Dear Sir,
We are in very sorry state. Nothing can help us. We are ruining, our
days are counted.
I also looking out for god to help us. If he is there I am very much happy.
Why not look beyond Mahaperiva?
Living in cage(prison) and not realised that your living in your own prison
You will say let me live in this way.
I am not here to change anyone, I am only sharing my perception.
Let see what happens ahead?
Best regards
Suresh
On 6/28/13, Rajaram Krishnamurthy <keyar...@gmail.com> wrote:
> Dear Suresh
> The moment I read "sorry to contradict maha periaval" I read
> no more because TAT TVAM ASI. K r IRS
>
>
> On Wed, Jun 26, 2013 at 10:25 PM, SURESH JAGADEESAN
> <varam...@gmail.com>wrote:
>
>> Dear Sri.Rajaram,
>>
>> “He went through the statistics, about 15 children were born in 10
>> hospitals, 8 female and 7 male infants, out of which 3 children had
>> malnutrition defects, 2 children were the first child of highly rich
>> parents born in luxury hospitals, while 4 were children of coolie
>> labourers who already had few children.*
>>
>> According to your concepts, all these children should be living
>> exactly identical to each other, but not so practically, some are ill,
>> some are healthy, some are born to rich parents, some are born to poor
>> parents. Remember all children born in the same day, same longitude,
>> latitude, you can't blame their horoscope which is going to be almost
>> identical.”
>>
>> Sorry to contradict Mahaperiva.
>>
>> This is not a comparison at all. You cannot compere like this.
>>
>> The difference may not be there in the place of birth, and day of
>> birth, but certainly differences are in Parents, the main factors by
>> which children genes are decided, nutrition are decided .
>>
>> Horoscope is not a science, based on that one should or cannot predict
>> one’s life.
>>
>> Horoscope is a psychological play. If an astrologer states “for this
>> horoscope, this will be the life events”, then one starts believing
>> it, that belief brings such life to him .
>>
>> Remember Buddha words “We are shaped by our thoughts; we become what we
>> think”
>>
>> So don’t be so much enthusiastic that you have disproved me by quoting
>> Mahaperiva words.
>>
>> I give you my own example:
>>
>> My children being autistic are not because of some papa done by me or
>> my wife in the previous birth.
>>
>> MY children being autistic are because of my mistakes in the present
>> life.
>>
>> Please note that fetus in the mother womb is affected by the thoughts
>> of that mother. If she is happy, she is sending good vibrations and if
>> she is sad, she is sending bad vibrations and if she is under stress,
>> she is sending stressful vibrations to the fetus.
>>
>> These vibrations first of all affect the child’s brain, then the body.
>> I hope most of the members agree on this point.
>>
>> Before my marriage, I liked a girl and wanted to marry her, but it was
>> neither accepted by her nor accepted by my parents. So after I have
>> seen my wife, I have written to her all my love affair honestly. (This
>> is my mistake)
>>
>> My wife being very much sensitive did not liked to get married; she
>> thought she is not my first love. But due to her mother’s compulsion
>> only she agreed to marry me. But I liked her innocence. After marriage
>> she keep asking me about my previous love affair. She always used to
>> state that she is only my 2nd wife, since I have not loved her first.
>>
>> After 5 months of marriage, I went to ship. She could not allow me to
>> go for ship. Since I have no money which is all spent due to marriage
>> and for all those 6 months of stay at home, I have no choice but to
>> join ship. This made her deeply stressed.
>>
>> She was thinking what if I call that previous lover and in case she
>> now loves me, I may not stick with her (my wife) and go with my
>> previous love. And also at my home the fight (usual) started between
>> my Chithi and my sisters to some extent with my father. She liked my
>> father, because my father used to appreciate her hard work, and for
>> her good cooking. So she shifted to her home when I was in ship. I
>> signed off from ship one week before her delivery.
>>
>> So these stresses affected my first child to be born with Autism.
>> (better than my 2nd son)
>>
>> For my 2nd son, that time she most loved me so much, the trust has
>> grown up. She used to state to her mother that for next 7 generations
>> she wanted to be my wife ( for that there is a temple in Tamilnadu and
>> there if you perform a pooja, this will happen and she wanted to do
>> that)
>>
>> But when love has increased with me, more intolerance grown towards my
>> chithi and my sisters. All because of money. Actually we don’t stay at
>> home for long time. I used to take her with me on board. That time I
>> was sailing with Indian company and hence salary was less. And I had
>> home loan and other loans, so hardly any money left in hand for saving
>> or even for luxury spending.
>>
>> So my wife told me, why not your brother support the family now. Ask
>> him to pay for the family, after some time we can take over else ask
>> him at least to share the house hold expenses.
>>
>> My elder brother had already left us, and in fact he purchased a flat
>> just opposite to my house (flat). He is a B.E and have good job. But
>> unfortunately his wife is more worse then me, and he could not spare
>> any money to parents and sisters. I don’t fight for all these. Since I
>> supported for a long, I continued.
>>
>> But one fine day when we came from ship, there was big fight between
>> my chithi and sisters, so same day they left my home. I did not speak
>> any single word, I maintained silence. My father even told me to
>> divorce her and my wife wanted to suicide or wanted to go to Police to
>> make complaint against my parents. Only my brother become middle man
>> and bring the situation under control, and he only arranged a house
>> for my parents and sisters to stay.
>>
>> During this time she was carrying. After some time my sister marriage
>> was arranged, on the 3rd day of marriage my father died. This made her
>> so much up set, may be she had guilty feeling that because of her my
>> father died.
>>
>> So this stress caused my 2nd son to be Autistic.
>>
>> So my children being autistic are because of mistakes committed in
>> this life only.
>>
>> Many can argue that beggars are giving good normal children are they
>> not undergoing stresses?
>>
>> But these uneducated and beggar women are more like animals, they
>> don’t think. They have accepted that kind of life, and hence they are
>> really mentally not stressful about their life situations.
>>
>> But present day women well educated, who has ambition to have their
>> own career, are undergoing lot of stresses, even for simple life
>> situations. Intolerance become phenomenally high.
>>
>> I have interviewed many women who come for Occupational therapy center
>> and asked their life situations during their pregnancy. And I received
>> similar kinds of fights in their in-law houses and they had undergone
>> similar stressful situations.
>>
>> Women fight for silly reasons and later on feel repented and have
>> guilty conscience this is the one of the main cause for special
>> children.
>>
>> If one has noticed that these special children are more in numbers in
>> today’s world.
>>
>> This was not a common scenario some 40 years back.
>>
>> Why because today women are ambitious and career oriented and wanted
>> to compete with men and wanted to show I am equal to men in any field.
>> This causes frequent stresses, and during pregnancy the same stresses
>> affects the child brain, and hence all these disorders.
>>
>> I request Dr.Balan to comment on my findings.
>>
>> I request women members to comment on my writings.
>>
>> I request all not to feel offended because of my no-god theory. I am
>> not against god, but I am searching for god
>>
>> So no previous birth karma affecting this life, what affects is this
>> life karma only. Cause and effects are immediate.
>>
>> Best wishes
>> Suresh
>>
>>
>>
>>
>>
>> --
>> Thanks and best regards
>> J.Suresh
>> New No.3, Old No.7,
>> Chamiers road - 1st Lane,
>> Alwarpet,
>> Chennai - 600018
>> Ph: 044 42030947
>> Mobile: 91 9884071738
>>
>
>
>
> --
> *AUM TAT SAT*
>
--
Thanks and best regards
J.Suresh
New No.3, Old No.7,
Chamiers road - 1st Lane,
Alwarpet,
Chennai - 600018
Ph: 044 42030947
Mobile: 91 9884071738
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