Re: [ozmidwifery] post dates

[Rhonda]

  Some statistics that Jackie Mawson had stated that out of every 500 
  inductions they only save 1 baby.
  that means these women have a 1 in 500 chance of their babies having 
  any problems due to post dates doesn't it??!!   - I guess that 
  is rather good odds as far as I am concerned. 
  I also believe that if something is wrong you know.
  My girlfriend had a baby who had gastroskysis (a hole allowing her 
  intestines to develop on the outside) everything was going well and at 34 
  weeks (I think it was) she just up and went to the hospital and told them 
  that the baby was in trouble (she just felt it) Her baby had tangled it's 
  cord and was in distress.  She Knew even though it was her first 
  baby.  Just to help them realise they will KNOW if something is 
  wrong.
   
  Good Luck!
   
  Rhonda.
   
   
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  Date: Monday, January 
  27, 2003 11:42:51
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  post dates
   The women I'm waiting with are challenging me... after 
  waiting 16 daysaround Christmas time I am now at 19 days with one 
  woman and 16 withanother... sigh... They are getting your 'baby will 
  die' scenarios fromthe doctor but are both resistant to an induction! 
  One felt 'a bitbullied' the doctor. Got some happy stories for 
  me??My own happy story was that with my last baby I was 22 days 
  over.. hewas born beautifully and still had vernix under his arms and 
  in hisgroin. Sally WestburyHomebirth 
  Midwife"You are a midwife, assisting at someone else's 
  birth. Do good withoutshow or fuss. Facilitate what is happening 
  rather than what you thinkought to be happening. If you must take the 
  lead, lead so that themother is helped, yet still free and in charge. 
  When the baby is born,the mother will rightly say: "We did it 
  ourselves!"from The Tao Te Ching--This mailing 
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Re: [ozmidwifery] post dates

[Aviva Sheb'a]

Just keep on keeping on! Trust, trust, 
trust, trust, trust.
aviva
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From: Sally 
Westbury 
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Sent: Monday, January 27, 2003 10:49 AM
Subject: [ozmidwifery] post dates

The women I'm waiting with are challenging me... after waiting 16 
daysaround Christmas time I am now at 19 days with one woman and 16 
withanother... sigh... They are getting your 'baby will die' scenarios 
fromthe doctor but are both resistant to an induction! One felt 'a 
bitbullied' the doctor. Got some happy stories for me??My own happy 
story was that with my last baby I was 22 days over.. hewas born beautifully 
and still had vernix under his arms and in hisgroin. Sally 
WestburyHomebirth Midwife "You are a midwife, 
assisting at someone else's birth. Do good withoutshow or fuss. Facilitate 
what is happening rather than what you thinkought to be happening. If you 
must take the lead, lead so that themother is helped, yet still free and in 
charge. When the baby is born,the mother will rightly say: "We did it 
ourselves!" from The Tao Te Ching--This mailing 
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RE: [ozmidwifery] post dates

[Julie Clarke]

Dear Sally

I was 3.5 weeks over with my second baby
Ryan, I thought he was due on the 5th to 10th of May but
he decided on the 2nd of June.

I knew exactly when I’d fallen
pregnant and did a test as soon as my boobs felt sore and it was positive –
I was only a couple of days late for my period – I plotted everything on
the calendar.  I went to a very
experienced GP who confirmed the pregnancy and agreed with my estimation then an
OB who also agreed then switched to a midwife who also agreed with
the fundal height and dates etc.  There was never any doubt.  However when I was 37 weeks I felt so
big and tired if someone had told me I had another 6.5 weeks to go I think I
would have gone crazy.  I think it’s best just to take it a day at a time and recognize
the baby will come when it’s ready.

It was certainly the longest 3.5 weeks of
my life.   I traveled into the city every second day
after 42 weeks for external fetal monitoring and the lovely midwife also called
Julie was so gentle and kind and supportive – she knew Maggie and had
been to some workshops with her – so fortunately she was very helpful –


One of the things I think that hindered me
was being too busy during the last part of my pregnancy – getting a bit
fussy and anal about things and the stress of looking after a 3.5 year old very
active son.  I think I was a bit too
stressed.

Maggie rang me one night asking if I’d
make a birth plan – I said not exactly because I figured she knew what I
wanted etc our philosophy was the same – but Maggie wanted me to think
through how the labour was going to go – sort of
birth affirmations and birth plan rolled into one and then she was incredibly
patient with me and we talked through a few things – a few minor concerns
– after we hung up the phone I perched up in bed and wrote a sort of
script of how I wished/guessed it would go.

That I would start with mild contractions
and then ring Maggie as soon as it was obvious labour
– she would come straight away – when she would arrive I’d be
5 cms dilated – she’d check me and then I’d
progress rapidly but in time for mum to get here and my friend – ABC TV
were supposed to come to which they did but too late –

About 9.30pm that night after scribbling down a few ideas I slid down into bed
and went to sleep.

I woke at about 12 midnight with a strong need to wee and within an hour and a half he was
born – 

We rang Maggie and she flew (on her broom J) down here in just 50 minutes WOW came in checked me I was 5 cms, I quickly gestured that she read the paper I’d
written on only a few hours before and she sort of went “oh shit”
because she realized it was going to be quick and then she flew into gear
really fast and then she helped me downstairs while I had triple peaking
contractions WOW she and Geoff organized the pool – Basically it all went
as it had been written …

My suggestion Sally is that Maggie sort of
helped me unleash the birth thoughts in my mind into actions…

Perhaps my story could help you do the
same for your women…

hug



Julie
Clarke

Childbirth
and Parenting Educator

Transition
into Parenthood

9 Withybrook
Pl

Sylvania  NSW 
2224

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(02) 9544 6441

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The women I'm waiting with are challenging me... after
waiting 16 days
around Christmas time I am now at 19 days with one woman and 16 with
another... sigh... They are getting your 'baby will die' scenarios from
the doctor but are both resistant to an induction! One felt 'a bit
bullied' the doctor. Got some happy stories for me??

My own happy story was that with my last baby I was 22 days over.. he
was born beautifully and still had vernix under his arms and in his
groin. 

Sally Westbury



Hi Sally...

Veronica was born exactly 3 weeks past my 'due date' :-oThis took my
relationship with my midwife to new heights I would just say to
her..."trust the woman"However I know it took both her and Mary J
well beyond their comfort zones. My dates were not concreteI had had only
had one period since Cecelia's birthand wasn't sure of the exact timing of
Veronica's conception...only I had a time frame of two weeks as Adam was in
Hong Kong...so Veronica was either conceived before he left or on welcoming him
home LOL!!! In retrospect, I would say it was on the welcoming him home !!

However...what this taught me was to be patientand listen to the
woman...listen to the baby.and to make decisions on what was concrete
before us...not on 'dates'I was well...the babe was well...and labour
started when we were all good and ready

Re: [ozmidwifery] post dates

[TinaPettigrew]

In a message dated 27/01/03 11:39:16 AM AUS Eastern Daylight Time, [EMAIL PROTECTED] writes:


The women I'm waiting with are challenging me... after waiting 16 days
around Christmas time I am now at 19 days with one woman and 16 with
another... sigh... They are getting your 'baby will die' scenarios from
the doctor but are both resistant to an induction! One felt 'a bit
bullied' the doctor. Got some happy stories for me??

My own happy story was that with my last baby I was 22 days over.. he
was born beautifully and still had vernix under his arms and in his
groin. 

Sally Westbury



Hi Sally...

Veronica was born exactly 3 weeks past my 'due date' :-oThis took my relationship with my midwife to new heights I would just say to her..."trust the woman"However I know it took both her and Mary J well beyond their comfort zones. My dates were not concreteI had had only had one period since Cecelia's birthand wasn't sure of the exact timing of Veronica's conception...only I had a time frame of two weeks as Adam was in Hong Kong...so Veronica was either conceived before he left or on welcoming him home LOL!!! In retrospect, I would say it was on the welcoming him home !!

However...what this taught me was to be patientand listen to the woman...listen to the baby.and to make decisions on what was concrete before us...not on 'dates'I was well...the babe was well...and labour started when we were all good and ready. 
Veronica Maree was born at home on the bathroom floor surrounded by with her dad, her big sister and midwife friend who came to lend a helping hand as the primary midwife was in transit.34 minutes after labour began...OMG So when she finally decided to enter the world she did it in a hurry and she still is!!

Love to you Sally and the 'women in waiting'.
Tina PettigrewXX

[ozmidwifery] post dates

[Sally Westbury]

The women I'm waiting with are challenging me... after waiting 16 days
around Christmas time I am now at 19 days with one woman and 16 with
another... sigh... They are getting your 'baby will die' scenarios from
the doctor but are both resistant to an induction! One felt 'a bit
bullied' the doctor. Got some happy stories for me??

My own happy story was that with my last baby I was 22 days over.. he
was born beautifully and still had vernix under his arms and in his
groin. 

Sally Westbury

Homebirth Midwife

 

"You are a midwife, assisting at someone else's birth. Do good without
show or fuss. Facilitate what is happening rather than what you think
ought to be happening. If you must take the lead, lead so that the
mother is helped, yet still free and in charge. When the baby is born,
the mother will rightly say: "We did it ourselves!"

 from The Tao Te Ching



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