OT: "i don't know you" (was: Start up: The Bat balks)

2003-09-08 Thread Thomas Fernandez
Hello David,

On Mon, 8 Sep 2003 09:32:46 -0400 GMT (08/09/2003, 20:32 +0700 GMT),
David R. Austen wrote:

Sorry for posting a PM on the list. I replied to your PM, but I have
been asked by your bot to confirm my address. I'm not doing that. You
want to review your policy for two reasons:

1.) You sent me a message to which I replied. I am offended by your
bot's interference to my attempt at helping you.

2.) If you are trying to cut down spam, you will just have confirmed
your address to the sender.

And if you're in business, you'll never get new customers... and even
new friends will be difficult to get. I am kind enough to mention this
to you, others will just stop communicating.

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Re: OT: "i don't know you" (was: Start up: The Bat balks)

2003-09-08 Thread David R. Austen
Hello, Thomas:

Monday, September 8, 2003, 11:17:21 AM, you wrote:

TF> Sorry for posting a PM on the list. I replied to your PM, but I
have TF> been asked by your bot to confirm my address.

I regret the inconvenience. Please send me your message with the
advice. It will go through now.

Yes, the bot asks for a "reason." Even your familiar name would
suffice, Thomas, telling me who is "at the door," so to speak. Please
don't be offended. But I guess this is a good illustration of what
somebody "promised" yesterday.

To explain, I forgot to create a permission for you when I first wrote
to you OL. (The CM bot normally automatically creates a permanent
permission when I send a message to somebody new. SMTP problems at my
new ISP have stopped that -- for now. (Of course that does not help
with those senders who are totally new to me.)

I have now created a permission for you manually, Thomas.

TF> I'm not doing that. You
TF> want to review your policy for two reasons:

TF> 1.) You sent me a message to which I replied. I am offended by
TF> your bot's interference to my attempt at helping you.

TF> 2.) If you are trying to cut down spam, you will just have confirmed
TF> your address to the sender.

Good point. On very, very rare occasions, a spammer actually asks me
for permission! Thomas, aren't there other ways in which spammers can
extrapolate, and determine that an address is likely valid?

TF> And if you're in business, you'll never get new customers...

(pause)

TF> and even new friends will be difficult to get.

Now, Thomas, that's below the belt!  :-0  I'm rather good looking, and
anyway, mother said to be very careful about getting new friends on
the Internet. But I think this list should be a safe place. :-) So
everybody, come over for lunch at my place today. I'm afraid some
dear, old friends will dump me now, per your suggestion. :-)

TF> I am kind enough to mention this to you, others will just stop
TF>communicating.

Seriously, you are kind to take this time to explain this, and alert
me to new issues. This spam-killing is a work in progress.


Cheers,

David  



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Re: OT: "i don't know you" (was: Start up: The Bat balks)

2003-09-08 Thread Thomas Fernandez
Hello David,

On Mon, 8 Sep 2003 12:50:13 -0400 GMT (08/09/2003, 23:50 +0700 GMT),
David R. Austen wrote:

> I regret the inconvenience. Please send me your message with the
> advice. It will go through now.

I have moved it back to the Outbox. You should receive it soon.

> Yes, the bot asks for a "reason." Even your familiar name would
> suffice, Thomas, telling me who is "at the door," so to speak. Please
> don't be offended. But I guess this is a good illustration of what
> somebody "promised" yesterday.

I don't understand the last sentence.

> To explain, I forgot to create a permission for you when I first wrote
> to you OL.

Bingo! As I kept explaining to my people, apologies are one thing, not
creating a situation needing one, is what we aim for!

TF>> 1.) You sent me a message to which I replied. I am offended by
TF>> your bot's interference to my attempt at helping you.

TF>> 2.) If you are trying to cut down spam, you will just have confirmed
TF>> your address to the sender.

> Good point. On very, very rare occasions, a spammer actually asks me
> for permission! Thomas, aren't there other ways in which spammers can
> extrapolate, and determine that an address is likely valid?

It's usually the "unsubscribe" address. The point is, I don't see the
reason for your policy.

TF>> and even new friends will be difficult to get.

> Now, Thomas, that's below the belt!  :-0  I'm rather good looking,

Send me a picture! :-)

> and anyway, mother said to be very careful about getting new friends
> on the Internet.

Your mother is a wise lady.

> But I think this list should be a safe place. :-) So everybody, come
> over for lunch at my place today.

I'm afraid lunch time is over for me, so is dinner. Next time, then.
Will your mother be cooking? :-)

TF>> I am kind enough to mention this to you, others will just stop
TF>>communicating.

> Seriously, you are kind to take this time to explain this, and alert
> me to new issues. This spam-killing is a work in progress.

I doubt you are killing spam this way.

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Re: OT: "i don't know you" (was: Start up: The Bat balks)

2003-09-08 Thread Peter Meyns
Hi David,

on Mon, 8 Sep 2003 12:50:13 -0400GMT (08.09.03, 18:50 +0200GMT here),
you wrote in mid:[EMAIL PROTECTED] :

...

TF>> 2.) If you are trying to cut down spam, you will just have confirmed
TF>> your address to the sender.

DRA> Good point. On very, very rare occasions, a spammer actually asks me
DRA> for permission! Thomas, aren't there other ways in which spammers can
DRA> extrapolate, and determine that an address is likely valid?

Never as easy as by getting a reply.

...

DRA> This spam-killing is a work in progress.

It is indeed! And it will be, as the spammers are progressing too... ;-)

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