RE: [lace-chat] Names and titles

2006-08-29 Thread Lapalme, Lise-Aurore
David,

You may not be sure, but I am.  Definitely female.  Which would probably 
explain why I hate Miss, Mrs and Ms, but I do see how things can get confusing 
when I insist on Mr.  Believe me, no one who sees me doubts my gender, which is 
why so many people refuse to call me Mr.  So, with me not answering to Miss, Ms 
or Mrs, and most people refusing to call me Mr, I end up being called Lise and 
Lise-Aurore a lot.  Which is actually quite fine with me.

And, in case you are wondering, both Lise and Aurore are feminine names in 
French.  

Now you have me wondering.  If I dressed differently, and had really short 
hair, could I pass myself off as a man   Hum, would be difficult, what 
would I do with that chest   Worth a chuckle!!!  And I'm just kidding.  I 
am female, and have no intention of hiding it.  

Lise-Aurore
In beautiful sunny, 22C Ottawa.  Glorious day!!! 

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Dear Lise-Aurore,
And then, there's the usage in French, where I am referred to as Madame 
le docteur.  I'm not to crazy about that, but it is difficult to make 
people believe that I'm a Monsieur.  I was rather distressed this 
spring, when everyone in France seemed to want to call me Mademoiselle.  
How very insulting  I did speak up, and insisted on Monsieur.

Having read your complicated email, I now really have no idea what gender you 
are. I had always assumed you were female, but now am not so sure. 
I really don't care anyway! To me you're just another lace-maker :) who 
probably walks on 2 legs and writes English at least.
David in Ballarat


Lise-Aurore

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Re: [lace-chat] Names and titles

2006-08-28 Thread David in Ballarat

Dear Lise-Aurore,
And then, there's the usage in French, where I am referred to as Madame le
docteur.  I'm not to crazy about that, but it is difficult to make people
believe that I'm a Monsieur.  I was rather distressed this spring, when
everyone in France seemed to want to call me Mademoiselle.  How very
insulting  I did speak up, and insisted on Monsieur.


Having read your complicated email, I now really 
have no idea what gender you are. I had always 
assumed you were female, but now am not so sure. 
I really don't care anyway! To me you're just 
another lace-maker :) who probably walks on 2 legs and writes English at least.

David in Ballarat



Lise-Aurore

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RE: [lace-chat] Names and titles

2006-08-27 Thread Carolyn Hastings
This made me smile.  Our income tax forms come with preprinted name and
address labels (the tax preparer must fill out the rest -- this is, of
course, predating computerized tax preparation).  I have always prepared our
taxes, so many years ago I changed the order of our names, with me listed
first, on both state and federal taxes.  The IRS was apparently happy with
this arrangement and ever after put my name first.  But no matter how many
times over the years I put my name first on the tax form for the state of
Massachusetts, they *always* changed it back next year to listing my husband
first!

For the last five or so years I've used a computerized tax preparation
program, it never messes with me.  ;-)

Carolyn

Carolyn Hastings
Stow, MA USA

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 Firstly, it never occurred to me to give my own details as Mrs William
 Nathan to anyone, or to be known as that. The only time it's use is if
 something is address to us both, and even then on our local tax bill, the
 account is Mr William E Nathan and Mrs Jean E Nathan. Since marriage I've
 always been Mrs Jean Nathan or just Jean Nathan.
 
 Also on what Alice wrote:
 
 On another subject...As I got older, I was sometimes
 annoyed in a medical office when a young twerp of a
 girl would call me Alice.  I have since noticed that's
 it's commonly done in various medical offices.  Once
 in a while they will use the full name but usually
 it's just the first name. 
 
 Last time I was in hospital, on admission I was asked how I wanted to be
 addressed by staff.
 
 Last week I went for my usual monthly blood test, and while everyone else
 booking in was asked to confirm the details on the test form and who their
 General Practitioner was, when I handed my form in the receptionist look
up
 and said I assume it's the same as always. before she'd even read the
name
 on he form. When you consider that about 3,000 tests are done a week, I'm
 still amazed that she and most of the phlebotomists know who I am by
sight.
 They all call me Mrs Nathan.
 
 Jean in Poole, Dorset, UK
 
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