Re: Being gracious as a performer.

2004-06-18 Thread Jon Murphy
nant." It's not OK to say, "It might have sounded better, if > there weren't all those lousy carpets and curtains soaking up the > sound." > > Best wishes, > > Stewart McCoy. > > > - Original Message - > From: "Charles Browne" <

Being gracious as a performer.

2004-06-18 Thread Stewart McCoy
ndace Magner" <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> Cc: "Lautenliste" <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> Sent: Thursday, June 17, 2004 11:03 PM Subject: RE: Being gracious as a performer. > I think we should provide the audience with a copy of the music! I went into > one festival, playing cla

Re: Being gracious as a performer.

2004-06-18 Thread Martin Shepherd
2004 10:59 Subject: Re: Being gracious as a performer. > > >Dear All; > > I think in performance we judge our success by our ability to >realize our intention. If we fail to do that, we think we have failed >or find our performance unsatisfactory.

Re: Being gracious as a performer.

2004-06-18 Thread Gary Digman
l the Best, Gary Digman > - Original Message - > From: "Herbert Ward" > To: > Sent: Thursday, June 17, 2004 9:26 AM > Subject: Being gracious as a performer. > > > > > > I still do not have a

Re: Being gracious as a performer

2004-06-18 Thread bill
i agree. i think people hear what they want to hear and disregard the rest, as the song goes. a good way to avoid the whole scene altogether is to put your cell phone to your ear, maintain your pained expression and leave... as for receiving compliments, a nice thing to say - aside from thank

Re: Being gracious as a performer

2004-06-18 Thread Stephan Olbertz
Am 17 Jun 2004 um 20:44 hat Vance Wood geschrieben: > If it is your obligation to speak to the performer you must realize > that they also know they did not play that well. I'm not so sure about that ;-) Stephan

Being gracious as a performer

2004-06-17 Thread Vance Wood
The question has been asked: "What do you say to the performers when you are obligated to talk to them afterward but you didn't really like the performance all that much? Sopranos are apt to say "What a fabulous dress!" Others might opt for "that was a very ambitious program." If it is your obliga

Re: Being gracious as a performer.

2004-06-17 Thread Vance Wood
is balding. Most players know when they have had a bad performance, you telling them something complimentary is not going to change that or make them feel better. On the other hand a good performance calls for you to speak your heart if the opportunity presents itself. On being gracious as a per

Re: Being gracious as a performer.

2004-06-17 Thread Brian and Ann Dunbar
Candace Magner wrote: > I think it is always appropriate to do the same after a performance: smile, > say "thank you so much" and perhaps add, "I'm so glad you were able to > attend" or "I'm so glad you enjoyed the music." I agree, I always say "Thank you! I'm so glad that you enjoyrd it! Thanks s

RE: Being gracious as a performer.

2004-06-17 Thread Charles Browne
quot; best wishes Charles Browne -Original Message- From: Thomas Schall [mailto:[EMAIL PROTECTED] Sent: den 17 juni 2004 18:24 To: Candace Magner Cc: Lautenliste Subject: Re: Being gracious as a performer. I just had thought about it: We were playing baroque lute duets recently and I was thin

Re: Being gracious as a performer.

2004-06-17 Thread Candace Magner
to playing the music!" ever the optimist, Candace Dr. Candace A. Magner [EMAIL PROTECTED] homepage http://clik.to/candace - Original Message - From: "Herbert Ward" <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> To: <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> Sent: Thursday, June 17, 2004 12:20 PM Subject: Re:

Re: Being gracious as a performer.

2004-06-17 Thread Herbert Ward
> So here's a different question: What do you say to the performers when > you are obligated to talk to them afterward but you didn't really like > the performance all that much? This question is particulary difficult for me, as I value heartfeltness and innate taste far above technique and forma

RE: Being gracious as a performer.

2004-06-17 Thread Ron Fletcher
Usually, I am so relieved to have played through a piece without missing too many notes, that I simply say, '"I'm sure it goes something like that"! > > I still do not have a gracious way to respond when someone compliments a > performance. > > Often I say, "Well, it really takes a lot of work.",

Re: Being gracious as a performer.

2004-06-17 Thread Thomas Schall
." > > Candace > > > > Dr. Candace A. Magner > [EMAIL PROTECTED] > homepage http://clik.to/candace > > > - Original Message ----- > From: "Herbert Ward" <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> > To: <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> > Sent: Thursday, June 17, 2004 9:26 AM &

Re: Being gracious as a performer.

2004-06-17 Thread bill
say "What a fabulous > dress!" > Others might opt for "that was a very ambitious program." > > Candace > > > > Dr. Candace A. Magner > [EMAIL PROTECTED] > homepage http://clik.to/candace > > > - Original Message - > From: &quo

Re: Being gracious as a performer.

2004-06-17 Thread Candace Magner
re apt to say "What a fabulous dress!" Others might opt for "that was a very ambitious program." Candace Dr. Candace A. Magner [EMAIL PROTECTED] homepage http://clik.to/candace - Original Message - From: "Herbert Ward" <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> To: <[E

Re: Being gracious as a performer.

2004-06-17 Thread corun
Herbert wrote: > > I still do not have a gracious way to respond when someone compliments a > performance. "Thank yuh. Thank yuh verra much." Always worked for the King. Craig

Being gracious as a performer.

2004-06-17 Thread Herbert Ward
I still do not have a gracious way to respond when someone compliments a performance. Often I say, "Well, it really takes a lot of work.", but that often seems deadening to the listeners enthusiasm. Similarly, alluding to technical details ("This piece sounds neat because of the unexpected min