*The IDEAL MUSLIMAH!
**The True Islamic Personality of the Muslim Woman
as Defined in the Qur'an and Sunnah *
*From the Book of Dr. Muhammad Ali Al-Hashimi*
Chapter 1: The Muslim Woman and Her Rabb
*The Believing Woman is Alert *
One of the most prominent distinguishing features of the Muslim woman is her
deep faith in Allah (SWT), and her sincere conviction that whatever happens
in this universe, and whatever fate befalls human beings, only happens
through the will and decree of Allah (SWT); whatever befalls a person could
not have been avoided, and whatever does not happen to a person could not
have been made to happen. A person has no choice in this life but to strive
towards the right path and to do good deeds - acts of worship and other acts
- by whatever means one can, putting all his trust in Allah (SWT),
submitting to His will, and believing that he is always in need of Allah's
(SWT) help and support. **
*The story of Hajar offers the Muslim woman the most marvellous example of
deep faith in Allah (SWT) and sincere trust in Him. Ibrahim `May peace be
upon him' (PBUH) left her at the Ka`bah in Makkah, above the well of Zamzam,
at a time when there were no people and no water in the place. Hajar had
no-one with her except her infant son Isma`il. She asked Ibrahim, calmly and
with no trace of panic: "Has Allah (SWT) commanded you to do this, O
Ibrahim?" Ibrahim (PBUH) said, "Yes." Her response reflected her acceptance
and optimism: "Then He is not going to abandon us." Reported by Bukhari in
Kitab al-Anbiya 1 *
Here was an extremely difficult situation: a man left his wife and infant
son in a barren land, where there were no plants, no water, and no people,
and went back to the distant land of Palestine. He left nothing with her but
a sack of dates and a skin filled with water. Were it not for the deep faith
and trust in Allah (SWT) that filled Hajar's heart, she would not have been
able to cope with such a difficult situation; she would have collapsed
straight away, and would not have become the woman whose name is forever
remembered night and day by those who perform hajj and *`umrah* at the house
of Allah (SWT), every time they drink the pure water of Zamzam, and run
between the mounts of Safa' and Marwah, as Hajar did on that most trying
day.
This deep faith and awareness had an amazing effect on the lives of Muslim
men and women: it awoke their consciences and reminded them that Allah (SWT)
witnesses and knows every secret, and that He is with a person wherever he
may be. Nothing gives a clearer idea of that consciousness and fear of Allah
(SWT) at all times than the story of the young Muslim girl related in Sifat
*al-Safwah* and *Wafiyat al-A'yan* and cited by Ibn al-Jawzi in *Ahkam
al-Nisa'* (pp. 441, 442):
*"Narrated `Abdullah ibn Zayd ibn Aslam, from his father, from his
grandfather, who said: `When I was accompanying `Umar ibn al-Khattab on his
patrol of Madinah at night, he felt tired, so he leant against a wall. It
was the middle of the night, and (we heard) a woman say to her daughter, "O
my daughter, get up and mix that milk with some water." The girl said, "O
Mother, did you not hear the decree of Amir al-Mu'minin (chief of the
believers) today?" The mother said, "What was that?" The girl said, "He
ordered someone to announce in a loud voice that milk should not be mixed
with water." The mother said, "Get up and mix the milk with water; you are
in a place where `Umar cannot see you." The girl told her mother, "I cannot
obey Him (Allah) in public and disobey him in private." `Umar heard this,
and told me: "O Aslam, go to that place and see who that girl is, and to
whom she was speaking, and whether she has a husband." So I went to that
place, and I saw that she was unmarried, the other woman was her mother, and
neither of them had a husband. I came to `Umar and told him what I had found
out. He called his sons together, and said to them: "Do any of you need a
wife, so I can arrange the marriage for you? If I had the desire to get
married, I would have been the first one to marry this young woman."
`Abdullah said: "I have a wife." `Abd al-Rahman said: "I have a wife." `Asim
said: "I do not have a wife, so let me marry her." So `Umar arranged for her
to be married to `Asim. She gave him a daughter, who grew up to be the
mother of `Umar ibn `Abd al-`Aziz.'" *
This is the deep sense of awareness that Islam had implanted in the heart of
this young woman. She was righteous and upright in all her deeds, both in
public and in private, because she believed that Allah (SWT) was with her at
all times and saw and heard everything. This is true faith, and these are
the effects of that faith, which raised her to the level of *ihsan*. One of
the immediate rewards with which Allah (SWT) honoured her was this blessed
marriage, one of whose descendants was the fifth rightly-guided *khalifah*,
`Umar ibn `Abd al-`Aziz `May Allah be pleased with him' (RAA). **
The *Aqeedah *(faith) of the true Muslim woman is pure and clear,
uncontaminated by any stain of ignorance, illusion or superstition. This *
Aqeeda* is based on faith in Allah, (SWT) the One, the Most High, the
Eternal, Who is able to do all things, Who is in control of the entire
universe, and to Whom all things must return *:* *( Say: `Who is it in Whose
hands is the governance of all things - Who protects [all], but is not
protected [by any]? [Say] if you know.' They will say, `[It belongs] to
Allah,' Say: `Then how are you deluded?') (Qur'an 23:88-89)
*
This is the pure, deep faith which increases the character of the Muslim
woman in strength, understanding and maturity, so that she sees life as it
really is, which is a place of testing whose results will be seen on the Day
which will undoubtedly come:
*( Say: `It is Allah Who gives you life, then gives you death; then He will
gather you together for the Day of Judgement about which there is no doubt':
but most men do not understand.) (Qur'an 45:26) *
*( Did you then think that We had created you in jest, and that you would
not be brought back to Us [for account]?) (Qur'an 23:115) *
*( Blessed is He in Whose hands is Dominion; and He over all things has
Power - He Who created Death and Life, that He may try which of you is best
in deed; and He is the Exalted in Might, Oft-Forgiving.) (Qur'an 67:1-2)
*
On that Day, man will be brought to account for his deeds. If they are good,
it will be good for him, and if they are bad, it will be bad for him. There
will not be the slightest injustice:
*( That Day will every soul be requited for what it earned; no injustice
will there be that Day, for Allah is Swift in taking account.) (Qur'an
40:17)
*
The Balance (in which man's deeds will be weighed) will measure everything
with the utmost precision, either in a person's favour or against him:
*( Then shall anyone who has done an atom's weight of good, see it! And
anyone who has done an atom's weight of evil, shall see it.) (Qur'an 99:7-8)
*
Nothing could be hidden from the Lord of Glory on that Day, not even if it
were as insignificant as a grain of mustard seed:
*( We shall set up scales of justice for the day of Judgement, so that not a
soul will be dealt with unjustly in the least. And if there be [no more
than] the weight of a mustard seed, We will bring it [to account]: and
enough are We to take account.) (Qur'an 21:47)
*
No doubt the true Muslim woman, when she ponders the meaning of these *ayat*,
would think about that crucial Day and would turn to her Lord in obedience,
repentance and gratitude, seeking to do as many righteous deeds as she is
able, in preparation for the Hereafter.
*She Worships Allah (SWT) *
It is no surprise that the true Muslim woman enthusiastically worships her
Lord, because she knows that she is obliged to observe all the commandments
that Allah (SWT) has enjoined upon every Muslim, male or female. So she
carries out her Islamic duties properly, without making excuses or
compromises, or being negligent.
*She Regularly Prays Five Times a Day *
She offers each of the five daily prayers at its appointed time, and does
not let domestic chores or her duties as a wife and mother prevent her from
doing so. Prayer is the pillar of the - whoever establishes prayer
establishes faith, and whoever neglects prayer destroys the faith. 2 *Prayer
is the best and most noble of deeds, as the Prophet `Peace and Blessing be
upon him' (PBUH) explained in the hadith narrated by `Abdullah ibn Mas`ud
(RAA): * *"I asked the Messenger of Allah (PBUH): `What deed is most beloved
by Allah?' (SWT) He said, `To offer each prayer as soon as it is due.' I
asked him, `Then what?' He said, `Treating one's parents with mercy and
respect.' I asked him, `Then what?' He said, ` Jihad (fighting) for the sake
of Allah (SWT).'"3
*
Prayer is the link between the servant and his (Rabb). It is the rich source
from which a person derives strength, steadfastness, mercy and contentment,
and it is a means of cleansing the stain of his or her sins:
*Abu Hurayrah (RAA) narrated: *
*"I heard the Messenger of Allah (PBUH) say: `What would you think if there
were a river running by the door of any of you, and he bathed in it five
times every day, would any trace of dirt be left on him?' The people said:
`There would be no trace of dirt on him.' He said: `This is like the five
daily prayers, through which Allah (SWT) erases sins.'" 4 (Sharh al-Sunnah
2/175). *
*Jabir (RAA) said: *
*"The Messenger of Allah (PBUH) said: `The five daily prayers are like a
deep river flowing by the door of any of you, in which he bathes five times
every day.'"5
*
Prayer is a mercy, which Allah (SWT) has bestowed upon His slaves; they
seek its shade five times a day and praise their Rabb (Lord), glorifying
Him, asking for His help and seeking His mercy, guidance and forgiveness.
Thus prayer becomes a means of purification for those who pray, men and
women alike, cleansing them from their sins. **
*`Uthman ibn `Affan (RAA) said: *
*"I heard the Messenger of Allah (PBUH) say: `There is no Muslim person who,
when the time for prayer comes, performs wudu' properly, concentrates on his
prayer and bows correctly, but the prayer will be an expiation for the sins
committed prior to it, so long as no major sin has been committed. This is
the case until the end of time.'" 6 (Sahih Muslim 3/112).
*
There are very many Hadith which speak of the importance of *salah* and the
blessings it brings to the men and women who pray, and the rich harvest of
benefits that they may reap thereby, every time they stand before Allah
(SWT) in an attitude of humility and repentance.
*will be continued Insha Allaah!...*
*Pls forward to all...very useful to everyone!*
regards,
*Fayaz Ahmed.*
*India.*
