[OSList] Chris Weaver

2017-09-22 Thread Raffi Aftandelian via OSList
Friends, ´I, too, am sharing in this shock and sadness on the news of Chris´ 
death. 
I had the good fortune of being with him at two Genuine Contact workshops 
(maybe more), in 2004 and in 2014, if I´m not mistaken, in North Carolina. His 
warmth, gentleness, humor, and wisdom touched me deeply, as did his smile and 
laugh. 
I was inspired by his work as an educator.
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[OSList] Hilton Foundation Accepting Nominations for Humanitarian Prize

2017-09-16 Thread Raffi Aftandelian via OSList
friends,perhaps you have someone in mind???



 
Hilton Foundation Accepting Nominations for Humanitarian Prize
SEPTEMBER 12, 2017Deadline: October 18, 2017
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 The Conrad N. Hilton Foundation is accepting applications for the 2018 Conrad 
N. Hilton Humanitarian Prize, the largest humanitarian award in the 
world.Established in 1996, the $2 million prize is given to an organization, 
anywhere in the world, judged to have made extraordinary contributions to the 
alleviation of human suffering — often operating at great risk, hardship, or 
personal sacrifice. The prize is not only intended to recognize and advance the 
efforts of the recipient organization but also to call attention to the 
worldwide need for humanitarian aid and encourage others to expand their 
support.To be eligible, nominees must be an established nongovernmental 
publicly supported charitable organizations legally established for at least 
five years and have audited financial statements and an operating budget 
(expenditures) greater than $750,000.The 2018 nomination period will open on 
September 20, 2017. Nominations must be received no later than October 18, 
2017.For complete program guidelines and nomination procedures, see the Hilton 
Foundation website.Link to Complete RFP
 

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[OSList] on context [was Open Space in Charlottesville]

2017-09-07 Thread Raffi Aftandelian via OSList
Hi Lucas, hi all!
I´ve been following this conversation with interest and my curiousity is taking 
me in a different direction, hence a changed subject line- ¨On context.¨
First off, hats off to you, Lucas, for initiating these conversations. Much 
needed!
One question that comes up for me when these types of public conversations are 
offered is if the matter of context needs to be visited, and if so how is best 
to do so.
 I think there can be many, many assumptions- uncovered assumptions- that may 
end up not being aired. Assumptions like- ¨this is a democracy, we lost our 
way, and we need to find our way back.¨ Or, that Rodney King line, ¨Can´t we 
all get along?¨
On this question of context- as to who are we (here in the USA) and where are 
we, there are two points I´d want to make.
The first one-- by way of a story-- Back in my college days, I took a course in 
Soviet history. Our main text was a book titled Utopia in Power by dissident 
historians Nekrich and Geller. All (or many?) of the darkest chapters of Soviet 
history were right there, in gory detail. I remember thinking at the time- oh, 
those poor Soviets, too bad they don´t know the truth of their own history. And 
in my time living in Russia, I had the sense that most people- even educated 
people- had little knowledge of this history.
Fast forward twenty-five years. My book club read a work titled American 
Nations (by Colin Woodard) late last year- and as the coincidental timing would 
have it- we discussed the book the day after the election. Woodard identifies 
11 different regional cultures in the USA, each with its own distinctive 
values, often clashing with those of other regional cultures. While I was 
reading the book, I realized how little I knew of ¨my¨ own country, how little 
I knew its history, how little I understood the cultural and value context of 
each of these regions, and gained a much clearer sense of why we these 
so-called culture wars and other kinds of social and political conflict. My 
takeaway was that it really didn´t make sense for all of these cultures to 
exist under one flag. I also realized that, no, we *can´t* get along (if 
couples can divorce, why can´t states/cities/communities divorce from the 
USA???) 
So, the book had me flashing to that Soviet history class-- and in a way, I had 
my own comeuppance- ¨us poor Americans, if we only really knew our own context! 
I really wish that book - for all its own shortcomings- had a wider audience as 
it could really help us understand our own context much more clearly. And 
without a consideration of context, we are having these conversations without 
unpacking what *are* our respective worldviews anyway. And they are quite 
different. 
The other aspect of context is surfacing assumptions about our current 
political system. As best as I can tell, the USA never was a democracy, nor 
even a republic. The best way I could describe it is as an inverted 
totalitarian apartheid state with a not insignificant amount of democratic 
window dressing. 
Let me unpack this. Sheldon Wolin, a political philosopher at Princeton, who 
passed a few years ago, coined the term ¨inverted totalitarianism¨ to describe 
the political system we have here-- a web of corporations and other entities 
together exerting total control on the political system without the need for a 
person at the top (no need for a Stalin or Hitler). Journalist Chris Hedges 
breaks this concept down in an engaging three hour interview he gave to C-Span 
(it´s online) in 2012.
And, historian Gerald Horne in his recent Counter-revolution of 1776 makes a 
strong argument that the so-called Revolution of 1776 was really a 
counter-revolution, a reactionary attempt to maintain the institution of 
slavery. He states that really the US was the first apartheid state. 
And others would say that slavery never really ended, it just evolved...(I 
first heard of the institution of neo-slavery that existed from the end of the 
Civil War until the end of World War II and still don´t know much about it) So, 
when people say, ¨That´s not who we are (we aren´t racist, sexist, etc.)¨-- I 
find that maddening. We are all those things! 
So, to be an inverted totalitarian apartheid state with a not insignificant 
amount of democratic window dressing isn´t bad. But, it would be too bad, I 
think, not to recognize that this is our base point. And what´s important is 
that there is some democratic window dressing-- there is some space to change 
things, some space for conversation, but perhaps not in the ways we would like 
to think.
So, I don´t know how or if what I´m bringing up here is useful. But, I do 
believe it needs to be part of these conversations somehow.
My two kopecks/rials/dinars/pesos,raffi **What blocks gratitude in 
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[OSList] testing

2017-06-30 Thread Raffi Aftandelian via OSList
I was wondering if all was ok with the list as when I look at the archives here
http://lists.openspacetech.org/pipermail/oslist-openspacetech.org/2017-June/date.html

the volume of messages is much lower than most months...
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[OSList] testing

2017-06-28 Thread Raffi Aftandelian via OSList
Just wanted to test to make sure the list is still working...
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[OSList] MUST READS for a facilitator

2017-02-26 Thread Raffi Aftandelian via OSList
 Agnieszka,
I don´t know if this counts as a must (listen), but I really like the 5 CD set 
¨Understanding Open Space¨ from an OST training conducted back in the late 
twentieth century.
I think it is still available through OSI US.
salam from San Diego,raffi**What is one thing you are grateful for?
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Re: [OSList] free facilitation books?

2017-01-23 Thread Raffi Aftandelian via OSList
Friends,Thanks for your interest in the books.And, I sent out the box this 
morning to the first person who responded.
I'm grateful that the books will have a new home and will have a new life! 
appreciatively,Raffi**What is one thing you are grateful for?
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[OSList] free facilitation books?

2017-01-22 Thread Raffi Aftandelian via OSList
friends, 
 I'm making the books available as a whole package. I estimate that it'll cost 
$8 (in the US) plus the cost of the box. If you're willing to pay the cost of 
postage, they're yours.
The Change Handbook Homan, Devane, Cady
Leadership Is Harrison Owen
Spirit:Transformation and Development in Organizations Harrison Owen
Wave Rider:Leadership for High Performance Harrison Owen
The Back of theNapkin Dan Roam
Society'sbreakthough! Jim Rough
DynamicRelationships Unleashing the Power of Appreciatve Inquiry in DailyLiving 
by Jacqueline M. Styros & Cheri B. Torres
Future Search: AnAction Guide to Finding Common Ground in Organizations 
andCommunities byMartin Weisbord andSandra Janoff
The Power ofAppreciative Inquiry Diana Whitney & Amanda Trosten-Bloom
Appreciative InquiryHandbook Cooperrider, Whitney, Stavros
Living Peace: the open space of our lives edited by Raffi Aftandelian

Email me offlist if interested!
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Re: [OSList] peggy holman for prez

2016-10-30 Thread Raffi Aftandelian via OSList
yes, peggy-jan, i would imagine you wouldn't know what to say to this-- This is 
the way i've been voting for most of my adult life. And it's the only way i've 
figured out how to vote where i can stand in my integrity.
Thanks for responding!
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[OSList] peggy holman for prez!

2016-10-27 Thread Raffi Aftandelian via OSList
This may seem a little random, if so- no harm in moving right along :)
Most years I usually write in the name of a spaceholder whose work I really 
respect for US president...it may seem a waste of a vote, but it's the best 
thing i figure I can do to take part in this exercise while standing in my 
integrity (yes, in my view- both HRC and DT promise different but equal harm to 
the world). (unfortunately, this also means that I can only write in the names 
of US-born people!)
So, again, I'm voting for Peggy Holman for prez (see link to photo of 
ballot)https://dl.dropboxusercontent.com/u/18572036/ballot.jpg
 So, based on my back-of-the-napkin calculations- if everyone else on the list 
who is reading this convinces at least a million people to vote for her between 
now and election day, she would stand a chance of becoming president!
happy voting!raffi
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[OSList] Renewing the Mission of the Open Space Institute U.S.

2016-07-21 Thread Raffi Aftandelian via OSList
wow, i'm delighted and entranced by this conversation,enjoying all the 
questions--
especially the question put forth by paul and birgitt!
i'd love to sit in a session where we answered these questions and came up with 
better ones.
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[OSList] why offer an ost training [was Open Space Technology training, June 2-3, 2016 in Vancouver, Canada]

2016-01-28 Thread Raffi Aftandelian via OSList
 

chrisjan and all marshl!
Thanks so much for your responses, chris and  miguel.
Chris, I very much appreciate you taking the time to explain where you are 
coming from. This all intrigues me more and makes me more interested in the 
AoH, which I hope to take some day.
much warmth from Port Khomeini,wroffi 
**There is a societal ill that Pindostani civilization is loathe to 
acknowledge. It is far more dangerous than hubris. We call it false immodesty. 
>From The Pindostani Primer: Celebrating Being Amerikan as a Generative 
>Pejorative. By Imam Aftandollah the Overimpressive


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[OSList] why offer an ost training [was Open Space Technology training, June 2-3, 2016 in Vancouver, Canada]

2016-01-27 Thread Raffi Aftandelian via OSList
Chris,this sounds like a fascinating offering! 
I'd love to make it some day to one of your trainings. And I will.
I'm curious about one thing-- It looks like - in the past, at least- you have 
tended to offer Art of Hosting workshops or to offer them far more than an OST 
workshop.
And so, I'm curious about this choice to offer this workshop.
The reason I ask- is that I have spoken to a number of people- experienced 
facilitators- who have taken the AoH workshop and some of them have expressed 
concern about how - among other things- AoH introduces several different 
approaches all at the same time. And yet each of these approaches has its own 
integrity (its own "form" and "essence" to borrow Birgitt Williams' terms). 
And that I have wondered how well-equipped someone is to facilitate after 
taking an AoH...
Thanks for offering this workshop! warmly,raffi
**There is a societal ill that Pindostani civilization is loathe to 
acknowledge. It is far more dangerous than hubris. We call it false immodesty. 
>From The Pindostani Primer: Celebrating Being Amerikan as a Generative 
>Pejorative. By Imam Aftandollah the Overimpressive
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[OSList] lecturing on OST???

2016-01-21 Thread Raffi Aftandelian via OSList
barry, chris-jan, and all- marshl!
thanks so much for your suggestions--
i like the circle-lecture idea...
and koos- you're right-- perhaps it's worth it to try unpacking the 
assumptions...
we'll see what happens!
much warmth,raffi p.s. it looks like i may have blown up the oslist again...i 
see most of the jan archives are, um, gone [uptalk intonation here]
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acknowledge. It is far more dangerous than hubris. We call it false immodesty. 
>From The Pindostani Primer: Celebrating Being Amerikan as a Generative 
>Pejorative. By Imam Aftandollah the Overimpressive
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[OSList] lecturing on OST???

2016-01-20 Thread Raffi Aftandelian via OSList
spacenik friends-
So, a friend would like to invite me to do an OST for her cultural 
organization. She senses, though, that before really offering to do an OST for 
them that they'd really feel more comfortable with me if I were to give a 
lecture on OST, presumably with Q&A.
This organization invites people to give lectures, so this is what they are 
used to.My friend's thinking is that after they see me give a lecture then 
they'll feel enough trust and receptivity to having an OST.
Would you be willing to give a lecture??
Your thoughts?Part of me has me thinking that it is important to meet people 
where they are-- and if indeed that is what they are most comfortable with, 
perhaps indeed start with a lecture?
merci!Raffi **There is a societal ill that Pindostani civilization 
is loathe to acknowledge. It is far more dangerous than hubris. We call it 
false immodesty. 
>From The Pindostani Primer: Celebrating Being Amerikan as a Generative 
>Pejorative. By Imam Aftandollah the Overimpressive
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[OSList] OS Hotline - TODAY! Tues Jan5th @12PM EST/UTC-5 :)

2016-01-05 Thread Raffi Aftandelian via OSList
 thanks to all for today's call! quite stimulating and friendly and 
yummy-challengingit was like a WOSonOS session...maybe WOSonOS never ends???
a bow to the minds and hearts on the call!salam from Port Khomeini, West 
Tabarestan.
and special thanks to tricia for keeping this going. 
raffi
p.s. i feel quite extrinsically motivated to show up again, perhaps next week?? 
:)
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acknowledge. It is far more dangerous than hubris. We call it false immodesty. 
>From The Pindostani Primer: Celebrating Being Amerikan as a Generative 
>Pejorative. By Imam Aftandollah the Overimpressive
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[OSList] happy bday harrison

2015-12-02 Thread Raffi Aftandelian via OSList
harrisonjan marshl!
happy bday to you! or с днюшкой or تولدت مبارک! thanks for all the yummies, as 
it were!
won't be able to join via qiqochat...but a hearty salam to all!
wormly,raffi **There is a societal ill that Pindostani civilization 
is loath to acknowledge. It is far more dangerous than hubris. We call it false 
immodesty. 
>From The Pindostani Primer: Celebrating Being Amerikan as a Generative 
>Pejorative. By Imam Aftandollah the Overimpressive
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[OSList] florian fischer has passed away

2015-11-01 Thread Raffi Aftandelian via OSList
My goodness! So unexpected! I remember meeting him in a training led by Marv 
and Sandra in 2003 in Potsdam, if I'm not mistaken.
I was taken by his playfulness and poetry. And I remember thinking, "Gosh, I'd 
love to have that sense of lightness, open-heartedness, presence, and play when 
I'm his age."
What a gift he is/was to the world.
Florian offered the poem/reflection for Living Peace in 2007.
Raffi 
Living peace 

Florian Fischer 



There is a special space 

where I'm studying peace, 

studying almost permanently, 

how to welcome peace, how to practice peace, 

how to hold peace, how to live peace: 

It is the space between 

»This is what I intended - but this is what happened*. 

An interval, a void, a break, a silence. 

It is the difference between frustration and acceptance, 

it is the way from No to Yes - and from Yes to No, 

it is the insight, that imagination, 

not only sometimes but every time, 

switches to illusion in the moment of realisation, 

it is the deep breathe before agreeing the change, 

and when it seems another person is changing my mind, 

it is the space to transform 

my ill humor about dependance into humbleness 

to see that they themselves are not less dependent. 

Sometimes it is the waiting-room 

to host a thrilling idea from conception to birth, 

sometimes it is an open space where a fear disappears 

and something dissolves just like that. 

In any case it is the playground between my own self 

and the self which is working on self-organization. 

It is all only about my inner peace, 

my only possible contribution to peace in the world. 

Rodalquilar, 30.12.2007 

**There is a societal ill that Pindostani civilization is loathe to 
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>From The Pindostani Primer: Celebrating Being Amerikan as a Generative 
>Pejorative. By Imam Aftandollah the Overimpressive
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[OSList] open space meditation??

2015-10-19 Thread Raffi Aftandelian via OSList
friends,
thought you might it of interest--I've been checking out Recollective Awareness 
Practice in the past year or so and just completed a retreat in this form of 
Buddhist meditation. I think os-niks might like to know that this is form of 
meditation is the closest thing to Open Space I've experienced as a 
Dharma-based meditative practice. 
If curious, the book to get you started is Unlearning Meditation by Jason Siff. 
The community itself is quite low-key... much warmth from Port Khomeini, West 
Tabarestan,raffi**"Compulsive irreverence is an addiction, but it 
can be healed."
in Militant Mutating Mockery and other Third Millennium Illnesses by Imam 
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[OSList] examples of facilitation used by government??

2015-09-16 Thread Raffi Aftandelian via OSList
friends, 
A Moscow colleague is planning on giving a training quite soon for municipal 
leaders. She'd like to cite examples of the application of facilitation 
approaches at local, municipal, and regional levels around the world (including 
in Russia).
Do you know of any written materials that could help her?
She's looking for articles and such (in English or in Russian) that are stories 
of such applications.
Perhaps someone is on the Future Search Network email list and could repost 
this there as well? I've also directed her to Sandy at NCDD...
Feel free to reply to Ludmila Dudorova directly at
l...@personalimage.ru
merci!Raffi**
"If you think you're about to say something stupid, take a breath and then 
mirandize your mind."  -- from Befriending your Inner Supreme Court" in 
Contemplative Practice at the Edge. Chapter by Imam Aftandollah the 
Underwhelming
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[OSList] Отв: workshop: Why I'm no longer promoting participative meetings

2015-02-27 Thread Raffi Aftandelian via OSList
Bhavesh, Miguel-jan pdhm!Thanks for sharing your thoughts. 
I really appreciate you mentioning Snowden, I've been wanting to investigate 
his thinking for a while; and Migueljan- thanks for your thoughts...
Miguel- if you're in San Diego- i'd prefer- if you're willing- to cook you a 
vegan dinner (if you don't mind eating vegan! everyone except my mother (!) 
seems to enjoy my cooking!)...but i imagine beer would have to be part of the 
equation! I'm not much of a beer (or any other alcohol) drinker (and perhaps 
not a true openspacenik because thus far at least i don't get excited by 
martinis!), but apparently is one of the beer capitals of the US these days!
much warmth from this southwest corner of continental obamastan,raffi
p.s. and miguel- it always warms my heart to hold (and hear) the bells that you 
gave me; it's the one object i "own" that i treasure the most... **
"If you find yourself experiencing panic, overwhelm, anxiety, or groundlessness 
during a nuclear winter or in the wake of the zombie apocalypse, remember: this 
too shall pass! And then ask yourself: "what am I grateful for?" and just be 
present to What Is!" -- from The Fruits of Co-being by Imam Aftandollah the 
Mischievous
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Hi Raffi,

I think Dave Snowden's work on Cognitive Complexity also adds to this.

He explores the dangers in participation of group think and premature 
convergence, which can lead to less data being scanned before moving into 
options for action. If you want to find out more, check out his blog!


Smiles Bhav...

On 25 February 2015 at 07:56, Raffi Aftandelian via OSList 
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friends,this online workshop may be of interest!
an intriguing reframing!
raffi


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First, a little background to why I promoted highly participative meetings.I am 
not willing to be in meetings that are time wasters and yet I am willing to be 
in meetings that take a long time.

What is the difference?

Meetings that I consider to be time wasters are meetings in which I sit and 
listen to a presentation with no opportunity for conversation. Time waster 
meetings, in my opinion, are the kind of meetings in which I conclude that the 
presenter could just have sent a memo. I end up wondering why it was necessary 
to have a meeting and waste the time of all of the participants.

Have you had similar experiences?

The meetings that I am willing to attend, and even like attending, are meetings 
designed with the participants in mind, to accomplish a business or development 
goal. They have one characteristic in common. The facilitator creates the time 
and space for lots of participation.

There is value to the participant in such a meeting…the value of idea 
generation, idea discussion, innovation, solution generation, and of course the 
opportunity to feel heard where it matters. Some of my favorite highly 
participative meeting processes are Open Space Technology, Whole Person Process 
Facilitation, Dynamic Facilitation, World Café, and Appreciative Inquiry. In 
our Genuine Contact program, we teach two of these meeting methods.

So, why I have I said my perspective has shifted?

I continue to promote highly participatory meetings. And, in looking more 
deeply, I realize that there is so much more to the successful experience and 
outcomes of these kinds of meetings that goes beyond simply being ‘highly 
participatory’.

When we invite people into these meetings, we are inviting them, for a period 
of time, to engage in leadership. We ask them to engage in leadership for their 
ideas, for taking a stand, and for taking leadership to express themselves. And 
they do.

And so my perspective has shifted away from thinking of these meetings just as 
participatory meetings.

I now recognize them as meetings to engage leadership.

If I think of participation as the goal, I now recognize that I do a disservice 
to the full dynamic that is taking place. People are not being invited to a 
participatory meeting. They are invited to engage in leadership….even if only 
for a short period of time.
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2015-02-24 Thread Raffi Aftandelian via OSList
friends,this online workshop may be of interest!
an intriguing reframing!
raffi


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invitation, you will discover that I have shifted my perspective.

First, a little background to why I promoted highly participative meetings.I am 
not willing to be in meetings that are time wasters and yet I am willing to be 
in meetings that take a long time.

What is the difference?

Meetings that I consider to be time wasters are meetings in which I sit and 
listen to a presentation with no opportunity for conversation. Time waster 
meetings, in my opinion, are the kind of meetings in which I conclude that the 
presenter could just have sent a memo. I end up wondering why it was necessary 
to have a meeting and waste the time of all of the participants.

Have you had similar experiences?

The meetings that I am willing to attend, and even like attending, are meetings 
designed with the participants in mind, to accomplish a business or development 
goal. They have one characteristic in common. The facilitator creates the time 
and space for lots of participation.

There is value to the participant in such a meeting…the value of idea 
generation, idea discussion, innovation, solution generation, and of course the 
opportunity to feel heard where it matters. Some of my favorite highly 
participative meeting processes are Open Space Technology, Whole Person Process 
Facilitation, Dynamic Facilitation, World Café, and Appreciative Inquiry. In 
our Genuine Contact program, we teach two of these meeting methods.

So, why I have I said my perspective has shifted?

I continue to promote highly participatory meetings. And, in looking more 
deeply, I realize that there is so much more to the successful experience and 
outcomes of these kinds of meetings that goes beyond simply being ‘highly 
participatory’.

When we invite people into these meetings, we are inviting them, for a period 
of time, to engage in leadership. We ask them to engage in leadership for their 
ideas, for taking a stand, and for taking leadership to express themselves. And 
they do.

And so my perspective has shifted away from thinking of these meetings just as 
participatory meetings.

I now recognize them as meetings to engage leadership.

If I think of participation as the goal, I now recognize that I do a disservice 
to the full dynamic that is taking place. People are not being invited to a 
participatory meeting. They are invited to engage in leadership….even if only 
for a short period of time.
February Training: Highly Participatory Meetings vs. Engaging in Leadership
>> Register Here

Join us this week for our free February training to take a deeper look at the 
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leadership when we lead highly participatory meetings or have these meetings 
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[OSList] peggy's talk

2015-02-19 Thread Raffi Aftandelian via OSList
suzannejan  marshl! greetings fellow spacenicks!
thanks, suzanne, for turning us on to the talk Peggy gave recently.
this is a shot in the dark...If anyone has figured out how to turn the talk 
into an mp3, give me a heads up!I'd love to listen to it... thanks,raffi


On Wed, Feb 11, 2015 at 4:12 PM, Suzanne Daigle via OSList <
oslist@lists.openspacetech.org> wrote:

> Harold and company,
>
> Some things are worth repeating and worth re-inviting.  Having each
> listened to Peggy's talk yesterday, Kevin O'Brien and I found ourselves
> vibrantly engaged in conversation this morning replaying bits and parts
> that had so ignited our passion and courage in the work that we are doing
> together to bring the spirit and processes of self management into
> organizations. I had the good fortune of meeting Kevin at International
> House in January 2014; he has since joined OSI US along with Dan Mezick.
>
> So in case you missed Peggy's conversation with Michael Dowd check *Day
> 13 at this link.*  Available free for the next 10 days only. Total cost
> to have access to all the talks is $25. You may know many of these speakers
> and may feel the investment is worthwhile.
> http://www.entheos.com/The-Future-is-Calling-Us-to-Greatness/Play
>
> Suzanne
**
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[OSList] Time No Longer?

2015-02-12 Thread Raffi Aftandelian via OSList
Hi spaceniks-
I'm curious if anyone has read Patrick Smith's Time No Longer: Americans after 
the American Century.
I think it is a very important book. And I'd love to hear people's thoughts of 
it; I think the book is especially interesting if we recall Harrison's thoughts 
on story and myth in Spirit: Transformation and Development in Organizations. 
Much of the book is devoted to the harm the American Myth has caused the 
world...
Interestingly, he believes that the US has historically seen itself as outside 
of history, outside of time (outside of Open Space???)...a fantastic yet 
believable contention. warmly,raffi
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[OSList] wosonos2015

2014-09-27 Thread Raffi Aftandelian via OSList
ditto what chris said. as a co-org'r of a previous wosonos (in another slavic 
country) happy to share my experience- the good, the differently good, and the 
quite differently good- aspects of organizing such an event.


 

laramtsa,


raffi

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up to my chin in hypocrisy, double standards, a sense of entitlement, and 
choking on overconsumption,

blissfully in denial about how 60% of my federal income taxes go to a military

that sustains genocide and ecocide the world over

...all in the name of democracy, freedom, and happiness for all


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