[lace-chat] Cape lace Guild - South Africa

2004-12-12 Thread Ann McClean
Can any of our South African spiders help me out?

I need to get a message to a member of the Cape Lace Guild 
who doesn't have a computer - about a small packet of thread
that I am sending out to her.  

So are there any members of the Cape Lace Guild on Lace Chat
who would pass a message on for me - or do you know of any on 
Lace [which I'm not subscribed to :( ] who would be able to help me.

Many thanks.

Ann McClean
in Llanmerewig, Mid-Wales, U.K.
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[lace-chat] :-) English is tough

2004-12-12 Thread Jeanette Fischer
Native English speakers will probably never understand the trouble we
non-English speakers have with their language! The pronunciation of English
must be the most difficult on earth!
Jeanette Fischer, Western Cape, South Africa.

ENGLISH IS TOUGH STUFF
(Multi-national personnel at North Atlantic Treaty Organization headquarters
near Paris found English to be an easy language ... until they tried to
pronounce it. To help them discard an array of accents, the verses below
were devised. After trying them, a Frenchman said he'd prefer six months at
hard labor to reading six lines aloud. Try them yourself.)

Dearest creature in creation,
Study English pronunciation.
I will teach you in my verse
Sounds like corpse, corps, horse, and worse.
I will keep you, Suzy, busy,
Make your head with heat grow dizzy.
Tear in eye, your dress will tear.
So shall I! Oh hear my prayer.
Just compare heart, beard, and heard,
Dies and diet, lord and word,
Sword and sward, retain and Britain.
(Mind the latter, how it's written.)
Now I surely will not plague you
With such words as plaque and argue.
But be careful how you speak:
Say break and steak, but bleak and streak;
Cloven, oven, how and low,
Script, receipt, show, poem, and toe.
Hear me say, devoid of trickery,
Daughter, laughter, and Terpsichore,
Typhoid, measles, topsails, aisles,
Exiles, similes, and reviles;
Scholar, vicar, and cigar,
Solar, mica, war and far;
One, anemone, Balmoral,
Kitchen, lichen, laundry, laurel;
Gertrude, German, wind and mind,
Scene, Melpomene, mankind.
Billet does not rhyme with ballet,
Bouquet, wallet, mallet, chalet.
Blood and flood are not like food,
Nor is mould like should and would.
Viscous, viscount, load and broad,
Toward, to forward, to reward.
And your pronunciation's OK
When you correctly say croquet,
Rounded, wounded, grieve and sleeve,
Friend and fiend, alive and live.
Ivy, privy, famous; clamour
And enamour rhyme with hammer.
River, rival, tomb, bomb, comb,
Doll and roll and some and home.
Stranger does not rhyme with anger,
Neither does devour with clangour.
Souls but foul, haunt but aunt,
Font, front, wont, want, grand, and grant,
Shoes, goes, does. Now first say finger,
And then singer, ginger, linger,
Real, zeal, mauve, gauze, gouge and gauge,
Marriage, foliage, mirage, and age.
Query does not rhyme with very,
Nor does fury sound like bury.
Dost, lost, post and doth, cloth, loth.
Job, nob, bosom, transom, oath.
Though the differences seem little,
We say actual but victual.
Refer does not rhyme with deafer.
Foeffer does, and zephyr, heifer.
Mint, pint, senate and sedate;
Dull, bull, and George ate late.
Scenic, Arabic, Pacific,
Science, conscience, scientific.
Liberty, library, heave and heaven,
Rachel, ache, moustache, eleven.
We say hallowed, but allowed,
People, leopard, towed, but vowed.
Mark the differences, moreover,
between mover, cover, clover;
Leeches, breeches, wise, precise,
Chalice, but police and lice;
Camel, constable, unstable,
Principle, disciple, label.
Petal, panel, and canal,
Wait, surprise, plait, promise, pal.
Worm and storm, chaise, chaos, chair,
Senator, spectator, mayor.
Tour, but our and succour, four.
Gas, alas, and Arkansas.
Sea, idea, Korea, area,
Psalm, Maria, but malaria.
Youth, south, southern, cleanse and clean.
Doctrine, turpentine, marine.
Compare alien with Italian,
Dandelion and battalion.
Sally with ally, yea, ye,
Eye, I, ay, aye, whey, and key.
Say aver, but ever, fever,
Neither, leisure, skein, deceiver.
Heron, granary, canary.
Crevice and device and aerie.
Face, but preface, not efface.
Phlegm, phlegmatic, ass, glass, bass.
Large, but target, gin, give, verging,
Ought, out, joust and scour, scourging.
Ear, but earn and wear and tear
Do not rhyme with here but ere.
Seven is right, but so is even,
Hyphen, roughen, nephew Stephen,
Monkey, donkey, Turk and jerk,
Ask, grasp, wasp, and cork and work.
Pronunciation -- think of Psyche!
Is a paling stout and spikey?
Won't it make you lose your wits,
Writing groats and saying grits?
It's a dark abyss or tunnel:
Strewn with stones, stowed, solace, gunwale,
Islington and Isle of Wight,
Housewife, verdict and indict.
Finally, which rhymes with enough --
Though, through, plough, or dough, or cough?
Hiccough has the sound of cup.
My advice is to give up!!!

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Re: [lace-chat] :-) English is tough

2004-12-12 Thread dominique
wow wow! it's true that english pronunciation is really weird for us 
foreigners but i guess french pronunciation is not all that easy either 
VBG
dominique from paris ..


Jeanette Fischer a décidé d' écrire à  Ò[lace-chat] :-) English is toughÓ.
[2004/12/12 15:18]


> ENGLISH IS TOUGH STUFF

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[lace-chat] Fw: I WISH YOU ENOUGH!

2004-12-12 Thread Lynn Weasenforth
Lynn
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  ENOUGH

  Recently I overheard a mother and daughter in their last moments 
together at the airport.They had announced the departure. Standing near the 
security gate,they hugged and the mother said "I love you and I wish you 
enough".

  The daughter replied, "Mom, our life together has been more than 
enough.Your love is all I ever needed. I wish you enough, too, Mom".

  They kissed and the daughter left. The mother walked over to
  the window where I was seated. Standing there, I could see she wanted 
and needed to cry.  I tried not to intrude on her privacy but she welcomed 
me in by asking.  "Did you ever say good-bye to someone knowing it would be 
forever?"

  "Yes, I have," I replied. "Forgive me for asking but why is
  this forever goodbye?"

  "I am old and she lives so far away. I have challenges ahead
  and the reality is - the next trip back will be for my funeral" she 
said.

  "When you were saying goodbye, I heard you say 'I wish you
  enough'.  May I ask what that means?".

  She began to smile. "That's a wish that has been handed down
  from other generations. My parents used to say it to everyone".

  She paused a moment and looked up as if trying to remember it
  in detail and she smiled even more."When we said 'I wish you enough' 
we were wanting the other person to have a life filled with just enough good 
things to sustain them."

  Then turning toward me, she shared the following as if she
  were reciting it from memory ---

  I wish you enough sun to keep your attitude bright.

  I wish you enough rain to appreciate the sun more.

  I wish you enough happiness to keep your spirit alive.

  I wish you enough pain so that the smallest joys in
  life appear much bigger.

  I wish you enough gain to satisfy your wanting.

  I wish you enough loss to appreciate all that you
  possess.

  I wish you enough hellos to get you through the final
  good-bye.

  She then began to cry and walked away.


  They say it takes a minute to find a special person, an hour
  to appreciate them, a day to love them, but then an entire life to 
forget them.




  TAKE TIME TO LIVE. To all my friends and loved ones,

I WISH YOU ENOUGH!








 

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[lace-chat] Re: Lace and fairy tale

2004-12-12 Thread Tamara P. Duvall
On Dec 12, 2004, at 18:57, [EMAIL PROTECTED] (Julie) wrote:
Remember how this fairy tale goes: The little girl's mother died and 
the
father remarried.  The stepmother did not like her but concealed her 
dislike.
One day the stepmother gave the girl a basket of tasty food and told 
her to
take it to the stepmother's sister, who lived in a cottage at the end 
of the path
in the forest.
I love fairy tales, and have never heard this one, so enjoyed it a lot 
(though would have liked to know how the girl used the objects in her 
flight from the witch) The comb? A forest grew? The others, I can't 
even guess...

 By the way, I note that this tale fits into the old theory (completely
unsupported as far as I know) that in the old days women did 
needlework (or
spinning, or weaving) in groups--for company-- and told each other 
fairy tales to
pass the time.
Probably depended on who and when. In needlework sweatshops, women 
worked together not for company, but so they could all be supervised as 
to the quality of their work. And they weren't permited to tell 
stories; they weren't permited to talk at all, as that would have 
slowed them down, and they were being paid for a day's work, and 
expected to produce thus and such amount of whatever stuff.

OTOH, independent workers, who got paid by piece or yard, or did 
needlework more or less like we do - for themselves (household use 
etc)... Quite possible. Ladies-in-waiting, at court, most certainly 
didn't sit mute while busying themselves with their embroideries, 
either (not that their companionship was by choice ).

Since they were doing all that needlework it partiuclarly amused
them to put needlework in their stories.  Hence, Rumperlstiltskin, and 
the
similar story with the three weird sisters who claim to be deformed by 
spinning
and weaving and suchlike, and Sleeping Beauty who falls into enchented 
sleep
when she pricks her finger on a needle, and so forth.
So, let's hear some of the "so forth" :) Textiles in fairy tales sounds 
like a perfect subject  for short and cold days (not in upside-down Oz, 
of course )...

The Sleeping Beauty, pricked herself with a spindle, at least in the 
version I heard; it was Snow White's mom, who pricked herself with a 
needle, the blood dropped onto the snow outsdide the window (tells you 
not even royalty could afford glassed windows, in those days ), etc.

There's a Russian fairy tale, about the clever daughter of a peasant, 
whom the king is thinking of marrying, so he gives her various tasks to 
perform. In one of the tasks, he gives her a bunch of linen, and orders 
her to spin and weave it and make the wedding shirt for him by the next 
day. The next morning, she hands him a fistful of flax seeds and says 
the shirt is almost ready, but for one sleeve - there wasn't enough 
linen there. Could he please sow the seed, reap the linen, and have it 
delivered to her by evening...

And, on the subject of a missing sleeve... Wasn't there a story - in 
the Brothers Grimm collection - about a girl who had to make 12 shirts 
for her brothers who'd been turned into ravens?

---
Tamara P Duvall http://lorien.emufarm.org/~tpd
Lexington, Virginia, USA (Formerly of Warsaw, Poland)
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[lace-chat] ID-cards; a reprise

2004-12-12 Thread Tamara P. Duvall
Gentle Spiders,
I've been e-chatting, off-list, on the subject of what governments know 
(if they want to), what info is "out there" for the asking, how having 
uniform ID cards is more paranoid hoopla than fact, and remembered a 
couple of more instances...

1) Poland was very offended - on behalf of the American "citizens of 
colour" - when the driver's licences began to use a colour photo. 
According to the Polish press of that time, that was done because it 
was no longer permitted to put race/colour on it. Of course, our own 
little booklets (about half the size of a passport, but a booklet 
nevertheless. Into which the current address was stamped, much like a 
visa) had the photos in b&w (and twice the size). But then, our 
colour-photo technology "was in the swaddling clothes" as the saying 
went...

2) I had to apply for a Social Security number, having arrived in US as 
an adult. But, when my son was born - February of '77 - he was was 
issued one the day after he was born; it was "normal procedure" by the. 
And what's a SS number if not an ID number? For that matter, a license 
plate "tracks you" too.

3) But, when I said the government seemed to have all the data on him 
except spit, when they wanted to check, I forgot the *best part*. 24 
hrs after he was born, he was both finger- and foot-printed. Took some 
effort, in case of the fingers (try to uncurl those little claws ), 
but it was done, and the data was going to be kept somewhere. 
Ostensibly so that, in case of a kidnap, he could be identified - 
either as an adult some years later, or as a corpse left in a ditch 
somewhere.

Nobody asked my  (or his ) permission to harvest the data, though I 
was presented with copies of same for free. I meant to paste them into 
his baby book, but that was when I meant to make a baby book, and 
they've disappeared since. From *my* stash. But, from the government's? 
I doubt it. That organism never disgorges; it only adds (though 
sometimes, it does mislay stuff).

Of course, *my* fingerprints are on file, from the time I applied for 
the citizenship...

ID cards will be an infringement on our privacy? WHAT PRIVACY?
---
Tamara P Duvall http://lorien.emufarm.org/~tpd
Lexington, Virginia, USA (Formerly of Warsaw, Poland)
 
 

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Re: [lace-chat] ID-cards; a reprise

2004-12-12 Thread Martha Krieg
My father used to be quite upset at the use of Social Security numbers for 
anything other than Social Security - he said that the law forbade their use 
for other things. Of course, until recently that part was conveniently 
forgotten and they were used as student IDs in school, medical record IDs in 
doctors' offices, even the subscriber number for commercial insurance carriers. 
That seems to be tightening up now - partly to avoid identity theft by not 
making them so ubiquitous.
At this point, the government can find out more than it needs or wants to know 
about me by Googling me. I'm not particularly worried about an ID - though if 
an evil government wanted to attack its own citizens, it would make it 
marginally easier to locate the desired subset. 

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[lace-chat] Re: ID-cards; a reprise

2004-12-12 Thread Tamara P. Duvall
On Dec 12, 2004, at 22:36, Martha Krieg wrote:
My father used to be quite upset at the use of Social Security numbers 
for anything other than Social Security - he said that the law forbade 
their use for other things. Of course, until recently that part was 
conveniently forgotten and they were used as student IDs in school, 
medical record IDs in doctors' offices, even the subscriber number for 
commercial insurance carriers.
They were, often, also put on checks - for convenience. And they were - 
*and still are*, unless you request otherwise - put on your driver's 
licence. With the identity-theft issue having surfaced in the recent 
years, I no longer have my SS# on the driver's license (had it removed 
from my checks even earlier than that, which means I have to have my DL 
with me every time I write a check, so that the clerk can scribble it 
on the check. PITA, as Avital says ); it's been replaced with some 
other ID#

At this point, the government can find out more than it needs or wants 
to know about me by Googling me.
No kiddin' :) Even *I* - the most active compu-idiot of all - can 
Google up a path straight to the door of the most privacy-paranoid 
members of Arachne...

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Lexington, Virginia, USA (Formerly of Warsaw, Poland)
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[lace-chat] :) Fwd: airline news

2004-12-12 Thread Tamara P. Duvall
Not brand new, but I think it's been a while since it's been revived...
From: R.C.
As the airliner pushed back from the gate, the flight attendant gave 
the passengers the usual information regarding seat belts, etc.  
Finally, she said, "Now sit back and enjoy your trip while your 
captain, Judith Campbell, and crew take you safely to your 
destination."

Joe sitting in the eighth row thought to himself, "Did I hear her 
right?  Is the captain a woman?"

When the attendants came by with the drink cart, he said, "Did I 
understand you right?  Is the captain a woman?"

"Yes," said the attendant, "In fact, this entire crew is female."
"My God," said Joe, "I'd better have two scotch and sodas.  I don't 
know what to think of all those women up there in the cockpit."

"That's another thing sir," said the attendant, "We no longer call it 
the cock pit.  Now it's the box office."

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Lexington, Virginia, USA (Formerly of Warsaw, Poland)
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[lace-chat] Site obout France (lace-chat)

2004-12-12 Thread Helene Gannac
Nice site, Dominique!
And I quite agree with you about the toilets! My Aussie husband always has a
terrible time finding one, too!!!

Helene, the froggy from Melbourne

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[lace-chat] Lace and fairy tale

2004-12-12 Thread JSyzygy
Hi Spiders

  Some months ago I for the first time started a lace piece that had 
recognizable pictures instead of just abstract figures.  The novelty has now 
worn off, 
but for the longest time whenever I sat down in front of my pillow I was 
inescapably reminded of the fairy tale of the little girl and the black cat. 
  Remember how this fairy tale goes: The little girl's mother died and the 
father remarried.  The stepmother did not like her but concealed her dislike.  
One day the stepmother gave the girl a basket of tasty food and told her to 
take it to the stepmother's sister, who lived in a cottage at the end of the 
path 
in the forest.
  The little girl arrived at the cottage, which had an evil looking rusty 
gate in front.  She managed with effort to open and close it,  the hinges 
squealing loudly.  Then she had to duck and push her way past a massive willow 
tree, 
whose branches kept getting in her face.  As soon as she got clear she 
realized that she was in the presence of a huge snarling dog.  She ran with the 
dog 
at her heels and made it through the door of the cottage just in time.
  An old woman's voice from another room asked her who she was and what she 
wanted, and she said,"It is I, Auntie, I have been sent by your sister with 
this basket of good things."  The voice replied,"Dear Niece, I am busy at the 
moment.  Go to the next room and work on the needlework there.  I will see you 
shortly."
  In the next room was an embroidey frame with a magnificently realistic 
almost completed design of a black cat.  The little girl sat down to finish the 
embroidery but had barely started when to her surprise the head of the cat 
turned and spoke to her: "Girl, I am a prisoner here. Undo  the emboridery and 
free 
me! ...but be very careful not to break the thread as you unpick it." 
  The astonished girl carefully unpicked the cat design, being very careful 
not to break the thread, which fell into a pile beside her.  When she undid the 
last stitch, the thread in her hand suddenly writhed, she dropped it, the 
whole length of the thread shimmered, and suddenly the whole pile transformed 
into a living cat, the very image of the picture that had been in the 
embroidery.
  The cat washed itself, gave the girl a disdainful look, and said loftily, 
"O foolish girl! Don;t you know that your  stepmother has sent you to your 
death?  Her sister, the old woman who rules here, is actually the evil Baba 
Yaga 
and she will shortly kill you and eat you for lunch."
  The girl jumped up from her seat in alarm, "Thank you for this warning, o 
gracious Cat.  How can I ever repay you?"
  The cat said," Stupid girl!  I need no thanks.  But I suppose you deserve 
something for freeing me.  There are three things that may prove useful to you: 
 the ham sandwich in the basket, the yellow ribbon on the table over there, 
and the oil can under the bench over here.  And here is something else that may 
prove most useful of all.  Throw it on the ground, but don't do so until you 
absolutely have to."
  Then, with a triumphant laugh, the cat turned and leaped through the 
window, leaving only its laugh behind.  The girl collected the sandwich, the 
ribbon, 
and the oil can.  Searching the area near the embroidery stand she found-- 
exactly where the cat had been sitting--a beautiful and strangely carved 
tortoiseshell comb.  She took that, too.  The old woman's voice came,"  I am 
terribly 
sorry to be so occupied, Dearie. You won't mind waiting a few more minutes, 
will you?"
   The girl, trembling with fear, replied, "I am making great progess with 
the needlework, Auntie.  Please take your time."  And then she quickly ran out 
the door.
  ...and so on ..
   When I sat down at my lace pillow, the figures did not in fact turn and 
talk to to me--that would have been worrisome-- but I kept on feeling that, as 
with the black cat, I was trapping living things into the lace. 
   My project starts out with a big eagle head, facing so that the beak 
points to the top  It is continuous lace--Chantilly--so one makes it by 
starting at 
the top and working downwards, making the entire lace at once. The lacing  
went particularly slowly at first, since I was unfamiliar with the design and 
hadn't previously worked so finely,  so I worked on the beak for what semed an 
endless amount of time.
  It felt just as if I had grabbed the poor bird by the nose and was holding 
on to it!  Poor bird, I would think, it must be so hard to breathe when I am 
holding onto your nose like this.  Poor bird, how hard it must be for you to 
shriek grandly with your nose being held.  Poor bird, how undignified for you 
to 
be held by your nose, I am so sorry to be drawing out this indignity for so 
long.  
  I felt that it gave a sigh of relief when I finally moved past its beak to 
the rest of its head.  It may now be trapped in the lace but at least it was 
no longer being actively clutched by the nose. I felt that is