Re: [OSList] How do you "hold space?"

2020-02-08 Thread Chris Corrigan via OSList
Harrison has described as being “totally invisible but completely present.” I rarely leave the room. But I also never intervene. If asked to help I respond with “what would you like to do? Why don’t you take care of it?” It’s about radical return of passion and responsibility to the people. It

Re: [OSList] How do you "hold space?"

2020-02-08 Thread Michael Herman via OSList
Here's some of what I think is going on for me when facilitating... I do sometimes leave the room, but not for what I'd call long walks. If we're in a hotel, I might have a reason to go retrieve something from my room, pretty much out and back. If it's a long walk, I might pass through all the sp

Re: [OSList] How do you "hold space?"

2020-02-08 Thread Jeff Aitken via OSList
Hi Jake. For me, to hold space is to attend to the field that extends beyond the center of the opening circle out to wherever participants are moving. Harrison's famous story is to be sitting at the hotel bar, while participants are following the law of mobility into breakouts and butterfly conver

Re: [OSList] How do you "hold space?"

2020-02-08 Thread Michael Herman via OSList
There is also the possibility of sitting in the sessions, when you're part of the group. Tricky in the first go-round though. When I do sit in, I tend not to say very much, as I'm having a very diff experience than everyone else. I don't sit in sessions during first or last sessions, so they get

Re: [OSList] How do you "hold space?"

2020-02-08 Thread Thomas Perret via OSList
Hi Jake, I’m thinking of your insidership and your existing relationships to and in the team and that you might be considered as more than a pure facilitator. I come to think of Dee Hock’s advice to devote – in addition to devoting 50% of all efforts to manage self – 25% to manage superiors (“

Re: [OSList] How do you "hold space?"

2020-02-09 Thread Rolf F. Katzenberger via OSList
I'm in the room, most of the time, unless I get a feeling that I'm getting "asked too much" with respect to organizing things. (My answer is anyway "what would you like to happen?") Apart from that, I'm wearing subdued colors (amazingly effective) and avoid direct eye contact, listening more than

Re: [OSList] How do you "hold space?"

2020-02-09 Thread gerardo de luzenberger via OSList
HI Jake. I always leave the room right after closing the opening session. I am normally away for some time - depending on the size of the event. The biggest it is, the less I am away. Once back most of the time I am focusing on keeping the space clean and in order, which means collecting cups and g

Re: [OSList] How do you "hold space?"

2020-02-09 Thread Royle, Karl via OSList
I was Ona less course recently and one of the scrum master attributes was actively doing nothing... you could go further and look at Derrida... concept of absent presence And conversely Present by their absence Sent by iPhone Karl Royle Head of Enterprise and Commercial Development Faculty of

Re: [OSList] How do you "hold space?"

2020-02-09 Thread Michael M Pannwitz via OSList
Dear Jake and you others, (after finishing this piece I suggest you first get yourself a cup of coffee or other beverage you cherish, find a couch and take a little time to read this lengthy piece) I as facilitator will increasingly get into the mode of "total presence and absolute invisibilit

Re: [OSList] How do you "hold space?"

2020-02-09 Thread Michael Herman via OSList
You remind me, Rolf, that one of my favorite things is when the sponsor, having seen the group do several amazing, previously unthinkable things, clearing every imagined hurdle, comes to me near lunch time and asks if they shouldn’t go around and tell the groups about lunch. I love to suggest that

Re: [OSList] How do you "hold space?"

2020-02-09 Thread Birgitt Williams via OSList
The sponsor opens the space in their organization. The facilitator has the privilege of opening the space for people to get in touch with what they are passionate about. The facilitator is very controlling when doing so, not allowing any space invaders to sabotage the creation of the container. The

Re: [OSList] How do you "hold space?"

2020-02-09 Thread Rolf F. Katzenberger via OSList
That made my day, by both being good advice and quite funny - thank you, Michael! :-) Rolf -- «If it works, it's right.» | «Richtig ist, was funktioniert.» https://www.pragmatic-teams.com | https://www.pragmatic-teams.de https://fromthebackoftheroom.training | https://fromthebackoftheroom.trainin

Re: [OSList] How do you "hold space?"

2020-02-10 Thread Birgitt Williams via OSList
Hi Thomas, My perspective about OST started because I was in a senior staff position, accountable for the performance of my organization, when I introduced OST into the organization and paid a lot of attention to what worked and what didn't over time. My perspective is added to by my choice to work

Re: [OSList] How do you "hold space?"

2020-02-10 Thread Harrison Owen via OSList
Long, long ago I described Holding Space as being “totally present and absolutely invisible.” A paradox for sure, but that is my experience. With a little practice and intention you can be totally immersed in the group and be miles away. Don’t ask me how that happens…I don’t have a clue – or at

Re: [OSList] How do you "hold space?"

2020-02-10 Thread Thomas Perret via OSList
Birgitt, Awesome, thank you! Kindly, Thomas > On 10 Feb 2020, at 17.40, Birgitt Williams via OSList > wrote: > > Hi Thomas, > My perspective about OST started because I was in a senior staff position, > accountable for the performance of my organization, when I introduced OST > into the or

Re: [OSList] How do you "hold space?"

2020-02-13 Thread Jake Yeager via OSList
This was such a rich thread. Thank you all for sharing. My "understanding" of OST and the facilitator's role deepens the more I engage in spiritual practices. At some point I imagine the notion of "me" as an "OST facilitator" will also fall away. Then, I am fully present--hell, I AM the present.

Re: [OSList] How do you "hold space?"

2020-02-13 Thread Michael Herman via OSList
A participant once asked me what I was doing before/as I stepped into the opening circle, Jake. I asked what if looked like. She said, like you were being space. Best ppt compliment I ever had. Also the week after two weeks in a Tibetan monastery, so maybe I was too if my game. If you want, you ca