[jQuery] [Validation] Splitting rules and messages across multiple pages

I saw a post about someone trying to spread rules across multiple pages. The person was told to add rules dynamically, but there's no way to add messages dynamically. I'm wondering what you guys think about this approach. I had a situation where I wanted to reuse part of a form. I think this

[jQuery] [validate] Get form validation state without triggering errors

I'm trying to check if a form has been filled out properly before enabling the Next button. Unfotunately, when I call the method jQuery(#myForm).valid() the error messages are all triggered. I want the error message in there because I want the user to be able click the disabled next button and