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What Is Success?
If we want to be successful, we must first be able to define success. What is
success? What does it mean.
Mainstream culture tells us that success equals money. Most people think that
rich people are successful,
and poor people aren’t. That, however, is a very shallow idea of success. If
someone is
miserable, angry, unhealthy, and lonely- are they successful (even if they are
rich)? I don’t think so.
Most of us need to broaden our idea of success. I define success in terms of
health, connection,
and freedom. Without physical health, nothing else matters. We cannot enjoy
life if we are constantly
weak, tired, and sick. Mental health is also important- true success brings
happiness, even ecstasy.
Does money automatically bring happiness and ecstasy? Obviously not. In fact,
money often brings
stress. Many people who suddenly become rich are very unhappy. Some even commit
suicide.
Connection is another vital part of success. Most human beings need to feel
connected to other
people. We suffer when we are lonely. To be successful, we must have friends
and we must know
how to connect to other people. Kindness and compassion are important
ingredients for true success.
Finally, we need to be free to be successful. Of course physical freedom is
important- its hard to be
successful if you are locked in a prison somewhere. Financial freedom, however,
is also important.
Many people don’t understand financial freedom. They think that if you have a
lot of money, you
must be financially free. This is not true. Financial freedom means you have
many financial choices.
It means you have excellent cash flow. It means you have total control over
your finances.
For example, many people who appear rich are not, in fact, financially free.
Why not? Because they
owe more money than they actually have. They have a big, expensive house-- and
thus a big
expensive house loan. They have a big expensive car loan. They have a large
amount of credit
card debt. They have many bills.
On the outside, they appear rich. But their situation is very dangerous. They
could easily lose
everything if their income changed suddenly. Another problem-- these people
don’t have many
financial options. They are already spending more than they have, so they have
fewer options for
investing in new opportunities.
Its much better to think of financial freedom in terms of cash flow. Cash flow
simply means that you
have more money coming in than is going out. In other words, you make more than
you spend
every month. I call this building the “postive gap”
The bigger the difference between what you make and what you spend every
month-- the greater
financial freedom you have.
So there are two steps to financial freedom:
1. Drastically reduce what you spend. In other words- simplify every part of
your life.
2. Increase your income. In other words- make more money.
Most people focus on number 2, “make more money”. But number 1 is actually more
important, and
its the first thing you should focus on.
When I started Effortless English, I was making very little money. I started
the business with only
200 dollars. Most people thought I would fail. However, I had a secret
advantage-- even though I
was making very little money at my job, I was spending even less. I had a big
postive gap. I had
financial flexibility.. I could live for many months without money from the
business. Also, I could
take some of my extra money and invest it in the business.
I lived in a tiny one room apartment with the cheapest rent in San Francisco.
In fact, I still live in the
same apartment, even though I could afford something much more expensive. Why?
Because I
want to maximize my financial freedom. I can take the money I save and
re-invest it in Effortless English.
This is what you must do too. Your first step is to simplify your life until
you are spending less than
you make. Then simplify even more, so that you are spending MUCH less than you
make.
Do not try to start a new business, or invest, until you accomplish this first.
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