Re: 'dn' saying "Welcome (to the list)"

2023-02-26 Thread Hen Hanna
On Saturday, February 25, 2023 at 9:52:35 PM UTC-8, Chris Angelico wrote:
> On Sun, 26 Feb 2023 at 16:23, Hen Hanna  wrote: 
> > 
> > 
> > On Thursday, March 4, 2021 dn wrote: 
> > > Hi, and welcome to the list. 
> > 
> > 
> > note that this is the very same rude guy ('dn') who is apparently the 
> > rudest of them all. 
> > 
> > note that this is the very same rude guy ('dn') who wants to shunt me away 
> > to the TUTOR list. 
> > 
> > --- i guess i'd consider being TUTOR'ed by 'dn' (or someone like 
> > it) 
> > if i can be paid $1000 / hour for it. 
> > 
> > 
> > 
> > Have others noticed this too? (it's often the guy who says "Welcome" 
> > that) 
> > 
> > 
> > Whenever someone says "Welcome" to me (in this way), my alarm goes off. 
> > 
> > 
> > - a good way to explain it (the Phenomenon) is... it's an 
> > indication that he's itching to treat me as a Newbie... that he 's 
> > salivating because he senses an opportunity to MANsplain and WHITEsplain 
> > things to me. 
> >
> Fine, I won't say "welcome to the list" to anyone in the future. 


the rule of thumb is...  [Don't say it ;  show it ]

Maybe 10% of the time,  ppl who say  [Welcome to ...]   are actually good 
(welcoming) ppl.
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Re: 'dn' saying "Welcome (to the list)"

2023-02-25 Thread Chris Angelico
On Sun, 26 Feb 2023 at 16:23, Hen Hanna  wrote:
>
>
> On Thursday, March 4, 2021  dn wrote:
> > Hi, and welcome to the list.
>
>
> note that this is the very same rude guy ('dn')   who is apparently the 
> rudest of them all.
>
> note that this is the very same rude guy ('dn')   who wants to shunt me away 
> to the   TUTOR   list.
>
>   ---  i guess i'd consider being TUTOR'ed by 'dn' (or 
> someone like it)
>if   i  can  be  paid$1000 / hour  for  it.
>
>
>
> Have others noticed this too?  (it's often the guy who says "Welcome" 
> that)
>
>
> Whenever someone  says  "Welcome"  to me (in this way),  my alarm goes off.
>
>
> - a good way to explain it (the Phenomenon)  is...   it's an 
> indication that he's itching to treat me as a Newbie...  that he 's  
> salivating because he senses  an opportunity to   MANsplain   and   
> WHITEsplain   things to me.
>

Fine, I won't say "welcome to the list" to anyone in the future.
Instead, I'll say "why don't you go and solve your own problems by
searching the web".

That's WAY more friendly, right? We should all start doing that.

It's true what they say - no good deed goes unpunished.

ChrisA
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'dn' saying "Welcome (to the list)"

2023-02-25 Thread Hen Hanna


On Thursday, March 4, 2021  dn wrote:
> Hi, and welcome to the list.


note that this is the very same rude guy ('dn')   who is apparently the rudest 
of them all.

note that this is the very same rude guy ('dn')   who wants to shunt me away to 
the   TUTOR   list.

  ---  i guess i'd consider being TUTOR'ed by 'dn' (or someone 
like it)
   if   i  can  be  paid$1000 / hour  for  it.



Have others noticed this too?  (it's often the guy who says "Welcome" that)


Whenever someone  says  "Welcome"  to me (in this way),  my alarm goes off.


- a good way to explain it (the Phenomenon)  is...   it's an indication 
that he's itching to treat me as a Newbie...  that he 's  salivating because he 
senses  an opportunity to   MANsplain   and   WHITEsplain   things to me.
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