Re: [osg-users] Appeal for use of human names

2008-03-25 Thread Robert Osfield
Hi Rizzen,

>  Rizzen is far from my real name. It is a random generated fictional name.
>
>  >From past replies to my posts on this mailing list, Robert has had no
>  problems referring to me as Rizzen, showing that even fictional names do
>  work. :)

Yes, the key is *use* you psuedo name in place of true name, rather
than just not using a name at all.

The real problem is posts that address no one, and have no signature,
where there is absolutely no indication how one is addressed.  Its
rude communitcation that all too easily can stem from hiding behind
anonymity.

Polite discussions go like this:

Hi X,

Some text

Post from X:
> Some other points

Regards,
Z

Drop the address and your have:

Some text:

> Some other point

Now which of these is likely to be taken the wrong way, and to lead to
deterioration in communications?  This is basics of human
communication.

Personally I find anonymity a slippery slow, its communication that
from the outset is based on one party being deceitful.
As Nicolas pointed out, anonymity can be used to avoid accountability,
which in turn can all too easily lead to peoples conduct dropping.

As someone who's working life is very entwined with the osg-users
community I am very exposed this conduct dropping.  Sadly poor conduct
in one poster can then rub off on to others, and all too soon its a
rabble and thoroughly unpleasant place for everybody to hang out.   As
project lead and mailing list administrator its my role to try and
sheppard things in a better direction.  This does occasionally mean
calling out behaviour which I feel is not acceptable to myself and
others.

Robert.
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Re: [osg-users] Appeal for use of human names

2008-03-25 Thread Rizzen
I have read all the posts on this interesting topic.

Both sides has valid reasons for using actual names and for nicknames. I
believe a simple compromise can exist that should make everyone happy,
even for Robert. If a person wishes for his/her identity to be unknown
on the mailing list or forums, then that right should be honoured. Yet
to be respectful of other users, visitors, contributors, etc, the person
should choose a simple suitable false name. It may be another real name
or completely fictional, as long as it is not leetspeek (stupid
nicknames with digits and punctuation amongst the letters), or
combination of everyday words, example Night Hawk that me have here.

Though personally I have no problems with Night Hawk, for I am one of
those people that honours a person's request to be referred by the
person's nickname (their own choice or given by another) rather than
their actual name.

Rizzen is far from my real name. It is a random generated fictional name.

>From past replies to my posts on this mailing list, Robert has had no
problems referring to me as Rizzen, showing that even fictional names do
work. :)

Rizzen
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Re: [osg-users] Appeal for use of human names

2008-03-24 Thread nicolas peña
Hi All,
I have been reading this conversation and others mails and I think that
the "cool names" are not the real problem but is easy to see that the
users who are rude and write in a very impolite way usually hide behind
"cool names". So after a long day of work when you have to answer a
couple of insulting "I FOUND A BUG!" mails from someone called
IceShark, is easy to put the blame on the "cool names"  and write a
mail as the one that started this thread.I think it is not too much to ask
people to sing with a "normal" name or in the case you prefer a cool
one, being extra polite.
I am a 2 meters tall, 115 kilos, ex rugby player. In real life I always
have to be extra polite, smiling to every stranger I came across with
because experience have told me that I need to compensate for my
frightening look. I think that a "cool name" in a mailing list is an
equivalent to my look in real life as its use is very frequent among
those who just want to disturb.

That said call me Nicolas or Mr.another, as you wish ;)

Cheers,

   Nicolas

2008/3/25, Somerville, Andrew <[EMAIL PROTECTED]>:
>
> Colman,
>
>
> "Having said all of this, I meant no disrespect to anyone."
>
>
> I have to say that your email has to have been the most insulting thing
> posted to this list. It certainly seems that you did mean disrespect.
>
> Anyone can disagree civilly, but to start throwing what amount to insults
> around is a bit much. Why don't we take this back down a notch?
>
>  Andy
>
>
> P.s. Robert can be cranky when he is busy, but I have yet to see anyone
> turn down his help.
>
>
>
> -Original Message-----
> From: [EMAIL PROTECTED] on behalf of Night Hawk
>
> Sent: Mon 3/24/2008 5:52 PM
> To: OpenSceneGraph Users
> Subject: Re: [osg-users] Appeal for use of human names
>
>
> Well Robert,
>
>   Why don't you make it straight - " This is My list and things should
> go My way".
>
> At least thats the feeling you seem to be having when you said this:
> "Otherwise I will just start ignoring posts. Then you don't get
> the
> support your want"
>
> Thats either a broad assumption or miscalculation or at least
> disrespect for others who might be willing to help.
>
> What ever it is, you are making this a very bad experience for users
> by stipulating "if you want help, you have to do this".
>
> It reminds me only one word, "Monopoly".
>
> As for others like Andy and Gordon who are thinking "lets trade our
> personality to Robert because he is helping us" - I have only this to
> say - Save your self-respect guys. If he doesn't help - there would be
> no one for him to help to. You need to understand this.
>
> As for the cheques - let them ASK it, if they want. Robert, are you
> doing all this for those big cheques that Gordon is talking about ? I
> don't think so. Come on Gordon, Grow up.
>
> Having said all of this, I meant no disrespect to anyone.
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Re: [osg-users] Appeal for use of human names

2008-03-24 Thread Somerville, Andrew
Colman,

"Having said all of this, I meant no disrespect to anyone."

I have to say that your email has to have been the most insulting thing posted 
to this list. It certainly seems that you did mean disrespect.

Anyone can disagree civilly, but to start throwing what amount to insults 
around is a bit much. Why don't we take this back down a notch?

 Andy


P.s. Robert can be cranky when he is busy, but I have yet to see anyone turn 
down his help.


-Original Message-
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Sent: Mon 3/24/2008 5:52 PM
To: OpenSceneGraph Users
Subject: Re: [osg-users] Appeal for use of human names
 
 Well Robert,

 Why don't you make it straight - " This is My list and things should
go My way".

At least thats the feeling you seem to be having when you said this:
"Otherwise I will just start ignoring posts. Then you don't get
the
support your want"

Thats either a broad assumption or miscalculation or at least
disrespect for others who might be willing to help.

What ever it is, you are making this a very bad experience for users
by stipulating "if you want help, you have to do this".

It reminds me only one word, "Monopoly".

As for others like Andy and Gordon who are thinking "lets trade our
personality to Robert because he is helping us" - I have only this to
say - Save your self-respect guys. If he doesn't help - there would be
no one for him to help to. You need to understand this.

As for the cheques - let them ASK it, if they want. Robert, are you
doing all this for those big cheques that Gordon is talking about ? I
don't think so. Come on Gordon, Grow up.

Having said all of this, I meant no disrespect to anyone.

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Re: [osg-users] Appeal for use of human names

2008-03-24 Thread Night Hawk
 Well Robert,

 Why don't you make it straight - " This is My list and things should
go My way".

At least thats the feeling you seem to be having when you said this:
"Otherwise I will just start ignoring posts. Then you don't get
the
support your want"

Thats either a broad assumption or miscalculation or at least
disrespect for others who might be willing to help.

What ever it is, you are making this a very bad experience for users
by stipulating "if you want help, you have to do this".

It reminds me only one word, "Monopoly".

As for others like Andy and Gordon who are thinking "lets trade our
personality to Robert because he is helping us" - I have only this to
say - Save your self-respect guys. If he doesn't help - there would be
no one for him to help to. You need to understand this.

As for the cheques - let them ASK it, if they want. Robert, are you
doing all this for those big cheques that Gordon is talking about ? I
don't think so. Come on Gordon, Grow up.

Having said all of this, I meant no disrespect to anyone.

--

On Tue, Mar 25, 2008 at 2:49 AM, Robert Osfield
<[EMAIL PROTECTED]> wrote:
> On Mon, Mar 24, 2008 at 8:14 PM, Night Hawk
>  <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> wrote:
>  >  Thank you. I don't mean to be rude, but you have the option to
>  >  ignore/not reply the mails you don't feel like answering (or hard to
>  >  find addressing).
>
>  Well ignoring mails that I find rude is an option.  It's not one I
>  want to take, this is why I raise this topic, to fix it.
>
>  Otherwise I will just start ignoring posts. Then you don't get the
>  support your want.
>
>
>  >  So, I think we can take it easy. As I said, people have good reasons
>  >  for things they do.
>
>  People also often don't they are offending people unless its pointed out.
>
>
>
>  >  And also thanks for the others who has chimed-in some good fun in
>  >  previous replies. It was good time reading them, though I won't be
>  >  having much left to spare for any more replies on this topic. As I
>  >  said I don't like debates.
>  >
>  >  PS: By the way, who ever said "Rice" or "Bush" or "Bill" are more
>  >  human names than Night or Hawk :-)
>
>  The point I'm trying to make is that you need to sign your posts, it
>  doesn't matter what you decide, you can't just go adopt a silly name
>  and then think people will be happy to address you by it.
>
>  Now if you want to be addressed by Col, Night, Hawk, make your choice.
>
>  If you don't make a choice, then it'll be a that rude bloke who gets
>  ignored because he can't be bother engaging in basic way that most
>  humans find polite.
>
>
>
>  Robert.
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Re: [osg-users] Appeal for use of human names

2008-03-24 Thread Gordon Tomlinson
 
While I understand you don't consider them co-workers you should at least
see Robert and others as  business associates or service providers and the
next time you want their help perhaps you can send them a large cheque or
money order for their time, services and expertise. 

A lot of folks give up a lot of their precious time for FREE to all of us
and if the largest contributor to the OSG asks for a very simple act of
courtesy then the least we can do is honour this simple request



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-Original Message-
From: [EMAIL PROTECTED]
[mailto:[EMAIL PROTECTED] On Behalf Of Night Hawk
Sent: Monday, March 24, 2008 5:10 PM
To: OpenSceneGraph Users
Subject: Re: [osg-users] Appeal for use of human names

Hello Andy,

When I become a "co-worker" of OSG, I would surely let my real name be
known. Being a user of it I don't have that luxury (at least not on
osg-users list).

Excuse me if it hurts anyone.

With apologies.

---

On Tue, Mar 25, 2008 at 2:30 AM, Somerville, Andrew
<[EMAIL PROTECTED]> wrote:
> Coleman, (Cole?)
>
>  I think the point is that he does have the option of not replying, but
out of professional courtesy he replies anyways. He would much rather
request that others offer professionalism than not reply.
>
>  As the leader of this project he does all of us a service, and has
offered professionalism himself with his level of support to the community.
In return he asks that we be professional as well to make his large
contribution easier.
>
>  I think it is a reasonable request, as I would venture to guess that you
do not require your co-workers to refer to you as Night Hawk. The
implication here is that it is out of respect for your co-workers that this
is the case. On this list we are sort of like co-workers or business
associates and that we might conduct ourselves in that way to claim OSG as a
professional product worthy to be taken seriously by other professional
organizations.
>
>  You can certainly call yourself whatever you may, but you might consider
honoring Robert's request as a token of payment in return for service that
he offers with asking nothing in return but professionalism.
>
>  Andy
>
>
>
>  -Original Message-
>  From: [EMAIL PROTECTED] on behalf of Night 
> Hawk
>  Sent: Mon 3/24/2008 4:14 PM
>  To: OpenSceneGraph Users
>  Subject: Re: [osg-users] Appeal for use of human names
>
>
>
> Robert,
>
>  Thank you. I don't mean to be rude, but you have the option to  
> ignore/not reply the mails you don't feel like answering (or hard to  
> find addressing).
>
>  So, I think we can take it easy. As I said, people have good reasons  
> for things they do.
>
>  Anyway, thanks for expressing your idea about names. People who have  
> read it and has the luxury of following it will surely follow it I  
> believe.
>
>  And also thanks for the others who has chimed-in some good fun in  
> previous replies. It was good time reading them, though I won't be  
> having much left to spare for any more replies on this topic. As I  
> said I don't like debates.
>
>  PS: By the way, who ever said "Rice" or "Bush" or "Bill" are more  
> human names than Night or Hawk :-)
>
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Re: [osg-users] Appeal for use of human names

2008-03-24 Thread Gordon Tomlinson
Well said Andy
 


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-Original Message-
From: [EMAIL PROTECTED]
[mailto:[EMAIL PROTECTED] On Behalf Of Somerville,
Andrew
Sent: Monday, March 24, 2008 5:00 PM
To: OpenSceneGraph Users
Subject: Re: [osg-users] Appeal for use of human names

Coleman, (Cole?)

I think the point is that he does have the option of not replying, but out
of professional courtesy he replies anyways. He would much rather request
that others offer professionalism than not reply.

As the leader of this project he does all of us a service, and has offered
professionalism himself with his level of support to the community. In
return he asks that we be professional as well to make his large
contribution easier.

I think it is a reasonable request, as I would venture to guess that you do
not require your co-workers to refer to you as Night Hawk. The implication
here is that it is out of respect for your co-workers that this is the case.
On this list we are sort of like co-workers or business associates and that
we might conduct ourselves in that way to claim OSG as a professional
product worthy to be taken seriously by other professional organizations.

You can certainly call yourself whatever you may, but you might consider
honoring Robert's request as a token of payment in return for service that
he offers with asking nothing in return but professionalism.

 Andy


-Original Message-
From: [EMAIL PROTECTED] on behalf of Night Hawk
Sent: Mon 3/24/2008 4:14 PM
To: OpenSceneGraph Users
Subject: Re: [osg-users] Appeal for use of human names
 
Robert,

Thank you. I don't mean to be rude, but you have the option to ignore/not
reply the mails you don't feel like answering (or hard to find addressing).

So, I think we can take it easy. As I said, people have good reasons for
things they do.

Anyway, thanks for expressing your idea about names. People who have read it
and has the luxury of following it will surely follow it I believe.

And also thanks for the others who has chimed-in some good fun in previous
replies. It was good time reading them, though I won't be having much left
to spare for any more replies on this topic. As I said I don't like debates.

PS: By the way, who ever said "Rice" or "Bush" or "Bill" are more human
names than Night or Hawk :-)



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Re: [osg-users] Appeal for use of human names

2008-03-24 Thread Robert Osfield
On Mon, Mar 24, 2008 at 8:14 PM, Night Hawk
<[EMAIL PROTECTED]> wrote:
>  Thank you. I don't mean to be rude, but you have the option to
>  ignore/not reply the mails you don't feel like answering (or hard to
>  find addressing).

Well ignoring mails that I find rude is an option.  It's not one I
want to take, this is why I raise this topic, to fix it.

Otherwise I will just start ignoring posts. Then you don't get the
support your want.

>  So, I think we can take it easy. As I said, people have good reasons
>  for things they do.

People also often don't they are offending people unless its pointed out.


>  And also thanks for the others who has chimed-in some good fun in
>  previous replies. It was good time reading them, though I won't be
>  having much left to spare for any more replies on this topic. As I
>  said I don't like debates.
>
>  PS: By the way, who ever said "Rice" or "Bush" or "Bill" are more
>  human names than Night or Hawk :-)

The point I'm trying to make is that you need to sign your posts, it
doesn't matter what you decide, you can't just go adopt a silly name
and then think people will be happy to address you by it.

Now if you want to be addressed by Col, Night, Hawk, make your choice.

If you don't make a choice, then it'll be a that rude bloke who gets
ignored because he can't be bother engaging in basic way that most
humans find polite.

Robert.
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Re: [osg-users] Appeal for use of human names

2008-03-24 Thread Night Hawk
Hello Andy,

When I become a "co-worker" of OSG, I would surely let my real name be
known. Being a user of it I don't have that luxury (at least not on
osg-users list).

Excuse me if it hurts anyone.

With apologies.

---

On Tue, Mar 25, 2008 at 2:30 AM, Somerville, Andrew
<[EMAIL PROTECTED]> wrote:
> Coleman, (Cole?)
>
>  I think the point is that he does have the option of not replying, but out 
> of professional courtesy he replies anyways. He would much rather request 
> that others offer professionalism than not reply.
>
>  As the leader of this project he does all of us a service, and has offered 
> professionalism himself with his level of support to the community. In return 
> he asks that we be professional as well to make his large contribution easier.
>
>  I think it is a reasonable request, as I would venture to guess that you do 
> not require your co-workers to refer to you as Night Hawk. The implication 
> here is that it is out of respect for your co-workers that this is the case. 
> On this list we are sort of like co-workers or business associates and that 
> we might conduct ourselves in that way to claim OSG as a professional product 
> worthy to be taken seriously by other professional organizations.
>
>  You can certainly call yourself whatever you may, but you might consider 
> honoring Robert's request as a token of payment in return for service that he 
> offers with asking nothing in return but professionalism.
>
>  Andy
>
>
>
>  -Original Message-
>  From: [EMAIL PROTECTED] on behalf of Night Hawk
>  Sent: Mon 3/24/2008 4:14 PM
>  To: OpenSceneGraph Users
>  Subject: Re: [osg-users] Appeal for use of human names
>
>
>
> Robert,
>
>  Thank you. I don't mean to be rude, but you have the option to
>  ignore/not reply the mails you don't feel like answering (or hard to
>  find addressing).
>
>  So, I think we can take it easy. As I said, people have good reasons
>  for things they do.
>
>  Anyway, thanks for expressing your idea about names. People who have
>  read it and has the luxury of following it will surely follow it I
>  believe.
>
>  And also thanks for the others who has chimed-in some good fun in
>  previous replies. It was good time reading them, though I won't be
>  having much left to spare for any more replies on this topic. As I
>  said I don't like debates.
>
>  PS: By the way, who ever said "Rice" or "Bush" or "Bill" are more
>  human names than Night or Hawk :-)
>
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Re: [osg-users] Appeal for use of human names

2008-03-24 Thread Robert Osfield
Hi Lief,

The point is *I* find it obnoxious.

I have to handle shuldder more support than anyone else in this
community.  I serve this role primarily out of goodwill. I'm not some
automaton.  I am human being that enjoys communication with follow
human being, but it's only enjoyable when its done on an equitable
basis.

If people want anonymity then that's OK, but you still have to engage
in a way that is sensible and respectful.  If you are going to make up
a handle or name then use it in the way you wish to be addressed, so
others know at least who is saying what and who to address.

If you follow the list closely you'll occasional see me ask for
clarification with some names that I lack the experience to know how
to guess at how to address at some one.  This is out of respect - I
want to show due respect.  I know I occassionaly get things wrong, and
aware that this could be offensive to some, I understand this and
don't take this likely.

This is two way process, and some people make it much harder, which is
why I bring up this topic.  I'm fed up with having to second guess
what on earth to make of some of this obtuse, childish handles.

Robert.


On Mon, Mar 24, 2008 at 8:47 PM, Leif Delgass <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> wrote:
> On Mon, Mar 24, 2008 at 1:45 PM, Robert Osfield
>
> <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> wrote:
>
>
> > Hi All,
>  >
>  >  It might be a undersirable character trait in myself but I find it
>  >  unpleasant trying to hold email conversations with posters who don't
>  >  use a proper name.  I can't help myself, I find it immature at best,
>  >  and my own personal reaction is the word "Twat" jumps in my head every
>  >  time I see an email with sad attempt at a "cool" name and no actual
>  >  proper name signed.  Perhaps you might think it gives you a bit more
>  >  street cred, but in reality it just does the exact opposite.
>  >
>  >  So please, please make the effort, being curtious and honest is part
>  >  of what makes a community like this healthy and vibrant. Sign your
>  >  name, even if it's just your first name.
>  >
>  >  Robert Osfield
>
>  Robert,
>
>  I respectfully disagree.  I can understand why you would want to know
>  the real name of code contributors, but what is the harm in respecting
>  users' desire for anonymity in casual exchanges on the list?  There
>  are plenty of reasons to be cautious about revealing personal
>  information (even a first name) on a public mailing list.  This is
>  under the IRC section of the netiquette RFC, but I think it is
>  relevant here:
>
> - Don't badger other users for personal information such as sex, age,
>   or location.  After you have built an acquaintance with another user,
>   these questions may be more appropriate, but many people
>   hesitate to give this information to people with whom they are
>   not familiar.
>
> - If a user is using a nickname alias or pseudonym, respect that
>   user's desire for anonymity.  Even if you and that person are
>   close friends, it is more courteous to use his nickname.  Do
>   not use that person's real name online without permission.
>
>  http://www.faqs.org/rfcs/rfc1855.html
>
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Re: [osg-users] Appeal for use of human names

2008-03-24 Thread Somerville, Andrew
Coleman, (Cole?)

I think the point is that he does have the option of not replying, but out of 
professional courtesy he replies anyways. He would much rather request that 
others offer professionalism than not reply.

As the leader of this project he does all of us a service, and has offered 
professionalism himself with his level of support to the community. In return 
he asks that we be professional as well to make his large contribution easier.

I think it is a reasonable request, as I would venture to guess that you do not 
require your co-workers to refer to you as Night Hawk. The implication here is 
that it is out of respect for your co-workers that this is the case. On this 
list we are sort of like co-workers or business associates and that we might 
conduct ourselves in that way to claim OSG as a professional product worthy to 
be taken seriously by other professional organizations.

You can certainly call yourself whatever you may, but you might consider 
honoring Robert's request as a token of payment in return for service that he 
offers with asking nothing in return but professionalism.

 Andy


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Sent: Mon 3/24/2008 4:14 PM
To: OpenSceneGraph Users
Subject: Re: [osg-users] Appeal for use of human names
 
Robert,

Thank you. I don't mean to be rude, but you have the option to
ignore/not reply the mails you don't feel like answering (or hard to
find addressing).

So, I think we can take it easy. As I said, people have good reasons
for things they do.

Anyway, thanks for expressing your idea about names. People who have
read it and has the luxury of following it will surely follow it I
believe.

And also thanks for the others who has chimed-in some good fun in
previous replies. It was good time reading them, though I won't be
having much left to spare for any more replies on this topic. As I
said I don't like debates.

PS: By the way, who ever said "Rice" or "Bush" or "Bill" are more
human names than Night or Hawk :-)

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Re: [osg-users] Appeal for use of human names

2008-03-24 Thread Leif Delgass
On Mon, Mar 24, 2008 at 1:45 PM, Robert Osfield
<[EMAIL PROTECTED]> wrote:
> Hi All,
>
>  It might be a undersirable character trait in myself but I find it
>  unpleasant trying to hold email conversations with posters who don't
>  use a proper name.  I can't help myself, I find it immature at best,
>  and my own personal reaction is the word "Twat" jumps in my head every
>  time I see an email with sad attempt at a "cool" name and no actual
>  proper name signed.  Perhaps you might think it gives you a bit more
>  street cred, but in reality it just does the exact opposite.
>
>  So please, please make the effort, being curtious and honest is part
>  of what makes a community like this healthy and vibrant. Sign your
>  name, even if it's just your first name.
>
>  Robert Osfield

Robert,

I respectfully disagree.  I can understand why you would want to know
the real name of code contributors, but what is the harm in respecting
users' desire for anonymity in casual exchanges on the list?  There
are plenty of reasons to be cautious about revealing personal
information (even a first name) on a public mailing list.  This is
under the IRC section of the netiquette RFC, but I think it is
relevant here:

- Don't badger other users for personal information such as sex, age,
  or location.  After you have built an acquaintance with another user,
  these questions may be more appropriate, but many people
  hesitate to give this information to people with whom they are
  not familiar.

- If a user is using a nickname alias or pseudonym, respect that
  user's desire for anonymity.  Even if you and that person are
  close friends, it is more courteous to use his nickname.  Do
  not use that person's real name online without permission.

http://www.faqs.org/rfcs/rfc1855.html

Regards,

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Re: [osg-users] Appeal for use of human names

2008-03-24 Thread Night Hawk
Robert,

Thank you. I don't mean to be rude, but you have the option to
ignore/not reply the mails you don't feel like answering (or hard to
find addressing).

So, I think we can take it easy. As I said, people have good reasons
for things they do.

Anyway, thanks for expressing your idea about names. People who have
read it and has the luxury of following it will surely follow it I
believe.

And also thanks for the others who has chimed-in some good fun in
previous replies. It was good time reading them, though I won't be
having much left to spare for any more replies on this topic. As I
said I don't like debates.

PS: By the way, who ever said "Rice" or "Bush" or "Bill" are more
human names than Night or Hawk :-)


On Tue, Mar 25, 2008 at 1:25 AM, Robert Osfield
<[EMAIL PROTECTED]> wrote:
> Hi Coleman,
>
>
>  On Mon, Mar 24, 2008 at 6:39 PM, Night Hawk
>  <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> wrote:
>  >  I can understand your point and don't want to start a debate on it,
>  >  but just want to say that those who use the "cool names" has a good
>  >  reason for doing so (at-least some, if not all, of us). More
>  >  professional reasons than a just "cool name" attempt.
>
>  A professional reason for not showing common curtesy?
>
>  As I said a first name is perfectly fine, but no name at all is not,
>  its just disrespectful.  I'm sure I'm not the only one who feels this
>  way.
>
>  I personally have to exchange emails with dozens of people each day, I
>  try to be polite and helpful.  I also have to jump between many
>  different threads and this requires one to attach different bits of
>  information/discussion to different people.  This is hard trick to do
>  already, but made much harder when people don't even use standard
>  curtesy of providing a proper name to address them by.
>
>  So... in my book not providing at least a first name is both rude and
>  awkward, and thoroughly unprofessional.
>
>  Robert.
>
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Re: [osg-users] Appeal for use of human names

2008-03-24 Thread Robert Osfield
Hi Coleman,

On Mon, Mar 24, 2008 at 6:39 PM, Night Hawk
<[EMAIL PROTECTED]> wrote:
>  I can understand your point and don't want to start a debate on it,
>  but just want to say that those who use the "cool names" has a good
>  reason for doing so (at-least some, if not all, of us). More
>  professional reasons than a just "cool name" attempt.

A professional reason for not showing common curtesy?

As I said a first name is perfectly fine, but no name at all is not,
its just disrespectful.  I'm sure I'm not the only one who feels this
way.

I personally have to exchange emails with dozens of people each day, I
try to be polite and helpful.  I also have to jump between many
different threads and this requires one to attach different bits of
information/discussion to different people.  This is hard trick to do
already, but made much harder when people don't even use standard
curtesy of providing a proper name to address them by.

So... in my book not providing at least a first name is both rude and
awkward, and thoroughly unprofessional.

Robert.
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Re: [osg-users] Appeal for use of human names

2008-03-24 Thread Paul Martz
> Paul Martz = osgOracle

Crap! I was hoping my new name could be "GrfX XcelR8R d00d" :-)
   -Paul

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Re: [osg-users] Appeal for use of human names

2008-03-24 Thread Gordon Tomlinson
Mew= osgStud
Robert = osgPro 
Paul Martz = osgOracle

Your friend

osgTwat77


Sorry could not resist :)



-Original Message-
From: [EMAIL PROTECTED]
[mailto:[EMAIL PROTECTED] On Behalf Of Night Hawk
Sent: Monday, March 24, 2008 2:39 PM
To: OpenSceneGraph Users
Subject: Re: [osg-users] Appeal for use of human names

Hi Robert,

I can understand your point and don't want to start a debate on it, but just
want to say that those who use the "cool names" has a good reason for doing
so (at-least some, if not all, of us). More professional reasons than a just
"cool name" attempt.

Expecting cooperation. Can't say more.

Thanks.


On Mon, Mar 24, 2008 at 11:15 PM, Robert Osfield <[EMAIL PROTECTED]>
wrote:
> Hi All,
>
>  It might be a undersirable character trait in myself but I find it  
> unpleasant trying to hold email conversations with posters who don't  
> use a proper name.  I can't help myself, I find it immature at best,  
> and my own personal reaction is the word "Twat" jumps in my head every  
> time I see an email with sad attempt at a "cool" name and no actual  
> proper name signed.  Perhaps you might think it gives you a bit more  
> street cred, but in reality it just does the exact opposite.
>
>  So please, please make the effort, being curtious and honest is part  
> of what makes a community like this healthy and vibrant. Sign your  
> name, even if it's just your first name.
>
>  Robert Osfield
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Re: [osg-users] Appeal for use of human names

2008-03-24 Thread Night Hawk
Hi Robert,

I can understand your point and don't want to start a debate on it,
but just want to say that those who use the "cool names" has a good
reason for doing so (at-least some, if not all, of us). More
professional reasons than a just "cool name" attempt.

Expecting cooperation. Can't say more.

Thanks.


On Mon, Mar 24, 2008 at 11:15 PM, Robert Osfield
<[EMAIL PROTECTED]> wrote:
> Hi All,
>
>  It might be a undersirable character trait in myself but I find it
>  unpleasant trying to hold email conversations with posters who don't
>  use a proper name.  I can't help myself, I find it immature at best,
>  and my own personal reaction is the word "Twat" jumps in my head every
>  time I see an email with sad attempt at a "cool" name and no actual
>  proper name signed.  Perhaps you might think it gives you a bit more
>  street cred, but in reality it just does the exact opposite.
>
>  So please, please make the effort, being curtious and honest is part
>  of what makes a community like this healthy and vibrant. Sign your
>  name, even if it's just your first name.
>
>  Robert Osfield
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[osg-users] Appeal for use of human names

2008-03-24 Thread Robert Osfield
Hi All,

It might be a undersirable character trait in myself but I find it
unpleasant trying to hold email conversations with posters who don't
use a proper name.  I can't help myself, I find it immature at best,
and my own personal reaction is the word "Twat" jumps in my head every
time I see an email with sad attempt at a "cool" name and no actual
proper name signed.  Perhaps you might think it gives you a bit more
street cred, but in reality it just does the exact opposite.

So please, please make the effort, being curtious and honest is part
of what makes a community like this healthy and vibrant. Sign your
name, even if it's just your first name.

Robert Osfield
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