http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=2C68nicab4s&feature=fvsr
We are not the slaves to our past, we CAN change, the choice is ours! Either embrace joyously *natural law* or suffer accordingly, this is the message of the 10 commandments, Yama/Niyama and all of the proscriptions and prescriptions of the World's great Religions, they are designed to SAVE us from suffering, not to limit indiscriminate 'pleasures'.