Re: [lace-chat] Thanksgiving (was Christmas of old)

2004-12-02 Thread Katrina Worley
On Dec 1, 2004, at 9:26 PM, Weronika Patena wrote:
The Christmas Eve dinner started when the kids saw the first star 
(really
annoying when it's cloudy), and we got to open presents after dinner 
(according
to my friends you do in the next morning in the US - is that right?).
It really is sort of strange that all the fun of Christmas was 
actually on the
day before, and then on actual Christmas Day we just ate leftovers and 
had to go
to church G.

My mother was Polish, and we always did (and still do) the big 
Christmas Eve family dinner, followed by presents.  Christmas Day is 
the day we went to Mass.  When I married my husband, it actually worked 
out quite nicely- Christmas Eve with my family, Christmas Day with 
Gordon's.  My kids thought that Christmas gift-giving came in two parts 
for everyone.

Katrina
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Re: [lace-chat] Thanksgiving (was Christmas of old)

2004-12-01 Thread Weronika Patena
 Thanksgiving is not a holiday I grew up with, so I've only ever paid 
 scant attention to it - no more than I *had to* (like going to the bank 
 and PO a day before or forget it till Friday following). 

Yeah...  Maybe next year I'll finally remember to organize some food before
Thanksgiving instead of finding out all the restaurants are closed and eating
bread...

 In Poland of 
 my childhood and teens, we had something like harvest festival 
 (dozynki - gathering of last strands of grain), but we all thought it 
 was something contrived by the Communist government seeking to promote 
 the rule of workers and peasants 

Really?  I've always thought it was older than the communist government...  We
still had them when I was a kid (later we moved from a village to a city, so I
don't know if villages continued to have them).  

 BTW, someone sent me some info on Polish Christmas customs, which said 
 they differed in different parts of the country. They sure did, but the 
 website never mentioned the one I grew up with - that the gifts were 
 brought by the First Star of 24th. 

At least one side of my family had that one too.  Really, we had a combination: 
On I think Dec 6th, which is St. Nicholas Day in Poland, we got presents from
our immediate family from St. Nicholas, and then for Christmas we all visited
our grandparents and got presents from our extended families from the Star.
The Christmas Eve dinner started when the kids saw the first star (really
annoying when it's cloudy), and we got to open presents after dinner (according
to my friends you do in the next morning in the US - is that right?). 
It really is sort of strange that all the fun of Christmas was actually on the
day before, and then on actual Christmas Day we just ate leftovers and had to go
to church G. 

 A subtle reminder that the same star 
 announced the gift to mankind of the baby Jesus (if one's beliefs go 
 that way). Nevertheless, the gifts were dropped off under the tree, not 
 under a stable trough... :)

Is that a custom anywhere??

Weronika

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Weronika Patena
Caltech, Pasadena, CA, USA
http://vole.stanford.edu/weronika

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[lace-chat] Thanksgiving (was Christmas of old)

2004-11-24 Thread Tamara P. Duvall
On Nov 24, 2004, at 18:50, Bev Walker wrote:
Yes, I do know we still have the Thanksgiving hurdle to tackle (I
assume the Canadians are over that pain; my understanding is y'all
celebrate a week earlier than we do...
in the month previous, and 6 weeks earlier ;)
Thanks to all Canadians - Bev, Heather and Rose-Marie (privately) who'd 
straightend me out on that one :)

Thanksgiving is not a holiday I grew up with, so I've only ever paid 
scant attention to it - no more than I *had to* (like going to the bank 
and PO a day before or forget it till Friday following). In Poland of 
my childhood and teens, we had something like harvest festival 
(dozynki - gathering of last strands of grain), but we all thought it 
was something contrived by the Communist government seeking to promote 
the rule of workers and peasants and, since it didn't intrude on 
every-day life (nothing closed) it was easy to ignore. I don't even 
remember when it was celebrated... Late September?

The first I knew that Canada celebrated Thanksgiving at all, and that 
it celebrated at an earlier date (explained by a colder climate and 
earlier harvest) was in '88, when I was in Oxford (UK). My Canadian 
neighbour in the faculty apartments threw me into a total panic, when 
she said she was going shopping for Thanksgiving dinner... And me not 
even beginning to think about it... :)

As we grow older, time flies faster, since every day (week, month, 
year) is a proportionally smaller part of one's past life (a year at 5, 
vs a year at 55). The telescoping of 6 weeks into one, over 15 yrs 
can, I think, be excused g

I have a letter c. 1880 written by a Canadian ancestor to his
grandchildren, describing Christmas c. 1830. There was no mention of a 
tree, nor presents
The first mentions of either (tree or presents) I can remember from 
Poland are around 1800 - when the Romantics swept through the literary 
scene. So, earlier than England, but later than early US, and there was 
a good excuse for it too, since a big chunk of Poland had been 
partitioned (appropriated) by the Germans and the Austrians, and 
since there had been a sizeable German influence on the Russians (the 
third participant of partitions) since, I think, Peter the Great.

BTW, someone sent me some info on Polish Christmas customs, which said 
they differed in different parts of the country. They sure did, but the 
website never mentioned the one I grew up with - that the gifts were 
brought by the First Star of 24th. A subtle reminder that the same star 
announced the gift to mankind of the baby Jesus (if one's beliefs go 
that way). Nevertheless, the gifts were dropped off under the tree, not 
under a stable trough... :)

This branch of the family had immigrated to what is now Ontario, from 
the US, along with others in the wave of U.E.L. type people. Prior to 
that they 'worked' for the British defending something in Germany. 
They had a choice - stay Brit and go west (to NA) or switch allegiance 
to Russia. My branch elected to take the ships.

Does this help?
Helps to get me even more confused/intrigued :)
What's U.E.L. type people? And what were the Brits doing in 
*Germany*, in 18th c? And never mind the Brit/Russian choice - the only 
case of that I can think of is the Crimea, and that's later (I 
think)...

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Tamara P Duvall http://lorien.emufarm.org/~tpd
Lexington, Virginia, USA (Formerly of Warsaw, Poland)
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