Re: [meteorite-list] Met List Flame Wars

2009-08-24 Thread Peter Davidson
Dear Sterling and everyone

Thanks for the information on libel law both here and the USA. Just to
complicate things further, within the UK there are differences between
English Law and Scottish Law (Scotland retains a separate legal system)
though the differences are small. Actually my daughter is currently
studying law at University, I should have asked her first!

I will certainly not be leaving the list, though I often despair of the
acrimony and viciousness. 

Wishing everyone a great day.

Peter Davidson
Curator of Minerals
 
National Museums Collection Centre
National Museums Scotland
242 West Granton Road
Edinburgh
EH5 1JA
Phone: +44 131 247 4283
p.david...@nms.ac.uk
www.nms.ac.uk
 
 

-Original Message-
From: Sterling K. Webb [mailto:sterling_k_w...@sbcglobal.net] 
Sent: 20 August 2009 22:44
To: Peter Davidson; meteorite-list@meteoritecentral.com
Subject: Re: [meteorite-list] Met List Flame Wars

Peter Davidson said:
 like the UK, I am sure that the laws of libel in the US...

The Laws of Libel in the U.S. and the U.K. are as unlike
as any laws bearing a similar name could be. U.K. Libel
Law is a unique construction of the very concept of Libel
as it is conceived of in the U.S and much of the rest of the
world. Some would say U.K. Libel Law is an unique
perversion of the concept. All despite the fact that U.S.
and U.K. grow from the same root stock.

However, I cannot explain why in an email sent to the
U.K. for fear of U.K. Libel Law. Neither can I state that a
U.K. chiropractor cannot cure you of leukemia by twiddling
with your vertebrae. I can't speak on that issue -- sorry.

It was recently ruled in the U.K. that defamatory postings
on a message board (and presumably, a mailing list like this)
are slander, not libel, akin to casual conversation in a bar,
much less likely to be actionable.
http://www.urban75.org/info/libel.html

One could conceivably defend one's self by the evidence
that many on this board were intoxicated by eating quantities
of extraterrestrial matter, for example. Worth a try. It does
sound at times like the posters are three sails to the wind.

More of the wonders of U.K. Libel Law:

http://www.citmedialaw.org/blog/2009/warning-uk-libel-law-may-be-hazardo
us-your-health

http://www.thelegalweek.merseyblogs.co.uk/2008/10/blog_uk_libel_law_v_fr
eedom_of.html\

http://www.englishpen.org/aboutenglishpen/campaigns/reformingthelibellaw
s/

and quickly, before the Law Lords shut down the Internet:
http://www.guardian.co.uk/technology/2006/aug/31/news.politicsandthemedi
a

As for the appearance -- got to be careful not to libel
anybody here -- that some of us are allowing our passions
to get in the way of our reasoning? It will take more any
Libel Law to stop that. Just sit back and enjoy it. Order
another Martian Cocktail.


Sterling K. Webb

---
- Original Message - 
From: Peter Davidson p.david...@nms.ac.uk
To: meteorite-list@meteoritecentral.com
Sent: Thursday, August 20, 2009 2:58 AM
Subject: Re: [meteorite-list] Met List Flame Wars


 Richard and Other

 Like you, I am a relative newcomer to this list. Like you in the short
 time I have been a member, I have been shocked at some of the language
 and accusations being flung around. I can already hear some list 
 members
 saying, Well! If you can't stand the heat, stay out of the kitchen.
 Nevertheless, like the UK, I am sure that the laws of libel in the US
 apply to e-mail as well as other forms of written communication. I 
 know
 that everyone on the list is passionate about meteorites, otherwise 
 why
 are we here, but some of us are allowing our passions to get in the 
 way
 of our reasoning. We are all grown-ups, so let's act like them.

 Peter Davidson
 Curator of Minerals
 Department of Natural Sciences
 National Museums Scotland
 National Museums Collection Centre
 242 West Granton Road
 EDINBURGH
 EH5 1JA
 Scotland
 Tel: 00 44 131 247 4283
 E-mail: p.david...@nms.ac.uk
 -Original Message-
 From: meteorite-list-boun...@meteoritecentral.com
 [mailto:meteorite-list-boun...@meteoritecentral.com] On Behalf Of
 Richard Kowalski
 Sent: 19 August 2009 19:25
 To: meteorite list
 Subject: [meteorite-list] Met List Flame Wars

 I hope that this email doesn't offend anyone. I mention two particular
 people who I won't name, but for the most part I am speaking in 
 general.

 I've been on this list for several months now. I joined for all the
 reasons people usually join a mailing list; To make contacts with 
 others
 that have similar interests to learn from these other people, and
 hopefully to eventually contribute something of substance to the 
 group.

 For the first week or so after I joined the list, I started learning 
 the
 players, and learning a bit more about meteorites. After about a week,
 someone posted a message about some material they had to offer. 
 Another
 person asked what it was and whoo

Re: [meteorite-list] Met List Flame Wars

2009-08-24 Thread Darren Garrison
On Mon, 24 Aug 2009 11:37:00 +0100, you wrote:

Thanks for the information on libel law both here and the USA. Just to
complicate things further, within the UK there are differences between
English Law and Scottish Law (Scotland retains a separate legal system)

Yes, you must be careful what you say in Scotlant-- it can get you kilt.
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Re: [meteorite-list] Met List Flame Wars

2009-08-20 Thread Peter Davidson
Richard and Other

Like you, I am a relative newcomer to this list. Like you in the short
time I have been a member, I have been shocked at some of the language
and accusations being flung around. I can already hear some list members
saying, Well! If you can't stand the heat, stay out of the kitchen.
Nevertheless, like the UK, I am sure that the laws of libel in the US
apply to e-mail as well as other forms of written communication. I know
that everyone on the list is passionate about meteorites, otherwise why
are we here, but some of us are allowing our passions to get in the way
of our reasoning. We are all grown-ups, so let's act like them.

Peter Davidson
Curator of Minerals
Department of Natural Sciences
National Museums Scotland
National Museums Collection Centre
242 West Granton Road
EDINBURGH
EH5 1JA
Scotland
Tel: 00 44 131 247 4283
E-mail: p.david...@nms.ac.uk
-Original Message-
From: meteorite-list-boun...@meteoritecentral.com
[mailto:meteorite-list-boun...@meteoritecentral.com] On Behalf Of
Richard Kowalski
Sent: 19 August 2009 19:25
To: meteorite list
Subject: [meteorite-list] Met List Flame Wars

I hope that this email doesn't offend anyone. I mention two particular
people who I won't name, but for the most part I am speaking in general.

I've been on this list for several months now. I joined for all the
reasons people usually join a mailing list; To make contacts with others
that have similar interests to learn from these other people, and
hopefully to eventually contribute something of substance to the group.

For the first week or so after I joined the list, I started learning the
players, and learning a bit more about meteorites. After about a week,
someone posted a message about some material they had to offer. Another
person asked what it was and whoo classified it. The first person
answered the questions. Simple, clear and exactly as one would expect.
Both were reasonable and courteous to the other. As a new collector who
knew only a few people in the field, this interaction was exactly what I
wanted to see.

Since the meteorite market is so thin and a lot of it is based on
faith, faith that what is being offered is exactly what is being
represented. It is important to me that the people I interact with, and
purchase from, act professionally at all times. I have to have faith in
this person. I have to trust them. This goes for the full time dealer as
well as the vest pocket dealer who sells to improve his or her
personal collection...

I have purchased from both of these people, one of them has provided me
with a large percentage of my collection purchases since then. I won't
hesitate buying from either one...

Having a good reputation is important to me. Being professional is too.

What shocked me, as a new member was how many other people jumped in,
making wild accusations, going off on tangents, much of which was not
even remotely related to the original post, the question, or the reply.
It was an eye opening event for me. A number of people who sell lost any
chance to get my business.

Since then there have been multiple flare ups, which has further reduced
the pool of sellers I will do business with. Those I have lost faith in;
Those who I can't trust.

I wonder how many people lurk on this list and pay close attention to
who acts like a professional at all times and who does not. I have no
doubt there are others like me who will not do business with anyone who
does not present a professional demeanor most or all of the time. (We
all have our moments)

Of course people who don't sell don't really care about this, but that
shouldn't be an excuse. The Golden Rule should apply...

Some of the people on this list are also on the list I have run for over
a decade, the Minor Planet Mailing List. That list has over 1200
subscribers and has a great mix of both professional and amateur
astronomers with the common interest in asteroids and comets. I run the
list with a very light hand. Scientific discussion and debate are
welcome and encouraged, but one of the things that will get you
moderated or banned is personal attacks.

One of the worst things that can happen to any mailing list is unbridled
flames wars. I recently read here that this list was filled with
scientists in the field of meteoritics, but now most have gone.
Apparently previous flames caused them to leave. Thats a sad comment.

I am in no way telling this list's owner how to run the list, but we
have found that this policy works extremely well on MPML.

Those who do make personal attacks rarely contribute anything of
substance to the list, so losing them is not much of a loss...

Please keep the great information coming. It is what makes being a
member of this list worth while.

Please reconsider your posts before hitting the send button if there is
no useful information in your message...

Sorry for the length of this email.
Thanks for letting me comment.

--
Richard Kowalski
http://fullmoonphotography.net
IMCA

Re: [meteorite-list] Met List Flame Wars

2009-08-20 Thread Sterling K. Webb

Peter Davidson said:

like the UK, I am sure that the laws of libel in the US...


   The Laws of Libel in the U.S. and the U.K. are as unlike
as any laws bearing a similar name could be. U.K. Libel
Law is a unique construction of the very concept of Libel
as it is conceived of in the U.S and much of the rest of the
world. Some would say U.K. Libel Law is an unique
perversion of the concept. All despite the fact that U.S.
and U.K. grow from the same root stock.

   However, I cannot explain why in an email sent to the
U.K. for fear of U.K. Libel Law. Neither can I state that a
U.K. chiropractor cannot cure you of leukemia by twiddling
with your vertebrae. I can't speak on that issue -- sorry.

   It was recently ruled in the U.K. that defamatory postings
on a message board (and presumably, a mailing list like this)
are slander, not libel, akin to casual conversation in a bar,
much less likely to be actionable.
http://www.urban75.org/info/libel.html

   One could conceivably defend one's self by the evidence
that many on this board were intoxicated by eating quantities
of extraterrestrial matter, for example. Worth a try. It does
sound at times like the posters are three sails to the wind.

   More of the wonders of U.K. Libel Law:

http://www.citmedialaw.org/blog/2009/warning-uk-libel-law-may-be-hazardous-your-health

http://www.thelegalweek.merseyblogs.co.uk/2008/10/blog_uk_libel_law_v_freedom_of.html\

http://www.englishpen.org/aboutenglishpen/campaigns/reformingthelibellaws/

and quickly, before the Law Lords shut down the Internet:
http://www.guardian.co.uk/technology/2006/aug/31/news.politicsandthemedia

   As for the appearance -- got to be careful not to libel
anybody here -- that some of us are allowing our passions
to get in the way of our reasoning? It will take more any
Libel Law to stop that. Just sit back and enjoy it. Order
another Martian Cocktail.


Sterling K. Webb
---
- Original Message - 
From: Peter Davidson p.david...@nms.ac.uk

To: meteorite-list@meteoritecentral.com
Sent: Thursday, August 20, 2009 2:58 AM
Subject: Re: [meteorite-list] Met List Flame Wars



Richard and Other

Like you, I am a relative newcomer to this list. Like you in the short
time I have been a member, I have been shocked at some of the language
and accusations being flung around. I can already hear some list 
members

saying, Well! If you can't stand the heat, stay out of the kitchen.
Nevertheless, like the UK, I am sure that the laws of libel in the US
apply to e-mail as well as other forms of written communication. I 
know
that everyone on the list is passionate about meteorites, otherwise 
why
are we here, but some of us are allowing our passions to get in the 
way

of our reasoning. We are all grown-ups, so let's act like them.

Peter Davidson
Curator of Minerals
Department of Natural Sciences
National Museums Scotland
National Museums Collection Centre
242 West Granton Road
EDINBURGH
EH5 1JA
Scotland
Tel: 00 44 131 247 4283
E-mail: p.david...@nms.ac.uk
-Original Message-
From: meteorite-list-boun...@meteoritecentral.com
[mailto:meteorite-list-boun...@meteoritecentral.com] On Behalf Of
Richard Kowalski
Sent: 19 August 2009 19:25
To: meteorite list
Subject: [meteorite-list] Met List Flame Wars

I hope that this email doesn't offend anyone. I mention two particular
people who I won't name, but for the most part I am speaking in 
general.


I've been on this list for several months now. I joined for all the
reasons people usually join a mailing list; To make contacts with 
others

that have similar interests to learn from these other people, and
hopefully to eventually contribute something of substance to the 
group.


For the first week or so after I joined the list, I started learning 
the

players, and learning a bit more about meteorites. After about a week,
someone posted a message about some material they had to offer. 
Another

person asked what it was and whoo classified it. The first person
answered the questions. Simple, clear and exactly as one would expect.
Both were reasonable and courteous to the other. As a new collector 
who
knew only a few people in the field, this interaction was exactly what 
I

wanted to see.

Since the meteorite market is so thin and a lot of it is based on
faith, faith that what is being offered is exactly what is being
represented. It is important to me that the people I interact with, 
and
purchase from, act professionally at all times. I have to have faith 
in
this person. I have to trust them. This goes for the full time dealer 
as

well as the vest pocket dealer who sells to improve his or her
personal collection...

I have purchased from both of these people, one of them has provided 
me

with a large percentage of my collection purchases since then. I won't
hesitate buying from either one...

Having a good reputation is important to me. Being professional is 
too.


What shocked

[meteorite-list] Met List Flame Wars

2009-08-19 Thread Richard Kowalski
I hope that this email doesn't offend anyone. I mention two particular people 
who I won't name, but for the most part I am speaking in general.

I've been on this list for several months now. I joined for all the reasons 
people usually join a mailing list; To make contacts with others that have 
similar interests to learn from these other people, and hopefully to eventually 
contribute something of substance to the group.

For the first week or so after I joined the list, I started learning the 
players, and learning a bit more about meteorites. After about a week, someone 
posted a message about some material they had to offer. Another person asked 
what it was and whoo classified it. The first person answered the questions. 
Simple, clear and exactly as one would expect. Both were reasonable and 
courteous to the other. As a new collector who knew only a few people in the 
field, this interaction was exactly what I wanted to see.

Since the meteorite market is so thin and a lot of it is based on faith, 
faith that what is being offered is exactly what is being represented. It is 
important to me that the people I interact with, and purchase from, act 
professionally at all times. I have to have faith in this person. I have to 
trust them. This goes for the full time dealer as well as the vest pocket 
dealer who sells to improve his or her personal collection...

I have purchased from both of these people, one of them has provided me with a 
large percentage of my collection purchases since then. I won't hesitate buying 
from either one...

Having a good reputation is important to me. Being professional is too.

What shocked me, as a new member was how many other people jumped in, making 
wild accusations, going off on tangents, much of which was not even remotely 
related to the original post, the question, or the reply. It was an eye opening 
event for me. A number of people who sell lost any chance to get my business.

Since then there have been multiple flare ups, which has further reduced the 
pool of sellers I will do business with. Those I have lost faith in; Those who 
I can't trust.

I wonder how many people lurk on this list and pay close attention to who acts 
like a professional at all times and who does not. I have no doubt there are 
others like me who will not do business with anyone who does not present a 
professional demeanor most or all of the time. (We all have our moments)

Of course people who don't sell don't really care about this, but that 
shouldn't be an excuse. The Golden Rule should apply...

Some of the people on this list are also on the list I have run for over a 
decade, the Minor Planet Mailing List. That list has over 1200 subscribers and 
has a great mix of both professional and amateur astronomers with the common 
interest in asteroids and comets. I run the list with a very light hand. 
Scientific discussion and debate are welcome and encouraged, but one of the 
things that will get you moderated or banned is personal attacks.

One of the worst things that can happen to any mailing list is unbridled flames 
wars. I recently read here that this list was filled with scientists in the 
field of meteoritics, but now most have gone. Apparently previous flames caused 
them to leave. Thats a sad comment.

I am in no way telling this list's owner how to run the list, but we have found 
that this policy works extremely well on MPML.

Those who do make personal attacks rarely contribute anything of substance to 
the list, so losing them is not much of a loss...

Please keep the great information coming. It is what makes being a member of 
this list worth while.

Please reconsider your posts before hitting the send button if there is no 
useful information in your message...

Sorry for the length of this email.
Thanks for letting me comment.

--
Richard Kowalski
http://fullmoonphotography.net
IMCA #1081


  
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Re: [meteorite-list] Met List Flame Wars

2009-08-19 Thread Mike Hankey
Amen brother.

 I wonder how many people lurk on this list and pay close attention to who 
 acts like a professional at all times and who does not. I have no doubt there 
 are others like me who will not do business with anyone who does not present 
 a professional demeanor most or all of the time. (We all have our moments)

I can not agree more with this statement. As a new comer to this I was
horrified and embarrassed by the content of a lot of the messages that
came across it. Unfortunately, this list was my first impression of
the meteorite community and while I have met some very amazing and
brilliant people through this list, the conduct and arrogance from the
bad apples has left a bad taste in my mouth regarding this community
as a whole. The simple fact that the largest thread on this list since
I've been on here was titled Who is the best meteorite hunter in the
world, speaks volumes.

A problem I have witnessed in many industries over many years is that
really smart people sometimes get a little full of themselves (because
they are so smart). The first job I had out of college was for the
Credit Card company Visa. There were 100s of brilliant software
engineers that worked in my office. Sometimes they were too smart for
anyone else, so smart they were often blind to things that were right
in front of their face (like the internet becoming the power house of
e-commerce (job was in 94). I remember my boss saying to these guys in
a meeting once, when they were acting like arrogant fools: we aren't
curing cancer here guys. get a grip.

I will be spending 10s of thousands of dollars on meteorites in the
next year. 100s of thousands of dollars on meteorites over the next 5
years (yes I'm totally hooked on these things). I will absolutely
never buy anything from anyone who has acted out or been a prick on
this list. Before I make a purchase I search the meteorite list
archives for the seller, and if they are a jerk I look else where.

Being nice is good for business.

Sincerely,

Mike Hankey
http://www.mikesastrophotos.com


On Wed, Aug 19, 2009 at 2:24 PM, Richard Kowalskidamoc...@yahoo.com wrote:
 I hope that this email doesn't offend anyone. I mention two particular people 
 who I won't name, but for the most part I am speaking in general.

 I've been on this list for several months now. I joined for all the reasons 
 people usually join a mailing list; To make contacts with others that have 
 similar interests to learn from these other people, and hopefully to 
 eventually contribute something of substance to the group.

 For the first week or so after I joined the list, I started learning the 
 players, and learning a bit more about meteorites. After about a week, 
 someone posted a message about some material they had to offer. Another 
 person asked what it was and whoo classified it. The first person answered 
 the questions. Simple, clear and exactly as one would expect. Both were 
 reasonable and courteous to the other. As a new collector who knew only a few 
 people in the field, this interaction was exactly what I wanted to see.

 Since the meteorite market is so thin and a lot of it is based on faith, 
 faith that what is being offered is exactly what is being represented. It is 
 important to me that the people I interact with, and purchase from, act 
 professionally at all times. I have to have faith in this person. I have to 
 trust them. This goes for the full time dealer as well as the vest pocket 
 dealer who sells to improve his or her personal collection...

 I have purchased from both of these people, one of them has provided me with 
 a large percentage of my collection purchases since then. I won't hesitate 
 buying from either one...

 Having a good reputation is important to me. Being professional is too.

 What shocked me, as a new member was how many other people jumped in, making 
 wild accusations, going off on tangents, much of which was not even remotely 
 related to the original post, the question, or the reply. It was an eye 
 opening event for me. A number of people who sell lost any chance to get my 
 business.

 Since then there have been multiple flare ups, which has further reduced the 
 pool of sellers I will do business with. Those I have lost faith in; Those 
 who I can't trust.

 I wonder how many people lurk on this list and pay close attention to who 
 acts like a professional at all times and who does not. I have no doubt there 
 are others like me who will not do business with anyone who does not present 
 a professional demeanor most or all of the time. (We all have our moments)

 Of course people who don't sell don't really care about this, but that 
 shouldn't be an excuse. The Golden Rule should apply...

 Some of the people on this list are also on the list I have run for over a 
 decade, the Minor Planet Mailing List. That list has over 1200 subscribers 
 and has a great mix of both professional and amateur astronomers with the 
 common interest in 

Re: [meteorite-list] Met List Flame Wars

2009-08-19 Thread gracie

 I wonder how many people lurk on this list and pay close attention to who
 acts like a professional at all times and who does not. I have no doubt
 there are others like me who will not do business with anyone who does not
 present a professional demeanor most or all of the time. (We all have our
 moments)

Count me in as a new lurker and cautious buyer for these very reasons
(Perhaps for every one who speaks up, there are a dozen who remain
silent.) For other newcomers like me who are baffled by the  petty
bickering, I highly recommend the archives. There is a tremendous amount
of great information and history out there!

Gracie

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Re: [meteorite-list] Met List Flame Wars

2009-08-19 Thread GREG LINDH


Hi Mike,
 
  I too am fairly new to the meteorite scene.  I've been collecting for about 3 
years.  I second all that you wrote and say a hearty Amen to it.
  I'm not in the same financial position that you apparently are or I would 
also buy hundreds of thousands worth of meteorites.  Must be nice.
  Anyway, I hope that you stick to your guns and buy from the good guys.  They 
deserve it.
  Welcome to the community.
 
 
  Greg Lindh
 
 
 
 
 Date: Wed, 19 Aug 2009 15:51:05 -0400
 From: mike.han...@gmail.com
 To: damoc...@yahoo.com
 CC: meteorite-list@meteoritecentral.com
 Subject: Re: [meteorite-list] Met List Flame Wars
 
 Amen brother.
 
 I wonder how many people lurk on this list and pay close attention to who 
 acts like a professional at all times and who does not. I have no doubt 
 there are others like me who will not do business with anyone who does not 
 present a professional demeanor most or all of the time. (We all have our 
 moments)
 
 I can not agree more with this statement. As a new comer to this I was
 horrified and embarrassed by the content of a lot of the messages that
 came across it. Unfortunately, this list was my first impression of
 the meteorite community and while I have met some very amazing and
 brilliant people through this list, the conduct and arrogance from the
 bad apples has left a bad taste in my mouth regarding this community
 as a whole. The simple fact that the largest thread on this list since
 I've been on here was titled Who is the best meteorite hunter in the
 world, speaks volumes.
 
 A problem I have witnessed in many industries over many years is that
 really smart people sometimes get a little full of themselves (because
 they are so smart). The first job I had out of college was for the
 Credit Card company Visa. There were 100s of brilliant software
 engineers that worked in my office. Sometimes they were too smart for
 anyone else, so smart they were often blind to things that were right
 in front of their face (like the internet becoming the power house of
 e-commerce (job was in 94). I remember my boss saying to these guys in
 a meeting once, when they were acting like arrogant fools: we aren't
 curing cancer here guys. get a grip.
 
 I will be spending 10s of thousands of dollars on meteorites in the
 next year. 100s of thousands of dollars on meteorites over the next 5
 years (yes I'm totally hooked on these things). I will absolutely
 never buy anything from anyone who has acted out or been a prick on
 this list. Before I make a purchase I search the meteorite list
 archives for the seller, and if they are a jerk I look else where.
 
 Being nice is good for business.
 
 Sincerely,
 
 Mike Hankey
 http://www.mikesastrophotos.com
 
 
 On Wed, Aug 19, 2009 at 2:24 PM, Richard Kowalski wrote:
 I hope that this email doesn't offend anyone. I mention two particular 
 people who I won't name, but for the most part I am speaking in general.

 I've been on this list for several months now. I joined for all the reasons 
 people usually join a mailing list; To make contacts with others that have 
 similar interests to learn from these other people, and hopefully to 
 eventually contribute something of substance to the group.

 For the first week or so after I joined the list, I started learning the 
 players, and learning a bit more about meteorites. After about a week, 
 someone posted a message about some material they had to offer. Another 
 person asked what it was and whoo classified it. The first person answered 
 the questions. Simple, clear and exactly as one would expect. Both were 
 reasonable and courteous to the other. As a new collector who knew only a 
 few people in the field, this interaction was exactly what I wanted to see.

 Since the meteorite market is so thin and a lot of it is based on faith, 
 faith that what is being offered is exactly what is being represented. It is 
 important to me that the people I interact with, and purchase from, act 
 professionally at all times. I have to have faith in this person. I have to 
 trust them. This goes for the full time dealer as well as the vest pocket 
 dealer who sells to improve his or her personal collection...

 I have purchased from both of these people, one of them has provided me with 
 a large percentage of my collection purchases since then. I won't hesitate 
 buying from either one...

 Having a good reputation is important to me. Being professional is too.

 What shocked me, as a new member was how many other people jumped in, making 
 wild accusations, going off on tangents, much of which was not even remotely 
 related to the original post, the question, or the reply. It was an eye 
 opening event for me. A number of people who sell lost any chance to get my 
 business.

 Since then there have been multiple flare ups, which has further reduced the 
 pool of sellers I will do business with. Those I have lost faith in; Those 
 who I can't trust.

 I wonder how many people lurk