Re: A Question About Muhammad's Wives

2010-12-01 Thread Stephen Gray
. From: Susan Maneck sman...@gmail.com To: Baha'i Studies bahai-st@list.jccc.edu Sent: Mon, November 29, 2010 8:13:07 PM Subject: Re: A Question About Muhammad's Wives The Baha'i Studies Listserv Reference, please. . Maimonides did not support child marriages, he

Re: A Question About Muhammad's Wives

2010-12-01 Thread Stephen Gray
: Susan Maneck sman...@gmail.com To: Baha'i Studies bahai-st@list.jccc.edu Sent: Mon, November 29, 2010 8:15:15 PM Subject: Re: A Question About Muhammad's Wives The Baha'i Studies Listserv Now that I think about it, I wonder if the cutoff is age three here because of the earlier story of Rebecca

Re: A Question About Muhammad's Wives

2010-12-01 Thread Gilberto Simpson
The Baha'i Studies Listserv Not necessarily. Being a bar or bat mitzvah means one is individually responsible for ones obedience or disobedience to the commandments. But that's not necessarily a condition for marriage. For example the father could marry off his daughter when she is young.

Re: A Question About Muhammad's Wives

2010-12-01 Thread Susan Maneck
The Baha'i Studies Listserv Now, that Jews have the ritual of the Bat Mitzvah does that imply that the marrying age has been raised to 12? The marrying age for men is 13 because of the ritual of Bar Mitvah. It implies that a Jew can be married only after they have gone through Bar/Bat Mitvah.

Re: A Question About Muhammad's Wives

2010-12-01 Thread Susan Maneck
The Baha'i Studies Listserv Rebecca was extremely uncomfortable during her pregnancy and went to inquire of God why she was suffering so. According to the Midrash, whenever she would pass a house of Torah study, Jacob would struggle to come out; whenever she would pass a house of idolatry,

Re: A Question About Muhammad's Wives

2010-12-01 Thread Stephen Gray
: Re: A Question About Muhammad's Wives The Baha'i Studies Listserv Rebecca was extremely uncomfortable during her pregnancy and went to inquire of God why she was suffering so. According to the Midrash, whenever she would pass a house of Torah study, Jacob would struggle to come out; whenever she

Re: A Question About Muhammad's Wives

2010-12-01 Thread Susan Maneck
The Baha'i Studies Listserv Jewish traditions tend to retcon torah, torah study, jewish universities to the time of Adam or before. Yes, I know. I just find it amusing. __ You are subscribed to Baha'i Studies as: mailto:arch...@mail-archive.com

A Question About Muhammad's Wives

2010-11-29 Thread Tim Nolan
The Baha'i Studies Listserv I  recently participated in a discussion about Muhammad. One person in the discussion stated over and over that Muhammad was immoral because he married a girl aged 6, and had intimate relations with her when she was only 9. This particular person in the discussion was 

Re: {Spam?} A Question About Muhammad's Wives

2010-11-29 Thread Sen Sonja
The Baha'i Studies Listserv One start is to gather the various traditions, which disagree about the age of Aisha when she was married. I discuss two of them on my blog here: http://senmcglinn.wordpress.com/email-archive/the-age-of-aisha/ but I know there are others. These two happen to come

Re: A Question About Muhammad's Wives

2010-11-29 Thread Stephen Gray
. From: Tim Nolan tnola...@yahoo.com To: Baha'i Studies bahai-st@list.jccc.edu Sent: Mon, November 29, 2010 2:26:57 PM Subject: A Question About Muhammad's Wives The Baha'i Studies Listserv I  recently participated in a discussion about Muhammad. One person in the discussion stated over and over

Re: A Question About Muhammad's Wives

2010-11-29 Thread Stephen Gray
From: Stephen Gray skg_z...@yahoo.com To: Baha'i Studies bahai-st@list.jccc.edu Sent: Mon, November 29, 2010 2:38:56 PM Subject: Re: A Question About Muhammad's Wives The Baha'i Studies Listserv http://misconceptions-about-islam.com/ This is a good defense of Islam website. http

Re: A Question About Muhammad's Wives

2010-11-29 Thread Susan Maneck
The Baha'i Studies Listserv I  recently participated in a discussion about Muhammad. One person in the discussion stated over and over that Muhammad was immoral because he married a girl aged 6, and had intimate relations with her when she was only 9. I would agree that Stephen's chronology

Re: A Question About Muhammad's Wives

2010-11-29 Thread Gilberto Simpson
The Baha'i Studies Listserv The most thoughtful discussion I've seen on the topic is: The Young Marriage of cAishah: Mother of the Believers by Abû Imân cAbd ar-Rahmân Robert Squires http://www.islamic-awareness.org/Polemics/aishah.html The article makes a number of points and I'd encourage

Re: A Question About Muhammad's Wives

2010-11-29 Thread Susan Maneck
The Baha'i Studies Listserv The article makes a number of points and I'd encourage you to read it. The big point is that early marriages were normal for much of pre-modern history and that even enemies and critics of Islam in the past were unfazed by the marriage of Muhammad (saaws) and Aishah

Re: A Question About Muhammad's Wives

2010-11-29 Thread Iskandar Hai, M.D.
The Baha'i Studies Listserv Reference, please. On Mon, Nov 29, 2010 at 4:51 PM, Susan Maneck sman...@gmail.com wrote: Maimonides held that 3 was the permissible marriage age. __ __ You are

Re: A Question About Muhammad's Wives

2010-11-29 Thread Gilberto Simpson
The Baha'i Studies Listserv I found the following blog which gives references http://rabbimichaelsamuel.com/wisdom/jewish-sexual-ethics/ But the emphasis seems to be in an odd place. I mean, it seems to be saying that sex doesn't even count as sex before 3. (If she is younger than that, (less

Re: A Question About Muhammad's Wives

2010-11-29 Thread Gilberto Simpson
The Baha'i Studies Listserv The clearest statement I could find is in the Talmud A maiden aged three years and a day may be acquired in marriage by coition, and if her deceased husband's brother cohabits with her, she becomes his. The larger context is:

Re: A Question About Muhammad's Wives

2010-11-29 Thread Susan Maneck
The Baha'i Studies Listserv Reference, please. . Maimonides did not support child marriages, he merely acknowledged they were permissible according to the Talmud. I can'f find an electronic version of his statement, but here's a website that speaks of it:

Re: A Question About Muhammad's Wives

2010-11-29 Thread Susan Maneck
The Baha'i Studies Listserv Now that I think about it, I wonder if the cutoff is age three here because of the earlier story of Rebecca and Isaac? __ You are subscribed to Baha'i Studies as: mailto:arch...@mail-archive.com Unsubscribe: send a

Re: A Question About Muhammad's Wives

2010-11-29 Thread Susan Maneck
The Baha'i Studies Listserv Now that I think about it, I wonder if the cutoff is age three here because of the earlier story of Rebecca and Isaac? I was thinking the same thing. We know some Muslims justify marrying young girls on the basis of Muhammad's marriage to Aisha.