Re: My 16 month old... advice please.

2009-02-25 Thread Michael Grant
> > Yesterday he asked my wife, "mommy, where do frogs poop?" HAHAHA, thanks for that! That's damn funny! > and not to laugh in their line of site. That's the part I'm really having trouble with. I have a grossly enlarged funnybone and am very quick to laugh and it's really really hard not to

Re: My 16 month old... advice please.

2009-02-25 Thread C. Hatton Humphrey
>>to not really care. The really really hard part is keeping a straight face. >>My daughter is really really funny and her eyes sparkle like crazy when >>she's pushing boundries. I'm going to stay consistent but it all seems to >>fall apart when she flashes me a smile and I start laughing. It's SO

Re: My 16 month old... advice please.

2009-02-25 Thread Larry Lyons
>Ok, so we've been doing the timeout thing. She's had two already in the last >1 hour and 40 minutes. She kind of seems to be getting it, but kind of seems >to not really care. The really really hard part is keeping a straight face. >My daughter is really really funny and her eyes sparkle like cra

Re: My 16 month old... advice please.

2009-02-24 Thread Maureen
Don't pull it all out now. You'll need it for when they are teenagers. On Tue, Feb 24, 2009 at 4:22 PM, Michael Grant wrote: > > Two right now, both daughters. 16 months old and two weeks old. > How much hair? All of it if need be. > > On Tue, Feb 24, 2009 at 7:10 PM, Michael Dinowitz < > mdino

Re: My 16 month old... advice please.

2009-02-24 Thread Michael Dinowitz
Two daughters? All of it will be the first installment. :) On Tue, Feb 24, 2009 at 7:22 PM, Michael Grant wrote: > > Two right now, both daughters. 16 months old and two weeks old. > How much hair? All of it if need be. > > > On Tue, Feb 24, 2009 at 7:10 PM, Michael Dinowitz < > mdino...@hous

Re: My 16 month old... advice please.

2009-02-24 Thread Michael Grant
Two right now, both daughters. 16 months old and two weeks old. How much hair? All of it if need be. On Tue, Feb 24, 2009 at 7:10 PM, Michael Dinowitz < mdino...@houseoffusion.com> wrote: > > So how many do you have and how much hair are you willing to lose? ;) > > My daughter is really really f

Re: My 16 month old... advice please.

2009-02-24 Thread Michael Dinowitz
So how many do you have and how much hair are you willing to lose? ;) My daughter is really really funny and her eyes sparkle like crazy when > she's pushing boundries. I'm going to stay consistent but it all seems to > fall apart when she flashes me a smile and I start laughing. It's S > har

Re: My 16 month old... advice please.

2009-02-24 Thread Maureen
She sounds adorable. I remember pointing my finger at my youngest once to scold him and he kissed my finger. How can you be mad at a kid like that? On Tue, Feb 24, 2009 at 3:45 PM, Michael Grant wrote: > > Ok, so we've been doing the timeout thing. She's had two already in the last > 1 hour an

Re: My 16 month old... advice please.

2009-02-24 Thread Michael Grant
Ok, so we've been doing the timeout thing. She's had two already in the last 1 hour and 40 minutes. She kind of seems to be getting it, but kind of seems to not really care. The really really hard part is keeping a straight face. My daughter is really really funny and her eyes sparkle like crazy w

Re: My 16 month old... advice please.

2009-02-24 Thread Michael Grant
BwaaHaHa® Morchella, thank you so much for your post. It really puts things in perspective. If a woman with Down Syndrome and suffering from HIV still has enough lust for life to take the time to brighten the day of the 'normal' people, it should really be a lesson to us all! Good luck and Godspe

Re: My 16 month old... advice please.

2009-02-23 Thread Maureen
Michael's idea of holding her hand sounds good. I would include a firm NO, and maybe a few minutes in a timeout place. Try to save the NOs for times when she is courting danger, however. If you use it too much, she's parrot it back to you and it will become useless. Here's a good article: http

Re: My 16 month old... advice please.

2009-02-23 Thread Michael Dinowitz
I feel for you. I really do. Our 22 month old is getting into places and doing things she should not and we're kind of tied up with the newborn. Computers rather than cats, but... We're not using the 'go to bed' timeout as a time-out because we don't want her to associate bed with punishment but i

Re: My 16 month old... advice please.

2009-02-23 Thread Michael Grant
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Re: My 16 month old... advice please.

2009-02-23 Thread William Bowen
> Turn it around and take her from the animal. yes. it's setting a behavioral expectation. nothing jarring or sudden. follow-through and consistence. toddlers are smart, she'll get the message :-) consistency is the key! -- will "If my life weren't funny, it would just be true; and that woul

Re: My 16 month old... advice please.

2009-02-23 Thread morchella
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Re: My 16 month old... advice please.

2009-02-23 Thread Scott Stroz
I find that in situations like this, beatings are way under-utilized. All kidding aside. When we had issues with our kids and similar circumstances, we would escalate the 'punishment'. I used to laugh about it, btu at that age 'timeout' in a different room worked wonders for my kids. On Mon, F

Re: My 16 month old... advice please.

2009-02-23 Thread Michael Grant
The reason we've been doing it this way is because it's not always an option to remove her from the animal. Our main floor is open concept so to remove her would mean taking her upstairs. She's not old enough for the "go to your room" type thing and staying up with her when the wife is feeding the

Re: My 16 month old... advice please.

2009-02-23 Thread Michael Grant
The cats declawed (not my choice) otherwise I think this would already be sorted. Any suggestions on how to make it a less than pleasant experience that a 16 month old will understand? On Mon, Feb 23, 2009 at 8:21 PM, Maureen wrote: > > The first time the cat turns and claws her, she'll get i

Re: My 16 month old... advice please.

2009-02-23 Thread Maureen
The first time the cat turns and claws her, she'll get it. IF you want to prevent that, you have to stop her by making it a less than pleasant experience, same as with the dog. On Mon, Feb 23, 2009 at 4:25 PM, Michael Grant wrote: > > Ok, my 16.5 month old has started pulling the cat's tail and

Re: My 16 month old... advice please.

2009-02-23 Thread Michael Dinowitz
Turn it around and take her from the animal. On Mon, Feb 23, 2009 at 8:02 PM, Michael Grant wrote: > > How so? > > So far each time she's done it we've removed the animal from the situation > and told her that she's not allowed to play with them because she hurt > them. > She doesn't really und

Re: My 16 month old... advice please.

2009-02-23 Thread Michael Grant
How so? So far each time she's done it we've removed the animal from the situation and told her that she's not allowed to play with them because she hurt them. She doesn't really understand. She's not even a year and a half yet so she has a pretty limited understanding of cause & effect. On Mon,

Re: My 16 month old... advice please.

2009-02-23 Thread Rastafari
uhhh, 16.5 month old female. logic. u im sure it starts that early... has to. :) i keeed of course On Mon, Feb 23, 2009 at 7:36 PM, William Bowen wrote: > > Sorry, /logical/ consequences? > > > > On Mon, Feb 23, 2009 at 4:35 PM, William Bowen > wrote: >> Have you explored logic conse

Re: My 16 month old... advice please.

2009-02-23 Thread William Bowen
Sorry, /logical/ consequences? On Mon, Feb 23, 2009 at 4:35 PM, William Bowen wrote: > Have you explored logic consequences? > > On Mon, Feb 23, 2009 at 4:25 PM, Michael Grant wrote: >> >> Ok, my 16.5 month old has started pulling the cat's tail and legs as well as >> the dog's tail. We've be

Re: My 16 month old... advice please.

2009-02-23 Thread William Bowen
Have you explored logic consequences? On Mon, Feb 23, 2009 at 4:25 PM, Michael Grant wrote: > > Ok, my 16.5 month old has started pulling the cat's tail and legs as well as > the dog's tail. We've been stopping her immediately and try explaining it > hurts them and she just laughs. She's pretty

Re: My 16 month old... advice please.

2009-02-23 Thread Michael Dinowitz
When one of my kids do something like that I take their hand, hold it without letting it go and tell them that hitting is wrong. Not squeezing their hand, not hurting them, just holding firm. They get the 'punishment' of not being able to leave while being scolded. On Mon, Feb 23, 2009 at 7:25 PM

My 16 month old... advice please.

2009-02-23 Thread Michael Grant
Ok, my 16.5 month old has started pulling the cat's tail and legs as well as the dog's tail. We've been stopping her immediately and try explaining it hurts them and she just laughs. She's pretty young so I don't really expect her to 'get it.' But... how do I make her 'get it?' ***I'd know what t