharing, trust, loyalty,
sacrifices, understanding, forgiveness etc
There is no one superior or inferior in the marriage.
If she betrays him, then he has every reasons to be angry, upset,
feel rejected, frustrated etc Similarly, if he has done any act
of betrayal then she too has the very same reasons (nothing less)
to be angry, upset etc. She too has a right to take extreme decisions
An advice:
If you have gone wrong somewhere (perhaps due to temptation) and
this being your one off blunder and you regret it immediately after
and vow never to do it again..
Take my peace of advice: Never confess it to him (Husband) or her
(Wife) because you never know how he/she might take it or what it may
end up with.
Because some betrayals have not forgiveness.
Something like this such as LOVE, MARRIAGE, TRUST, BETRAYAL,
FORGIVENESS etc is beautifully brought up by Joywin in his new Film ‘FAMILY
With Annie Quardros, Ulhas Tari, Jane, Kids Kish, Kerensky,
Antonette de Maina, Comedian Marcus, Comedian Selvy etc. Rs.150 VCD.
It’s a family film not to be missed, a must to every husband
and wife
Check this out - a trailer..
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=c9LJwBuUBok
VCD cover:
http://www.flickr.com/photos/tiatr/3384196043/
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