A test "make package MAKE_JOBS=4" worked ok here, this is on the chain to chromium and is big enough that parallel seems worthwhile. OK to add this?
Index: Makefile =================================================================== RCS file: /cvs/ports/lang/node/Makefile,v retrieving revision 1.71 diff -u -p -r1.71 Makefile --- Makefile 21 Jun 2018 23:13:28 -0000 1.71 +++ Makefile 18 Sep 2018 10:41:03 -0000 @@ -5,6 +5,7 @@ # - Needs bundled libcares as arpa/nameser.h does not include ns_t_a. ONLY_FOR_ARCHS = amd64 aarch64 i386 +DPB_PROPERTIES = parallel USE_WXNEEDED = Yes