Current discussion

1995-06-12 Thread Tammy L Seale
This is my second plea for an ecofem discussion to arise again. The latest messages to the list have annoyed me to the point that I'm seriously contemplating unsubscribing from a list that has been and can be a excellent forum for women and men to communicate and learn from each other about ecof

Stormy Monday

1995-06-12 Thread Al Rushanan TAL (904)487-1855
Mary, Claudia, Jeff, Jackie, Kylie, Joy, Anne, Leanne: Thank you all for the feedback on my "cyberthroats" question. Maybe the Internet is a doorway to a new level of human understanding. Using this brutally direct medium, without the facial expressions and bo

Re: power (inflammatory) communication

1995-06-12 Thread Kylie Matthews
Increasingly, I am beginning to >believe that humankind, as a group, have not really progressed much >since the *19th* century (and some before that!). Sorry if I seem so >negative, but that's my experience. I do try to have "hope," >however... > >Jackie > >*

Re: power communication

1995-06-12 Thread Kylie Matthews
>How can we communicate online without being at each other's cyberthroats? >I am in the process of discussing this issue at Virtual College. > >I have three answers for you: > >1. Read the Nettiquette FAQ. >2. Net users will have to learn and consciously apply principles of >non-violent com

Re: power communication

1995-06-12 Thread Jackie Van Brocklin
I agree with you, Kylie, to the "max!" Tolerance seems to be lacking everywhere nowadays - even with our studies on "diversity!" I have ALWAYS wondered why some people take it personally when one states a very firm opinion or disgust at some circumstance apart from themselves! I just don't get

isms are systemic

1995-06-12 Thread Leanne Smith
All of the "isms" are systemic, IMO, so it isn't a case of "if" I'm sexist, classist, racist, but when and how these characteristics will surface. They can lie dormant for years because I have little or no opportunity to interact outside of my particular world view. It's easy for me to fool

Re: power communication

1995-06-12 Thread bd27594
On Mon, 12 Jun 1995, Kylie Matthews wrote: > Claudia, these are some nice ideas and please don't abandon them. Nice? I think Claudia's ideas contained a lot more substance than the adjective "nice" might suggest... Nice is too often used in statements like, "Oh, that's nice, but..." Transl

hot button communication

1995-06-12 Thread Mary C. Simmons, Hydrologic Assistant, Albuquerque, NM
I see Kylie has "pushed a lot of buttons". This annoys me, because I tried REALLY hard to, and NO ONE is flaming me, and it really pisses me off. I think we are all sexist. classist, racists. White people do not have the monopoly on racism, men do not have the monopoly on sexism, and "rich

Re: power communication

1995-06-12 Thread Cuddlemonster/Joy Williams
To the list: Because Kylie requested that people publically "post their annoyance" about things, I have complied, and in the interest of transparency and honesty, I am going to state to Kylie PUBLICALLY and FULLY, how I feel. Flame if you will. I am trying, in the interest of clear communicat

Re: power communication

1995-06-12 Thread Cuddlemonster/Joy Williams
At 02:17 PM 6/12/95 +0800, Kylie Matthews wrote: Anyone here in Australia would >say that what I posted was reasonable. I don't necessarily agree Kylie,a lot of people that I communicate with live in Australia, and they are all very polite, even when they disagree. They don't make personal atta