Suicides cause alarm and sympathy waves Suicides are prevalent among a broad spectrum ,rich, poor, young , old, students, males, females, educated , uneducated, business people, lovers and those in glamour world and are not confined to any particular group. Religious with strong spiritual base are difficult to understand being prone to suicidal tendencies, . Sometimes it is planned or it may instantaneous. Suicide notes may also be planted in murder to mislead or no suicide notes increase sympathy, cause confusion as a mystery. Mysteries of suicides cause popular upsurge, doubts and suspicions
Rarely suicides are informed or communicated in advance. It is a total secretive act , as such thoughts and feelings baffles even the closest friends and family until the last minute. Behaviour, speech may show some indications if carefully, routinely monitored. The major causes are mental like , stress ,depression , heightened state of anxieties, grief, isolation, rejection, mood swings, guilt, remorse , revenge, shame or family history of suicidal tendencies .It may be financial, death of loved one, failed relationship, unemployment .substance abuse like drugs,, alcohol, incurable illness, trapped or feeling hopeless in emotional pain, lack of home support, trouble with law and violence in family or to uphold family honour in the society The person is likely to resort to suicides by drugs overdose, poisons, hanging, shooting, jumping from heights, or into water or in front of vehicles The violent end is sign of desperation not to survive as a failed attempt Such people are not able to cope with overwhelming situations. Their reasons are momentarily blocked/ visions impaired and they do not see a way out .They do not seek help or confide in any one including family or close friends and are mostly isolated and aloof not sharing their fears and concerns or seek help and guidance. Personal and intimate problems are a complete secret and what is publicly known is proverbial tip of iceberg People are most likely to judge suicides from outward public knowledge. The mind of suicide person is weak and confused making him to think that suicide ends all to life problems But in reality it is an illusion that the person is satisfied by himself. Mental health must find educational and family support Nelson Lopes Chinchinim alarm and sympathy wave