There
are many variations on the story of stone soup, but they all involve a traveler
coming into a town beset by famine. The inhabitants try to discourage the
traveler from staying, fearing he wants them to give him food. They tell him in
no uncertain terms that there's no food anywhere to be found. The traveler
explains that he doesn't need any food and that, in fact, he was planning to
make a soup to share with all of them.  


The villagers watch suspiciously as he builds a fire and fills a cauldron with 
water. With great ceremony, he pulls a stone from a bag, dropping the stone 
into the pot of water. He sniffs the brew extravagantly and exclaims how 
delicious stone soup is. As the villagers begin to show interest, he mentions 
how good the soup would be with just a little cabbage in it. A villager brings 
out a cabbage to share. This episode repeats itself until the soup has cabbage, 
carrots, onions, and beets-indeed, a substantial soup that feeds everyone in 
the village. 


This story addresses the human tendency to hoard in times of deprivation. When 
resources are scarce, we pull back and put all of our energy into 
self-preservation. We isolate ourselves and shut out others. As the story of 
stone soup reveals, in doing so, we often deprive ourselves and everyone else 
of a feast. 


This metaphor plays out beyond the realm of food. We hoard ideas, love, and 
energy, thinking we will be richer if we keep to them to ourselves, when in 
truth we make the world, and ourselves, poorer whenever we greedily stockpile 
our reserves. The traveler was able to see that the villagers were holding 
back, and he had the genius to draw them out and inspire them to give, thus 
creating a spread that none of them could have created alone. 

Are you like one of the villagers, holding back? If you come forward and share 
your gifts, you will inspire others to do the same. The reward is a banquet 
that can nourish many. 


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