Re: [silk] You farted - was Wikipedia

2007-12-12 Thread Kiran Jonnalagadda

On 11-Dec-07, at 7:13 PM, shiv sastry wrote:

Too late. You're hopping mad now :D and I am not playing your game.  
Once

again, thanks but no thanks.


You may have heard of this new game. It's called "bait the skeptic".  
Here's how it works:


Person A, our hero, makes an exaggerated claim.

Person B, the skeptic, demands to know the basis of this claim.

Person A narrates the details of the farting game and claims he's  
been baited.


Person B reiterates that he merely wants the basis of the claim.

Person A insists he will not fall for the bait, laments on the poor  
quality of research in general, and effectively comes out having  
painted person B as the villain.


You win, Shiv.




Re: [silk] You farted - was Wikipedia

2007-12-11 Thread Abhijit Menon-Sen
At 2007-12-11 19:21:51 +0530, [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote:
>
> Cut the boring rhetoric boss.

OK.

-- ams



Re: [silk] You farted - was Wikipedia

2007-12-11 Thread shiv sastry

On Tuesday 11 Dec 2007 3:25 pm, Abhijit Menon-Sen wrote:

> It's not ad hominem. If he'd said "you're a right-wing Hindu murderer,
> so the results of your study are wrong", it would have been ad hominem.
> But he's saying you have no data to substantiate your argument. That he
> says you're cheap may be a nasty dig, but it's not ad hominem.

Everyone is entitled to his view. You have yours. I have mine.

> That "makes you" a murderer of Christians only insofar as it allows you
> to exaggerate what you perceive as a bias against anyone who identifies
> themselves as Hindu. Or do you think Thaths really can't or doesn't see
> any distinction between you and the people who burned Graham Staines?

Cut the boring rhetoric boss. I have no idea what Thaths thinks. But I can see 
that Thaths is a decent guy.


shiv



Re: [silk] You farted - was Wikipedia

2007-12-11 Thread shiv sastry
On Tuesday 11 Dec 2007 3:13 pm, Kiran Jonnalagadda wrote:
> On 11-Dec-07, at 2:40 PM, shiv sastry wrote:
> > Jace has just played the "you farted" game on me. Thanks, but no
> > thanks.
>
> Thanks for the nice backdrop, Shiv. As I see it, I'm commenting on
> the emperor's new clothes.
>
> Where's your research data?

Too late. You're hopping mad now :D and I am not playing your game. Once 
again, thanks but no thanks. 

shiv



Re: [silk] You farted - was Wikipedia

2007-12-11 Thread Abhijit Menon-Sen
At 2007-12-11 14:40:20 +0530, [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote:
>
> > So you're saying that you're too cheap to get a real survey done,
> > but expect to be taken seriously on "facts" you admit to making up
> > yourself.
> 
> If that is not an ad homimen I don't know what is.

It's not ad hominem. If he'd said "you're a right-wing Hindu murderer,
so the results of your study are wrong", it would have been ad hominem.
But he's saying you have no data to substantiate your argument. That he
says you're cheap may be a nasty dig, but it's not ad hominem.

Really, "ad hominem" is a very specialised description. Every instance
of someone being nasty certainly doesn't qualify.

> Jace has just played the "you farted" game on me. Thanks, but no
> thanks.

Two can play at that game:

> I have not been so lucky and have often been branded a right wing RSS
> supporter, which makes me a murderer of Christians.

That "makes you" a murderer of Christians only insofar as it allows you
to exaggerate what you perceive as a bias against anyone who identifies
themselves as Hindu. Or do you think Thaths really can't or doesn't see
any distinction between you and the people who burned Graham Staines?

-- ams



Re: [silk] You farted - was Wikipedia

2007-12-11 Thread Kiran Jonnalagadda

On 11-Dec-07, at 2:40 PM, shiv sastry wrote:

Jace has just played the "you farted" game on me. Thanks, but no  
thanks.


Thanks for the nice backdrop, Shiv. As I see it, I'm commenting on  
the emperor's new clothes.


Where's your research data?




[silk] You farted - was Wikipedia

2007-12-11 Thread shiv sastry
On Tuesday 11 Dec 2007 10:19 am, Kiran Jonnalagadda wrote:
> So you're saying that you're too cheap to get a real survey done, but  
> expect to be taken seriously on "facts" you admit to making up yourself.

If that is not an ad homimen I don't know what is. However I will let it pass. 
The reason I shall let is pass is related to another story I once made up as 
a parable.

Let me relate that

It's called the "You farted" story

There is a particularly irritating psychological trick that you may have had 
played on you, and perhaps you are guilty of playing it yourself. People do 
it all the time - but it is educative to find influential groups and nations 
playing that trick.

The "game" or trick is to get a person on the defensive with an unprovoked 
accusation. The agenda and tone is set by the accuser and the passive 
personality goes on the defensive right from the start.

Let me explain. For clarity I will call it the "You farted" game

A group of people are sitting together - say 6 or 7 friends in a hostel room. 
Suddenly the foul smell of a fart wafts up.

An accuser personality (call him 'A') picks out a passive personality ('P') 
and says "Hey P, you farted"

P protests "No I did not"

A: "Yes you did"

P: "Shut up and stop accusing me"

A:"He Ha. It's OK. No need to cover your guilt by getting angry. I know you 
farted. We don't mind - just warn us next time.

What happens in this exchange is that the Accuser 'A' has the initiative all 
the time. He sets the pace, and he sets the Agenda. He may actually have 
farted himself, but he gets away giving the impression that "P" is guilty.

Jace has just played the "you farted" game on me. Thanks, but no thanks.


> FWIW, there are sociologists in India. Some are on this list.

I have actually met some of the sociologists on this list.

shiv