Re: [OT] aggressiveness on our mailing lists.

2009-07-30 Thread Wouter Verhelst
On Fri, Jul 24, 2009 at 09:57:28AM +0900, Charles Plessy wrote: Le Thu, Jul 23, 2009 at 03:44:01PM -0500, Manoj Srivastava a écrit : his is silly Manoj, I hesitated between answering in public or private, but since there are planned discussions at Debconf about aggressivity on

Re: [OT] aggressiveness on our mailing lists.

2009-07-30 Thread Wouter Verhelst
On Sat, Jul 25, 2009 at 08:40:50PM +0300, Lars Wirzenius wrote: la, 2009-07-25 kello 09:16 -0500, Manoj Srivastava kirjoitti: You are making the assumption that the authors reaction to Bad is less negative than the reaction to Silly. While this is subjective, I do not think it is

Re: [OT] aggressiveness on our mailing lists.

2009-07-30 Thread Bernhard R. Link
* Wouter Verhelst wou...@debian.org [090730 18:18]: I'm sorry, but in any discussion it is perfectly reasonable to sometimes say that an idea is not a very good one. Note that there is a difference between 'you are silly' and 'this is silly'. Manoj said the latter (one minor typo

Re: [OT] aggressiveness on our mailing lists.

2009-07-30 Thread Wouter Verhelst
On Thu, Jul 30, 2009 at 06:42:04PM +0200, Bernhard R. Link wrote: * Wouter Verhelst wou...@debian.org [090730 18:18]: I'm sorry, but in any discussion it is perfectly reasonable to sometimes say that an idea is not a very good one. Note that there is a difference between 'you are silly' and

Re: [OT] aggressiveness on our mailing lists.

2009-07-30 Thread Manoj Srivastava
On Thu, Jul 30 2009, Bernhard R. Link wrote: Silly is mostly about missing intellectual skills, so applying it to actions, ideas or questions is mostly pars pro toto meaning the human it originates from. I beg to differ. I have had dumb ideas in the past, and even proposed them; but

Re: [OT] aggressiveness on our mailing lists.

2009-07-25 Thread MJ Ray
Manoj Srivastava sriva...@debian.org wrote: On Fri, Jul 24 2009, MJ Ray wrote: [...] the project should remain polite even in the face of really daft ideas (like the 3017th report that our website CSS is invalid just because the W3C validator is incomplete). Calling a daft idea

Re: [OT] aggressiveness on our mailing lists.

2009-07-25 Thread Ben Finney
MJ Ray m...@phonecoop.coop writes: Manoj Srivastava sriva...@debian.org wrote: Calling a daft idea silly is being rude now? Not necessarily (it depends how one phrases it), but being rude is one way of being not overly genteel (as the earlier message advocated). I feel one

Re: [OT] aggressiveness on our mailing lists.

2009-07-25 Thread Lars Wirzenius
la, 2009-07-25 kello 23:12 +1000, Ben Finney kirjoitti: If what remains is an attack upon an *idea*, so be it; ideas don't have feelings and are not automatically deserving of respect or politeness. “This is a silly idea” attacks no-one and is impolite to no-one. Let those who support the idea

Re: [OT] aggressiveness on our mailing lists.

2009-07-25 Thread Manoj Srivastava
On Sat, Jul 25 2009, Lars Wirzenius wrote: For example, in the specific case under discussion, the criticism might have been expressed something like this instead: I think this is a bad idea. It creates extra work for developers You are making the assumption that

Re: [OT] aggressiveness on our mailing lists.

2009-07-25 Thread Lars Wirzenius
la, 2009-07-25 kello 09:16 -0500, Manoj Srivastava kirjoitti: You are making the assumption that the authors reaction to Bad is less negative than the reaction to Silly. While this is subjective, I do not think it is without contention: My hasty re-wording has now given the wrong

Re: [OT] aggressiveness on our mailing lists.

2009-07-24 Thread Matthew Johnson
On Fri Jul 24 09:57, Charles Plessy wrote: Le Thu, Jul 23, 2009 at 03:44:01PM -0500, Manoj Srivastava a écrit : his is silly Are you sure that this is not a typo for This is silly? A rather unfortunate one, since what Manoj wrote looks a lot more like a personal attack than it

Re: [OT] aggressiveness on our mailing lists.

2009-07-24 Thread Luk Claes
Charles Plessy wrote: Le Thu, Jul 23, 2009 at 10:30:17PM -0500, Manoj Srivastava a écrit : While I do not approve of ad hominem attacks on the mailing list, I think that we can go over much to the other side: We should not be overly genteel about silly ideas. You twist people words

Re: [OT] aggressiveness on our mailing lists.

2009-07-24 Thread Ben Finney
Matthew Johnson mj...@debian.org writes: On Fri Jul 24 09:57, Charles Plessy wrote: Le Thu, Jul 23, 2009 at 03:44:01PM -0500, Manoj Srivastava a écrit : his is silly Are you sure that this is not a typo for This is silly? It didn't occur to me to interpret it any other way

Re: [OT] aggressiveness on our mailing lists.

2009-07-24 Thread MJ Ray
Manoj Srivastava sriva...@debian.org wrote: [...] I think that we can go over much to the other side: We should not be overly genteel about silly ideas. [...] I don't think there's anything wrong with being a polite society (=genteel) even when confronted with a silly idea. Maybe the above

Re: [OT] aggressiveness on our mailing lists.

2009-07-24 Thread Raphael Hertzog
On Fri, 24 Jul 2009, Ben Finney wrote: Manoj seems to be emitting a great deal more typos to Debian forums in recent years. Perhaps we should pool together donations for a better keyboard for him? Or he should post less and take the time to review what he writes... (including the pass where

Re: [OT] aggressiveness on our mailing lists.

2009-07-24 Thread Manoj Srivastava
On Fri, Jul 24 2009, Luk Claes wrote: Twisting people's words is unfortunately very normal behaviour for Manoj. On Fri, Jul 24 2009, Raphael Hertzog wrote: Or he should post less and take the time to review what he writes... (including the pass where he's supposed to remove the unneeded

Re: [OT] aggressiveness on our mailing lists.

2009-07-24 Thread Manoj Srivastava
On Fri, Jul 24 2009, MJ Ray wrote: Manoj Srivastava sriva...@debian.org wrote: [...] I think that we can go over much to the other side: We should not be overly genteel about silly ideas. [...] I don't think there's anything wrong with being a polite society (=genteel) even when

Re: [OT] aggressiveness on our mailing lists.

2009-07-24 Thread Luk Claes
Manoj Srivastava wrote: On Fri, Jul 24 2009, Luk Claes wrote: Twisting people's words is unfortunately very normal behaviour for Manoj. On Fri, Jul 24 2009, Raphael Hertzog wrote: Or he should post less and take the time to review what he writes... (including the pass where he's supposed to

Re: [OT] aggressiveness on our mailing lists.

2009-07-24 Thread Manoj Srivastava
On Fri, Jul 24 2009, Luk Claes wrote: Manoj Srivastava wrote: On Fri, Jul 24 2009, Luk Claes wrote: Twisting people's words is unfortunately very normal behaviour for Manoj. On Fri, Jul 24 2009, Raphael Hertzog wrote: Or he should post less and take the time to review what he writes...

Re: [OT] aggressiveness on our mailing lists.

2009-07-24 Thread Luk Claes
Manoj Srivastava wrote: On Fri, Jul 24 2009, Luk Claes wrote: Manoj Srivastava wrote: On Fri, Jul 24 2009, Luk Claes wrote: Twisting people's words is unfortunately very normal behaviour for Manoj. On Fri, Jul 24 2009, Raphael Hertzog wrote: Or he should post less and take the time to

Re: [OT] aggressiveness on our mailing lists.

2009-07-24 Thread Manoj Srivastava
On Fri, Jul 24 2009, Luk Claes wrote: Manoj Srivastava wrote: On Fri, Jul 24 2009, Luk Claes wrote: Manoj Srivastava wrote: On Fri, Jul 24 2009, Luk Claes wrote: Twisting people's words is unfortunately very normal behaviour for Manoj. On Fri, Jul 24 2009, Raphael Hertzog wrote: Or he

Re: [OT] aggressiveness on our mailing lists.

2009-07-24 Thread Matthew Johnson
On Fri Jul 24 16:46, Luk Claes wrote: Manoj Srivastava wrote: On Fri, Jul 24 2009, Luk Claes wrote: Twisting people's words is unfortunately very normal behaviour for Manoj. On Fri, Jul 24 2009, Raphael Hertzog wrote: Or he should post less and take the time to review what he writes...

Re: [OT] aggressiveness on our mailing lists.

2009-07-24 Thread Richard Hecker
Luk Claes wrote: Manoj Srivastava wrote: On Fri, Jul 24 2009, Luk Claes wrote: Manoj Srivastava wrote: ...snip... This is hilarious. Two posts attacking the man -- ad hominem -- and these are the folks talking about being less aggressive. Twisting again are you? Only

[OT] aggressiveness on our mailing lists.

2009-07-23 Thread Charles Plessy
Le Thu, Jul 23, 2009 at 03:44:01PM -0500, Manoj Srivastava a écrit : his is silly Manoj, I hesitated between answering in public or private, but since there are planned discussions at Debconf about aggressivity on the mailing lists, I will do it in public. In case you had any doubt

Re: [OT] aggressiveness on our mailing lists.

2009-07-23 Thread Manoj Srivastava
On Thu, Jul 23 2009, Charles Plessy wrote: Le Thu, Jul 23, 2009 at 03:44:01PM -0500, Manoj Srivastava a écrit : his is silly In case you had any doubt about it, let me confirm: it hurts to read that kind of answer. It does not help, nor bring any useful element to the discussion

Re: [OT] aggressiveness on our mailing lists.

2009-07-23 Thread Charles Plessy
Le Thu, Jul 23, 2009 at 10:30:17PM -0500, Manoj Srivastava a écrit : While I do not approve of ad hominem attacks on the mailing list, I think that we can go over much to the other side: We should not be overly genteel about silly ideas. You twist people words and extrapolate to

Re: [OT] aggressiveness on our mailing lists.

2009-07-23 Thread Ben Finney
Charles Plessy ple...@debian.org writes: I hesitated between answering in public or private, but since there are planned discussions at Debconf about aggressivity on the mailing lists, I will do it in public. What is meant here by “aggressivity”? I think there's an important distinction to be

Re: [OT] aggressiveness on our mailing lists.

2009-07-23 Thread Ben Finney
Ben Finney ben+deb...@benfinney.id.au writes: Let ideas stand or fall on their merits, and let no person feel they cannot separate themselves from an idea. Ideas are not sacred: There is no such thing as an idea that should be defended from criticism or even ridicule. s/defended