Customs  traditions, rituals on hold
Our normal life is so steeped in  following customs  traditions and
rituals,one feels helpless at loss at missing them  .Voluntarily doing away
is a tough choice,  deviating  from society's control.  Those who dare to
defy have the guts to stand the disapproval and being ridiculed. Covid
pandemic has  turned our rituals ,customs ,and traditions on its head . It
is fear and anxiety due to which abandoning of this parcel of our life is
the unquestioned   new normal and does not raise any eyebrows
The must do religious rituals   obligations, sacraments,  and those
connected  with weddings, funerals, feasts,  baptisms  first holy communion
and other services  are  on hold .Today these rituals ,customs are limited
, reserved  to mere family participations  and private . Engaments .Such
quiet affairs  would lead to tongues wagging  in normal times. There is no
guilt complex either to adhere to societal norms.  The formal visits to
friends on happy  or sorrowful occasions are strict no for concerns of
either. THE GRAND CELEBRATIONS of birthday parties, anniversaries
weddings  have to adhere to social distancing.   Visits to restaurants,
bars, travel by any public  means   picnics   dances are a safety concerns
Students at all levels are on a long holiday   as schools ,colleges.
Institutions have closed shop due to risks involved  to most vulnerable .
Goods and establishments are at a loss due to lack of customers movements
and resistance due to economic factors .  Industries are under  a lockdown
and hence employment has dipped . The Govt too is feeling the heat to
maintain essential services, disbursement due to sharp decline in revenues

Ii is noticed that there is tremendous increase in all commodities,
services  whether  of daily use or essentials .But none is complaining
about the burden  of  soaring prices not that any is ready and willing to
hear the grievances  .To say each one is for himself, selfish to the core
is the order of the day.  There was a streak of silver lining when people
went out of their way to help the migrants and weaker sections  and nake a
difference to their woes and sufferings
People are faced with the most unexpected ever in their living memory and
are shocked and surprised, how the life is unfolding at present times of
pandemic
Humans with all their might and progress  are s uddenly  on the back foot
unable to cope  to meet the emergencies . As we are slowly adjusting to
realities  the hope of vaccine is the greatest expectations  of our
survival . In the past vaccine has taken 15 to 25 years but today it is
being fast tracked within two years and there are many alternatives in the
pipe line
To throw away traditions  customs, rituals to the wind is to make life dull
and meaningless, but there was time when such behaviours were  absolutely
must  strictly observed with minutest details with mortal fear and guilt of
adverse  consequences   .We know now  that we had conditions ourselves to
these man made beliefs and there is nothing sacrosanct  about them .We feel
perfectly normal about giving a  go bye  and  have no calms about non
observations, It should seriously dawn on us that such rituals etc which
are not germane  to our living should be discarded  for the good and
welfare of society  . No more we


 Customs traditions rituals on hold
Our normal life is so steeped in customs traditions and rituals,one feels
helpless at loss at missing them  Voluntarily doing away is a tough choice
deviating  from society's Those who dare to defy have the guts to stand the
disapproval and being ridiculed Covid  pandemic has  turned our rituals
customs and traditions on its head It is fear and anxiety due to which
abandoning of this parcel of our life is the unquestioned new normal and
does not raise any eyebrows
The must do religious rituals  obligations, sacraments,  and those
connected  with weddings, funerals, feasts,  baptisms first holy communion
and other services  are  on hold Today these rituals ,customs are limited ,
reserved  to mere family participations  and private Such quiet affairs
would lead to tongues wagging There is no guilt complex either to adhere to
societal norms  The formal visits to friends on happy  or sorrowful
occasions are strict no for concerns of either. THE GRAND CELEBRATIONS of
birthday parties, anniversaries  weddings  have to adhere to social
distancing  Visits to restaurants,  bars, travel by any public  means
picnics  dances are a safety concerns
Students at all levels are on a long holiday  as schools ,colleges.
Institutions have closed shop due to risks involved  to most vulnerable
Goods and establishments are at a loss due to lack of customers movements
and resistance due to economic factors  Industries are under  a lockdown
and hence employment has dipped V The Govt too is feeling the heat to
maintain essential services, disbursement due to sharp decline in revenues

Ii is noticed that there is tremendous increase in all commodities,
services whether  of daily use or essentials .But none is complaining about
the burden  of  soaring prices not that any is ready and willing to hear
the grievances  To say each one is for himself, selfish to the core  There
was a streak of silver lining when people went out of their way to help the
migrants and weaker sections  and nake a difference to their woes and
sufferings
People are faced with the most unexpected ever in their living memory and
are shocked and surprised how the life is unfolding at present times of
pandemic
Humans with all their might and progress  are s uddenly  on the back foot
unable to cope  to meet the emergencies a As we are slowly adjusting to
realities the hope of vaccine is the greatest expectations  of our survival
In the past vaccine has taken 15 to 25 years but today it is being fast
tracked within two years and there are many alternatives in the pipe line
To throw away traditions customs rituals to the wind is to make life dull
and meaningless, but there was time when such behaviours were  absolutely
must strictly observed with minutest details with mortal fear and guilt of
adverse  consequences   We know now  that we had conditions ourselves to
these man made beliefs and there is nothing sacrosanct  about them We feel
perfectly normal about giving a fo bye  and no calms about non
observations, It should seriously dawn on us that such rituals etc which
are not germane  to our living should be discarded  for the good and
welfare of society  No more we should be victims


 be victims  held hostage by rituals et al.Discard those are ornamental
peripheral and retain  only those   that  enhance quality of life and have
sone bearing without belief in fear. .guilt and apprehensions  of evil
consequences which are irrational creations of our own  perceptions
dominating our actions. We are here after bound to be relieved of
compulsions  that is why organizations want us to adhere to them over the
internet to hold their grip on followers for their very survival

Nelson Lopes Chinchinim

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