Re: [ozmidwifery] Back again...

2003-06-03 Thread M & T Holroyd
Dear Cas,

I loved your photos.  You have beautiful children.  Am looking forward to
reading your story soon.. my 11 week old is has decided he is starving.
Thankyou for sharing.

Tina H. in Brisbane.

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Re: [ozmidwifery] Back again...

2003-06-01 Thread Jo Slamen
Dear Cas,

Congratulations and well done.

I have had my two sons via vaginal births - no. 1 with epidural and forceps
due to PE (diagnosed during labour) - not a CS, but I felt a failure.  Nick
was 'removed' from me rather than me birthing him - I felt nothing of his
arrival beyond labouring to 5cm when the epi was administered - he was
pulled out of me and I was mangled to boot.  Medical circumstances
intervened.

With #2, I had naturopathic care pre and ante-natally, and booked into the
birth centre.  Unfortunately towards the end of the pregnancy my BP creeped
up (nothing terrifying though) and I was transferred out of the birth centre
midwifery care into the hospital's OB care.  They wanted to induce at my due
date to prevent PE again - despite none or only trace levels of protein in
my wee.  I was induced with crochet hook 2 days past my due date, and made
to have synto to speed up the labour only because they were busy in the ward
(nooone labouring at all in the Birth Centre - why could I not have gone
there? - my BP was fine at the time, and I know they induced same way with
some birth centre clients who were approaching 42 weeks).  Anyway, I
achieved an analgesic-free vaginal birth, and felt every moment of Alec's
arrival - definitely the agony and ecstacy - I was so proud of my struggle
to give him life, but 14 months later I still regret the circumstances
surrounding the beginning of labour, the synto and the tears surrounding the
decision to go ahead with the induction on the day.  It's so hard to feel
you have not caved in, when medical circumstances seem to be conspiring
against you, and to have faith in people when trust is not so well
engendered.

Your story rang many bells for me, and had me in both sad and happy tears.
You have my heartfelt sympathies, and my admiration for your courageous
decision and beautiful baby boy.  Don't be too hard on hubby - it must be
very hard for them, but I know what you mean.  Well done on your victories
along the way - dimmed lights and bf in recovery - VERY important for both
you and baby.

Congrats on 1500g in 3 weeks - I reckon it's just a fabulous milk supply -
it usually gets more with each baby - and your comparative relaxedness after
this 2nd CS compared to no. 1 has you producing well I would guess.  My 1st
lost a lot before gaining excellently.  No. 2 son didn't go backwards at
all, and gained excellently from the start.

Enjoy Daniel, he will seem to grow up even faster than Liam!

I too, am planning a homebirth in the event of there being a #3...

Jo

- Original Message -
From: "Wayne and Caroline McCullough" <[EMAIL PROTECTED]>
To: <[EMAIL PROTECTED]>
Sent: Friday, May 30, 2003 6:32 PM
Subject: [ozmidwifery] Back again...


> My little boy Daniel James McCullough was born on May 3 by (perceived
> necessary) Caesarean Section.
>
> We did up a homepage with some of the pictures from the birth and Dan's
> first few days if you want to take a look. The Birth story is on there
> too.
>
> http://members.ozemail.com.au/~iccoffee/daniel_homepage.html
>
> It has been a long hard journey for me these past 10 months but boy has
> it been educational and to all those on this list who told me not to go
> Private... You were absolutely right... That said... towards the end I
> was planning on homebirthing behind my obs back with the mw I hired for
> birth support but the forces of nature proved to be against me in the
> end. On the up side, I had excellent post natal care but I reckon the
> ward midwives had some interesting things to say about me especially
> since one of them found my placenta in the fridge in a plastic bag
> (hubby forgot to take it home... Oops! : )).
>
> If I do have another baby I will definitely be homebirthing as it seems
> impossible to have a positive VBA2C birth in hospitals here. I wish I
> was wrong about that. I doubt I'll have another anyway but will wait a
> couple of years before thinking about that.
>
> Anyway, I am looking forward to learning much from this list and also,
> just to let you know, I will be very busy in the coming months putting
> together and executing a media strategy to promote the NMAP here in Qld
> before the State Election which is due for late this year or early next
> year. If anyone wants any input to this and has some bright ideas or
> contacts please email me privately.
>
> Also, a group of us from the BAG (Birth Action Group) have put together
> a proposal to do a forum titled "Birth in Australia-- Agony or Ecstasy"
> at the Woodford Folk Festival this summer. We find out on August 31 if
> our gig has been accepted into the programme. Let's hope so.
>
> Better go and make dinner while Bub is asleep...
>
>
> Cheers Cas
>
> Mother to Liam born Feb 16, 2000, by emergency Caesarean

RE: [ozmidwifery] Back again...

2003-05-31 Thread B & G
Yep
Cheers
Barb

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[mailto:[EMAIL PROTECTED] On Behalf Of Wayne and
Caroline McCullough
Sent: Friday, 30 May 2003 11:39 PM
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Subject: RE: [ozmidwifery] Back again...

Are you refering to Jon Sullivan's wife? I used to work for the Festival
when he was the Pollie.

Cheers,

Cas.

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Sent: Friday, 30 May 2003 7:29 PM
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Congratulations on your birth. Enjoy your infant, they grow up too fast.
One of the organisers of Woodford's festival wife is a supporter of NMAP
and she is a pollie (and so was he at one stage) so good luck for
Woodford. It is a magical festival. Keep up BAG - there is a need for
the group.

Cheers Barb

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RE: [ozmidwifery] Back again...

2003-05-30 Thread Wayne and Caroline McCullough
Are you refering to Jon Sullivan's wife? I used to work for the Festival
when he was the Pollie.

Cheers,

Cas.

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[mailto:[EMAIL PROTECTED] On Behalf Of B & G
Sent: Friday, 30 May 2003 7:29 PM
To: [EMAIL PROTECTED]
Subject: RE: [ozmidwifery] Back again...


Congratulations on your birth. Enjoy your infant, they grow up too fast.
One of the organisers of Woodford's festival wife is a supporter of NMAP
and she is a pollie (and so was he at one stage) so good luck for
Woodford. It is a magical festival. Keep up BAG - there is a need for
the group.

Cheers Barb

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Re: [ozmidwifery] Back again...

2003-05-30 Thread Justine Caines
Dear Cas

I am yet to read your story, but just wanted to say welcome little Daniel
and you are one brave woman.  I was one of the more vocal opponents to your
private Ob VBAC plan.  I am sad you did not achieve your VBAC but I
overwhelmingly congratulate you on your journey and ability to see what so
many can't.  I call this personal growth!! Enjoy your bub, relish in your
new found strength and in a while when you can fit it in let's rock those
lazy QLD pollies out of their comfort chairs!

I am so much a black and white person but it is stories and experiences like
this that gives me the very necessary "grey shades" my school teachers all
said I needed!!!

Hope to help with the BAG/QLD MC campaign.

Justine Caines

HB Mum to Ruby 3, Clancy 2 and William 11 months

President NSW Maternity Coalition, National Co-ordinator Homebirth Australia


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RE: [ozmidwifery] Back again...

2003-05-30 Thread B & G
Congratulations on your birth. Enjoy your infant, they grow up too fast.
One of the organisers of Woodford's festival wife is a supporter of NMAP
and she is a pollie (and so was he at one stage) so good luck for
Woodford. It is a magical festival.
Keep up BAG - there is a need for the group.

Cheers Barb

-Original Message-
From: [EMAIL PROTECTED]
[mailto:[EMAIL PROTECTED] On Behalf Of Wayne and
Caroline McCullough
Sent: Friday, 30 May 2003 6:33 PM
To: [EMAIL PROTECTED]
Subject: [ozmidwifery] Back again...

My little boy Daniel James McCullough was born on May 3 by (perceived
necessary) Caesarean Section.

We did up a homepage with some of the pictures from the birth and Dan's
first few days if you want to take a look. The Birth story is on there
too.

http://members.ozemail.com.au/~iccoffee/daniel_homepage.html

It has been a long hard journey for me these past 10 months but boy has
it been educational and to all those on this list who told me not to go
Private... You were absolutely right... That said... towards the end I
was planning on homebirthing behind my obs back with the mw I hired for
birth support but the forces of nature proved to be against me in the
end. On the up side, I had excellent post natal care but I reckon the
ward midwives had some interesting things to say about me especially
since one of them found my placenta in the fridge in a plastic bag
(hubby forgot to take it home... Oops! : )).

If I do have another baby I will definitely be homebirthing as it seems
impossible to have a positive VBA2C birth in hospitals here. I wish I
was wrong about that. I doubt I'll have another anyway but will wait a
couple of years before thinking about that.

Anyway, I am looking forward to learning much from this list and also,
just to let you know, I will be very busy in the coming months putting
together and executing a media strategy to promote the NMAP here in Qld
before the State Election which is due for late this year or early next
year. If anyone wants any input to this and has some bright ideas or
contacts please email me privately.

Also, a group of us from the BAG (Birth Action Group) have put together
a proposal to do a forum titled "Birth in Australia-- Agony or Ecstasy"
at the Woodford Folk Festival this summer. We find out on August 31 if
our gig has been accepted into the programme. Let's hope so.

Better go and make dinner while Bub is asleep...


Cheers Cas

Mother to Liam born Feb 16, 2000, by emergency Caesarean after a cascade
of unnecessary intervention.
Mother to Daniel born by perceived necessary Caesarean May 3, 2003.

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Re: [ozmidwifery] Back again...

2003-05-30 Thread Lois Wattis
Dear Caroline, Wayne, Liam and Daniel,  I read your birth story and feel it
is a wonderful testimony to women's wisdom, intuition and common sense.
Well done, Caroline, and congratulations to Deirdre who guided you wisely,
and supported both of you well in the hard decision making process.  Your
story is one of empowered birth.  This is what it's all about!  Love and
strength and healing to you, and thank you for sharing your journey with us.
Love Lois

- Original Message -
From: "Wayne and Caroline McCullough" <[EMAIL PROTECTED]>
To: <[EMAIL PROTECTED]>
Sent: Friday, May 30, 2003 4:32 PM
Subject: [ozmidwifery] Back again...


My little boy Daniel James McCullough was born on May 3 by (perceived
necessary) Caesarean Section.

We did up a homepage with some of the pictures from the birth and Dan's
first few days if you want to take a look. The Birth story is on there
too.

http://members.ozemail.com.au/~iccoffee/daniel_homepage.html

It has been a long hard journey for me these past 10 months but boy has
it been educational and to all those on this list who told me not to go
Private... You were absolutely right... That said... towards the end I
was planning on homebirthing behind my obs back with the mw I hired for
birth support but the forces of nature proved to be against me in the
end. On the up side, I had excellent post natal care but I reckon the
ward midwives had some interesting things to say about me especially
since one of them found my placenta in the fridge in a plastic bag
(hubby forgot to take it home... Oops! : )).

If I do have another baby I will definitely be homebirthing as it seems
impossible to have a positive VBA2C birth in hospitals here. I wish I
was wrong about that. I doubt I'll have another anyway but will wait a
couple of years before thinking about that.

Anyway, I am looking forward to learning much from this list and also,
just to let you know, I will be very busy in the coming months putting
together and executing a media strategy to promote the NMAP here in Qld
before the State Election which is due for late this year or early next
year. If anyone wants any input to this and has some bright ideas or
contacts please email me privately.

Also, a group of us from the BAG (Birth Action Group) have put together
a proposal to do a forum titled "Birth in Australia-- Agony or Ecstasy"
at the Woodford Folk Festival this summer. We find out on August 31 if
our gig has been accepted into the programme. Let's hope so.

Better go and make dinner while Bub is asleep...


Cheers Cas

Mother to Liam born Feb 16, 2000, by emergency Caesarean after a cascade
of unnecessary intervention.
Mother to Daniel born by perceived necessary Caesarean May 3, 2003.

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[ozmidwifery] Back again...

2003-05-30 Thread Wayne and Caroline McCullough
My little boy Daniel James McCullough was born on May 3 by (perceived
necessary) Caesarean Section.

We did up a homepage with some of the pictures from the birth and Dan's
first few days if you want to take a look. The Birth story is on there
too.

http://members.ozemail.com.au/~iccoffee/daniel_homepage.html

It has been a long hard journey for me these past 10 months but boy has
it been educational and to all those on this list who told me not to go
Private... You were absolutely right... That said... towards the end I
was planning on homebirthing behind my obs back with the mw I hired for
birth support but the forces of nature proved to be against me in the
end. On the up side, I had excellent post natal care but I reckon the
ward midwives had some interesting things to say about me especially
since one of them found my placenta in the fridge in a plastic bag
(hubby forgot to take it home... Oops! : )).

If I do have another baby I will definitely be homebirthing as it seems
impossible to have a positive VBA2C birth in hospitals here. I wish I
was wrong about that. I doubt I'll have another anyway but will wait a
couple of years before thinking about that.

Anyway, I am looking forward to learning much from this list and also,
just to let you know, I will be very busy in the coming months putting
together and executing a media strategy to promote the NMAP here in Qld
before the State Election which is due for late this year or early next
year. If anyone wants any input to this and has some bright ideas or
contacts please email me privately.

Also, a group of us from the BAG (Birth Action Group) have put together
a proposal to do a forum titled "Birth in Australia-- Agony or Ecstasy"
at the Woodford Folk Festival this summer. We find out on August 31 if
our gig has been accepted into the programme. Let's hope so.

Better go and make dinner while Bub is asleep...


Cheers Cas

Mother to Liam born Feb 16, 2000, by emergency Caesarean after a cascade
of unnecessary intervention.
Mother to Daniel born by perceived necessary Caesarean May 3, 2003.

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