Re: Abusive language on Debian lists

2021-04-16 Thread Eldon Koyle
On Fri, Apr 16, 2021 at 3:12 PM Don Armstrong wrote: > I can't recall a case of listmaster@ actually enforcing the prohibition > of profanity, and I'm unaware of anyone actually using packet radio for > receiving listmail anymore. [If they are, I really hope it's encrypted.] Encryption is

Re: Abusive language on Debian lists

2021-04-16 Thread Don Armstrong
On Sun, 11 Apr 2021, Sam Hartman wrote: > I think the blanket prohibition of profanity in the list code of > conduct is outdated and harmful. That's (as it states) a historical holdover: "some people receive the lists via packet radio, where swearing is illegal." I can't recall a case of

Re: Abusive language on Debian lists

2021-04-11 Thread Bernd Zeimetz
On Sun, 2021-04-11 at 12:45 +0200, to...@tuxteam.de wrote: > > That seems to be a good idea. I can't say I'll be at the next Debconf, life > seems to be currently against it. But never say never :-) Debconf21 will be online. No idea if such a training can happen online, but if so you might be

Re: Abusive language on Debian lists

2021-04-11 Thread tomas
On Sun, Apr 11, 2021 at 12:14:40PM -0600, Eldon Koyle wrote: > Preface: Some people may consider it petty to care about this. I am not > trying to be petty. I honestly feel sad and hurt every time I see this > language on these lists. The language over the last few weeks has me > feeling sick

Re: Abusive language on Debian lists

2021-04-11 Thread Eldon Koyle
Preface: Some people may consider it petty to care about this. I am not trying to be petty. I honestly feel sad and hurt every time I see this language on these lists. The language over the last few weeks has me feeling sick inside. I'll admit that I'm likely in a small minority here, but I do

Re: Abusive language on Debian lists

2021-04-11 Thread tomas
On Sun, Apr 11, 2021 at 12:13:06PM +0200, Martin Steigerwald wrote: > Dear Tomas, dear Debian community, [...] > I remember that at the recent KDE Academy meetups, I think the last two, > there has been some workshop about non-violent communication. > > Maybe it would be an idea to propose

Re: Abusive language on Debian lists

2021-04-11 Thread tomas
On Sun, Apr 11, 2021 at 06:08:23AM -0400, Sam Hartman wrote: [...] > But I think a blanket prohibition would be harmful: Yes, I think mutilating language could also miss the mark. That doesn't mean that I think language doesn't matter at all (I think it does, very much!), and sometimes marking

Re: Abusive language on Debian lists

2021-04-11 Thread Martin Steigerwald
Dear Tomas, dear Debian community, to...@tuxteam.de - 11.04.21, 11:46:02 CEST: > So in the end, I think the only real way is to raise awareness, with > the goal tha /we all/ try to help keeing a friendly tone. > > It's a fine line to walk, between intervening (good) and vigilante > (perhaps too

Re: Abusive language on Debian lists

2021-04-11 Thread Sam Hartman
> "Eldon" == Eldon Koyle writes: Eldon> Thank you for your thoughtful reply. Eldon> I think I did a bad job of explaining. I'm talking about Eldon> English words that universally accepted as swearing. I have Eldon> not seen this class of words used constructively in lists,

Re: Abusive language on Debian lists

2021-04-11 Thread tomas
On Sun, Apr 11, 2021 at 12:56:04AM -0600, Eldon Koyle wrote: [...] > Thank you for your thoughtful reply. > > I think I did a bad job of explaining. I'm talking about English words that > universally accepted as swearing. I have not seen this class of words used > constructively in lists, and

Re: Abusive language on Debian lists

2021-04-11 Thread Andrei POPESCU
On Du, 11 apr 21, 00:56:04, Eldon Koyle wrote: > > I feel these words always contribute to a toxic environment, however they > are being used intentionally by people I respect who hold a lot of influence > in this group, in open defiance of the accepted rules. Using a small shell > script (or

Re: Abusive language on Debian lists

2021-04-11 Thread Eldon Koyle
On Sat, Apr 10, 2021 at 1:52 AM wrote: > > On Fri, Apr 09, 2021 at 06:22:57PM -0600, Eldon Koyle wrote: > > I have noticed a pattern on Debian lists where we see: > > [...] > > > I would like to propose that we shorten this cycle by simply adding a rule > > to bounce messages to public lists at

Re: Abusive language on Debian lists

2021-04-10 Thread Miles Fidelman
Eldon Koyle wrote: I have noticed a pattern on Debian lists where we see: 1) a polarizing issue is brought up on the list 1a) (optional) there is some discussion with a few interesting points 2) people start arguing (useful debate has ended) 3) people start using offensive

Re: Abusive language on Debian lists

2021-04-10 Thread tomas
On Fri, Apr 09, 2021 at 06:22:57PM -0600, Eldon Koyle wrote: > I have noticed a pattern on Debian lists where we see: [...] > I would like to propose that we shorten this cycle by simply adding a rule > to bounce messages to public lists at #3 [...] The problem with this is... who is going to

Re: Abusive language on Debian lists

2021-04-09 Thread Thaddeus H. Black
On Fri, Apr 09, 2021 at 06:22:57PM -0600, Eldon Koyle wrote: > I have noticed a pattern on Debian lists where we see: > > 1) a polarizing issue is brought up on the list > > 1a) (optional) there is some discussion with a few interesting points > > 2) people start arguing (useful debate

Abusive language on Debian lists

2021-04-09 Thread Eldon Koyle
I have noticed a pattern on Debian lists where we see: 1) a polarizing issue is brought up on the list 1a) (optional) there is some discussion with a few interesting points 2) people start arguing (useful debate has ended) 3) people start using offensive language somehow expecting it