[jdev] jabberd configuration for win2000

need help, i facing some problems while configuring jabberd 1.4.2 for win2000(LAN) 1. with default host name 'localhost' jabbred starts but no any client can connect to it from other machines. 2. with the host name as local ip address of machine (in config file ) jabberd doesn,t starts.

[jdev] help in choosing jabber lib

i want dev a jabber client which features messaging(jabberusers,msn,yahoo,aol), file tansfere(jabber users). i will use vusual c#.Net for that. can some help me while choosing a better library which support above eg jabber-Net , DOTJabber or any other. thanks in advance.