Re: [UC] Maybe things _are_ getting worse

2007-03-24 Thread Wilma de Soto
Very well.  I stand corrected.


On 3/23/07 10:21 PM, Turner,Kathleen [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote:

 When YOU were a toddler, how many other toddlers did YOU bite?  Did you kick,
 scratch or punch other toddlers as well?
  
 When I was one, or two?  I'm quite sure that I did.  and so did you, and Tony
 and . . .  well Ross -- who knows?
  
 Children of that age have always bitten each other, or their parents or the
 dog.  And then they begin to learn that it isn't acceptable, and they stop.
  
 If it had been an eight year old biting another child, then yes, something is
 wrong.
  
 But one toddler biting another?  Perfectly expected and age appropriate.  Does
 that mean that parents (or daycare teachers, or whoever is with the child at
 the minute) ignore it?  No -- if they're paying attention, they remove one
 child from the other, and tell the biter no.
  
 But it doesn't mean that the child is a budding psychopath.
  
 I think you need a reality check here.
 
 
 
 From: [EMAIL PROTECTED] on behalf of Wilma de Soto
 Sent: Fri 3/23/2007 9:56 PM
 To: Anthony West; UnivCity listserv
 Subject: Re: [UC] Maybe things _are_ getting worse
 
 
 Addressed to Kathleen in reply to Tony's post:
 
 When YOU were a toddler, how many other toddlers did YOU bite?  Did you kick,
 scratch or punch other toddlers as well?
 
 If so, then why?  If not, then WHY not?
 
 Of course you, (and I) probably wanted to do so, but did we act out our basest
 natural children's instincts, or were we taught to restrain those impulses by
 our parents. They taught us that one could not just do what we felt like doing
 to others outside of our homes and families.
 
 Our wants were secondary to what was best for the greater good of society once
 we left our homes and family.
 
 It's different now.  Wherever people are today they it is an extension of
 their home; their parents do not temper those impulses or teach restraint;
 rather they defend the most basest impulses of children.
 
 People have LOUD conversations on the trolley, buses, subways, streets,
 markets; wherever they wish.  Please do not ask them to turn it down or have
 their conversations elsewhere etc.  That is just ASKING for a violent
 confrontation or worse.
 
 It may not be the apocalypse, but it certainly heralds the decline of this
 society and our country, which is relatively new in comparison in the
 continuum of older societies on this planet.
 
 We may sneer at the other nations, cultures and religious societies whom might
 disagree with our world view and culture, but they just may well prevail after
 we have gone, just as they did before America was established.
 
 Not the apocalypse perhaps, but certainly something to consider.
 
 
 On 3/23/07 9:11 PM, Anthony West [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote:
 
 
 
 If the assailant turns out to be rabid, perhaps.
 
 -- Tony West
 
 
 
 - Original Message -
 
 From:  Turner,Kathleen mailto:[EMAIL PROTECTED] mailto:[EMAIL PROTECTED]
 
 To: John Desmond mailto:[EMAIL PROTECTED] mailto:[EMAIL PROTECTED]   ;
 univcity@list.purple.com
 
 Sent: Friday, March 23, 2007 7:29 PM
 
 Subject: RE: [UC] Maybe things _are_  getting worse
 
 
 
 
 Can you explain how one  toddler biting another toddler is a sign of the
 apocalypse?
 
 
 
 Am I missing something here?
 
 
 
 Kathleen
 
 
 
 
 
 
 



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[UC] Maybe things _are_ getting worse

2007-03-23 Thread John Desmond

Salutations, gentlefolk,

Was talking to a lady I work with, earlier today.  Learned her 
one-year-old-son had been bitten yesterday by another child in the 
day-care-center, she'd been with him till 1 AM at the hospital getting 
him inspected, injected ...


Yours, John Desmond

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RE: [UC] Maybe things _are_ getting worse

2007-03-23 Thread Turner,Kathleen
Can you explain how one toddler biting another toddler is a sign of the 
apocalypse?
 
Am I missing something here?
 
Kathleen



From: [EMAIL PROTECTED] on behalf of John Desmond
Sent: Fri 3/23/2007 7:51 PM
To: Bob Schwier; univcity@list.purple.com
Subject: [UC] Maybe things _are_ getting worse



Salutations, gentlefolk,

Was talking to a lady I work with, earlier today.  Learned her
one-year-old-son had been bitten yesterday by another child in the
day-care-center, she'd been with him till 1 AM at the hospital getting
him inspected, injected ...

Yours, John Desmond

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Re: [UC] Maybe things _are_ getting worse - a Brighter Side

2007-03-23 Thread Craigsolve

From: ... John Desmond
Sent: Fri  3/23/2007 7:51 PM  
...  Learned her
one-year-old-son had been bitten  yesterday by another child in the
day-care-center,  ...



In a message dated 3/23/2007 7:33:58 P.M. Eastern Daylight Time,  
[EMAIL PROTECTED] writes:


Can you explain how  one toddler biting another toddler is a sign of the  
apocalypse?

Am I missing something  here?
Perhaps, you'll find these scenarios more encouraging:
 
1)Feral Children isolated, confined, wolf and wild  children
_http://www.feralchildren.com/en/index.php_ 
(http://www.feralchildren.com/en/index.php) 
 
2)Study: Cannibals Usually Dine Alone 
_http://www.livescience.com/animalworld/070323_cannibals_disease.html_ 
(http://www.livescience.com/animalworld/070323_cannibals_disease.html) 
 
You usually don't have to look far to see you are in the bright side.
 
Ciao,
 
Craig



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Re: [UC] Maybe things _are_ getting worse

2007-03-23 Thread Anthony West
[UC] Maybe things _are_ getting worseIf the assailant turns out to be rabid, 
perhaps.

-- Tony West
  - Original Message - 
  From: Turner,Kathleen 
  To: John Desmond ; univcity@list.purple.com 
  Sent: Friday, March 23, 2007 7:29 PM
  Subject: RE: [UC] Maybe things _are_ getting worse


  Can you explain how one toddler biting another toddler is a sign of the 
apocalypse?

  Am I missing something here?

  Kathleen

Re: [UC] Maybe things _are_ getting worse

2007-03-23 Thread Wilma de Soto
Addressed to Kathleen in reply to Tony¹s post:

When YOU were a toddler, how many other toddlers did YOU bite?  Did you
kick, scratch or punch other toddlers as well?

If so, then why?  If not, then WHY not?

Of course you, (and I) probably wanted to do so, but did we act out our
basest natural children¹s instincts, or were we taught to restrain those
impulses by our parents. They taught us that one could not just do what we
felt like doing to others outside of our homes and families.

Our wants were secondary to what was best for the greater good of society
once we left our homes and family.

It¹s different now.  Wherever people are today they it is an extension of
their home; their parents do not temper those impulses or teach restraint;
rather they defend the most basest impulses of children.

People have LOUD conversations on the trolley, buses, subways, streets,
markets; wherever they wish.  Please do not ask them to turn it down or have
their conversations elsewhere etc.  That is just ASKING for a violent
confrontation or worse.

It may not be the apocalypse, but it certainly heralds the decline of this
society and our country, which is relatively new in comparison in the
continuum of older societies on this planet.

We may sneer at the other nations, cultures and religious societies whom
might disagree with our world view and culture, but they just may well
prevail after we have gone, just as they did before America was established.

Not the apocalypse perhaps, but certainly something to consider.


On 3/23/07 9:11 PM, Anthony West [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote:

 If the assailant turns out to be rabid, perhaps.
  
 -- Tony West
  
 - Original Message -
  
 From:  Turner,Kathleen mailto:[EMAIL PROTECTED]
  
 To: John Desmond mailto:[EMAIL PROTECTED]  ; univcity@list.purple.com
  
 Sent: Friday, March 23, 2007 7:29 PM
  
 Subject: RE: [UC] Maybe things _are_  getting worse
  
 
  
  
 Can you explain how one  toddler biting another toddler is a sign of the
 apocalypse?
  
  
  
 Am I missing something here?
  
  
  
 Kathleen
 




RE: [UC] Maybe things _are_ getting worse

2007-03-23 Thread Turner,Kathleen
When YOU were a toddler, how many other toddlers did YOU bite?  Did you kick, 
scratch or punch other toddlers as well?
 
When I was one, or two?  I'm quite sure that I did.  and so did you, and Tony 
and . . .  well Ross -- who knows?
 
Children of that age have always bitten each other, or their parents or the 
dog.  And then they begin to learn that it isn't acceptable, and they stop.
 
If it had been an eight year old biting another child, then yes, something is 
wrong.
 
But one toddler biting another?  Perfectly expected and age appropriate.  Does 
that mean that parents (or daycare teachers, or whoever is with the child at 
the minute) ignore it?  No -- if they're paying attention, they remove one 
child from the other, and tell the biter no.
 
But it doesn't mean that the child is a budding psychopath.
 
I think you need a reality check here.



From: [EMAIL PROTECTED] on behalf of Wilma de Soto
Sent: Fri 3/23/2007 9:56 PM
To: Anthony West; UnivCity listserv
Subject: Re: [UC] Maybe things _are_ getting worse


Addressed to Kathleen in reply to Tony's post:

When YOU were a toddler, how many other toddlers did YOU bite?  Did you kick, 
scratch or punch other toddlers as well?

If so, then why?  If not, then WHY not?

Of course you, (and I) probably wanted to do so, but did we act out our basest 
natural children's instincts, or were we taught to restrain those impulses by 
our parents. They taught us that one could not just do what we felt like doing 
to others outside of our homes and families.

Our wants were secondary to what was best for the greater good of society once 
we left our homes and family.

It's different now.  Wherever people are today they it is an extension of their 
home; their parents do not temper those impulses or teach restraint; rather 
they defend the most basest impulses of children.

People have LOUD conversations on the trolley, buses, subways, streets, 
markets; wherever they wish.  Please do not ask them to turn it down or have 
their conversations elsewhere etc.  That is just ASKING for a violent 
confrontation or worse.

It may not be the apocalypse, but it certainly heralds the decline of this 
society and our country, which is relatively new in comparison in the continuum 
of older societies on this planet.

We may sneer at the other nations, cultures and religious societies whom might 
disagree with our world view and culture, but they just may well prevail after 
we have gone, just as they did before America was established.

Not the apocalypse perhaps, but certainly something to consider.


On 3/23/07 9:11 PM, Anthony West [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote:



If the assailant turns out to be rabid, perhaps.

-- Tony West



- Original Message - 
 
From:  Turner,Kathleen mailto:[EMAIL PROTECTED] 
mailto:[EMAIL PROTECTED]
 
To: John Desmond mailto:[EMAIL PROTECTED] mailto:[EMAIL 
PROTECTED]   ; univcity@list.purple.com 
 
Sent: Friday, March 23, 2007 7:29 PM
 
Subject: RE: [UC] Maybe things _are_  getting worse
 

 
 
Can you explain how one  toddler biting another toddler is a 
sign of the apocalypse?

 
 
Am I missing something here?

 
 
Kathleen