Dave (was Re: [QUAD-L] I'm 60 years old today)

2013-09-18 Thread Eric W Rudd
Dave worked at Honeywell.  Patty, his wife, was a sweetie, too.  
https://www.facebook.com/davegmail.oconnell

Eric W Rudd
c5sc...@gmail.com

  - Original Message - 
  From: RONALD L PRACHT 
  To: quad-list@eskimo.com 
  Sent: Wednesday, September 18, 2013 2:37 AM
  Subject: Re: [QUAD-L] I'm 60 years old today


  I was told in 98 when I was 21 to expect to live 20 yrs past the point of 
injury. They told me this was good considering b4 ww2 people with spinal 
injuries lived about 2 yrs post. I realized this was probally bullshit at the 
time. How long a quad lives depends on so many factors its unreal. Realisticly, 
I believe if I do a good job with myself, I think for me being 21 at injury, 
c6-7, taking pretty good care of myselfI should reach 60 yrs 
old..40 yrs post injury b4 my death. There are so many things to get you as 
a quad thoughskin breakdown, pnemonia, blood clots, getting run over, 
caregiver abuse, depression, obesity, cancer, just plain bad luck.and 
1000 more. The main factor is at what age you receive your injury, obviously if 
your 50 when you get paralyzed your chances at living old are greater.I think 
Dave Occonnel was the poster child for quadom.he got it at 17 on a 
balance beam showing off for some girlshe was a teacher many years, 
then worked at some big company on computers forever, had a family, kids, 
housemany cars. I remember him telling me his first car was a 67 
caddillac. He lived life, had plenty of love and took pretty good care of 
himself. I think he was 64 upon his passing.

  Ron  


  From: Dana Wray daa...@aol.com
  To: greg g...@eskimo.com 
  Cc: quad-list@eskimo.com quad-list@eskimo.com 
  Sent: Tuesday, September 17, 2013 11:43 PM
  Subject: Re: [QUAD-L] I'm 60 years old today




  Hi Greg,
  So you celebrate your anniversary as your birthday? I guess I like to 
celebrate both occasions. Saw post on the Quad-list on Facebook about the 
oldest living Quadriplegic, 86 years I think.
  Tried to click on it but there was no story about her.


  Does anyone know her story?
  Dana
  Sent from my iPhone

  On Sep 17, 2013, at 6:11 PM, greg g...@eskimo.com wrote:


I'm 49 and 32 years post. I always feel like my birthday is my accident 
date now.
Greg


 Belated congratulations on your birthday. I myself am 49 and 18
 years post. I'm hoping to make it to 80.




Re: [QUAD-L] I'm 60 years old today

2013-09-18 Thread Nan
I also celebrate both.

I saw that on Facebook too ... had to google it:  
http://www.columbiamissourian.com/a/165418/longest-living-quadriplegic-dies-one-month-before-85th-birthday/

Nan



 From: Dana Wray daa...@aol.com
To: greg g...@eskimo.com 
Cc: quad-list@eskimo.com quad-list@eskimo.com 
Sent: Wednesday, September 18, 2013 12:43 AM
Subject: Re: [QUAD-L] I'm 60 years old today
 



Hi Greg,
So you celebrate your anniversary as your birthday? I guess I like to celebrate 
both occasions. Saw post on the Quad-list on Facebook about the oldest living 
Quadriplegic, 86 years I think.
Tried to click on it but there was no story about her.

Does anyone know her story?
Dana
Sent from my iPhone

On Sep 17, 2013, at 6:11 PM, greg g...@eskimo.com wrote:


I'm 49 and 32 years post. I always feel like my birthday is my accident date 
now.
Greg


 Belated congratulations on your birthday. I myself am 49 and 18
 years post. I'm hoping to make it to 80.

Re: [QUAD-L] I'm 60 years old today

2013-09-18 Thread Nan
I've been a quad since 1968 - 45 years and I am 61 years old.  Don't limit 
yourself ... take it day by day.  You might be surprised
at the number of years you have left!!

Dave Oc was a wonderful man.  I miss him!


 From: RONALD L PRACHT r.pra...@sbcglobal.net
To: quad-list@eskimo.com quad-list@eskimo.com 
Sent: Wednesday, September 18, 2013 3:37 AM
Subject: Re: [QUAD-L] I'm 60 years old today
 


I was told in 98 when I was 21 to expect to live 20 yrs past the point of 
injury. They told me this was good considering b4 ww2 people with spinal 
injuries lived about 2 yrs post. I realized this was probally bullshit at the 
time. How long a quad lives depends on so many factors its unreal. Realisticly, 
I believe if I do a good job with myself, I think for me being 21 at injury, 
c6-7, taking pretty good care of myselfI should reach 60 yrs 
old..40 yrs post injury b4 my death. There are so many things to get you as 
a quad thoughskin breakdown, pnemonia, blood clots, getting run over, 
caregiver abuse, depression, obesity, cancer, just plain bad luck.and 
1000 more. The main factor is at what age you receive your injury, obviously if 
your 50 when you get paralyzed your chances at living old are greater.I think 
Dave Occonnel was the poster child for quadom.he got it at 17 on a 
balance beam showing off for some
 girlshe was a teacher many years, then worked at some big company on 
computers forever, had a family, kids, housemany cars. I remember him 
telling me his first car was a 67 caddillac. He lived life, had plenty of love 
and took pretty good care of himself. I think he was 64 upon his passing.
 
Ron  

From: Dana Wray daa...@aol.com
To: greg g...@eskimo.com 
Cc: quad-list@eskimo.com quad-list@eskimo.com 
Sent: Tuesday, September 17, 2013 11:43 PM
Subject: Re: [QUAD-L] I'm 60 years old today
 



Hi Greg,
So you celebrate your anniversary as your birthday? I guess I like to celebrate 
both occasions. Saw post on the Quad-list on Facebook about the oldest living 
Quadriplegic, 86 years I think.
Tried to click on it but there was no story about her.

Does anyone know her story?
Dana
Sent from my iPhone

On Sep 17, 2013, at 6:11 PM, greg g...@eskimo.com wrote:


I'm 49 and 32 years post. I always feel like my birthday is my accident date 
now.
Greg


 Belated congratulations on your birthday. I myself am 49 and 18
 years post. I'm hoping to make it to 80.

RE: [QUAD-L] I'm 60 years old today

2013-09-18 Thread Joan Anglin
I also celebrate both, I figure that I have earned the right to have more
than one celebration per year. J I try very hard to live in a healthy manner
up to a point. There are certain things I'm not giving up, brandy, Rum,
wine, Margaritas, Irish whiskey, Kahlua,--oh, you guys were talking about
healthy living, let me see, darn, I can't think of anything. LOL.

I'm always reminded of the story of a little couple who were in their
nineties, really into organic food, working out, and generally living an
exemplary life with church and volunteering. On the way home from church one
day they were T-boned by a large truck and died on the scene. They
immediately found themselves in front of Saint Peter and the Pearly Gates,
who gave them a warm welcome an escorted them to their new home. He told the
husband that he knew he loved golf, so their new home was on a golf course.
The husband asks what is this going to cost me and Saint Peter replies
nothing, you have earned this, you're in Heaven now.

The next morning the husband gets up, plays nine holes of golf and sits down
to a beautiful breakfast. Saint Peter comes to see how they are settling in,
and the husband asks what is this going to cost me and Saint Peter replies
nothing, you have earned this, you're in Heaven now the husband raises his
eyebrows but says nothing.

Later in the afternoon after a nice long nap, Saint Peter appears and asks
if they would like to go visit those who had gone before them. They eagerly
agreed and went outside to find a beautiful Mercedes convertible, lovely
sunshine, and of course the perfect amount of breeze to keep it cool. The
old man goes over to the car, checks out the leather seats, turns and asks
Saint Peter what is this going to cost me? Saint Peter replies nothing,
you have earned this, you're in Heaven now. The old man turns to his wife,
kicks her in the butt and she falls down to her knees. She looks up at him
and says what was that for? The old man replies If it wasn't for your
damn healthy food, and perfect life we could've been here many years ago.

Like others have said I'm going through those pearly gates yelling WOW,
what a ride that was!

I hope you all have a great day, and make somebody laugh as it's contagious.
Joan



Re: [QUAD-L] I'm 60 years old today

2013-09-18 Thread Quadius
I had no idea that Dave passed away. Now I'm bummed out. I'm glad he had a
wonderful life.



On Wed, Sep 18, 2013 at 3:37 AM, RONALD L PRACHT r.pra...@sbcglobal.netwrote:

 I was told in 98 when I was 21 to expect to live 20 yrs past the point of
 injury. They told me this was good considering b4 ww2 people with spinal
 injuries lived about 2 yrs post. I realized this was probally bullshit at
 the time. How long a quad lives depends on so many factors its unreal.
 Realisticly, I believe if I do a good job with myself, I think for me being
 21 at injury, c6-7, taking pretty good care of myselfI should reach
 60 yrs old..40 yrs post injury b4 my death. There are so many things to
 get you as a quad thoughskin breakdown, pnemonia, blood clots,
 getting run over, caregiver abuse, depression, obesity, cancer, just plain
 bad luck.and 1000 more. The main factor is at what age you receive
 your injury, obviously if your 50 when you get paralyzed your chances at
 living old are greater.I think Dave Occonnel was the poster child for
 quadom.he got it at 17 on a balance beam showing off for some
 girlshe was a teacher many years, then worked at some big company
 on computers forever, had a family, kids, housemany cars. I
 remember him telling me his first car was a 67 caddillac. He lived life,
 had plenty of love and took pretty good care of himself. I think he was 64
 upon his passing.

 Ron

*From:* Dana Wray daa...@aol.com
 *To:* greg g...@eskimo.com
 *Cc:* quad-list@eskimo.com quad-list@eskimo.com
 *Sent:* Tuesday, September 17, 2013 11:43 PM
 *Subject:* Re: [QUAD-L] I'm 60 years old today


 Hi Greg,
 So you celebrate your anniversary as your birthday? I guess I like to
 celebrate both occasions. Saw post on the Quad-list on Facebook about the
 oldest living Quadriplegic, 86 years I think.
 Tried to click on it but there was no story about her.

 Does anyone know her story?
 Dana
 Sent from my iPhone

 On Sep 17, 2013, at 6:11 PM, greg g...@eskimo.com wrote:

 I'm 49 and 32 years post. I always feel like my birthday is my accident
 date now.
 Greg

  Belated congratulations on your birthday. I myself am 49 and 18
  years post. I'm hoping to make it to 80.






Re: [QUAD-L] I'm 60 years old today

2013-09-18 Thread Dana Wray
Thank you So much for the information it was so correct.
To remember our Quad-list members who have passed and appreciate their lives  
And what they shared with us .
Dana
Sent from my iPhone

On Sep 18, 2013, at 2:37 AM, RONALD L PRACHT r.pra...@sbcglobal.net wrote:

 I was told in 98 when I was 21 to expect to live 20 yrs past the point of 
 injury. They told me this was good considering b4 ww2 people with spinal 
 injuries lived about 2 yrs post. I realized this was probally bullshit at the 
 time. How long a quad lives depends on so many factors its unreal. 
 Realisticly, I believe if I do a good job with myself, I think for me being 
 21 at injury, c6-7, taking pretty good care of myselfI should reach 
 60 yrs old..40 yrs post injury b4 my death. There are so many things to 
 get you as a quad thoughskin breakdown, pnemonia, blood clots, 
 getting run over, caregiver abuse, depression, obesity, cancer, just plain 
 bad luck.and 1000 more. The main factor is at what age you receive 
 your injury, obviously if your 50 when you get paralyzed your chances at 
 living old are greater.I think Dave Occonnel was the poster child for 
 quadom.he got it at 17 on a balance beam showing off for some 
 girlshe was a teacher many years, then worked at some big company on 
 computers forever, had a family, kids, housemany cars. I remember him 
 telling me his first car was a 67 caddillac. He lived life, had plenty of 
 love and took pretty good care of himself. I think he was 64 upon his passing.
  
 Ron  
 
 From: Dana Wray daa...@aol.com
 To: greg g...@eskimo.com 
 Cc: quad-list@eskimo.com quad-list@eskimo.com 
 Sent: Tuesday, September 17, 2013 11:43 PM
 Subject: Re: [QUAD-L] I'm 60 years old today
 
 
 Hi Greg,
 So you celebrate your anniversary as your birthday? I guess I like to 
 celebrate both occasions. Saw post on the Quad-list on Facebook about the 
 oldest living Quadriplegic, 86 years I think.
 Tried to click on it but there was no story about her.
 
 Does anyone know her story?
 Dana
 Sent from my iPhone
 
 On Sep 17, 2013, at 6:11 PM, greg g...@eskimo.com wrote:
 
 I'm 49 and 32 years post. I always feel like my birthday is my accident date 
 now.
 Greg
 
  Belated congratulations on your birthday. I myself am 49 and 18
  years post. I'm hoping to make it to 80.
 
 


Re: [QUAD-L] I'm 60 years old today

2013-09-17 Thread Quadius
Belated congratulations on your birthday. I myself am 49 and 18 years post.
I'm hoping to make it to 80.


On Sat, Sep 14, 2013 at 7:44 PM, daa...@aol.com wrote:

 **
 Hi quad list,

 Celebrating my 60 year old birthday today. My father and stepmom brought
 me dinner last night and my mom is bringing dinner tonight. Just another
 day and another larger number.
 How many of us are 60 and older? What is discrimination to know what your
 comments just because you're 65 Joan. Why would the agent making a
 difference to a survey?

 Hope everyone is having a good day.
 Dana,
 C-4-5 complete, passenger in a motor vehicle accident in the 74, 39 years
 post, 60 years old, Prairie village Kansas. How many other quad list
 members are it, Kansas or close by. Just wondering.
 Dana



Re: [QUAD-L] I'm 60 years old today

2013-09-17 Thread greg
I'm 49 and 32 years post. I always feel like my birthday is my accident date now.
Greg
 Belated congratulations on your birthday. I myself am 49 and 18
 years post. I'm hoping to make it to 80.




Re: [QUAD-L] I'm 60 years old today

2013-09-17 Thread Dana Wray

Hi Greg,
So you celebrate your anniversary as your birthday? I guess I like to celebrate 
both occasions. Saw post on the Quad-list on Facebook about the oldest living 
Quadriplegic, 86 years I think.
Tried to click on it but there was no story about her.

Does anyone know her story?
Dana
Sent from my iPhone

On Sep 17, 2013, at 6:11 PM, greg g...@eskimo.com wrote:

 I'm 49 and 32 years post. I always feel like my birthday is my accident date 
 now.
 Greg
 
  Belated congratulations on your birthday. I myself am 49 and 18
  years post. I'm hoping to make it to 80.


Re: [QUAD-L] I'm 60 years old today

2013-09-15 Thread DAANOO
Thank you so much Diana, we are all in as quad world  together.
Dana
 
 
In a message dated 9/14/2013 9:32:35 P.M. Central Daylight Time,  
diannal...@aol.com writes:

  
Happy Birthday Dana!
 
Hi quad  list,

Celebrating my 60 year old birthday today. My father and  stepmom brought 
me dinner last night and my mom is bringing dinner tonight.  Just another day 
and another larger number.
How many of us are 60 and  older? What is discrimination to know what your 
comments just because you're  65 Joan. Why would the agent making a 
difference to a  survey?




-Original  Message-
From: DAANOO daa...@aol.com
To: quad-list  quad-list@eskimo.com
Sent: Sat, Sep 14, 2013 7:44 pm
Subject:  [QUAD-L] I'm 60 years old today


Hi quad list,

Celebrating my 60 year old birthday today. My  father and stepmom brought 
me dinner last night and my mom is bringing dinner  tonight. Just another day 
and another larger number.
How many of us are 60  and older? What is discrimination to know what your 
comments just because  you're 65 Joan. Why would the agent making a 
difference to a  survey?

Hope everyone is having a good day.
Dana,
C-4-5 complete,  passenger in a motor vehicle accident in the 74, 39 years 
post, 60 years old,  Prairie village Kansas. How many other quad list 
members are it, Kansas or  close by. Just wondering.
Dana 





Re: [QUAD-L] I'm 60 years old today

2013-09-15 Thread DAANOO
Thank you Dan and Larry for your birthday wishes
 
 
In a message dated 9/14/2013 7:51:53 P.M. Central Daylight Time,  
lwillis...@yahoo.com writes:

   
Sounds like there is a bunch of us floating around that 60 mark. Maybe we  
should form our own group -- the codger quads! Larry W., age 61, 42  post

Sent from my iPad

Begin forwarded message:



Resent-From: _quad-list@eskimo.com_ (mailto:quad-list@eskimo.com) 
From:  Danny Hearn _ddh247@sbcglobal.net_ (mailto:ddh...@sbcglobal.net) 
Date:  September 14, 2013, 7:53:43 PM EDT
To: _DAANOO@aol.com_ (mailto:daa...@aol.com)   _DAANOO@aol.com_ 
(mailto:daa...@aol.com) , _quad-list@eskimo.com_ 
(mailto:quad-list@eskimo.com)  
_quad-list@eskimo.com_ (mailto:quad-list@eskimo.com) 
Subject:  Re: [QUAD-L] I'm 60 years old today
Reply-To: Danny Hearn  _ddh247@sbcglobal.net_ 
(mailto:ddh...@sbcglobal.net) 





 
Happy birthday Dana, I'm not far behind you either at 56 years  old and 16 
+ of quad-life.  Dan H.**



 
 

From: _DAANOO@aol.com_ (mailto:daa...@aol.com)  _DAANOO@aol.com_ 
(mailto:daa...@aol.com) 
To: _quad-list@eskimo.com_ (mailto:quad-list@eskimo.com)  
Sent: Saturday, September 14, 2013 6:44  PM
Subject: [QUAD-L] I'm 60  years old today



Hi  quad list,

Celebrating my 60 year old birthday today. My father and  stepmom brought 
me dinner last night and my mom is bringing dinner tonight.  Just another day 
and another larger number.
How many of us are 60 and  older? What is discrimination to know what your 
comments just because you're  65 Joan. Why would the agent making a 
difference to a survey?

Hope  everyone is having a good day.
Dana,
C-4-5 complete, passenger in a  motor vehicle accident in the 74, 39 years 
post, 60 years old, Prairie  village Kansas. How many other quad list 
members are it, Kansas or close by.  Just wondering.
Dana  









=


Re: [QUAD-L] I'm 60 years old today

2013-09-15 Thread DAANOO
Thank you Bobbie. We are close in age, many of us.
Dana
 
 
In a message dated 9/14/2013 6:48:07 P.M. Central Daylight Time,  
bobbiehumphre...@gmail.com writes:

   
I'm right behind you at 57 until November when I turn 58.Bobbie 

Smile Everyday

On Sep 14, 2013, at 7:44 PM, _DAANOO@aol.com_ (mailto:daa...@aol.com)  
wrote:



Hi quad list,

Celebrating my 60 year old birthday  today. My father and stepmom brought 
me dinner last night and my mom is  bringing dinner tonight. Just another day 
and another larger number.
How  many of us are 60 and older? What is discrimination to know what your  
comments just because you're 65 Joan. Why would the agent making a  
difference to a survey?

Hope everyone is having a good  day.
Dana,
C-4-5 complete, passenger in a motor vehicle accident in  the 74, 39 years 
post, 60 years old, Prairie village Kansas. How many other  quad list 
members are it, Kansas or close by. Just wondering.
Dana  




[QUAD-L] I'm 60 years old today

2013-09-14 Thread DAANOO
Hi quad list,

Celebrating my 60 year old  birthday today. My father and stepmom brought 
me dinner last night and my mom is  bringing dinner tonight. Just another day 
and another larger number.
How many  of us are 60 and older? What is discrimination to know what your 
comments just  because you're 65 Joan. Why would the agent making a 
difference to a  survey?

Hope everyone is having a good day.
Dana,
C-4-5 complete,  passenger in a motor vehicle accident in the 74, 39 years 
post, 60 years old,  Prairie village Kansas. How many other quad list 
members are it, Kansas or close  by. Just wondering.
Dana 

Re: [QUAD-L] I'm 60 years old today

2013-09-14 Thread Gmail
I'm right behind you at 57 until November when I turn 58.   Bobbie 

Smile Everyday

On Sep 14, 2013, at 7:44 PM, daa...@aol.com wrote:

 Hi quad list,
 
 Celebrating my 60 year old birthday today. My father and stepmom brought me 
 dinner last night and my mom is bringing dinner tonight. Just another day and 
 another larger number.
 How many of us are 60 and older? What is discrimination to know what your 
 comments just because you're 65 Joan. Why would the agent making a difference 
 to a survey?
 
 Hope everyone is having a good day.
 Dana,
 C-4-5 complete, passenger in a motor vehicle accident in the 74, 39 years 
 post, 60 years old, Prairie village Kansas. How many other quad list members 
 are it, Kansas or close by. Just wondering.
 Dana


Re: [QUAD-L] I'm 60 years old today

2013-09-14 Thread Danny Hearn
Happy birthday Dana, I'm not far behind you either at 56 years old and 16 + of 
quad-life.  Dan H.**

 


 From: daa...@aol.com daa...@aol.com
To: quad-list@eskimo.com 
Sent: Saturday, September 14, 2013 6:44 PM
Subject: [QUAD-L] I'm 60 years old today
  


 
Hi quad list,

Celebrating my 60 year old 
birthday today. My father and stepmom brought me dinner last night and my mom 
is 
bringing dinner tonight. Just another day and another larger number.
How many 
of us are 60 and older? What is discrimination to know what your comments just 
because you're 65 Joan. Why would the agent making a difference to a 
survey?

Hope everyone is having a good day.
Dana,
C-4-5 complete, 
passenger in a motor vehicle accident in the 74, 39 years post, 60 years old, 
Prairie village Kansas. How many other quad list members are it, Kansas or 
close 
by. Just wondering.
Dana 

Fwd: [QUAD-L] I'm 60 years old today

2013-09-14 Thread lwillis821
Sounds like there is a bunch of us floating around that 60 mark. Maybe we 
should form our own group -- the codger quads! Larry W., age 61, 42 post

Sent from my iPad

Begin forwarded message:

 Resent-From: quad-list@eskimo.com
 From: Danny Hearn ddh...@sbcglobal.net
 Date: September 14, 2013, 7:53:43 PM EDT
 To: daa...@aol.com daa...@aol.com, quad-list@eskimo.com 
 quad-list@eskimo.com
 Subject: Re: [QUAD-L] I'm 60 years old today
 Reply-To: Danny Hearn ddh...@sbcglobal.net
 
 Happy birthday Dana, I'm not far behind you either at 56 years old and 16 + 
 of quad-life.  Dan H.**
 
 From: daa...@aol.com daa...@aol.com
 To: quad-list@eskimo.com 
 Sent: Saturday, September 14, 2013 6:44 PM
 Subject: [QUAD-L] I'm 60 years old today
 
 Hi quad list,
 
 Celebrating my 60 year old birthday today. My father and stepmom brought me 
 dinner last night and my mom is bringing dinner tonight. Just another day and 
 another larger number.
 How many of us are 60 and older? What is discrimination to know what your 
 comments just because you're 65 Joan. Why would the agent making a difference 
 to a survey?
 
 Hope everyone is having a good day.
 Dana,
 C-4-5 complete, passenger in a motor vehicle accident in the 74, 39 years 
 post, 60 years old, Prairie village Kansas. How many other quad list members 
 are it, Kansas or close by. Just wondering.
 Dana