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http://news.bbc.co.uk/2/hi/americas/7265021.stm

Last Updated: Wednesday, 27 February 2008, 10:10 GMT


      US Muslim women seek active faith role
      By Robert Pigott 
      Religious affairs correspondent, BBC News  





       
      The Aktar daughters are following their mother into careers 
See the Akhtar family at a weekend lunch, and the renewal of Islam in America 
seems inevitable and irresistible. 

Shahid and Mino Akhtar were born in Pakistan and, like their son and three 
daughters, they are devout Muslims who attend the mosque regularly. 

Meeting them at their house in a quiet tree-lined street in Emerson, New 
Jersey, it soon seems clear that they, and their progressive Islam, are as 
perfectly adapted to life in modern America as their Christian neighbours. 

Shahid is a hands-on dad. While his wife pursued a career as a lawyer he took 
charge of raising the children. His son Reza, a hospital doctor, is following 
his example by being the one who cooks dinner and does the dishes as his wife, 
Amna, also works. 

The Aktar daughters are pursuing careers as a lawyer, businesswoman and 
dentist. Their emancipation has not diluted their sense of being Muslim, but it 
has changed it. 

Sheema wears shorts to play soccer, but sees no conflict with the duty to 
behave modestly. They feel bound by the duty to pray, for example, but not at 
five set times each day. 

Mino Akhtar says connection with God is what counts. 

"In terms of the daily practices, when I travel on business I don't get to get 
to pray five times a day," she says. "It's my connection with the creator 
that's more important than how I do it." 

"Absolutely," says her daughter Sheema. "We're just adapting to the 
surroundings. As long as you have the basic principles, and you abide by them 
and remember Allah every day." 

Women 'reclaiming Islam' 

American Muslims' determination to grasp the basic principles of their religion 
- rather than the sometimes harsh rules contributed by other cultures during 
its long history - grew out of the wreckage of the World Trade Center towers. 

      
       We've been working with a variety of organisations on really taking the 
teachings of Islam and delivering them without the baggage of tradition 

      Lena Alhusseini


      Islam series: Radical revision 
Shahnaz Taplin Chinoy stands on Brooklyn Heights and surveys the southern tip 
of Manhattan. She recalls the events of 11 September 2001, and the moment she 
made it her mission to reclaim the Islam of her childhood. 

"I was bombarded by questions from friends," she says. "They kept saying, 'why 
does Islam suppress women? Why does Islam condone violence?' I was 
flabbergasted at the Islam of the hijackers which was so disconnected with the 
Islam of my youth - which was not extremist at all." 

'Baggage of tradition' 

Lena Alhusseini, whose origin is Palestinian, runs a family support centre for 
Arab-Americans in Brooklyn. She says women are leading the renewal of Islam 
because they have the most to gain. 

"Oftentimes we get women who are illiterate. They come from tribal societies 
and in their understanding of Islam it's okay to be beaten by a man. Their role 
is to be subservient and that's the mark of a good Muslim woman - which is very 
different from what Islam teaches. 

"So we've been working with a variety of organisations on really taking the 
teachings of Islam and delivering them without the baggage of tradition. And 
telling them this is what Islam is all about - Islam gives you rights, Islam 
doesn't allow you to be treated this way." 

Laleh Bakhtiar is a Muslim scholar who has translated the Koran, making 
controversial changes in standard translations which she says more accurately 
reflect the original spirit of the religion. 

       
      Laleh Bakhtiar's translation of the Koran may upset traditionalists 
Dr Bhaktiar's English text has removed derogatory references to Christians and 
Jews. It changes many of the most important words, even substituting the word 
"God" for "Allah", which she says is more inclusive. Most controversially, her 
Koran rejects the idea, in Chapter Four, verse 34, that men may beat their 
wives. 

"The word for "beat" has 25 meanings", she says. "We need to look therefore at 
what Muhammad did. He didn't beat but walked away. So why are we saying 'beat' 
when we can say 'go away' - which is what he did." 

Modern mosques 

Muslim women have also been demanding changes in the way mosques are run. Daisy 
Khan was among the designers contributing to the plans for Long Island Mosque 
in Westbury, a suburb of wide roads, trees and clap-boarded houses. She quickly 
discovered that the draft design confined women to a basement. 

"Women were out of sight... the design was done in such a way that women were 
supposed to be downstairs with no access to the main prayer space," she says. 

      You're talking about a country [the US] which is based on the principles 
of freedom and democracy, equality, justice - all these are Islamic 

      Imam Shamsi Ali 
Now women worship in the prayer hall behind the men, a step that seems 
radically modern to some new immigrants. 

"There's no provision in Islam which says women can't pray in the same space," 
insists Ms Khan. "These are just traditions we've adopted over the years 
because of the practice in certain countries." 

Among the Sufi Muslims of the Nur Ashki Jerrahi order at their meeting in 
Yonkers, men and women mix freely. The spiritual director is a woman. Shaykha 
Fariha occasionally leads both men and women in prayers, an act which has 
scandalised traditionalists but which she says is appropriate in America. 

"In the West I'm more free about leading prayers" she says. "I think the 
tendency against it is mainly a cultural one." 

At the New York Islamic Cultural Centre, a group of high-spirited girls is 
studying alongside boys on a Saturday morning. The mosque's imam, Muhammad 
Shamsi Ali, says educating girls is vital to developing Islam in the West, and 
is true to Islam's original purpose. 

       
      Girls at New York's Islamic Cultural Center are given opportunities to 
study 
"Prophet Mohammed stated clearly that women must learn - they must be equal to 
the male intellectually, they have to improve themselves intellectually," he 
says. 

Imam Shamsi Ali says he sees no incompatibility between the US and Islam. 
"You're talking about a country which is based on the principles of freedom and 
democracy, equality, justice - and all these are Islamic." 

Shaykha Fariha says that apart from these shared principles, Islam has what the 
founder of her order described as the ability to behave like water - taking on 
the shape of the vessel into which it is poured. 

She says Muslims in many parts of the world are shedding the cultural 
restrictions inherited from male-dominated and conservative societies. 

"Islam is undergoing a huge reformation and self questioning, and certainly 
9/11 has [led to] people looking at their religion and asking what has led to 
this," she says. "So I think what we're seeing today within the Islamic 
tradition is comparable to the Christian reformation in the sense of the 
dimension of its impact on the religion, its impact on individuals and its 
impact on the world as a whole." 

Traditionalist critics say those who seek revolutionary change in Islam are 
diluting its teaching. They say that adapting the religion to contemporary 
mores progressively undermines its ability to give moral guidance to society. 

But the Akhtar family insist that their modern lifestyle in secular America 
does not stop them practising what they call "the beautiful values of Islam". 

Mona Akhtar, a lawyer, bubbles rose-flavoured smoke through an after-lunch 
shisha, and contemplates her emancipated sisters. 

"We're living examples of the importance of women taking a more active role in 
Islam," she says. "We're following the spirit of the Koran." 


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