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--- On Wed, 1/14/09, Melitta K <melitta_0...@yahoo.com.au> wrote:












    
            More wise
 
Words from the Master 
 
 
 
Swamiji, what about love between a mother and a child? Is it not self less love?

Even motherly love comes with expectations, ma. Many times, people have 
confronted me with arguments when I say this. Let me tell you, a mother loves 
her son alright. But at the end of the day, there is a non-perceivable, 
unwritten expectation written on that love. If the son rubs her on the wrong 
side just once, the first words that would come out would be those telling the 
things that she had done for him since his childhood. A small dent in the 
relationship is enough to bring the whole thing out. 

Real love, is the expression of the Existential Energy in you and this love can 
never think of any such arguments. It only knows to flow without a reason. It 
doesn’t know to
 maintain any track record. It doesn’t know to keep track and connect with the 
past and argue. It flows because it overflowed, that’s all! It never questions 
because it does not know to question!

The moment you cite incidents from the past, it means that expectations were 
always there hidden behind your love and when it is this way, it can never be 
real love. Understand that.

It is the same way when it comes to the son also. The son loves the mother, 
expecting her to look after him, expecting her to wake up at five and pack his 
lunch for him, expecting her to maintain his clothes for him, without missing a 
single day. He adores the mother because he enjoys the care and concern, the 
luxury. 

A small story:


A boy was learning fractions in his school.
One day, the teacher asked him, “If there was a cake and we divided it into 5 
portions and gave it to each of your family members, what fraction of the cake 
will you get?”
The boy replied, “2/5 Ma’am.”
The teacher asked, “How? Haven’t you studied your fractions well?”
The boy replied, “Ma’am, my mother will give her piece to me if I like the 
cake.”
You see, mothers want to sacrifice for their children, alright, but the 
attitude with which they sacrifice is what we are talking about. They should do 
it out of simply an overflowing in them, not out of any hidden expectations. 
These events will never get recorded in them if they do it out of overflowing. 
And even if they get recorded, they will not surface with a vengeance when 
things like this happen. Only when they do it as a duty-bound love, they will 
record these incidents and recall them also.
 

Common love always thrives on expectation. No one can deny this, although 
everyone may vehemently try to. The expectation in love is so well woven into 
it that it is hard to perceive it and very hard to believe when someone talks 
about it. 

Actually, as long as things go smoothly, it is difficult to believe this. But 
we hear of so many cases where sons and daughters are written off from the 
family for simple reasons! Simply because they married outside the community, 
or simply because there was some feud in the family. Where did all the love 
disappear suddenly? 

Until such incidents happened, the son or daughter would have been loved very 
much in the family. The so-called love would have reigned supreme. What 
happened suddenly? Why did it suddenly disappear? How can it suddenly disappear 
if it was real love? This is not the kind of reaction that real love will 
generate. Real love can never confuse itself with anything else because
 nothing can make it stop from flowing! It is not bound by any cause-effect 
cycle. 

Even in subtle family issues, if you are deeply aware, you will understand how 
bound your love is. Just try to re-arrange a few things in your life, and watch 
how your own family will react to it. 

With your children, as long as you provide for them in the name of love, they 
also enjoy living out of your graciousness, in the name of love. As long as you 
don’t rub each other the wrong way, it is alright. If either of you behaves in 
an unexpected fashion, the mood of the love changes; the whole flavour changes. 
It doesn’t take much time or effort for the flavour to change, because it is 
not a natural flavour; it is an artificial flavour with an artificial colouring!







From: "arhatafreespeech@ yahoo.com" <arhatafreespeech@ yahoo.com>
To: arhatafreespeech@ yahoo.com
Sent: Tuesday, 13 January, 2009 12:46:43 PM
Subject: Superconsciousness Words from the Master








God couldn't have said it more clearly. Love is just a word that has 
been reduced
to using at 'fast food' burger joints. It's meaning needs be backed
 by a feeling of unconditionalness.
Arhata






Words from the Master 



Nothing is as misconstrued as love is today. Today, love is more of a 
transaction. If someone says something nice to you, you love him; tomorrow if 
the same person falls short of it, you don’t love him as much or you probably 
hate him. 

Even your lifelong friend, with whom you chat everyday on the computer, 
whichever part of the world you are in, will seem suddenly not-so-close if he 
says something that goes against your approval. It will take you a while to get 
back to him with the same intensity as before. Where is your love at this time? 
It has suffered temporarily! 

It is just games that you play; a game in which love and hate surface 
alternately and interchangeably. And this love-hate relationship is not love at 
all. Be very clear. It is simply your reaction to a person or a situation, 
that’s all. This is what we call love. This is not real love. It is purely 
subjective love, that’s all. 

Real love knows no object. It
 is simply there whether there is an object or not. Real love is the subject 
itself. It does not know any object. You are the subject and you have become 
love, that’s all. Any object that comes in touch with it, feels it, that’s all. 
Like how a river flows naturally and people enjoy it at the different places 
that they encounter it, real love exudes from a person and the people around 
the person will be able to feel it. 

There is absolutely no room for conditionings in real love. The Energy in you 
should overflow and express itself as love. It is then that you can break 
through the highly knotted boundaries of relationships and express yourself 
beautifully, as a loving Being! Do you understand? Yes…

____________ _________ _
This excerpt has been taken from the book: Guaranteed Solutions.




Series: Words From The Master    





      
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