Hello Mr. kipenji! Thank you for your daily contributions to the forum. Most of us do appreciate even if we do not express our gratitude more often.
Questions for you: 1. What are the "Top Ten Reasons Why Women Fail With Men"? 2. Which academic preparations did you undertake to become such an expert? The inquirer wants to know. ak --- Owor Kipenji <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> wrote: > > “The Ten Most Dangerous Mistakes YOU Probably > Make With Women— > And What To Do About It...” > > Here Are The Top Ten Reasons Why Men Fail With > Women—And How To Make Sure YOU Avoid Every One Of > These Deadly Common Mistakes... > > -By David DeAngelo, Author Of “Double Your Dating” > > MISTAKE #1: Being > Too Much Of A “Nice Guy” > > Have you ever noticed that the really > attractive women never seem to be attracted "nice" > guys? > > Of course you have. > > Just like me, I'm sure you've had attractive > female friends that always seemed to date "jerks"... > but for some reason they were never romantically > interested in YOU. > > What's going on here? > > It's actually very simple... > > Women don't base their choices of men on how > "nice" a guy is. They choose the men they do because > they feel a powerful GUT LEVEL ATTRACTION for them. > > And guess what? > > Being nice doesn't make a woman FEEL that > powerful ATTRACTION. > > And being NICE doesn't make a woman CHOOSE you. > > I realize that this doesn't make a lot of > logical sense, and it's hard to ACCEPT... but GET > OVER IT. > > Until you accept this FACT and begin to act on > it, you'll NEVER have the success with women that > you want. > > MISTAKE #2: Trying To > “Convince Her To Like You" > > What do most guys do when they meet a woman > that they REALLY like... but she's just > notinterested? > > Right! They try to "convince" the woman to > feel differently. > > Well, I have news for you... YOU WILL NEVER > CHANGE HOW A WOMAN "FEELS" WHEN IT COMES TO > ATTRACTION! > > Never, ever, EVER. > > You cannot CONVINCE a woman to feel > differently about you with "logic and reasoning". > > Think about it. > > If a woman doesn't "feel it" for you, how in > the world do you expect to change that FEELING by > being "reasonable" with her? > > But we all do it. > > When a woman just isn't interested, we beg, > plead, chase, and do our best to change her mind. > > Bad idea. One that will never work. > > MISTAKE #3: Looking To Her > For Approval Or Permission > > In our desire to please women (which we > mistakenly think will make them like us), us guys > are always doing things to get a woman's "approval" > or "permission". > > Another HORRIBLE idea. > > Women are NEVER attracted to the types of men > who kiss up to them... EVER. > > Don't get me wrong here. > > You don't have to treat women BADLY for them to > like you. > > But if you think that treating a woman well > means "always getting her approval and permission > for things", think again. > > You will never succeed by looking for > approval. Women actually get ANNOYED at men who seek > their approval. > > Doubt me? Just ask any attractive woman if > Wussy guys who chase her around and want her > approval annoy her... > > MISTAKE #4: Trying To “Buy” Her Affection With Food > And Gifts > > How many times have you taken a woman out to a > nice dinner, bought her gifts and flowers, and had > her REJECT you for someone who didn't treat her even > HALF as well as you did? > > If you're like me, then you've had it happen a > LOT. > > Well guess what? > > It's only NATURAL when this happens... > > That's right, I said NATURAL. > > When you do these things, you send a clear > message: > > "I don't think you'll like me for who I am, so I'm > going to try to buy your attention and affection". > Your good intentions usually come across to > women as over-compensation for insecurity, and weak > attempts at manipulation. That's right, I said that > women see this as MANIPULATION. > > > MISTAKE #5: Sharing > “How You Feel” Too Early In > The Relationship With Her > > Another huge and unfortunate mistake that most > men make with women is sharing how they "feel" too > early on. > > Attractive women are rare. > > And they get a LOT of attention from men. > > Most men don't realize this, but attractive > women are being approached in one way or another ALL > THE > An attractive woman is often approached > several times a DAY by men who are interested. This > translate into dozens of times per week, and often > HUNDREDS of times per month. > > And guess what? > > Attractive women have usually dated a LOT of > men. > > That's right. They have EXPERIENCE. > > They know what to expect. > > And one thing that turns an attractive women > off and sends her running away faster than just > about anything is a guy who starts saying "You know, > I really, REALLY like you" after one or two dates. > > This signals to the woman that you're just > like all the other guys who fall for her too fast... > and can't control themselves. > > Don't do it. Lean back. Relax. > > There's a much better way... > > MISTAKE #6: Not “Getting” How Attraction Works For > Women > > Women are VERY different from men when it > comes to ATTRACTION. > > You need to accept this fact, and deal with > it. > > When a man sees a beautiful, young, sexy > woman, he INSTANTLY feels a sexual attraction. > > But does the same apply for women? > > Do women feel sexual attraction to men based > mostly on looks? Or is something else going on? > > Well, after studying this topic for over five > full years now, I can tell you that women usually > have their "attraction mechanisms" triggered by > things OTHER than looks. > === message truncated === __________________________________ Do you Yahoo!? Yahoo! SiteBuilder - Free, easy-to-use web site design software http://sitebuilder.yahoo.com -------------------------------------------- This service is hosted on the Infocom network http://www.infocom.co.ug
