Re: [Tango-L] Lead and follow

2008-10-10 Thread Tango For Her
Lois,

Perhaps the answer lies in illustrating the followers technique in terms of the 
lead.  For example, you know that you can show followers technique for 
beginning a step to the front, side or back.  

If I want to step, with my left foot, to my follower's left, I think in terms 
of followers technique.

There is more room if I keep my weight on my right foot, pivot with my feet 
together and begin my step forward with my foot while my knees stay together.

Contrast this with the back step where you really think of the leg 
straightening.

My point is that a leader who practices followers technique can move so 
delicately in close to his/her followers space, keeping her feeling balanced 
and musical.  I am rambling on.  I just like to show, specifically, what your 
legs look like when you use great followers technique to take a front step, in 
crossed position.  Use that movement as a teaser to get them into your class.

At home, I am known to turn on Jackson Browne, for example, and practice small, 
delicate steps ... tucking one foot behind the other, fake steps, the step that 
I just described, etc.  It teaches me to isolate my lower body from my upper 
body ... and it keeps followers technique in my "practice" routine.  

Hope that helps ... because, while I have never wanted to follow a man for any 
period of time, I do spend a lot of time practicing followers technique ... and 
I know that women wish the more men would do the same.


I am such a big advocate of leaders learning to follow!! But how do you get men
to 
understand this?  I have a class on following attended by some leaders who are
really 
committed to their dancing, and they are beginning to follow very well and it
is showing up 
in their leading. But it is not attended by the people who need it - especially
people who 
are teachers, or people who are teaching their followers (requested or not).
How do you get 
leaders to work on following?

Lois Donnay
Minneapolis






  
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[Tango-L] Dallas Milongas?

2008-10-10 Thread Tango For Her
I can find a list of the Dallas milongas.  But, can anyone tell me which ones 
are heavily attended by the better dancers?

Thanks





  
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Re: [Tango-L] Leading with hands

2008-08-01 Thread Tango For Her
With hands it
> cannot be 
> smooth.  AND with a bad lead I feel like I am being worked
> like a slot 
> machine. Horrbyy.


I think a follower's input will far out-weigh a leader's input on THIS subject! 
 I wouldn't want my follower to feel horrbyy about MY lead!  
;o)  My example, in my previous post, was just an exercise.

Thank you, Deby.  (Watch out for the leaders with a pocket full of quarters!)






  
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Re: [Tango-L] Leading with arms or hands

2008-08-01 Thread Tango For Her

> I always wondered what is wrong with a well executed lead
> done utilizing or invoving as a complement other body parts
> than the torso.
> 
> Do you have an opinion in this respect?
> 
> Notice that I said "well executed" lead. So
> please do not include 'bad habits' of people that do
> not know how to lead.
> 

On placing my arms and hands in different places:

Early on, I had a very stiff torsoe.  Some very valuable instruction was to 
place my hands and arms on various places on my follower's body.  This worked 
wonders to free my mind from doing everything the same way all the time.  
Imagine, for example, placing your right hand on her left shoulder.  Lead from 
your center, but, notice how much more aware you are of yourself and of her 
motion.

On leading with my belly:

My left foot has been hurting for years, now.  At times, I will take one dance 
and let my belly be the connection point.  Now, I am thin, so, I have to go out 
of my way to make it more pronounced.  But, (1) it takes a lot of pressure off 
my foot and (2) my partner loves the change.  Actually, it makes me more aware 
of leading a more dramatic molinete.




  
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[Tango-L] Homer Ladas

2008-07-29 Thread Tango For Her
> >From his bio:
> "Homer Ladas is currently an inventive enthusiast of the "One Tango" school 
> which attempts to study, integrate, and balance what's 'new' with what's 
> 'traditional'. "

I just wanted to comment that Homer is one of those unique dancers who is 
innovative, yet, when in his presence, he dances so well that I was able to 
just watch and learn.  That isn't always the case for me, being 6 feet tall, to 
adapt the techniques of someone who is quite a bit shorter.  What he does, he 
does with clean precision! 

I even took one of his classes, with my short (obviously) 8-year old daughter 
and we were able to perform his intricate moves quite easily.  




  
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Re: [Tango-L] Is tango sexy?

2008-07-22 Thread Tango For Her
I have always said, 

"Salsa is the sexiest dance in the world and tango is the most passionate dance 
in the world."

I know.  I didn't answer your question.  :o)





  
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Re: [Tango-L] ....who am I going to learn from? ..and when??

2008-07-12 Thread Tango For Her
Ooops!  I think my last post was an accidental hitting of the send button 
without actually typing something.  

Mario said a couple of things that I wanted to comment on:

Mario: "please, lower and don't move your shoulders because I'm trying to feel 
the step and the rest interferes"

I spent a year, or two, with women that knew me well enough giving me a signal 
when my shoulders tightened.  Sometimes, they outright stroked my shoulders.  
They would also, as my teachers did, whisper for me to breath. I just wanted to 
say that you received very good advice.  Any tightness in your shoulders will 
take the energy away from your center.  I think some of the women, on here, 
could probably elaborate a lot more than I.  

Mario: "dances THE pattern that I am ready to assimilate"

I just wanted to comment that, yes, too, will look at some patterns.  But, much 
more powerful is when you notice the intensity, or energy, that a great dancer 
has and try that on for size.  It will never be the same.  But, it is a great 
way to learn to get your heart and soul into the tango.  This will help you 
much more, in my opinion, toward bettering yourself as a slow dancer.

I remember in my second year of dancing, there was this guy with more intensity 
than I have ever seen.  I am not sure if he spoke English.  I never saw him 
talk.  Actually, I never saw him dance with anyone but his girlfriend (or 
wife?).  Anyway, I used to pick a song and "mimick" him.  Wow!  My brows were 
knit, my left hand was high like his, my posture was upright like I was 
flexing.  That's what I saw.  That's what I did!  I don't dance like that 
often.  But, time and time, again, I will pick a song and dance like him.  When 
I do, it is the most intense dance of my night.  

Other times, I will picture some of the great dynamic dancers that I have seen 
in the past and I will, as my private instructor advised, try to dance like 
them.  It is the most instrumental technique that I have to, I guess, break 
myself off of a plateau.

Sometimes, I emulate patterns and steps.  That's great, too.  But, to become a 
master of feeling the music, look around and observe those who ... bring the 
music to life.  Look for those who swell into a long, dynamic step.  Look for 
those who noticably dance behind the beat.  Etc.

Ugh!  Here I am sitting home on a Saturday night while everyone else is out at 
the milonga and I had to go and write that!  Well, at least, I am listening to 
Gotan Project while writing!



  
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Re: [Tango-L] ....who am I going to learn from? ..and when??

2008-07-12 Thread Tango For Her



--- On Sat, 7/12/08, Mario <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> wrote:

> From: Mario <[EMAIL PROTECTED]>
> Subject: [Tango-L] who am I going to learn from? ..and when??
> To: tango-l@mit.edu
> Date: Saturday, July 12, 2008, 8:01 PM
> OK, this is my last post for the week ..number 4 or 5 ..but
> I'm keeping within the rules
>   and to thank Huck for his enlightening post, I will not
> whine nor complain...
>   I am about to complete 10 months of sufferingly trying to
> learn to dance the Slooo Tango.
>   and it's time for a report.  I danced with a male
> follwer this week (repugnant because I 
>   am dancing Tango to 'feel like a man') and he
> said to me "please, lower and don't move
>   your shoulders because I'm trying to feel the step
> and the rest interferes") ..just like a 
>   follower...throws tea on the fire...anyway, it seemed
> like good advice but now I find that 
>   when I control my shoulders, I deaden my dance... what do
> you advise?
>I live in Phila. and am lucky to have some darn good
> instructors..I almost did the dreaded
>   change of life of prefering classes to
> Milongas...(Chris)..but I'm still going to both.
>I notice that it's not the best dancer that I learn
> from by watching..but rather the one of
>   my similar body type who dances THE pattern that I'm
> ready to assimulate..learn..and
>   he dances it slow and sloppy enough for me to see it in
> all it's glory..what do you think?
>Anyway, I could do a few more posts on this subject but
> I ran out of posts this week..
>   see you next week.  sincerely,  Flaco Mario
> 
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Re: [Tango-L] Will close embrace go the way of the dinosaur?

2008-07-10 Thread Tango For Her
Actually, I disagree that nuevo will decrease. It may not be called nuevo, but 
it will still be there.  The reasons are simple.

Nuevo classes (or, really, classes with tricky patterns) are popular.  That 
drives the nuevo scene.

But, also, we are all better at some things than others in this dance.  The 
majority of men find it easier to go down the path of excelling at tricky moves 
than at becoming smooth.

And, finally, women don't, typically, complain to the guy's face that he is 
throwing her around.  So, without that knowledge, they will keep doing what 
"they are good at", so to speak.  

Here are two intersting questions:

1. What percentage of guys have looking good and having fun on the top of their 
minds?

2. What percentage of guys have being softer and softer on the top of their 
list?

I would guess that #1 far outweighs #2.  It is what it is!






  
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Re: [Tango-L] Will close embrace go the way of the dinosaur?

2008-07-09 Thread Tango For Her
Mario says ... "My turn-on is the connection. The music is wonderful but the 
Tango connection is like  making love,
  even better in some ways."

Mario, you answered your own question.  There are enough leaders and followers 
that desire that smooth, soft tango to make the world go around.  Don't worry 
about nuevo.  It's there because it is great.  And, just because it IS there 
doesn't mean that people don't want passion!





  
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Re: [Tango-L] Qualifying Tango Instructors.

2008-05-01 Thread Tango For Her
--- Brick Robbins <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> wrote:
> Why look no further!
> 
> Such a program already exists, right here in the
> Tango Mecca of San
> Diego, California!

Yippee!  Patterns!  

That's just goofy.  Imagine someone who could teach
part of what is on those lists better than everyone
else in town, but could care less about the rest of
it, because his students were learning faster than
everyone else's.  

Are you going to "label" him, or her, a Bronze
teacher?  THAT, my friends, is ballroom.  Tango is an
art.

If you love patterns, go ahead and call yourself a
red, yellow or green-level teacher.  Those labels are
just advertising, business building, fodder.

I am going to the class that is taught by the artist.

Wow!  Imagine if Van Gogh couldn't remember patterns! 
Better not study HIS artwork!
 



  

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Re: [Tango-L] Qualifying Tango Instructors.

2008-05-01 Thread Tango For Her
--- Floyd Baker <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> wrote:
> Neat subject, eh?  :-)
> So how about testing instructors for their
> competance in teaching
> Tango?  etc ...

That is wrong/bad/intrusive on so many different
levels!  Neat subject?  No!!!  You can't be serious in
bringing this up!  

Here's a great example ... Imagine a committee of
folks from this list, just as an example, teaming
together to say that YOU cannot teach because YOU do
not teach like THEM.  Now ... is YOUR stomach turning
as much as mine?  Now, imagine a group of people from
halfway across the world taking away your passion.  If
you have students that like your teaching, they will
go to the teacher with either a very particular style
(to pass inspection) or to the teacher who has an in
with people in BsAs.  

My God!  Big brother is coming to shut you down!  

Let the community decide!

Let the students decide and let THIS subject go!

Sorry, Floyd!  This subject is revolting!
I mean, have the discussion.  But, it DOES go against
every grain in MY body!

Even super-structured ballroom doesn't have that!



  

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Re: [Tango-L] weight change

2008-04-28 Thread Tango For Her
Floyd,

I haven't had a chance to read your lengthy posts,
lately.  However, last week, someone posted that your
video (seeing you dance) suggests ... whatever ...
about your teaching.  

My comment to that is, "Yeah, right!"  How many times
have I sat and watched and commented to an advanced
follower, "Hey, he looks pretty good.", and get the
reply, "Not really.  He throws me around."  

I wrote something similar to that a couple of months
ago and someone wrote back saying something like, "It
takes advanced skill to be able to see ..."  

In my opinion, some of the greatest aspects of a
leader's dance cannot be seen as well as they can be
felt.

I didn't respond, last week.  But, now, it seems like
a good time.  Your recent posts, like other posts, are
insiteful.  And, I agree.  A leader can change weight
umteen times without leading the follower to change
weight.  How many times have we leaders done a back,
side, front while leading the follower to just take a
back step?  I agree.  The follower's weight change is
led.

I agree that, in open embrace, newer followers will
look down and take extra unled steps.  

I just wanted to say that I do intend, when I find the
time, to go back and read through your posts.  They
are insiteful.  




  

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Re: [Tango-L] on open-embrace teaching (was something on inventing steps)

2008-04-05 Thread Tango For Her
Actually, Mario,

If they were to teach (maybe, they do), they would
break down a few 6 or 8 step sequences (patterns) and
teach the steps and the feel from those.  

Again, across the great USA, the teachers with the
most successful classes are going out and finding 6 or
8 step patterns that are tricky or elegant and
bringing them back home.  Why?  Because that is how
you keep men in your classes.  The men don't, as a
norm, see that they are learning finnesse.  They see
that they are learning a pattern that they can show
off.  

However, if you go to the class looking for the
finnesse, the feel, you can get just as much out of
the class.

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--- Mario <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> wrote:

> Hi Trini,
>The last part of your email/post;
>   "I know they'll be folks on their no-pattern,
> just-dancing
> blah blah blah kick, but I just figure their tango
> is as
> limited as their thought processes. I'd rather not
> see
> that happen with you."
>   ...leaves me troubled. I am one who believes in
> no-pattern, just-dancing...(blah, blah, blah?)
>   Perhaps, there is just a misunderstanding in
> terms... someone kindly sent me these videos
>   of Osvaldo Ceneno dancing Tango.
>  
>
http://www.youtube.com/results?search_query=Osvaldo+Centeno+y+Ana+Maria+Schapira+&search_type=
>   I would point at these two dances as being
> no-pattern, just-dancing...would you??
>   Sure there is a cut ocho or two but does that
> disqualify it?
>   ..and if it is a no-pattern, just-dancing style of
> dance, what is there to complain about?
>   ..that it is unteachable by you?



  

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Re: [Tango-L] Torso (hips)

2008-04-04 Thread Tango For Her
For clarity:

1. The teacher was out in front of the class and we
were doing an exercise.  So, yes, I could see her
hips.  I wasn't dancing with her.

2.  You're right.  Someone once explained to me that
(not sure of the spelling), the Tai Chien (just below
the navel?) is the center of one's body ... not the
hips.  At the time, I was a young student and happened
to notice that watching her hips gave me great
reflexes.  And, I couldn't see her navel because I was
behind her.



--- Jake Spatz <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> wrote:

> Tango For Her wrote:
> > --- Dubravko Kakarigi <[EMAIL PROTECTED]>
> wrote:
> >   
> >> When I teach and demonstrate something, either
> with
> >> a group or individually, I insist on folks paying
> >> attention to my torso [...] and my hipwork
> > That is SO true.
> Come on... this is soccer lesson #1. Don't watch the
> ball, watch the 
> guy's navel. He can fake you out with everything
> except that.
> > Watching her hips allowed me to experience some
> really cool musicality.
> Not sure how you could see her hips while you're
> dancing with her, TFH, 
> but... well, let's just hope it wasn't salsa
> musicality.



  

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Re: [Tango-L] foot in mouth disease

2008-04-04 Thread Tango For Her
I receive insulting posts.

Mario receives insulting posts.

I see posts, all the time, that are insulting AND HAVE
NO PLACE ON THIS LIST!

So, Charles, and others who want to rank on Mario,
re-read Charles' post and look in the mirror.  Mario
made a mistake.  But, Mario doesn't deserve emails
like Charles' email when it is other people who are
provoking!

Continuously throw rocks at a dog and when the dog
finally snaps back at you, put him to sleep.  Nice! 
Real nice!

Take your foot out of your own mouth!  

I get privately praised by people all the time for
being nice and taking your bull.  People want
constructive posts and applaud me (and, I am sure,
others) for dealing with all of the provoking,
insulting posts.  

So, sorry if I can't sit back and watch YOU punch and
belittle Mario.  Give me a break!  

Don't throw rocks if you live in a glass house. 

Charles, take your own advise.  Stop sending posts
that belittle others.  Do what I do, often.  I'll
write the post and email it to myself.  I did that,
yesterday, with an email that I was going to broadcast
back to Stephen.  I sent it to myself.  Why?  Because
if I sent it to all of you, I would be doing what you
do.  Bringing down the level of quality on Tango-L.  

Don't you get it?  Everytime you publicly scold
someone, you make yourself look like, well, you have
your blinders on, anyway.  So, you won't understand.  

Man!  I CANNOT believe that YOU would be telling the
whole world that Mario needs to watch what he writes! 
YOU!

You write some great posts.  Why in the world are you
"putting other people in their place" all the time? 
You don't carry any weight, in THAT area, with us! 
You are NOT the worst offender.  But, YOU telling
others not to be like Mario is pathetic.

FURTHERMORE:

Charles said:

... too often the most vehement, intense and
argumentative are the ones by new dancers and
beginners whose rhetoric far outweighs their actual
experience.   Even worse, they may be, and often are,
wrong.   Many advanced and sophisticated dancers read
this list but don't post, in part because of these
kinds of responses. 

PLEASE, allow me to inform you.  People write to me,
privately.  When I ask why they don't post to the
group, they say that they don't want to be bullied and
scolded by, well, for example, you!  Are you really
trying to tell us that people don't post because of
Mario?  Look in the mirror!  Your last email should be
retracted!

Mario is worth a lot more to this group than either
you or me!!!  Mario is a true leader!  



  

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[Tango-L] Torso

2008-04-04 Thread Tango For Her
--- Dubravko Kakarigi <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> wrote:
>  
> When I teach and demonstrate something, either with
> a group or individually, I insist on folks paying
> attention to my torso (including my embrace) and my
> hipwork (is there such a word? like footwork?) and
> only secondarily to my legs and feet
>  

That is SO true.  Back when I took a lot of classes, I
noticed something that helped a lot.  Sometimes, the
teacher would have us follower her down the floor,
mimmicking her movements, her steps.  

If I watched her feet, just like everyone else, I
could not react quickly enough and would make a lot of
mistakes.

If I watched her hips, I rarely made mistakes.  She
was moving from her center.  Nice!  Lesson learned! 
She was doing these cool little step sequences and
embellishments to the music.  Watching her hips
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Re: [Tango-L] Do I have to invent every step of the dance, even her's ???

2008-04-04 Thread Tango For Her
Wow!  I must say, with all the low-ball trashing that
goes on here, you guys are picking Mario apart? 
Mario?  I don't blame him.  I would say that I
probably had the same upbringing as Mario.  Be nice
unto others.  He seems to be one of the few frequent
posters to hold himself to that standard.

Go ahead and team up against Mario.  I still applaud
him, because he seems to be THE BEST AND NICEST PERSON
ON HERE!

So, he lost his temper and swore.  That's nothing
compared to the misquotes and just plain fabrication
of stories just to make someone look bad.  THAT GOES
ON ALMOST DAILY!  Mario was just ticked off at some of
the low-ball hate that goes on.  Get off his case 
I'm sure someone is going to write back and 
 slam me, because, as Mario was saying, that's what
goes on here.  

Can't anyone find kind words to say to Mario?  Only
one other poster wrote back with kind words for him. 
That's pathetic considering how much he has done for
all of you!

Again, thank you, Mario, for who you are and what you
have done for us!

*** What?  Am I wrong?  Can you find a nicer
frequent-poster on this list? ***



--- [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote:

> 
> > As for your swearing at a lady ... well, I guess
> we had different upbringings.
> > 
> 
> Keith,
> 
> thank you very much for this reminder on respectful
> behaviour. 
> Seems as if such a reminder is needed, because the
> swearing 
> seems to have been overlooked by previous posters.
> 
> So, dear gentlemen, if you easily lose your temper
> when confronted with an opinion that is contrary to
> yours,
> please take more time to think before pressing the
> button. 
> 
> Let's not forget that respect is crucial - in life
> as in the dancing.
> 
> Anna 
> 
> 
> 



  

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Re: [Tango-L] Do I have to invent every step of the dance, even her's ???

2008-04-03 Thread Tango For Her
Stephen, I wasn't describing an exchange of lead and
follow.  I might be taking it wrong.  But, it almost
seems as though you are lashing out calling me a
dominating leader.  Please, read my post for what it
was.  A clear cut example.  Don't twist what I was
saying.

I was describing that I lead a boleo and seconds go
by, many, many seconds, while she does her
embellishment.  During that time, nothing was led.  No
conversation was taking place.  She, simply, created
the space to invent.  Exactly what Mario was asking
about.  

I didn't say there was anything wrong with that.  
I said I don't prefer it.  

Again, I was giving an example where the follower
takes/makes the room to invent.  

The example was from a couple of occassions of dancing
with a couple of women that went on to do quite well
at show tango.  I'm proud of them.  And, I wasn't
talking about "dominating".  That's a different story,
a different thread.

And, for the record, there are a lot of little
conversations that go on that are, more or less, led
by my followers.  And, I LOVE them!

Oh, and, it definitely wasn't exhange of lead and
follow.  She wasn't leading me to do anything.


--- [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote:

> "Tango for Her" wrote:
> >Occassionally, I have led very advanced followers
> who,
> >when I lead a boleo, for example, pretty much, take
> >over the dance.  No room for conversation.
> 
> You mean there's no longer room for the conversation
> that you direct.  An 
> exchange of lead and follow, with or without a
> change of embrace, is a 
> different way to converse--one that is less
> dominated by the so-called 
> leader.
> 



  

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Re: [Tango-L] Do I have to invent every step of the dance, even her's ???

2008-04-03 Thread Tango For Her
Mario wrote:

... do I have to know exactly what the follow is to
 do at all times? Is there no 'creative space' where
the lead can open his stance and just let the follow
invent?? 

I read that you received some good responses.  I
haven't read through those, yet.  

First, I just wanted to say that your subject "Do I
have to invent every step of the dance, even her's
???" makes me want to give the simple response: You
suggest where she is going to step and, as she moves
through the step, she is using her follower's
technique and musicality to do her movement.  So,
while you invented what you want to do, every woman is
inventing right back at you.

Second, regarding you question, "Is there no 'creative
space' where the lead can open his stance and just let
the follow invent??", there IS creative space.  Here
is an example that I, actually, don't like, but,
extremely good followers are doing it, so it does
exist.

Occassionally, I have led very advanced followers who,
when I lead a boleo, for example, pretty much, take
over the dance.  No room for conversation.  I could
eat a sandwich while waiting for them to finish. (Yes,
and exaduration.  But, you get my point.)  Now, I
prefer that the dance be about the connection. 
However, those women are actually quite good at show
tango.  So, there you have it.  There IS creative
space and some followers use it quite well.




  

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[Tango-L] I applaud you, Mario

2008-04-03 Thread Tango For Her
Was: Too many videos spoil the dance.

Mario,

I've told you this privately.  I guess it might be
appropriate to say this publically.

I applaud you for driving this group by giving them
some very interesting questions and observations.  You
are learning, not just because you are watching all of
those videos, but also because you have all of these
online instructors answering your questions ... for
FREE!!!  And, I bet many members on this list
(including those answering your questions) are
learning a lot.

Don't stop watching those videos!  It definitely is
NOT a "VERY serious mistake"!  

I, for one, am jealous that you have the time, energy
and healthy feet to do all that you are doing.

Once in a while, Mario gets beat down (a little or a
lot) by some responses.  I wonder, for Mario's sake


EVERYONE OUT THERE ... DON'T YOU AGREE THAT MARIO IS
MAKING THIS LIST MORE USEFUL AND IS, PROBABLY,
LEARNING A LOT FROM THOSE VIDEOS (ESPECIALLY, GIVEN
THAT HE DOESN'T HAVE MANY (OR ANY?) LOCAL TEACHERS
AVAILABLE?

Again, I applaud you, Mario!!!



--- [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote:

> sopelote wrote (among other things):
> 
> <<>>
> 
> Talk about a subject that won't die, or better yet,
> advice that is never 
> heeded.   It is a very serious mistake to attempt to
> learn tango from videos 
> unless you are already a VERY advanced dancer.  
> Many beginners continue to do this 
> and continue to wonder why it doesn't work when they
> do it. 
> I think what happened to you was just a good example
> of why you 
> shouldn't...and where did you get the notion that
> making your chest concave would somehow 
> make you dance better?!? No wonder your followers
> can't follow you.   Apilado 
> has nothing to do with it. Stop watching so many
> videos and learn from a real 
> person, or better yet, practice what you already
> know (or don't know well) 
> because you still seem to have too many basic
> problems yet.
> 
> Charles
> 
> 



  

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Re: [Tango-L] Where are her feet and where is her weight?

2008-04-02 Thread Tango For Her
A quick answer, without getting too deep:

When I dance, I am always concentrating on my
follower's free leg.  I am not focussing on my feet.


--- Mario <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> wrote:

> Last night, I did not dance well.  Certain
> 'mistakes' are starting to repeat
>   themselves...ie: turning or stepping to my left
> when the woman's weight is
>   on her right foot and I am not leading an
> ocho...ugh..I did that around three
>   times in different dances..it makes for an ubrupt
> halt to the flow...duh.
>   So, I'm thinking that I have gotten too loose and
> am letting my consciousness
>   go wherever it feels like it...the music, the
> other dancers, etc. etc.. and so,
>   I stumble into a mistake.
>   My question is to the men and women who dance
> close embrace.
>I'd like to hear any feedback from women about
> being conscious of the lead's   
>consciousness of her weight placement...anything
> at all would help.
>   And I'd like to hear from the Men;  How do you
> keep the woman's weight/foot placement
>   in front of your consciousness at all times? Do
> you keep reminding yourself of it?
>   Have you found a way to incorporate it into the
> whole feel of your dance?
>   Is there a trick to it that you've discovered?..Do
> you visualize it (without looking down)
>   somehow??.. all comments appreciated..
> 
>



  

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Re: [Tango-L] Not leading vs.leading the cross

2008-04-01 Thread Tango For Her
I remember in classes, the discussions of leading
versus automatic movement relative to the cross.  But,
as you mature, from the leader's point of view, there
is no automatic cross.

If you want her to cross, then you lead such that the
path of her upper body suggests that the left foot
should pass in front of the right.

If you do not want her to cross, you lead with a
strong enough intention so as to communicate to your
follower that her foot should not cross.

There is a gray area in between.  That gray area is
the "automatic" area for followers.  They have been
taught that it is (can be) automatic, so they,
typically, choose to cross.  That's fine.

I DO think that a lot of leaders are thinking in terms
of "automatic" and, therefore, aren't thinking in
terms of clarity for the woman.  

So, to come around full circle, there shouldn't be any
"automatic" thinking for the leader.  There should
only be the awareness that there is "automatic"
thinking by the follower.  And, even at that,
"automatic" is a bad word.  Doing what someone (a lot
of people) called the "protocol" is a better way to
put it.

With all that said, it is still an improvised dance, 
an improvised dance where accurateness sure makes it
so that the follower doesn't have to help the leader
do his part by operating in automatic mode to cover
for the leader who is leading with ambiguity!



  

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Re: [Tango-L] I'm starting to see the pauses

2008-04-01 Thread Tango For Her
Mario,

A private lesson can give you a lot of detail on
"feel" in this dance.  So, when it is available to
you, my advise it to put your chest on the chest of a
very good dancer.  Here's an example that might help
you to believe what I am saying.

I had signed up for a week-long series of privates in
close embrace.  There was something that I wasn't
getting.  It was quite a while ago.  I think it was
that I wasn't moving far enough forward so that she
could complete her cross correctly.  

Anyway, she finally led me.  WOW!  In all the words
that she could say, I wasn't getting it.  It was a
much stronger lead than I imagined.

I had the same experience in a workshop led by a
milonguero from BsAs.  (I don't remember who).  But,
my partner dragged me over to him and said, "Show him"
to the instructor.  Again, wow, what a strong lead! 
And, again, all the words in the world weren't showing
me.

So, my advice is, now and then, when there is
something having to do with feel, and you CAN find a
good teacher to dance in close embrace with, do it! 
It works!!!

By the way, I'm surprised all of the Basic-8 teachers
haven't spoken up.  In the basic pattern, the 2 and 5
positions are natural places to pause ... well,
natural places to teach the pause.  Your partner will
appreciate it. 



  

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Re: [Tango-L] On similes and such like...

2008-03-30 Thread Tango For Her
Mash wrote:

Similes; some women which I feel have taken the most
offence to these; take pause before you heap prejudice
on a man's comments. Allow us men, humbly to think out
aloud and allow us the poetic license to describe the
moments with you.  

I just want to add something.  

Back when I wrote about "moving my follower like a
brush on a canvas" and women responded taking offense,
I got their point of view.  I, definitely, could have
said things differently.  

Yesterday, I wrote something and it struck Nancy a
certain way and I got it.  And, I am a better person
for getting it.  I think it was okay that Nancy
responded the way she did.  I wrote to her,
personally, to better understand.  I hope everyone can
let personal matters be personal matters until both
parties understand.  It makes the world a better
place!

And, by the way, I didn't find anything wrong with
Mash's post.  I just found it to be thought-provoking.



  

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Re: [Tango-L] ..where did the balance go?

2008-03-30 Thread Tango For Her
I read Nancy's possibility and, right away, knew that
her's was more appropriate, for the situation, than
mine.  When I got to her last paragraph, gulp, I knew
she was talking to me.

Lesson learned.  Thank you, Nancy.



--- NANCY <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> wrote:

> Let's assume another possibility.  That Mario, a
> student of tango of only six months who, by his own
> admission, learns mostly from YouTube, might not
> have
> a good axis or balance or leading ability himself. 
> Remember he is in a community where there are no
> teachers according to him.  He might have a floppy
> left arm and a pushing hand, he might raise his
> right
> shoulder and do the 'teapot' action on her, he might
> be overleading her with his arms, he might be
> tentative in his own body movements .  Unless the
> lady
> falls over when standing by herself, she might have
> perfect control of her own balance and axis and
> movement until it is disturbed by some man.  
> 
> I will also point out that milonga steps are quite
> small while some newbies love to do long, reaching,
> performance steps to slow tangos and cannot keep
> their
> own balance when they do so.  If they don't lower
> and
> soften their knees, they launch the lady like a
> catapult.  Maybe he is using her for support.
> 
> I am pretty fed up with some men on this list who
> believe that women have nothing to contribute and
> that, because women die to dance with them in their
> own insular communities, that makes them experts. 
> Go
> to a major festival or BsAs and see how good you
> are. 
> Some of the best US teachers are there - taking as
> many classes as they teach every weekend.
> 
> 



  

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Re: [Tango-L] ..where did the balance go?

2008-03-29 Thread Tango For Her
Mario,

You asked a good question.  I'll try and answer it,
again, a little more simply.

If she is unbalanced when she dances slow tangos,
then, it's a good guess that she is using you for
support.  

Putting it simply, concentrate on giving her your
center.  Let the middle of your chest be her contact
point.  Let the middle of your chest be YOUR focus.  

If she is using your left hand to keep her balance,
then, take that crutch away from her.  It's YOUR
dance, too.  YOU can choose to give her a beautiful
tango, a tango where the connection comes from your
center.  

In doing all of this, she will enjoy a much more
beautiful tango.  Why?  Because the two of you will be
connected in thought, effort and balance at your
centers.  Beautiful tango comes from your center.  She
will become more balanced.

Never make anyone feel uncomfortable.  Always strive
to give them a more beautiful dance.  Personally, I
have found that to be true with the above advice.  If
anyone feels otherwise, then constructive criticism is
always welcome.

I hope this helps.

And, by the way, I've been dancing for somewhere
between 5 days and 50 years.  I don't think about it
much beyond that.  Life is too good to spend my time
worrying about such trivia.





  

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Re: [Tango-L] ..where did the balance go?

2008-03-28 Thread Tango For Her
This isn't THE answer to your question, but let me add
this ... 

I have always said that the leader and the follower
both have the same job:
- The leader's job is to keep the follower balanced.
- The follower's job is to keep herself balanced.

I could elaborate on the leader's part:

The leader: 
- Should never do anything to upset the follower's
balance.
- Should not allow the follower to use his body for
balance.

So, if she ever uses your left hand to keep herself
balanced, make your left arm go, more or less, limp. 
Take that crutch away from her.

If she leans on your right shoulder or grabs at your
back with her left hand, make up an excuse, tell her
you have a bad shoulder.  Yes, the more appropriate
advise might be to not dance with her.  But, if you
are going to dance with her, take that crutch away
from her.

All in all, you job is to take her crutches away.  I
believe that without those crutches, she will find her
own balance.  She probably doesn't know why she is
having that problem.  But, now YOU do!

In quicker dances, like milonga, the is forced to keep
her body more vertical just to keep up with her feet. 
That is, if she gets off balanced, she'll never keep
up.  S, obviously, she CAN keep herself balanced. 
She just has bad habits that take over when she slows
down.  Take her crutches away!

Good luck!




--- Mario <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> wrote:

> There is a woman that I dance with in the local
> Milonga. 
>   She is tall and about ten pounds
> overweight..(medical standard)
>   She has been taking classes for a couple of years.
>   Her balance when dancing a slow tango is fatal.
>   She almost falls over when doing a simple side
> step.
>   It's all I can do to keep her upright.
>   However, in the Milonga (song) she dances as good
> as anyone
>   and better. We dance closely and she never
>   misses a step and her balance/axis is never a
> problem.
>   I would like to talk to her about this difference
> in her dance
>   but I really don't understand it myself. 
>   Can anyone (women especially) give me some idea of
>   what could produce such a  big difference in her
> quality
>   of dance and perhaps how to get her slow tango
> more
>   towards the balance and sureness of her Milonga ??
> thanks!



  

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Re: [Tango-L] Who invented the basic step?

2008-03-27 Thread Tango For Her
Actually, I think, if you dance like Chicho, it's the
inside of your foot first.

But, seriously, is it okay to scratch your nose in the
middle of a dance?  Or, should you be like Rambo and
tough it out?

(Actually, Mario, good questions.  I'm just getting a
little punchy at work and the Martin and David comedy
hour is pretty funny!  Actually, Martin's way out of 
the basic-8 topic deserves a Nobel Prize!)


--- David <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> wrote:

> Martin,
> 
> Thanks for clearing that up.  Now could you tell us,
> is it Toe First or Heel First?
> 
> David
> 
> 
> > From: Martin Waxman <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> 
> Subject: [Tango-L]  Who invented the basic step? 
> To: tango-l@mit.edu 
>  
> > I've been following this discussion for a while,
> and I have an admission. 
> I did. 
> I'm sorry. 
> Please forgive me. 
>  
> Now, let's talk about something else. 
>  
> M 



  

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Re: [Tango-L] followers expressiveness

2008-03-19 Thread Tango For Her

--- Michael <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> wrote:

> Jackie:
> You are writing about the confluence of technique,
> musicality, and emotion. I'm skipping technique. 
> 
> First, musicality. My teacher helped me think
> outside the box. He put on music, and said "Now
> dance, ALONE!" The first time I danced like a
> leader. Then he said, "Next time, dance like a
> follower."  The third time, he said "Now interchange
> between lead and follower's roles." The next time he
> said "Do an ocho and go the other way. Don't worry
> about line of dance. You're the only one dancing in
> your house." I was leading myself. Because I was
> dancing alone, there was no partner to worry about.
> Followers need to hear the music for themselves, so
> they should practice by themselves. Now, they can't
> say "the leader rushed me or didn't give me a change
> for an adornment."
> 

I do this, at home, with the shades drawn.  I think
through leads and I study follower's technique.  I
like to practice to Jackson Browne because it makes me
dance tight, small follower's technique like what
would occur in close embrace.  And, that helps my
leading ability greatly.  

As for applying this to teach followers about adding
musicality to the exchange ... I hadn't thought of
that.  I suppose that dancing different size steps
with different feels, alone, would be a great
exercise. 

I had teachers lead us through the type of exercises
that Michael wrote about.  It was very, very helpful.



  

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Re: [Tango-L] followers expressiveness

2008-03-18 Thread Tango For Her
I also wanted to express that my two favorite
partners, over the years, are very, very expressive. 
One danced a lot of salsa quite well and the other
danced a lot of hustle, and other dances, quite well
... for what that matters.

Also, I don't think there is any small number of
exercises that can be stated for teaching followers
expressiveness.  I think it comes from followers
really wanting it and teachers really teaching it ...
a lot.  And, I'll bet that cross training amongst
different types of dances helps ... especially where,
in tango, followers are treated as extras in the
classes ... so the leaders can be accomodated.  

So, hurray to Jackie for asking!  I hope something
comes of this!




  

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Re: [Tango-L] followers expressiveness

2008-03-18 Thread Tango For Her
On teaching musicality through the step ...

I play blues guitar, specifically slow, bending blues.
 A lot of my movement, in dance, is similar to the way
my left hand bends the strings.  It's a lot like the
curves from the webpage that I mentioned.  

Eric Clapton, and others, sometimes, use a wah-peddle.
 I think he used it, a lot, with Cream.  Can anyone
think of a song where he uses it a lot?  

Anyway, if anyone can find a good piece of music where
the wah-peddle is used and you can try some tango
exercises moving through a step with the same feel as
the wah-peddle, let us know.  

I am working a lot, these days, and won't have a
chance to look for a good piece.  So, again, if anyone
wants to experiment with this, let us know.

I bet Jimmy Hendricks had some examples.




  

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Re: [Tango-L] followers expressiveness

2008-03-18 Thread Tango For Her
I get a lot of resistance from teachers on here, but,
I still feel that there are a couple of things lacking
from traditional teaching.  Just mark this down as
“thinking outside the box”.  

(1) Teach a class where the leader indicates the
direction and feel of the step, the follower steps and
the leader follows the follower through the step. 
Experiment with various types of music.  Instruct the
follower throughout the class on musicality.  Let the
leader be along for the ride.  Why not?  Teachers
always set the follower up to be the “extra” in the
class.  Have the leader follow the follower through
the step.

(2) Remember my post on making the pivot be more
important than steps?  Okay.  Using #1, above, teach
the follower to move in and out of the pivot
musically. Yes, teach the leader, too.  But, I am all
for teaching the follower and send them out to the
milongas with feel.  Then, the leaders will feel it
through them!   

Can you spot the people, at milongas, that move with
varying feels (energies) into and out of the pivot? 
Sit and watch.  There are probably only a few in your
community.  Yes, NYC, Denver, and others will have
more.  

One time, my partner invited an advanced leader from
another community to our milongas for the weekend.  I
love my partner.  She has what Jackie wants to teach. 
I gave her all the space in the world.  Later, I said,
“So?”  She said, “I miss that feel.”  No kidding.  I
was watching.  He had a great variety of leads.  For
sure, I sat and, mentally, took notes.  But, I knew he
was missing one thing:  He wasn’t changing the feel as
he moved through a step.  You know?  Give her some
passion!  Cool leads are, well, cool!  Passionate
movements are musical to the n-th degree.

Here, go to this webpage:
http://www.2dcurves.com/exponential/exponential.html 

Click on the various exponential links.  Teach your
leaders and followers to feel the music according to
different curves.  Let the x-axis be distance through
the step.  Let the y-axis be speed, emphasis, energy,
anything other than the boredom of constant speed and
energy!  

Create exercises where they dance to the violin, the
voice, etc.  Create exercises where they think of
dancing heavy, like a clown, etc.  AND, give examples
derived from those curves.  

Make it fun!  Let it by funny!  And, above all, stop
teaching just the leader!  The follower paid, too!



--- jackie ling wong <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> wrote:

> as most people on this list know, i lead and i
> follow.  i have been  
> told that one of my best qualities as a dancer is my
> ability to  
> express myself musically.  to quote someone... "you
> dance the music".   
> this is not through only embellishments.
> 
> now, i have led many followers... and there are
> followers who just  
> follow which is nice and then there are followers
> who dance with  
> you  who dance melodically... and hear the notes
> that are   
> emphasized and can translate that to their dance. 
> it feels like they  
> are reading my mind because my expression in the
> dance becomes so  
> easy.  her/his boleo considers not only the time of
> the movement but  
> the energy, how the beat is used (emphasized at the
> beg. of the  
> beat...etc)...  it feels like painting.
> 
> i probably am not expressing this correctly and
> please don't give me  
> grief for that.  in fact, if someone can express it
> better, i would  
> love to hear it.
> 
> my question...  how do you teach this?  is there an
> exercise that can  
> help people understand what i am saying?
> 



  

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Re: [Tango-L] Advertising - NYTimes.com: Argentine Nights

2008-03-17 Thread Tango For Her
Here are a couple of examples: 

Ballroom is fun to watch, but Argentine tango is THE
social dance!  Don't you agree?  
Contact us for lessons at www.YourTangoSite.com,
(111)555-1212, or stop by and see for yourself!

or

Men, women watch ballroom on TV.  But, they are
passionate about the real Argentine tango.  
Contact us for lessons at www.YourTangoSite.com,
(111)555-1212, or stop by and see for yourself!  You
won't turn away!



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[Tango-L] Advertising - NYTimes.com: Argentine Nights

2008-03-17 Thread Tango For Her
Man!  Is it just me or is that the best picture you've
ever seen for advertising tango?

Damn!  I wanna learn!

I think communities should look into getting the
rights to using it and think of a great caption to
lure men into the sport!





  

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[Tango-L] Shoulder problems

2008-03-12 Thread Tango For Her
I just saw a post response about the rotator cuff.  I
want to pass along some great shoulder-protection
advice that I got.  This would work as a warmup before
dance, as well.

I used to have moderate shoulder problems due to
lifting weights.  One day someone told me that
everytime I begin a workout, I should begin with a
simple warmup ...

I use 8 pound weights. With elbows slightly bent, hold
the weights out in front of you at about shoulder
height.  Bring your hands out to the side and back in
front of you.  I do this about 15 or 20 times.  

This gets the blood into your shoulders.  Now, as I
start my workout, my shoulders are more protected by
blood.

I am writing this because I have never had another day
of shoulder problems since starting this about a year
ago.






  

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Re: [Tango-L] plantar faciitis - possible solution

2008-03-11 Thread Tango For Her
That's pretty wierd timing!  I was just going to write
an update email.

Yesterday, I went to someone who specializes in body
alignment, massage, etc.  

He showed me that, without my orthotics, my left side
(with the bad foot) is quite a bit lower than the
right side at the knee, hips and, a bit at my chest,
finally correcting at my ears.  This creates a C-shape
in the spine. He showed me that one side is more
forward than the other (I forget which -- I was
looking in the mirror AND am dyslexic.).  He even
showed me that my left ear sticks out more than my
right!

Then, I put my shoes, with orthotics, on.  That
discrepency was much smaller.  So, the arch in my left
foot had fallen.

When one side of the body is higher than the other
side, you step down to the shorter side making your
weight transfer to the inside of your foot as you
leave it, thus stressing the foot.  (I am being vague
about which foot because, as I am writing this, I
realize that, again, in looking in the mirror, I have
my left and right mixed up ... just like in tango
workshops!)

So, I have stressed a part of my foot and leg.  

The plantar fascia is actaully a part of the achillis
tendon.  This gets narrow at the heal, goes under the
heal and and fans out under the foot, reaching to the
toes.  It also fans out up well into the calf.

He, very painfully, showed me that I have knots along
the inside of the fascia from the big to right up the
side of the shin.  I knew about the ones under my foot
and have been working them out for 2 months, now. 
Now, the next day, my leg is in pain all the way up
the inside, half way up the calf.

I will have repeat visits.  I am to, 3 times a day,
put a hot facecloth over the area for 15-30 seconds,
to open the pours.  Then, rub some anti-inflamatory on
it.  Once a day, I am to soak my foot in ice until
numb for about 15 minutes before the procedure. 

The ointment has: ILEX, Glucosamine, MSM, Aloe, E,
Curcuminoids, Boswellia Serrata and it is called
Orthogel by Orthopedic Pharmaceuticals.

I told him that I would do the same massaging up my
calf that he did, between visits.  But, man, does it
hurt!  I'll let it rest.

I am "The Human Guinnea Pig".  

All I want is to get my tango back! ... is a lie!  I
want to be able to walk around the house an do chores!
 All I do is sit!  

I hope I've finally found the right doctor!!!




--- meaning of life <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> wrote:

> 
> a while back there was some discussion about plantar
> faciitis. the person said that it was so painful
> that massage, and other traditional and non
> traditional options were not viable. the other day,
> when doing some therapy work, the client (a hair
> stylist and tango dancer) showed me some SPRING
> heeled shoes. now these were some WIERD LOOKING
> shoes, but he said that they FIXED his plantar
> faciitis, and allowed him to dance with reckless
> abandon, and this guy is a dancing maniac.
> 
> http://www.zcoil.com/index.html
> 
> if nothing else, you will be able to leap tall
> buildings in a single bound. hope this helps some of
> you out.
> 
> dance on
> 
> david



  

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Re: [Tango-L] tall men in close embrace

2008-03-11 Thread Tango For Her
I haven't had time to read through the posts.  But, I
have an interesting, probably, quite different, tid
bit:

I am 6 feet tall.  Tall enough to comment.  I have had
a very bad left foot.  So, I have learned to lead in
rather different ways.   Don't laugh! :o\  Here goes:

I do this just once in a while to rest my foot.

You know how older clocks are driven by wheels with
cogs?  One wheel turns clockwise and, because the cogs
(teeth) are interconnected, the next wheel turns
counter-clockwise.

Well, if I make contact with my belly and turn my body
counter-clockwise (turning to my left), I can, quite
easily, lead my follower to turn her body clockwise
(to her right).

Then, as I slightly take my belly way and turn a bit
further, she takes her front step.  

Women comment that "it is different" and "it is
effective".  They don't mind it and they know why I am
doing it (compensating).

I recommend teaching it only as a body-awareness
exercise just as you should teach to change your
embrace.  Maybe, it would do the trick for a taller
man with the problem mentioned by Jackie.  

Hey!  I said don't laugh!





--- jackie ling wong <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> wrote:

> i have two very tall guys...  like alex krebs... in
> my beginner close  
> embrace class.  i have tried everything and still
> they come very close  
> to stepping on their partner's feet.  i can dance
> with them because i  
> really extend but others have problems.  they are
> beginners so i  
> understand the problems with leaning extension,
> intention etc at that  
> level.  i also explain that you have to find the
> connection with every  
> partner you dance with because size, height, embrace
> is different with  
> each person.
> 
> but...  does anyone have any special advice that
> they find resonates  
> with the "giants"?  are there any differences?  in
> emphasis?
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[Tango-L] Read This and Spread the Word !!!

2008-03-06 Thread Tango For Her
Thank you Joanne!  Ummm, Pay it Forward!  ;o)

--- [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote:

> D. David Thorn wrote:
> "So how do we do this?"
> 
> IMHO, the?way for any dancer to improve their
> community is to strive to be the best dancer that
> they can be.
> The journey is different for each person.
> Support each other's journey and rejoice in?it.
> Encourage each other to carry on.
> Call up those dancers who have fallen away and
> encourage them to come to the next milonga.
> Tell them that you miss dancing with them.
> Tell them it's not the same without them.
> Everyone needs a community.
> See you on the dance floor.
> Joanne Pogros
> Cleveland, Ohio



  

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Re: [Tango-L] Get real

2008-03-06 Thread Tango For Her
Jake's long response, IMO, is the best of the long
responses.  Allow me to give my short response that,
to me, sums it up:

Argentine tango, at least the way I dance, is about
the feeling.  As Jake said, the patterns, etc, come
after that.  You could more closely relate A.T. to
waltz than ballroom tango!

By the way, if anyone writes back and says that
ballroom is about the feeling, too.  I would have to
respond with, "No, I mean fling."







  

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Re: [Tango-L] Get real

2008-03-05 Thread Tango For Her
Okay.  Take it for what it is.

You go to a ballroom studio and try to lead a ballroom
tango "follower" in Argentine tango and they are off
to the races, confused as all hell as to why you
aren't moving!

You go to a milonga, and the follower follows you.

Leave it at that and this entire discussion can stop.
Unless we want to move along to "Are dogs and cats
alike?"  




  

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Re: [Tango-L] Argentine Tango Dancer Census

2008-03-05 Thread Tango For Her

--- Alex <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> wrote:

> Not very many in the scheme of things...but that's
> the way we want it,
> right?
> 

Hell, no!  I want more!  

Take away the top handful of dancers in town and the
quality really drops.  Imagine if, instead of, as you
say, 200 passionate dancers per town, there are 1000. 
That would extrapolate to 25 dancers of that same
quality.  More to go around.  More improvement through
osmosis.  More nights of dancing.  More teachers with
enough students to fill a classroom.  Better dancers. 
More passion!

Imagine more and more and more leaders!  All those
women who used to sit no longer sit!  

More people means more teachers who can fill their
classes.  And, you KNOW what that means!  More
teachers means more teaching styles!

More!  More!!  More!!!


Sorry!  I moved from a big city to a small city. 
Trust me.  Bigger is better!!!



  

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Re: [Tango-L] Pointers Please

2008-03-05 Thread Tango For Her

He probably meant that the leader changes weight
without leading the follower to change weight, thus
ending up in the crossed system.

"Change Weight" - Good name for a diet book.

--- Andy Ungureanu <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> wrote:

> 
> 
> Am 04.03.2008 19:50 schrieb David :
> >
> > The leader starts off with a side step to his
> left, followed by an un-led weight change to get
> into crossed system (a fairly common thing).  
> >
> >   
> There is no such thing like a "un-led weight change"
> except by 
> beginners. There is such thing like a subtle lead
> that you don't see...
> 
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[Tango-L] Digital Video Cameras

2008-03-04 Thread Tango For Her
I am seeking advice on the correct digital video
camera to purchase for videoing my dance sessions.

I want a video camera that is:

- lower cost
- easy to setup (attach a tripod, etc)
- works well with less light as is usually the case in
dance studios.
- easy to transfer videos to dvd or to youtube.

What specs should I be looking for?
Any suggestions on certain brands/models?






  

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Re: [Tango-L] BsAs glow (previously bad, wrong, Nuevo)

2008-03-02 Thread Tango For Her
With all due respect ... WOW!  

I mean "due respect" because I'm sure we've each had
our own experiences.

But ... a woman has been dancing for a year or two. 
Her softness, her connection is at whatever stage it
is.  She goes to BsAs.  She returns.  Her
softness/connection is soo much more beautiful! 

Whatever the discussion is about retention, or
measuring it months later, I relish dancing with a
woman as she returns.  I want to be amongst the first.
 Because, from dance to dance, she gets normalized
back into the level of her community.  And, to be
there to dance with her when she first returns is such
a pleasure.  

Whether she can explain it in technical terms, or not,
many times, she has learned to control her weight and
positioning, making her connection much better.  








--- Victor Bennetts <[EMAIL PROTECTED]>
wrote:

> 
> Is it tango osmosis or tango radioactivity? Either
> way it is a common phenomenon. Someone goes away for
> a few weeks to BsAs and when they get back everyone
> wants to dance with them and see how they have
> changed. They have been exposed to tango plutonium
> over in BsAs and are basking in the 'BsAs glow'.
> 
> I wonder how real people's perceptions of each other
> can be in this situation and to what extent they are
> influenced by circumstance, accident and projected
> expectations. For instance, compare the way people
> say their dance has changed when they first get back
> from BsAs with the way others perceive it and there
> is often a mismatch. Also you might have a fabulous
> dance with someone the first day back only to have a
> terrible dance a week later, or visa versa.
> 
> IMHO, there is only so much that you can change in
> your technique while you are away, no matter how
> many lessons you take. Most people would be trying
> to jam in as much social dancing as they can manage,
> and in that context breaking and remaking your
> technique would be pretty much impossible. Your
> navigation may improve a bit if you are a leader and
> you might have a slightly better appreciation for a
> wider range of styles as a follower, but your basic
> technique is not going to have changed too much.
> 
> Much more telling in my view is the lasting
> impression left a few months later which has nothing
> to do with osmosis and everything to do with
> practice and hard work. In our local community there
> are a few followers here who have just gone ahead in
> amazing strides in the last three to six months and
> the only radioactive material they have been exposed
> to is, I am sure, their own hard work. One day you
> take them in the embrace, take a few steps and you
> start to wonder if they are the same person and say
> - wow that was as good as anything I experienced in
> BsAs.
> 
> Victor Bennetts
> 
> TFH>Osmosis:  I love being one of the first leaders
> to
> >dance with a woman when she has come back from
> BsAs.
> >She has a much improved connection.



  

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Re: [Tango-L] bad, wrong, Nuevo

2008-03-01 Thread Tango For Her
Both osmosis and hours are important.

Osmosis:  I love being one of the first leaders to
dance with a woman when she has come back from BsAs. 
She has a much improved connection.  Soft!  It fades
after time.  Did she spend a lot of hours dancing in
BsAs?  Sure.  But, to be sure, it was osmosis.

Time:  I remember in college, if I spent, say, 10
hours/week studying for a class, I could get an A.  If
I spent, say, 4 hours/week, I might get a C.  Same for
many other things in life.

Here's another example of osmosis:

Sometimes, I'll spend a lot of tandas dancing, at
milongas, with newer dancers.  Then, when I dance with
my soft partner, it takes a song, or two, before I,
too, become soft.  If I had just been dancing with
another soft dancer, I am very soft and connected,
right away, when I dance with my partner.







  

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Re: [Tango-L] bad, wrong, Nuevo

2008-02-29 Thread Tango For Her
David, what you said summarizes pretty well.

This is a guess.  I think that a lot of people who are
learning steps and are really lacking in connection
think that their connection is okay, because when they
look around, their connections is good relative to
everyone else in the class, or most people in the
community, for that matter.  Why would they question
their connection?  Women are sitting there just
waiting to dance with them! 

I don't think it's, so much, a choice of what they
desire.  It's just the world of success that they live
in.  Your success is measured by whether you can get
around the floor and whether you can get through the
classes looking good.  

As for whether there are teachers who teach
connection.  Consider this  a large number of
people that actually go to classes go to the classes
that have the best society, the group of dancers where
you feel like you are having fun, you belong, etc. 
When women who, IMO, teach connection much better than
men, start a class, they aren't necessarily successful
at filling the room.  They ARE out there.  People just
don't care to recognize what they are teaching as
important ... definitely because they don't have that
great society.

By the way, a lot of people aren't learning connection
from the teacher.  They are learning it because the
teacher has found a way to get a few advanced and
intermediate/advanced dancers to come to their class. 
A lot of people are learning connection through
osmosis, period!  Put your chest on the chest of a
smooth dancer and you will soak some of it up.

Have you ever noticed when someone from NYC comes into
your community?  They could be dancing for 6 months
and feel like they have been dancing for 2 years. 
Why?  Osmosis.  They are dancing with better dancers. 
Are the teachers in NYC better?  Many are pretty damn
great.  But, osmosis gets the credit.

  

--- David <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> wrote:

> IMO, another way of describing the two camps, is
> that some people are much more into the
> "connection", while other people are more into the
> "steps".  While I'm still rather new to tango, I
> have an appreciation for both points of view.  
> 
> The basic issue (as I see it), is that people can
> teach "steps" in a much quicker amount of time than
> they can teach "connection" (actually, I'm not sure
> if anyone knows how to teach it, or if it's
> something you just have to figure out for yourself).
>   If you ever have a dance where there is a really
> good connection, you understand why it is so
> desireable (as well as why it's inconsistent with
> some of the nuevo stuff).  That being said, I do
> like trying some of the "fancier" steps as well. 
> (I just wish I were better at it).
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Re: [Tango-L] bad nuevo tango

2008-02-29 Thread Tango For Her
It seems to me that nuevo dancers don’t care about all
of your opinions.  You say they are bad dancers.  

Ha!  We are from Pluto and Pluto is not a planet to
them!  You see, on Pluto, we are conscious of finess,
passion, closeness, softness.  On Pluto, we are
conscious of the opinions of that other planetoid,
Buenos Aires.

But, they are not from Pluto.  They go to their
classes and learn patterns.  Take a young tango
community, for example.  The instructors do their best
to grow the community.  How?  Duh!  Teach them
patterns so they will keep coming back to class! 
(Young tango communities do not exist on Pluto.)

So, here they are, patterning their hearts out and
along comes nuevo.  Such energetic music!  Made for
doing those patterns faster and with more vigor! 
Yh  

They look at their feet in class and they look at
their feet as they are racing to the music!  Little
boys will be little boys.  And, the instructors will
keep the little boys in class by giving them patterns
so they can show off.  

Don’t blame the women!  Because there are so many of
them, they are at the mercy of the community, the
leaders.  Funny how, when a partner is required, the
few rule!

So, there you have it.  We Plutonian dancers who know
of “good” tango (our own Plutonian definition of good)
and we spend our time talking about them thar
non-Plutonians.  

Hehe ... Meanwhile, them thar non-Plutonians don’t
have a complaint in the world.  To them, they are
amongst the best in their communities.  THEY can
sacada and gancho.  THEY can do patterns!  THEY are
s happy.  THEY are doing exactly what they were
taught  Perfection.  Satisfaction. Happiness.

Funny people, we passionate Plutonians!

Now, what was the point of this thread?

Oh, yeah ... to complain about them thar happy
non-Plutonians.  Ahhh.  Now, I feel better.  I
wasted all my prescious time complaining about “The
Happy People”.  

PLUTONIANS UNITE!





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Re: [Tango-L] women as leader

2008-02-27 Thread Tango For Her
Dyane,

Keith wrote: 

"...since you won't have the feeling of Tango that we
all crave..." and "...Tango is essentially a dance
between a man and a woman."

Let's say that 10,000 people dance tango. 
 
Let's say that Keith's "we" represents however many
people Keith has consulted with, say, 50 people.  

There is nothing wrong with the opinion of those 50
people.

There is nothing wrong with the opinion of the other
9,950 people, either.  

IMHO  ;o)

If we spend our precious time on this glorious earth
creating stories about what is wrong with other
people, then we spend our precious time on this
glorious earth creating stories about what is wrong
with other people.

If we spend our time moving forward in life, say by
dancing our own tango, then we spend our time moving
forward in life, say by dancing our own tango.

Which do YOU choose?

Happy dancing!







  

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[Tango-L] Mario, Mario, Mario

2008-02-26 Thread Tango For Her
Mario, Mario, Mario,

Don't let anyone deter you from your quest.  You have
all these teachers, and others, 

(1) following YOU and 
(2) pleading with you to stop deviating from their
norm.

Way to go!

This is EXACTLY what Tango-L needs!

You are so inquisitive!  You have every teacher, on
here, speaking up defending their basic 8 reasons for
... having, well, basically, 8 reasons ... including
me!  Way to go!  (What?  You other teachers can't
admit it?)

If you haven't posted in the last week, may I ask? 
Isn't it refreshing?

Thanks, Mario!





  

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Re: [Tango-L] Bridge to the Tango

2008-02-25 Thread Tango For Her
Daniel Trenner and crew really knew what they were
doing with Bridge to the Tango.  I wish they were
still available.  

All of the followers technique videos are priceless. 
I think there were three.  I think all followers
should have a copy.

These five are great on video and beyond genius in
person:

Brooke Burdett
Daniel Trenner
Luciana Valle
Rebecca Schulman
Sharna Fabiano

The rest of these are, also, incredible:

Jose Garafolo
Omar Vega 
Some of Fernanda Ghi and Guillermo Merlo 
Carolina Zkalski and Diego Di Falco (especially the
waltz figures)
El Pulpo

I don't remember his full name, was it Zotto and
Carolina?  Anyway, it took me a bit to understand what
Zotto was doing.  I thought it was she who was so good
(and she is!).  Then, my parnter told me to go back
and watch how he lead her.  I am sooo glad she said
that!  He shows the way to setup your follower in
various positions related to your body and in
conjunction with the music.  Study Zotto and dance to
D'Arienzo!!!  That man's lead is clean! 

Although I've never seen any of his videos, I have
taken a lot of workshops with Fabian Salas.  I have to
believe that his videos must be great.

Even though I had workshops and 6-week classes over
and over again with most of the people on this list, I
can still go to their videos and, in most any section,
refresh my memory or cleanup my technique.

But, where in the world are you going to find these
videos?




--- [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote:

> 
> I'd like to hear from someone who has experience
> with the "Bridge to the Tango" CDs/DVDs.? 
> 
> What are the five tapes you would recommend most for
> an intermediate/advanced dancer?
> 
> And, what are the five tapes you would *NOT*
> recommend?
> 
> I purchased a couple of these things a few years
> back and I found the quality was uneven.? The
> "milonga" was a style that is not common in either
> Buenos Aires or Portland, for example.
> 
> 
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Re: [Tango-L] What's the trick??

2008-02-23 Thread Tango For Her
"I lead, she steps, and I follow her" ... I've coined
a few phrases in my day.  But, I never said I coined
that one!  I just owned up to posting it on Tango-L. 
:o\

As for the woman pulling the leader off axis, one of
the best statements ever told to me when I said
something like that was, "YOU are enabling her."  So,
whatever it is that she is using, take it away!  Try
completely dancing HER dance ... well, try completely
dancing the dance that she will be dancing when you
take her crutch away.  lol.  Then, she will discover
herself!  Most of them don't realize they are doing
it. (But, I know what you mean, Michael.  Just taking
their crutch away, in itself, is an expertise!)

AND, I'LL SAY IT AGAIN!  

In between all these drawn out posts on things like
the basic-8 and what it means to teachers, ugh!, when
a rare, and very useful, gem like Michaels comes along
... 

READ IT, SOAK IT IN, AND LEARN FROM IT!!!

( Gotta point out the good stuff when it comes along.
)


--- Astrid <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> wrote:

> Actually, I believe, the dancer who coined that
> phrase "I lead, she steps, 
> and I follow her" was Carlos Gavito...
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Re: [Tango-L] What's the trick??

2008-02-22 Thread Tango For Her
A, welcome to the world of advanced tango! (I say
that in jest.  I'm sure you've been there for a
while.)  

Anyone, including myself, who wrote "I lead, she steps
and I follow her." is addressing the 9 out of 10 (or
is it 49 out of 50) beginner and beginner/intermediate
leaders who step first to lead.  That phrase is an
excellent way to make a course adjustment.  As you
become an advanced leader, you are constantly fine
tuning as you described below.

I know there are a lot of teachers out there who don't
prescribe to that method.  But, I know that it slowed
me down and slowed down a myriad of others enroute to
where you are.

While I completely agree with what you wrote below, it
is also important to note that if, and when, you think
about indicating the feeling of the step and then
following her, you will be lucky to realize that every
dance is different because you are allowing her to
give more of the dance to you.  

It's a matter of what you want to experience.  Growth,
even on the best of nights, comes from doing it both
ways.  :o)

In the end, I'm just writing to give and take with
your well put description and to clarify my statement
a bit.  


However, 
I think 
leaders should read 
what you wrote 
over 
and over, 
again.  

Thanks!  This is one of the best written posts that I
have read!!!




--- Michael Figart II <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> wrote:

> Hola list,
> I gotta put a cent or two in here, in response to
> someone who wrote "I lead, she steps and I follow
> her."
> Yes, I've heard this also, and it sounded really
> cool
> when I'd been dancing for 2-3 years, (I'm a slow
> learner). The way I dance now, and the way I feel
> about this subject now, is that if a follower does
> this, she is anticipating and pulling on me. My lead
> is to show my partner the nature, the length, and
> the
> direction of the step. As she gathers all this
> information, her job is to interpret it, and do her
> very best to step exactly WITH me, not to step ahead
> of my step, but to help move our bodies in sync with
> one another.
> The job is not get from one foot to the other, but
> to
> enjoy the time in between, when you are passing
> through, or pausing in, that magic, weightless point
> in between steps...don't rush it, there's a lot more
> time in there than you think.
> Yes, this can get kinda blurry in many cases, and
> there are many times, in quick steps, or milongas,
> etc, where the last part does not seem to apply, but
> a
> leader should never have to follow his partner. And
> if
> you'll practice this, especially to really slow
> music,
> I'll guarantee you'll become a better dancer, on
> both
> sides of the embrace.
> My best to all,
> Michael (Houston Tx)



  

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[Tango-L] Shared Pivots - Prerequisites

2008-02-22 Thread Tango For Her
Mario asked about learning shared pivots.  

I advise that a prerequisite to leading shared pivots
is to learn and become confortable with various drags
and sandwiches.

Any other suggestions?





  

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Re: [Tango-L] What's the trick??

2008-02-22 Thread Tango For Her
I think it is great to help someone five months out as
they tackle *back* sacadas in their socks.  The
Internet, most definitely, does not make for bad
dancers as a rule!

Good catch, Jay!

Great suggestion to do the back sacadas in his socks
to save the poor woman's legs from being bruised. 
That was a big catch!  I kicked the hell out of my
partner when I was learning!  And, when following a
leader when he was learning, he kicked the hell out of
MY legs!  

So, should anyone out there have questions about tango
technique, please, do keep posting them.  Many of us
will continue to answer them.  Some will caution you
about trying this at home without the assistance of a
paid teacher.  Haven’t you noticed the subtitles? 
“This was performed on a closed course.”  ;o)

Keep dancing!  And, keep posting!!!  This list is,
definitely, not just for teachers wearing hard hats! 
The Internet is a great way to learn.

Thanks for all the questions, Mario!!!  I like to
think that Tango-L was made for people like you and me
who want to learn from the Internet.




  

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Re: [Tango-L] What's the trick?? Sacadas

2008-02-21 Thread Tango For Her
It doesn't miss the point because I never said that it
"does any work".  It's just in her path.  Matter of
fact, later on in my post, I state that her body is
making the movements happen.

However, Steve's post does add to the description of
this movement.  Thanks.  Matter of fact, anybody,
please, add to these posts.  Dancers read their email
waiting and waiting for discussions on technique that
they can use.  


--- [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote:

> >>During a high sacada, your thigh is placed in the
> path of her thigh. 
> During a low sacada, your calf is placed in the path
> of her calf.<<
> 
> This misses the point that a sacada is mostly an
> illusion.  You lead the 
> woman's step.  As the weight comes off her leg, you
> step into position in 
> front of the leg to be displaced.  The fact that you
> have shifted weight 
> to another position is what alters her body
> movement; she is staying in a 
> circle around you.  Your "displacement" does
> relatively little work; it 
> really just slightly deflects her leg movement as
> she is taking the normal 
> step that you have led. 
> 
> Steve



  

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Re: [Tango-L] What's the trick?? Sacadas

2008-02-21 Thread Tango For Her
Regarding sacadas, if you are learning them without
instruction, then be sure to seek "safety"
instructions.  For example ...

High and low sacadas:  

During a high sacada, your thigh is placed in the path
of her thigh.  During a low sacada, your calf is
placed in the path of her calf.  If you are hitting
knees, someone may get hurt.

Thighs vs Knees:

Be sure that you are placing your leg in the path of
her leg as her weight is leaving that leg.  If you do
it too soon, you will push through her leg while it is
still planted on the floor, thus, potentially, hurting
her knee or other part of her body.  

You are indicating, not forcing:

She should feel the presence of your leg.  It is an
indication that she should change her body motion
accordingly.  You are not forcing her body to do
anything!  I say "change her body motion" because
there is a lot to what her body is doing and you asked
about what 'you' should do.

Foot direction:

You should place your foot in the direction that you
intend to move.  

Two examples with her going around to your left:

1. If you are stepping in with your left foot, turn
your left foot to the left.

2. If you are stepping in with your right foot, turn
your entire body to your left.

A general reason for this is that you should be
thinking a step ahead.  Conversely, if there is a
problem with a step, look to see what you were doing
in the previous step.

360-degree pivot:

As for the 180-degrees issue.  Sometimes, I will lead
the first step of the dance as a side step.  I will
step in with my left foot and, by the time I have
transferred my weight back to my right foot, she has
pivoted 360-degrees.  I have taken two steps and she
has taken one step.

Be careful!  I have followed leaders who have kicked
me and wracked my knee!



  

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Re: [Tango-L] No dancing before the music

2008-02-20 Thread Tango For Her

--- "Trini y Sean (PATangoS)" <[EMAIL PROTECTED]>
wrote:

> >From my experience, this attraction to non-Tango
> music is
> just a passing phase.  As people get better in the
> dance,
> they begin to hear the music better, and then they
> come
> back to traditional music. 

I'll agree that they come back to tango music. 
However, I make the observation that, where tango is
an improvised dance based on side, back, front steps
and the pivot (and a little more), that it is a
natural art to be taken into other music.

Similarily, although I don't dance it, it looks like
hip hop is an improvised dance based on, for each
movement, isolating one part of your body.  Again, it
looks like that is another example of a dance that is
wide open to go anywhere.

I see tango expanding.  Heck, it's even starting to
contain flips and the such.




  

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Re: [Tango-L] No dancing before the music

2008-02-20 Thread Tango For Her
Oh, heck.  I'll jump in with a personal note ...

I started tango, yars ago, because I was recently
divorced and loved the social aspect of exchanging
partners in classes.  

"Tango?  A rose between my teeth?  Oh, God!  But, but,
it's the only class starting this month!  Why can't
there be a simple swing class?  This is going to be
so hokey!  Wh!", I said as I sat at home
alone.  "Wah."

Now, you all know that I started with no appreciation
for the music.  And, those thorns were killers!  ;o)

Years later, I am no different than thousands of
others in that I am called "musical".  Hurray!

A newbie follower enters the room.  

Should I, or one of the many others who are "musical",
dance with her a bit, she might feel the music.  She
might come to understand the music.  Of course, she
might come to understand the music all by her
lonesome.  Hm

In the meantime, I welcome her, and all others, to
this great social world!

Oh, yes.  And, as for newbie leaders ... Get them into
the dance!  All those women just sitting there!  Those
are my friends sitting out for the entire evening! 
Who are we to send any leader away!  Send them to
those followers who can, in turn, guide them toward
classes!  A year later, they might just be "musical". 
Heck, they might be "musical" right away.

In the meantime, all those chairs wouldn't be so full.

And, I am very glad that I wasn't sent away because
the music wasn't blues or classic rock!

On a side note, my teenage daughter moved in with me a
few months ago.  When we ride in the car, together, of
course, we listen to "her" music.  Now, "her" music is
"my" music!  Imagine all the fun we would have missed
out on if I had just listened to "her" music by myself
for a year!  My life as a newbie is god!






  

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Re: [Tango-L] No dancing before the music

2008-02-20 Thread Tango For Her
Look at all the people who had already been dancing
tango and then they heard tango with a Condombe
influence.  

Think of all the people who heard it and got it!

Think of all those people waiting a year before
dancing to it!

Think again!

(You pegged me, though, Janice!  Instant gratification
is one of my downfalls.)


  

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[Tango-L] 3,3,3 Dance from the Pivot

2008-02-19 Thread Tango For Her
3,3,3 – Dance from the Pivot

How do I get away from patterns long patterns?
How do I give my patterns more life?
How do I improve the feel in my dance?
How do I play with musicality?

The answer to all of these is 

   “Try everything 3 different ways”.  

Okay, try things some number of ways.

Here we go ...

Perhaps, you are leading a molinete around to your
left.  

You, the leader, are on your right foot.
You are leading your follower to complete a frontstep,
pivot her to face you, and take a sidestep.  

Continue the above “pattern” with any of the
following, according to how the music moves you.

You just completed the frontstep and pivoted her to
face you ... before beginning the sidestep.

EXAMPLE 1:  Wiggle

Just pivot her back and forth.

Then, continue with the sidestep.


EXAMPLE 2: Start a Reverse Direction

First, reverse her pivot so that you can start a
backstep, sending her back from where she came.

A. Take her into the beginning of a backstep (make her
right leg extend, keeping her weight over her left
leg) and then back into the frontstep.

B. Start the backstep and lead a boleo coming back
face-to-face.

C. Use a lot of tortion in leading the backstep.  Lead
yourself to do a backstep (staying on your right
foot).  Touch your left foot to her right foot
(rather, almost touch). Come back to face-to-face. 
Or, do that same tortion move, again.  Women say that
it feels great ... and, it looks great!

D. Take her all the way into a backstep.  You take a
backstep, too.  Then, you both take a frontstep.  You
both pivot.

E. Take her all the way into a backstep, leading her
to do an embellishment.  (You could mirror her
embellishment).  Take her back into a frontstep,
pivot.

After all versions, continue with the sidestep.


EXAMPLE 3: Start her into a backstep

A. Move your chest forward enough to make her extend
her right leg.

B. Do (A), but extend your left leg forward to match
her right leg.

C. Lead her to a full backstep.  Accompany her.  Lead
her back to a frontstep.

After all versions, continue with the sidestep.


EXAMPLE 4: Play with the Side Step

A. Lead her to extend her right leg a little and back
to a collection.

B. Lead her to extend her right leg a lot and back to
a collection.

C. Lead her to extend her right leg while extending
your left leg.  Pause.  

D. Take a sidestep with her, pausing before her left
leg and your right leg moves.

After all versions, continue the sidestep.


Doing any one of these will take you down the journey
of having the dance emanate from the pivot!  Again, in
my opinion, if you want to give your dance more
feeling, if you want to get away from patterns a bit,
if you want to surprise your follower, giving her more
opportunity to use her technique and elasticity, then,
dance from the pivot!!!

Enjoy!







  

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Re: [Tango-L] No dancing before the music

2008-02-18 Thread Tango For Her
Deby,

I couldn't agree with you more.  Everyone is
different.  So, a general statement that you would
have to listen to the music for a year before dancing
just isn't true across the board.  

If, perhaps, there IS a person out there who really
would be terrible at dancing until, after a year of
listening to the music, they came around, then, I
would still say, even in that case, he/she
should/could go out there and dance his/her heart out
as they are learning the music through listening.  Why
wait? (That's a rhetorical question!)

Just imagine telling someone to listen for a year,
then come back!  That person could have been one of
the most wonderful dancers lost to our fun little
sport ;o) if they never get around to coming back!

We're all different.

Nice website, www.lavidacondeby.com, and nice place! 
Your links must be helpful to a lot of visitors to
BsAs!







--- Deby Novitz <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> wrote:

> With all due respect, I agree that one must
> understand the music and to 
> feel it.  It is what makes the difference between
> someone dancing, and 
> someone running through a series of steps and
> patterns.
> 
> What I do not agree with is the attitude that
> someone must listen to the 
> music for a year before learning to dance.  To be
> honest, I hated the 
> music when I started.  I only wanted to learn
> because I saw Forever 
> Tango and I was sick of salsa.  Had I been told I
> needed to listen to 
> the music for a year, I never would have learned
> tango or had the 
> experiences I have had and continue to have.  I
> think there are many 
> people like me.
> 
> Now of course I love the music.  I learned to
> appreciate it and to feel 
> it.  I think this happens for many people.  People
> need to be encouraged 
> to learn new things, not pushed away from them.  Not
> everyone is 
> destined to become a good dancer.  There are people
> who were born 
> listening to tango and cannot dance a step, or do
> not dance well at 
> all.  The most important thing is that you enjoy
> what you do, and if you 
> get good at it, then all for the better.




  

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Re: [Tango-L] Tango-L Helping Newbies Dance in Tight Spaces

2008-02-15 Thread Tango For Her
When I was shown that, his intent was merely to get me
to do anything different than just walking in box
shapes and doing back ochos.  

I was doing an exercise taking my partner to the
cross.  It was probably driving him crazy how boring
the exercise was.  So, his real intent was to show me
my first bit of fun at the cross.

So, with my example, I was trying to give the simplest
example I could think of.  From there, you're right,
there's all kinds of great over rotation that can be
done.



--- Carol Shepherd <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> wrote:

> Maybe you mean that a front ocho figure is a good
> holding pattern?  Or 
> did you mean that a front ocho or back ocho figure
> can also be over- or 
> under-rotated to realign the couple's direction, to
> navigate around a 
> couple that has stopped to execute some kind of
> non-progressing figure. 
>   Also the milonga cross (ocho cortado).
> 
> Tom Stermitz showed some great tips a few years back
> on leads using 
> diagonals from the line of dance, to work into empty
> corners and to the 
> sides, to have enough space to do something more
> exciting than shifting 
> weight in place, and to avoid traffic jams. 
> Unfortunately, I don't see 
> many people using it in their dance (diagonals are
> the key navigation 
> tool taught in ballroom, in travelling dances).
> 
> Of course using this to pass presupposes that room
> exists for a second 
> lane of dance.
> 
> Tango For Her wrote:
> > ( New leaders, save these!!! )
> > 
> > Nice!  Here's another:
> > 
> > Back when I was just past being a newbie, but
> still
> > could only do the basic few patterns and only in
> one
> > direction, I got some helpful advice.  There was
> an
> > extra teacher hanging out in the room, helping
> here
> > and there.  :o)
> > 
> > This move really gave me some freedom (it's a
> front
> > ocho to my right side):
> > 
> > I am on my right foot.  My follower is on her left
> > foot.  We are facing each other.  
> > 
> > I pivot her so that her toes are pointing to my
> right
> > side.
> > 
> > I lead her to take a front step.
> > 
> > I pivot her so that her toes are in line to step
> back
> > in front of me.
> > 
> > Yes, I am leading a front ocho.  She steps back in
> > front of me.
> > 
> > I pivot her so that her toes are pointing back at
> me,
> > again.
> > 
> > Done!
> > 
> > You can also teach the leader to step back while
> she
> > is stepping forward, then, step in place while she
> > completes the front ocho.
> > 
> > YES, new leaders are going to chicken-wing the
> hell
> > out of that move.  YES, they are going to lead it
> with
> > their arms rather than their body.  But, at least,
> > they have the freedom to do a "cool" move without
> > going anywhere!
> > 
> > Hmmm, I could have written that better.  Was that
> > visual enough?
> > 
> 
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Re: [Tango-L] Tango-L Helping Newbies Dance in Tight Spaces

2008-02-15 Thread Tango For Her
( New leaders, save these!!! )

Nice!  Here's another:

Back when I was just past being a newbie, but still
could only do the basic few patterns and only in one
direction, I got some helpful advice.  There was an
extra teacher hanging out in the room, helping here
and there.  :o)

This move really gave me some freedom (it's a front
ocho to my right side):

I am on my right foot.  My follower is on her left
foot.  We are facing each other.  

I pivot her so that her toes are pointing to my right
side.

I lead her to take a front step.

I pivot her so that her toes are in line to step back
in front of me.

Yes, I am leading a front ocho.  She steps back in
front of me.

I pivot her so that her toes are pointing back at me,
again.

Done!

You can also teach the leader to step back while she
is stepping forward, then, step in place while she
completes the front ocho.

YES, new leaders are going to chicken-wing the hell
out of that move.  YES, they are going to lead it with
their arms rather than their body.  But, at least,
they have the freedom to do a "cool" move without
going anywhere!

Hmmm, I could have written that better.  Was that
visual enough?

:o)


--- NANCY <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> wrote:
> -
> Why not show them something they all already know
> how
> to do?  Remember your first dancing?  What did you
> do?
>  Well, you put your arms around the girl's waist and
> 
> she put her arms around your shoulders and you 
> stood
> in place, rocking back and forth ( ahem..Rock
> Step!)  Tell them to use this whenever navigation
> becomes a problem.  That is certainly what the
> milongueros do.  It also helps the newbies become
> aware of where their weight and the weight of their
> partner is.  They can make a 180 turn doing little
> rock steps to see if there is an escape route out of
> a
> traffic jam and never go against the line of dance.
> 



  

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[Tango-L] Help Newbies Dance in Tight Spaces

2008-02-15 Thread Tango For Her
Help Newbies Dance in Tight Spaces

When I was a beginner, my first milonga was on a very
small, very crowded floor.  No room to move. 
DisasterVille!

Later, as a more advanced dancer, I had a few
interesting private lessons.

1. I had a private lesson with a partner.  It was in a
10x8 space.  The teacher walked in front of us and his
partner walked behind us.  He changed his pace,
dancing in place, dancing slowly, moving in a burst,
etc.  “In BsAs”, he said, “if you leave a gap between
you and me, someone will enter the dance floor in
front of you.  So, I want you to keep the same tight
distance behind me.”  It was quite an eye-opener.

2. I had a private lesson dancing with my teacher in a
10x12 room.  We could only go around the room once or
twice for the entire song.  That, too, was quite an
eye-opener.

3. Another lesson was for training to perform.  I was
instructed to dance in phrases, small, tight moves
followed by long sweeping moves.  Again, I became
aware of dancing at different speeds.

Now, of course, I know how to dance in place when
there is no place to go.  Sometimes, I even,
purposely, dance behind the slowest leader in the room
just for the practice. 


Here’s my quandary:

Why all this talk of walk, walk, walk for beginners?  

Why  all this talk of the pieces of the basic-8?   

(Those are rhetorical questions.)

Why not have a week-long discussion on the problem at
hand:  

*** Beginners have trouble in tight spaces. ***

I posted an example on , Tue, 12 Feb 2008 09:18:53
EST, “Breaking the paso basico with simple movements” 


I know that that exercise worked wonders.  It allowed
beginners to move in tight spaces.  There must be all
kinds of teaching examples that you can come up with. 

It just seems that the two discussions, “walk, walk,
walk” and “the basic-8” are just spending a lot of
time just defending or breaking down these teaching
styles.  Those teacing methods already exist and new
leaders still have nightmares when they get out to the
milongas.  So?  I know you all must have some great
teaching examples for solving this problem.  Let’s
hear them!

Again, I am saying nothing positive or negative about
walking and basic-8 exercises.  I just think it would
be interesting reading, for all of us out here, to
hear what other gems you have for helping the newbies!

Thanks ahead of time!

   



  

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Re: [Tango-L] Wiggles

2008-02-13 Thread Tango For Her
I found a couple of short wiggles at 48 seconds and
again at 1:18 of Homer's video:

Spirals:
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=PLedV1o4Y7A&feature=related
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Re: [Tango-L] Breaking the 'paso basico.'

2008-02-13 Thread Tango For Her
Interesting side story ...

As a beginner, I remember a teacher asking if any of
the leaders could dance themselves into a cross.  That
is, dance their own feet into a cross.

I volunteered.  The only way that I could conceive of
doing that was to lead the basic-8 as though my
partner was the leader and I was the follower.

Mission complete!

My point is ... I guess, all I knew was the Basic-8. 
So, keep writing those posts on how to break out of
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Re: [Tango-L] Wiggles

2008-02-13 Thread Tango For Her
But, some women who are dancers LOVE wiggles.  They
tell me that it is so musical.  And, I haven't had
anyone resist it, yet.  H, food for thought.


--- Nina Pesochinsky <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> wrote:

> Women who are dancers HATE wiggles.  It is a
> meaningless move that 
> says nothing, misses a bunch of music and does not
> feel good.  If men 
> want to do it, they better be sure that they know
> the woman they do 
> it with, and know for sure that she likes it, or
> they might run a 
> risk of woman just standing there waiting for the
> man to stop wiggling.
> 
> Best,
> 
> NIna
> 



  

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Re: [Tango-L] Wiggles

2008-02-13 Thread Tango For Her
Women LOVE wiggles.  They say it feels good.  But, I
can say that wiggling their hips really accentuates
their shape.  

One time, I was dancing with a woman right in front of
her ex-boyfriend, recent ex-boyfriend.  I made sure
her back was to him and I led quite a few wiggles as
we passed by his seat.  Actually, we wiggled, shared
pivot, wiggled, something else, wiggled.  I remember
making quite a display of it!

I mentioned it to her, later.  She said, "I know what
you were doing.  And, thank you!"  :o)




--- Melroy <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> wrote:

> Sorry but I just call it a wiggle, if it's the same
> thing I do - and it
> sounds like it.
> I'm sure there is a more correct term, but hey, a
> wiggle's a wiggle  - why
> complicate things.
> Actually I like wiggles.
> Mel.



  

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Re: [Tango-L] Wiggle

2008-02-12 Thread Tango For Her

--- Mario <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> wrote:

> Here is a  video of Shastro doing some wiggles with
> his ocho cortado..a little past half way thru, they
> will definately begin.
>   http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=z5Ne2cKDFz4
> 

No, that definitely isn't it.  I don't have access to
youtube at work and I couldn't find it tonight.  The
problem is that it is a feel good move, not a show
tango move.  It feels good to the woman to have that
tortion put into her body.  These videos are
performances.  Again, the move isn't for performance. 
It is for soft tango.

The woman stands on one foot, feet collected and I
wiggle her body.  If I wiggled, once, bigger, rather
than short, it would be a boleo.

 

 


  

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[Tango-L] Omar Vega's videos

2008-02-12 Thread Tango For Her

> > 
(http://tangohk.com/\) 

Nice site, Keith.

You have a link, on there, to TheTangoCatalogue.com. 
Unfortunately, Daniel Trenner's efforts seem to have
been lost.  That site no longer offers the large
collection of videos that were created by Daniel and
crew.Does anyone know where to find them?

I am, specifically, looking to replace my lost copy of
Omar Vega's tango instruction video.  




  

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[Tango-L] Wiggle

2008-02-12 Thread Tango For Her
I was asked, "What's a wiggle?"  I have to confess
that see things and feel things in tango, but words
will never stick!  

When I play BB King-style, or Clapton-style blues
guitar, it's called vibrato.  In tango, can someone
help me, here?  

When I "wiggle" my partner, I am pivoting our chests
back and forth quickly.  The effect is to create
counter-tortions in her body.  The energy transfers
down through her body into a wiggle of her free foot. 


Musically, it feels great to come out of this movement
into a back ocho.

Anyway, someone else will have to help me, here, with
terminology.

Then, ask me a month from now, and I won't be able to
tell you.  :o\  






  

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[Tango-L] Breaking the paso basico with simple movements

2008-02-12 Thread Tango For Her
The most successful approach I have ever used for
teaching newbies and helping beginners and
beginner-intermediates does not involve counting. 
And, I like using this method when leading a very
large class, like at one of the big events where
various teachers are rotated through each week.  The
first time I used this was in front of 80 people and I
always partnered with the newest followers.  I added
in a little walking, but, mostly, here’s what I did:

Show them that being face-to-face, with the leader on
his right foot and the follower on her left foot is
“home base” (step 2 of the basic).  I would constantly
tell them, “If you ever feel lost, remember that (when
dancing in parallel), you are at home base half of the
time.  This is the place where you can readjust your
connection.”  We spend a lot of time at this point. 
Always take them back home.  Every other step is that
comfy place where the leader can find his follower,
again.  

Then, I proceed to teach them about pivoting the
follower.  I stick to 90-degree pivots and wiggles
where the follower ends up back at whatever position
she started from.  

Then, teach them about rocksteps with the follower
facing the leader, with the follower’s left side to
the leader and with the follower’s right side to the
leader.  

Mixed with this is giving the leader the comfort of
figuring out how to change feet (to and from crossed
position) without moving the follower.   Simplify it! 
Clear their heads of all those other responsibilities
and let them get in touch with their own feet!

So, what do we have so far?  

If the follower is on her left foot, the leader can
rockstep, wiggle her, or turn her 90-degrees so that
her left side is facing him.  When her left side is
facing him, he can rockstep, just have her step
forward, just have her step back, pivot her or wiggle
her.

If the follower is on her right foot, the leader can
wiggle her or turn her 90-degrees so that her right
side is facing him. When her right side is facing him,
he can rockstep, just have her step forward, just have
her step back, pivot her or wiggle her.

I would turn on the music, giving them a simple
exercise.  Wait until I found a large number of
leaders or followers doing the same thing wrong.  Stop
the music, discuss it, show it, fix it and start the
music, again.  

By the end of the class, leaders where stepping in
tight 2-track parallel steps.  Leaders were changing
their feet.  Followers were more at ease at what to do
with their free leg during these movements and while
the leader was thinking.  I mixed in a lot of the
follower instruction.  And, they were moving together
without frustration.

At the end of the class, I demonstrate a dance with
the newest follower in the room; a dance where we
never toke more than one step from our original spot;
a very musical dance with which everyone could
identitify.  The follower feels as though she is doing
s much!  The leaders see, in a long demonstration,
that it really IS a beautiful dance without having to
do all those steps, without having to walk, walk,
walk, even though they still feel uncomfortable.

You can hear a pin drop during the class and everyone
feels comfortable, more musical and more in control. 
A great side-effect is that leaders no longer spiral
to the center of the room.  They gain the control to
be able to stay on the outside of the dance floor. 
And, their dances were more musical and playful than
they were before ... dances of walking, going to the
cross and spiraling to the center of the room.  And,
why aren’t they spiraling to the center of the floor? 
Because they have just completed an hour of training
in becoming comfortable stepping in different ways
relative to their partner.  They are comfortable with
each other.

I always advocate, as a base, teaching about simple
movements, no counts, and playing with your follower. 
Within that paradym, it is so easy to mix in teaching
follower’s technique.  How many teachers do you see
that spend way too much of the class teaching steps
and walking?  Tango for her!  I know you have to spend
an inordinate amount of time teaching the new leaders.
 But, it really is possible to teach them while
demonstrating that the follower is the main aspect of
the dance, focussing on things to do with the
follower!

I will always remember my private lesson, “Don’t ever
go to the cross!”  I rarely do.  Instead, I play with
the music and my partner.  And, I teach like that. 
And, it works! 

You know what else is cool about this approach?  In
the same time that someone else is teaching them to
walk, walk, walk or do some pattern, I have taught
them to be in sync with each other while changing
their orientation to each other, changing feet and
being happy just playing with the music without having
to “go somewhere” just because they were always taught
to “keep moving”.  Pauses, wiggles, rocksteps and
single steps are a great place to be!

As for the intermediate leaders, in the same

Re: [Tango-L] Breaking the "paso basico."

2008-02-12 Thread Tango For Her

--- Mario <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> wrote:

> 
>  "" my first 2 months experiance of Tango a year
> ago.To be honest I know noone who when starting
> Tango is not taught the "paso basico" in some form
> or another.You fall back onto what you know the
> best and this basic step sequence
> 
>must have been etched into my head when I first
> started learning.
> 
>  I am just wondering if anyone else has ever
> experianced this and how" they broke out of the
> sequence.""
> 

1. If the basic eight is really taking you eight
beats, there's the first clue.  Add pauses.  That will
give you time to think of how to break out of it.

2. As was stated on other posts, flat out, don't go to
the cross.  That will make you break out of the basic
eight.

3. At any step, anywhere, think of 3 things that you
could do.  Three is a great number, because it does
not overload your mind.  You already know one thing to
do ... the thing that you were just about to do. 
Think of two other things to do.  

While you're at it, think of 2 more ways to do it. 
Slower, faster, smaller, bigger, behind the beat, more
staccado, etc.

ALSO, if you are thinking of the basic eight, then you
*might* be thinking in terms of you.  If you think in
terms of your follower, you can come up with things
that do not involve you stepping.  Right in the middle
of the pattern, lead a boleo, a wiggle, a pause, a
rock step, a fake step, etc.  Make it about movement
of one of her feet without moving her other foot. 
That is a segway into making it about her body rather
than steps.

You said that you had broken yourself of this pattern,
so, I am not saying "you", Mario.  I am just saying,
"you", anyone.  Heck!  "You", me!



  

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Re: [Tango-L] men who pull to their left

2008-02-11 Thread Tango For Her
I am curious about 2 things:

1. How did you know the followers were lining up due
to you not going to the cross?  I don't doubt that
they were.  I'm just curious.  Did they like it and
spread the word, for example?

2. Did you find yourself getting to the 2, 3 or 4 step
of the basic and having to think quick to avoid the
cross?  I remember when I first did this exercise and
how it opened my mind to, right there, on the spot,
move in a different direction.  I remember that it was
a battle at first.  Then, it was one of the most
liberating things I've ever learned.  I am curious
about what happened with you.

I ask about #2 so that you can let others know just
how it changed your dance.  I remember that week. 
People said my style changed like night and day. 
Dancing became very, very much more fun.

I also found that, when the leader in front of me
started dancing backward, up the line of dance, I
could, easily, put my back to him and protect my
partner.  That quickness came straight from this
exercise.





--- [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote:

> Keith,
> 
> I actually tried this a few weeks ago - I
> deliberately did no crosses 
> all evening - and the followers were lining up :)
> It's a great improv exercise
> 
> barbra
> 
> Have you joined the Buffalo Argentine Tango Society
> Yahoo! group yet? 
> It's easy, and the best way to make sure you know
> what we're doing and 
> what's going on with the Argentine tango in and
> around Buffalo..go 
> to www.yahoo.com > select Groups > search for
> Buffalo Argentine Tango 
> Society > follow the directions to join BATS_tango. 
> Thanks!
> 
> -Original Message-
> From: Keith <[EMAIL PROTECTED]>
> To: tango-l@mit.edu
> Sent: Tue, 22 Jan 2008 11:36 pm
> Subject: Re: [Tango-L] men who pull to their left
> 
> 
> 
> 
> 
> 
> What I found interesting in this video is that Ruben
>  leads his partner
> in a walk to the Cruzada only once during the entire
> dance. He leads
> the cross after Front Ochos and Ocho Cortados, but
> only once from
> the walk. And, of course, he dances no Resolutions.
> 
> This si a good exercise for students - to dance an
> entire song without
> a Cruzada or a Resolution.
> 
> 
>  On Wed Jan 23  8:10 , Mario  sent:
> 
> >Here is a video of ENRIQUETA KLEINMAN Y RUBÉN
> HARYMBAT.
> >  http://www.youtube.com/watch\?v=JfjsLjob0bM
> 
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Re: [Tango-L] Victor, chicho, the real tango, practica X

2008-01-28 Thread Tango For Her
It isn't really close embrace.  He has to leave enough
room to use their legs as they do.  

I took one of his seminars about 9 years ago in
Amsterdam.  I could almost say that I have never been
so close to a woman that I will never see, again!  I
partnered with someone from the Netherlands.  Our legs
became as one!  

I did fairly well in the seminar.  But, most people
didn't do so well.  A teacher, from BsAs, told me that
the reason that he can do those moves well and most
guys can't is because, typically, only women can stand
with their heels together and their toes pointed
180-degrees apart.  So, don't be hard on yourself if
you have difficulty.

One thing to note, as you should note when leading any
sacadas.  I am generalizing, and can't think of any
cases where this is not true.  I am sure someone will
think of one.  Anyway, notice that he points his toe
in the direction that he wants to be facing during the
NEXT step of the sequence.  

You will notice that that leaves him room to slide
(so-to-speak) his other foot through and it leaves him
lined up for his next movement.

Also, note the places where his knees are tighter
together above her knees and for how long.  He is not
squeezing.  It's just part of the signalling process
as she is aware of where he is in relation to her.

Chicho likes to have fun in his workshops.  I remember
him asking for 3 volunteer couples to try and hit him
during a song.  I volunteered and immediately walked
my partner toward him, cornering him, swiveled, and
touched my back against his.  That was pretty cool,
because I was a bit of a newbie and there are some
excellent dancers over there!  I guess he was hoping
to illustrate that he could out-navigate anyone. 
Oops!  :o)





--- Bruno Afonso <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> wrote:

> Hi Guys,
> 
> I very much enjoyed these Chicho's interpretations.
> Very lyrical and
> sensitive to me. I have a naive question regarding
> his embrace. It is
> not a very traditional apilado or at least what I
> kind of conceive as
> a more traditional one, where the partners face each
> other more
> "straight forward". I can see how this one looks
> more confortable for
> certain moves and interpretations. I may have been
> deceived though :)
> 
> How do people normally call this style (?) of close
> embrace? Is it
> something you kind of develop yourself - personal
> preferences, etc -
> or a style?
> 
> I'm sure he masters it and can dance with any
> follower but i am
> curious as to how followers feel about that embrace
> versus others.
> 
> stay cool
> b
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Re: [Tango-L] Funniest Tango video

2008-01-26 Thread Tango For Her
--- Laurence Moseley <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> wrote:
..
> 
> A. Learning the move and communicating it to your
> partner
> B. Dancing the move to a variety of music
> C. Linking the move with your existing dancing and
> style
> D. Doing all of that in a crowded room, without
> interfering with others
> 
> Thus, a teacher needs to teach the first skill, as
> in the video clip under discussion. However, for it
> to be learned and incorporated, the teacher should
> also teach the other three elements. 
> 
.

Excellent, constructive post!  Thanks! It's very
refreshing.  

When someone teaches a lot of moves, students do not
have to go out and use all the moves in a sequence out
on a crowded dance floor.  Matter of fact, if someone
tries to use a sequence of big moves on a crowded
dance floor, don't blame the teacher!  It may not have
been his intent for them to learn all of that and go
out onto a crowded dance floor and use it.  However, I
have to agree.  If that was the intention, the teacher
should use A-D, above.

There are a lot of moves in that video AND it is very
clear how he is using his body and how she is using
her body.  Therefore, it is very informative.

He might be shuffling his feet, here and there, to
setup to show a move.  Ok, give him a lower grade for
that.  But, you have to admit that, when he
demonstrates each move, partners could watch the
video, discussing what they see within each move, and
try it at home without even being at the workshop! 
Imagine actually being at the workshop!  

It is very clear how he is using his body.

It is very clear where and when he is moving his
inside foot.

I am glad that someone went out and found this video!

I like soft tango.  So, I can learn from the video and
soften it to my liking.

If someone likes doing big moves, they can use it for
that.

If someone is looking to discuss it in a constructive
way, there is something there for us, too.

If someone is looking for cases of abuse, I they can
really reach and create a whole thread about it.

It looks like we're all happy!  We must all give
thanks for this video.  ;o)

Would anyone care to go through the video and lavel
each of the moves along with the timestamp?  That
would help a lot of people.

Thanks!


  








  

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Re: [Tango-L] Funniest Tango video

2008-01-25 Thread Tango For Her
I see a woman having fun with her partner.

I see contribution.  Good or or not so good?  That's
subjective.  But, I see contribution.

Look for the positive and you will learn to see the
contribution.  

Many of us, out here, learn from watching new dancers,
bad dancers and dancers that don't dance like us.  

I see contribution.
I see no abuse.
You see?



--- "Chris, UK" <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> wrote:

> > As the title makes clear, this is the summation of
> a workshop, 
> 
> The title does no such thing. And if you've
> experienced this teacher's 
> classes, you'll know this stuff is unfortunately not
> confined to the end.
> 
> Regardless, the ultimate summation of any workshop
> is its contribution to 
> the students' development. What sort of contribution
> do you think is made 
> by an hour spent copying a teacher abusing a girl?
> 
> > I have danced with two of you critics.
> 
> And I have danced with the teacher being criticised.
> 
> --
> Chris



  

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Re: [Tango-L] Funniest Tango video

2008-01-25 Thread Tango For Her

Let's see.  They come to town and give a workshop. 
The women learn to be flexible and fun, like her.  The
men learn to be in sync with their partner, like him. 


Sweet!  Sounds like a fun afternoon.


--- Igor Polk <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> wrote:

> Chris:
> 
> Crikey. I hope that poor girl was well paid:
> >
>
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=an6YcpT9WGA&feature=related
> 
> 
> :)
> I am crying,
> What is the next number?
> 
> Igor Polk
> 
> 





  

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Re: [Tango-L] Krasimir vs anticipation... correction

2008-01-23 Thread Tango For Her
In my last post on this subject, I cut-n-paste too
quickly and ended up with Astrid's name as the author
to Kasimir's quote.  Sorry, Astrid!


> 
> --- Kasimir wrote:
> 
> > >I do not agree about the queen thing, but for
> > everything else, you are
> > > right.
> > > I keep telling her that I don't care about the
> > random mistakes, so there 
> > > is
> > > no need for her preoccupation, it's the
> systematic
> > ones that bother me . . 
> > > .
> > >
> 

Then, I wrote:

> Here is one of my basic beliefs:
> 
> A movement consists of a lot of small
> communications. 
> I communicate to her and she communicates back to
> me,
> and so on. 
> 
> So, as we move through a step, WE collaborate.  WE
> both did the best that WE could do.  Therefore,
> there
> is no reason to place the blame on her.
> 
> Did she do something that I did not intend?  Fine.
> 
> Next time, I will try harder to communicate my
> intentions a little better.
> 
> My partners, as far as I know, believe in me.  Why? 
> Because, we are always doing the right movement. 
> How
> do I know this?  Because, all the way through the
> movement, WE agreed on it, together  
> 
> If I want something to be different, I will try
> harder
> to communicate.  If it still does not work. Then,
> perhaps, there is something for ME to learn!
> 
> Don't blame the follower!  You are so lucky to have
> her!!!
> 
> 
> 
> 
> 
> 
> 
> 
> 
>  
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Re: [Tango-L] Krasimir vs anticipation...

2008-01-23 Thread Tango For Her

--- Astrid <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> wrote:

> >I do not agree about the queen thing, but for
> everything else, you are
> > right.
> > I keep telling her that I don't care about the
> random mistakes, so there 
> > is
> > no need for her preoccupation, it's the systematic
> ones that bother me . . 
> > .
> >

Here is one of my basic beliefs:

A movement consists of a lot of small communications. 
I communicate to her and she communicates back to me,
and so on. 

So, as we move through a step, WE collaborate.  WE
both did the best that WE could do.  Therefore, there
is no reason to place the blame on her.

Did she do something that I did not intend?  Fine.

Next time, I will try harder to communicate my
intentions a little better.

My partners, as far as I know, believe in me.  Why? 
Because, we are always doing the right movement.  How
do I know this?  Because, all the way through the
movement, WE agreed on it, together  

If I want something to be different, I will try harder
to communicate.  If it still does not work. Then,
perhaps, there is something for ME to learn!

Don't blame the follower!  You are so lucky to have
her!!!









  

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Re: [Tango-L] Creating a strong connection

2008-01-23 Thread Tango For Her

--- Keith <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> wrote:

> Virginia,
> 
> An excellent exercise to strenghthen the connection
> is to practice with 
> the man's right arm behind his back, while the woman
> maintains her normal 
> close embrace. This exercise really forces the
> couple to concentrate on 
> the connection and, the first time you try it,
> you'll probably realise just 
> how weak your connection really is. But the exercise
> should bring about 
> a rapid improvement and make you both feel a lot
> more confident and 
> comfortable in close embrace. 
> 

Nice!  He'll have to maintain the connection with his
chest rather than his frame.  It is a great way to
strengthen the connection.



  

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Re: [Tango-L] Creating a strong connection

2008-01-23 Thread Tango For Her

--- Virginia Nicholson <[EMAIL PROTECTED]>
wrote:

> Hi there,
> 
> This is my first posting to the tango L-list so be
> nice!
> 
> I have a question...I'm a follower and I've been
> dancing for about two
> years. I've been practicing with a steady partner,
> but I still go to
> milongas and dance with other people, so I can tell
> that my partner
> and I lack the deep connection that I sometimes
> experience with my
> favorite leaders, that sense of a silent
> conversation. My partner has
> good balance and posture and has been dancing for a
> long time, though
> mostly in open embrace...now we're trying a mix of
> open and close. I'm
> not sure what's wrong. It's good - just not great.
> Do any of you
> leaders have any advice? or suggestions for how a to
> strengthen the
> connection? I apologize for covering what must be
> well-worn ground.
> 

ANYONE WRITING FOR THE FIRST TIME:

Don't worry about the "experts" on here trashing you
if you ask a question.  They only desire to trash each
other.  I sure wish this list could be more
constructive.  One way to accomplish that is for
everyone out there to keep them busy with new
questions.  PLEASE!

Virginia,

I have a couple of answers to your question.  

If the two of you are close enough that you can be
honest, then, suggest a series of close embrace
private lessons working on slow, deliberate movements,
like just walking to the cross.  If you can find a
very good teacher, she will correct the smallest of
connection details.

You could also suggest taking a dance, once in a
while, to just walk in close embrace.  Let the focus
be on the connection.  He should be concentrating on
removing any jolt from each backstep of yours.  It's
like what I described in an earlier post about walking
like a cat.  He should put all of his energy into
feeling the movement all the way through the step.  He
will find that he is using more parts of his body than
he was aware of.

Good luck!






 




  

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[Tango-L] An entire dance w/o a Cruzada

2008-01-23 Thread Tango For Her

--- Keith <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> wrote:

> What I found interesting in this video is that Ruben
>  leads his partner 
> in a walk to the Cruzada only once during the entire
> dance. He leads 
> the cross after Front Ochos and Ocho Cortados, but
> only once from 
> the walk. And, of course, he dances no Resolutions.
> 
> This si a good exercise for students - to dance an
> entire song without 
> a Cruzada or a Resolution. 
> 

Excellent!  This was part of my training when my
teacher was teaching about tortion and studying
Chicho.  He noticed that I was "resolving everything".
 What I learned from that was that I was thinking in
terms of patterns.  Patterns have definite endings.  

My instructor told me NOT to go to the cross.  What an
exercise!  It really opens your mind!  You get to step
3 and WHAM!  You're confronted with making a decision!
 You have 4 things you can do: step forward, side,
back or pivot.  It really makes you think on your
feet.

Next, you start being aware, at step 2, that you can
add even more variety!

Again, after those 5 lessons, when I went back out
dancing, everyone commented on how free and fun my
dancing was.

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[Tango-L] Entering the pivot - The closing step

2008-01-23 Thread Tango For Her
--- "Trini y Sean (PATangoS)" <[EMAIL PROTECTED]>
wrote:

> Sorry, but I must be missing something here.
> 
> It seems to me that most of tango happens in step 2
> (extension).  This is when you communicate
> intention,
> direction, and velocity.  From here is also where
> torsion
> comes into play.  Obviously, you can play with all
> of the
> parts, but I still think that you can do more with
> extension than with closing.
> 
> I prefer to think of the parts of a step as being:
> - extension
> - weight transfer
> - closing
> - pivot
> 

No, you're not missing anything.  What you said is
important.  I posted this topic because I believe that
a leader can learn to focus more on his/her follower,
as opposed to focussing on steps, if movements are
related to the pivot.  

As for your comment about the step out of the pivot
being the *most important*, I agree that more happens
there.  I can accept calling it the most important
step. I think that alone would be a great topic. 

ENTERING THE PIVOT - THE CLOSING STEP

I want to add that, in striving for softness in each
step, the movement into the pivot (closing) is very
important.

For example, just walking around the dance floor with
your partner, if landing of the foot and the transfer
of weight on to the foot is concentrated on, then you
can make the dance softer.  

If/when I feel that I don't have the best connection
with my partner, I will do just that.  I will walk,
concentrating on removing the feeling of impact from
my partner's landing foot.  I will also concentrate on
the entire closing step.

The same goes for the common "rockstep, sidestep"
move.  How many times has your leader entered the
sidestep ahead of you?  How many times has there been
even the slightest thump to the side step?  This can
be fixed by concentrating on the step entering the
pivot (the closing step).





  

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Re: [Tango-L] Victor, chicho, the real tango, practica X

2008-01-22 Thread Tango For Her
I can't access youtube while at work.  But, I can add
that, early on, when everyone said that I had no
tortion, I had 5 lessons with a teacher who had me
watch Chicho and do a series of exercises, in open
embrace, with him.  

After those lessons, my dancing was very, very free. 
I could move in any direction at any time.  That was 9
years ago.  All I know is that he saw something in
Chicho that he used, very effectively, in his
teaching!

I don't have videos of Chicho.  But, now that you guyz
are dragging me into the modern age of youtube, I'll
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Re: [Tango-L] If not thinking, and besides the music, what are you paying attention to?

2008-01-22 Thread Tango For Her

--- Mario <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> wrote:

> I have been told by one teacher "What do you care
> about where the woman's feet are?"
>
>   ..and reading here, have seen  " a leader should
> always know where the woman is, where her
> weight/feet are.."  
>
>... is that what smooth improvising dancers are
> paying attention to? or what??  thanks
> 


You don't need to watch her feet and she doesn't need
to watch yours.

When your follower is at rest, a rule of thumb is that
each foot is under each side of her chest.  Ya, it
sounds obvious.  But, that is the reference point.

You want to know where you are leading her to step.

You want to give her room during front moves, front
ochoes, boleos, etc.  

You want to develop a feel for what type of
embellishment she is doing.  There is a lot to this
...

There is the communication of waiting until she is
done.  Of course, she has to be ready to go if/when
you decide to move along.

As for more on embellishments, maybe Astrid, or
someone else could elaborate.

If you are leading a drag, then, I sure hope you know
where her foot is.

In my post, Walk Like a Homosapien, I explain that
understanding followers technique, and learning to
lead from that understanding, will give you a great
understanding of exactly where her feet should be.
 




  

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Re: [Tango-L] Tango is a dance of collections or pivots

2008-01-21 Thread Tango For Her
Tom wrote: "snap to the collect, pivot, & snap to the
reach"

Tom, Tom, Tom.  I can write about elegant flowing
movements just as well as you.  You missed the point. 
But, thank you.  You wrote a great chapter two!

See?  We ARE on to the real tango!

It is great to teach people about deriving tango from
the pivot and moving in and out of it. After showing
that these "steps" can be thought of in terms of
pivots, then, such elegant descriptions as yours have
a proper home!  :o)

And, of course music and feeling are important. 
Sorry.  It seems that no one should EVER use the term
“real tango” on this list.  It makes people start
writing about completely different subjects that
should have different headings.  My post was about
centering tango around the pivot rather than the
steps.  Duh!  Hey, everyone!  Don’t forget to use
musicality and feelings!  I think Tom is going to
write about it in a completely different post.

By the way,  I didn’t get this from a teacher.  This
is part of how I think of the dance.  This is a
beginning to how I think of teaching leaders to get
their head out of the patterns and onto the woman’s
body so that the dance can be about her.  So, no, I am
not one of your slandering examples!  Tisk!  Tisk! 
Tisk!

So, here we have it.

CHAPTER ONE: Deriving your lead from the pivot.  Focus
on the follower, not the steps.

CHAPTER TWO: Moving fluently through the pivot.

ADDENDUM TO CHAPTER ONE: 

At a point in time, during the pivot, you can see the
feet collected together.  It’s just a point in time as
I describe 5 positions in a step.  DON’T GET FREAKED
OUT!  

I guess you could say that a point in time is
staccado.  Thanks, Tom!




  

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Re: [Tango-L] Tango is a dance of collections or pivots - correction

2008-01-21 Thread Tango For Her
In one of the paragraphs near the end:

If you think in these terms, then, your focus will
shift from varying ...

should read:

If you think in these terms, then, your focus will
shift to varying ...

Also, I want to state my opinion that a lot of leaders
are stuck in the mentality of moving through the
patterns that they are taught.  That, alone, is not
enough.

Shifting one's focus from the patterns to the details
in the pivot is, in effect, shifting your focus to
your follower.  You don't need patterns!!! You already
know how to move in tango.  Shift your focus to her
and you will find that the dance really is about her!

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Re: [Tango-L] Tango is a dance of collections or pivots

2008-01-21 Thread Tango For Her
--- Krasimir Stoyanov <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> wrote:

> 
> Wow! I see some really good points. Yes, the idea
> that the focus is the 
> pivot is great. And the definition of it "I use the
> term pivot to indicate 
> the point in a step where the feet are collected."
> is right on target. I 
> would add that the collection is not absolute
> necessity as far as the 
> dynamic balance point is "collected". And yes, the
> steps are just means to 
> get from one "pivot" to another. Absolutely true.
> 
> But, still, a long way to go :-)
> 

As for "a long way to go", you're right.  That's just
the tip of the iceberg.  Once you get someone
thinking, and doing in those terms, you can, then,
draw them into the conversation of how to dance for
her!  

I mean, to me, so much of the technique required for
putting softness into your dance derives from this
discussion.  Especially, the discussion of finding the
point of elasticity in your follower is based on this.
 

But, before that, comes the discussion of building a
sense of security with your follower.  The topic of
balance is related to entering and exiting the pivot
or even just being in the pivot.  So, when you
practice thinking in these terms, you are practicing
techniques related to balance.  And, when you do that,
your follower becomes much more ensured that you
understand her.  And, from THERE, I find that
followers give me a much more beautiful and dynamic
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[Tango-L] Tango is a dance of collections or pivots

2008-01-21 Thread Tango For Her
I say that tango is a dance of collections or pivots
rather than a walking dance.  I say this to change to
focus of the dance to where the real tango takes
place.

I use the term pivot to indicate the point in a step
where the feet are collected.

At the pivot, you can lead your follow to:
-   do a side step
-   do a back step
-   do a front step
-   pivot (swivel)

>From the pivot, there are all kinds of moves, such as
boleos and volcadas, that come from leading the
beginning of a step.  So, let’s break down a step to
see how it is really just a part of the pivot.

I think of a step as five parts, the fourth and fifth
parts mirroring the first and second parts.  To list
the five parts of a step, let’s look at the process of
starting on your left foot, taking a side step and
ending on your right foot:

1.  Stand on your left foot with your feet collected.
2.  Slightly bend your left knee and extend your right
foot to the side with a straight knee.  Keep your body
aligned over your left foot.
3.  Transfer your weight to the point where your body
is positioned between your feet.  This point is “no
man’s land”, the point where you never want to leave
your follower.
4.  Transfer your weight over your right foot leaving
your left foot in it’s original place.  Your right
knee will, now, be slightly bent and your left knee
will be straight.
5.  Collect left foot to your right foot.  Remain
standing on your right foot.

Notice that #3 is the mid-point.  Now, let’s rewrite
this sequence to let the pivot be the mid-point:

1.  Stand on your right foot with your right knee bent
and your left foot out to the left with your left knee
straight.
2.  Move your left foot to a collection with your
right, remaining on your right foot.

You are now in the pivot

1.  Stand on your right foot with your right foot with
your feet together.
2.  Bend your right knee slightly and move your left
foot out to the left, straightening your left knee.

Yes, we have not talked about step #3.  But, that is
no-man’s land, anyway.  

My point in describing tango movements in this way is
to shift the focus of the dance from steps to pivots. 
It is coming in and out of the pivot, and being in the
pivot, where most of tango takes place.  If you think
in these terms, then, your focus will shift from
varying the feel and technique of moving in and out of
your pivots, thus, honing your technique regarding
softness and balance.  

I prefer to think in terms of softness and balance
rather than steps.

Also, in centering my thinking around this method, it
is a natural progression to think of tortion,
mirroring or matching your partner, circular and
linear boleos, and fake steps, which I like to call
“teasing my partner”.  I also like to think of these
fake steps and varying amounts of tortion as my way to
hone my communication with my partner because this is
where we will both be spending a lot of time, as
leaders, doing the unexpected.  As our follower
responds and we respond to her response, our ability
to communicate increases and our dancing gets softer. 


All of that and we weren’t even thinking of steps! 
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Re: [Tango-L] Learning Tango

2008-01-21 Thread Tango For Her
Well, that doesn't take us down a very fruitful path,
either!  I can name a dozen teachers that I have had
that I think are top-notch and I would have my
reasons.  The next person can name his or her top 10
and the reasons, etc, etc, etc.

If we give our reasons, which we have, then great.  If
we name teachers, all that does is open the door for
publically (publicly?) chastising teachers.  It
doesn't seem that there is any need for that!

Instead, let's go down this path:

I like teachers who teach about balance, tortion,
positioning, musicality, and so on.




--- Keith <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> wrote:

> TFH, 
> 
> You mis-read my post. I asked Chris to tell us which
> teachers 
> teach appropriately, in his opinion - not those who
> don't.
> 
> I actually agree with what you say. I don't think we
> should 
> publicly name teachers who, in our opinion, don't
> teach 
> appropriately. It's too subjective and a false
> report can harm 
> a good teacher.
> 
> But Chris has already named Gustavo Naveira as a
> teacher
> who doesn't teach appropriately so Chris obviously
> has no 
> problem in naming names. 
> 
> Keith, HK
> 
> 
>  On Tue Jan 22  2:01 , Tango For Her  sent:
> 
>  I
> >> look forward to hearing 
> >> from Chris on what type of group class would be
> >> useful and which teachers
> >> teach that type of class.
> >> 



  

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Re: [Tango-L] Learning Tango

2008-01-21 Thread Tango For Her
--- Keith <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> wrote:
> Mario,
> 
> You've obviously read different messages than me. I
> look forward to hearing 
> from Chris on what type of group class would be
> useful and which teachers
> teach that type of class.
> 

Let's applaud Chris ahead of time for not taking the
bait.  Publically naming teachers that don't teach
"appropriately"?  Not!





  

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Re: [Tango-L] A true tango

2008-01-19 Thread Tango For Her
That scene in the salon in the movie, "Tango", ... are
you saying it is or is not his daughter?  I had heard
that it is his daughter. 

And, whether you think it is ballet (huh?) or not, it
is very beatiful and inspires me.  His focus is on
allowing her to feel beauty in the dance.  I get
chills!  

Again, does anyone know if it is online?


--- Krasimir Stoyanov <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> wrote:

> Yes, surely not his daughter.
> When I first saw this movie, I thought this was
> perfect tango.
> Continued to think so in the next couple of years as
> I watched it some more 
> times.
> Then. for some years, I did not watch it.
> And, an year ago, I saw this same scene - no, it is
> not tango at all - it is 
> ballet.
> 
> About his daughter, Johana Copes, I've seen her
> dance real tango, but not 
> him (the father).
> 
> 
> - Original Message - >
>  I think, you mean this one. It is not his daughter,
> it's Yacono.
> >
>
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Re: [Tango-L] The Top Six Tango Cities of the USA?

2008-01-19 Thread Tango For Her
Providence, RI
www.ProvidenceTango.com  
Top-notch nuevo tango and exchange of lead and follow.
They have an all-night milonga to which people come
from all over.   
And, Ellen's cooking is to die for!

Of course, NYC.






  

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Re: [Tango-L] A true tango

2008-01-19 Thread Tango For Her
I want to clarify that my last post was not directed
at Keith.  I was just answering his rhetorical
question.  :o\

And, again, it isn't directed at anyone.  I was just
observing that tango is improvised and, therefore, we
all get different things out of it AND places like
blogs and lists are where you find people who are
opinionated.  So, you get what you get and it would be
nice if people remember that we're all different and
noone HAS TO BE right.




  

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Re: [Tango-L] A true tango

2008-01-19 Thread Tango For Her
--- Keith <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> wrote:

> What a strange world this is - and what a strange
> list. We already have Chris UK [who???] telling 
> us that Gustavo Naviera is useless. Now we have
> Krasimir Stoyanov - does anyone even know who 
> he is or how he can dance - telling us that a
> legendary figure such as Juan Carlos Copes doesn't 
> dance Tango. Why do so many have so little respect
> for those who have achieved so much. What 
> is it about Tango that makes people this way? It
> doesn't seem to happen in the other arts. Certainly 
> not in Ballroom dancing where former champions are
> still revered, no matter how much styles may 
> change. 
> 

I don't know a lot of ballroom and I only know what I
know about tango.  Given that, this is my answer to
your question:

In ballroom, the movements, until you become very
good, are just patterns.  There are things open to
interpretation.  But, as a basis, it is a whole bunch
of patterns.  That's where the ballroom teachers make
their money.  And, that's where *some* tango teachers
make their money.

Tango, once you get past, say the
beginner-intermediate stage, is improvised to a large
extent.  For those of us who are lucky enough to break
free from patterns, it is more so.  

With an improvised dance, we each get out of it what
we get out of it.  We are all different.

So, here we are, all different.  A small segment of
the population is head-strong.  Is it possible that
strong-headed people end up on blogs and lists like
this?

One final piece to the puzzle ... and I will use me as
an example.  I excelled at soft tango free from
patterns.  I am told that I make my follower feel
balanced, soft, relaxed, secure ... sometimes, we want
to melt!  When I see a leader with his left foot
jetting out to the left, I know what that does to the
follower's comfort level.  So, that is what I teach
about and write about.

So, when I write, I have to be careful not to discount
other people's reasoning.  We all excelled at
different aspects of this dance and we are all
head-strong.  Sometimes, I fail to remain open minded.
 Many, many times, others fail to remain open minded
to the point that they want to pick on other people.

I am sorry for the few times that I have strayed. 
There are people out there who MUST be right, no
matter what and some of us end up fighting with them
just because they want to fight.  

True tango?  Give me a break!  There are many
different "true tangos"!  Why?  Because it is open to
interpretation!  So, if we can all say what we think
is true tango AND not belittle others, we will learn
IN PEACE!







  

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Re: [Tango-L] Truth eliminates myths. But are YOU ready for this?

2008-01-18 Thread Tango For Her
Igor wrote: 

> That is the last important thing which makes 
> a dancer, any dancer, social dancer, great 
> - he choreogrphes his dance right on spot 
> to look like a piece of art. 

Cool!  We can all finally agree!!!  All of us 1000's
of great social dancers choreograph our dance right on
the spot to look [ or feel ] like a piece of art.  

Here's to improvisation!

The recent posts took us through a discussion of where
choreo fits in the classroom.  Something a little
different than your email was talking about.  But,
again, thanks, from the 1000's of us, for the
recognition!  :o)





  

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Re: [Tango-L] A true tango

2008-01-18 Thread Tango For Her
One of my favorite dances is the scene from the movie,
Tango, where he dances with his real life daughter in
the salon. Is that online, anywhere?

--- Igor Polk <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> wrote:

> This is a true tango:
> http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=YpLqCth7DrY
> Juan Carlos Copes and Cecilia Narova
> 
> How anyone could doubt !?
> 
> Igor Polk
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[Tango-L] Truest Form of Tango

2008-01-18 Thread Tango For Her
This could be quite interesting.  Let's try, without
explanations and trash talking, just listing people's
examples of "The Truest Form of Tango".  Again, no
need to degrade anyone for listing what they like.  

This could become a great list from which to learn and
compare styles.


=== Krasimir === 
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=BA-mGU_X8Mc 
Milonguero
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=CvYZTC27S1I
Nuevo
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=PhfI-wM8q2Y

=== Igor Polk === 
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=EmPzXwjN8Ac 





  

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