Re: [Goanet] The Goan crab mentality & other Goan expressions

2006-12-19 Thread Mario Goveia

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--- Sunith D Velho <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> wrote:
> 
> Most men want't to date the glamorous girls when
> they are young but want the homely ones to settle 
> down with. Nothing intruiging here, ask any man.
> 
Mario observes:
>
Sunith, methinks you are speaking of those men whom
the glamorous girls would not deign to marry!:-)))
>
As you may have noticed, even Reita Faria, India's
first Miss World, who is also a physician and an
unassuming and charming person is considered somewhat
homely by some.
>



Re: [Goanet] The Goan crab mentality & other Goan expressions

2006-12-16 Thread Gabe Menezes

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On 15/12/06, Sunith D Velho <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> wrote:

> Selma,
>
> If what you mention below is true, then why does homely girl's best
> friend "the girl next door" always beat glamorous girl in Hollywood
> movies?
>
> Some prejudices are unfortunately both universal and uniquely male.
>
> Most men want't to date the glamorous girls when they are young but
> want the homely ones to settle down with. Nothing intruiging here, ask
> any man.
>
> Regards
> Sunith


RESPONSE: Some want both and get it...i.e. marry a glamorous girl, who
is an excellent cook and can cut a fine fit ! I am one of those lucky
ones.
-- 
DEV BOREM KORUM.

Gabe Menezes.
London, England

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Re: [Goanet] The Goan crab mentality & other Goan expressions

2006-12-15 Thread Sunith D Velho

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Selma,

If what you mention below is true, then why does homely girl's best 
friend "the girl next door" always beat glamorous girl in Hollywood 
movies?

Some prejudices are unfortunately both universal and uniquely male.

Most men want't to date the glamorous girls when they are young but 
want the homely ones to settle down with. Nothing intruiging here, ask 
any man.

Regards
Sunith



Selma writes:
"She is a homely girl".

This phrase used anywhere else in the world will earn
> you (to use another Goan expression), one tight slap
> or fattak. The word homely in general parlance means
> unattractive and shorn of embellishment.


-- 
Sunith D Velho
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Re: [Goanet] The Goan crab mentality & other Goan expressions

2006-12-14 Thread Carvalho

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--- Reena Martins <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> wrote:


> Good one!
> What about, "She's dark but has nice features.":))
> Reena
> 
-
Hey Reena,

This reminds of a memorable line from Mississippi
Masala, which exemplifies our attitude towards skin
colour:

"You can be dark and rich or you can be fair and poor
but you can't be a darkie and poor and hope to marry
someone like him.."

Speaking of marriage, I think I should inform NRI
girls who will be going to Goa this Christmas, looking
for prospective grooms, about a few Goan phrases
typical to Goa and their interpretations.

"he was friendly to Carmeline and Teudoline", doesn't
mean he's generally a friendly fellow, it means he was
dating them. Nor is the phrase "he was so tight on
Christmas night" to be construed as good news, it just
means he drinks like a fish.

Happy hunting :)
selma



 

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Re: [Goanet] The Goan crab mentality & other Goan expressions

2006-12-14 Thread Vivian D'Souza

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In other words, "Why can't they be like Selma ??"

Carvalho wrote:

> "She's a simple girl"
> 
> Why is this phrase used as a compliment? When did it
> become fashionable for a girl to be a simpleton? Why
> shouldn't girls be eccentric, opinionated, forward,
> smart, glamourous, anything but simple?

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Re: [Goanet] The Goan crab mentality & other Goan expressions

2006-12-14 Thread Cornel DaCosta

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Hi Selma
Like you, I too have been intrigued by  descriptions of young Goan women as 
"homely" and especially, "simple." Perhaps they are manifestations of 
expressions of times gone by. However, re the dog called "whitey" I did 
applaud my neighbour in Goa calling his two dogs (incidentally, neither a 
poodle), Bush and Blair.

My neighbour was very politically aware and said that his dogs did a better 
job on security around his home than their name sakes did in Iraq! I was 
strongly inclined to agree with him!

The  term "from a respectable family" is also rather loaded I think where 
there is a coded signal for pedigree rather than say the 
educational/professional background of a person.

Selma, do let us have more of your witticisms. They are much appreciated 
this festive season.
Regards
Cornel
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>  http://www.goa-world.com/expressions/xmas/
> Speaking of expressions peculiar to Goa, here is one I've always found 
> fascinating.
> "She is a homely girl".Now, only in Goa does this expression mean the girl 
> is happiest serving pattices and making miskut while simultaneously 
> massaging her father-in-law's feet and feeding the pet dog, whitey.
> This phrase used anywhere else in the world will earn you (to use another 
> Goan expression), one tight slap or fattak. The word homely in general 
> parlance means unattractive and shorn of embellishment.
> Here is another phrase commonly used in Goa that I find intriguing. "She's 
> a simple girl".
> Why is this phrase used as a compliment? When did it become fashionable 
> for a girl to be a simpleton? Why shouldn't girls be eccentric, 
> opinionated, forward, smart, glamourous, anything but simple?
> selma



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Re: [Goanet] The Goan crab mentality & other Goan expressions

2006-12-14 Thread Reena Martins

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Good one!
What about, "She's dark but has nice features.":))
Reena

Carvalho wrote:

> 
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> 
> Spread the Christmas cheer - even when you're not here!
>   Send Christmas Greetings to your loved ones in Goa.
>2006 Christmas - Two Packages available from EXPRESSIONS
>
>   http://www.goa-world.com/expressions/xmas/
> 
>
> Speaking of expressions peculiar to Goa, here is one
> I've always found fascinating.
>
> "She is a homely girl".
>
> Now, only in Goa does this expression mean the girl is
> happiest serving pattices and making miskut while
> simultaneously massaging her father-in-law's feet and
> feeding the pet dog, whitey.
>
> This phrase used anywhere else in the world will earn
> you (to use another Goan expression), one tight slap
> or fattak. The word homely in general parlance means
> unattractive and shorn of embellishment.
>
> Here is another phrase commonly used in Goa that I
> find intriguing.
>
> "She's a simple girl".
>
> Why is this phrase used as a compliment? When did it
> become fashionable for a girl to be a simpleton? Why
> shouldn't girls be eccentric, opinionated, forward,
> smart, glamourous, anything but simple?
>
> selma
>
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Re: [Goanet] The Goan crab mentality & other Goan expressions

2006-12-14 Thread Carvalho

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Speaking of expressions peculiar to Goa, here is one
I've always found fascinating.

"She is a homely girl".

Now, only in Goa does this expression mean the girl is
happiest serving pattices and making miskut while
simultaneously massaging her father-in-law's feet and
feeding the pet dog, whitey.

This phrase used anywhere else in the world will earn
you (to use another Goan expression), one tight slap
or fattak. The word homely in general parlance means
unattractive and shorn of embellishment.

Here is another phrase commonly used in Goa that I
find intriguing.

"She's a simple girl".

Why is this phrase used as a compliment? When did it
become fashionable for a girl to be a simpleton? Why
shouldn't girls be eccentric, opinionated, forward,
smart, glamourous, anything but simple?

selma

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