The Chaordic Dance Continues! The talking stick

2007-01-23 Thread louise
Hi Raffi, I understand how the talking stick may feel awkward. To me, this is a tool that helps to bring respect and dignity to a conversation through deep listening. And it reminds us of the spirit of OST. As you suggest, I usually leave it in the middle of the circle and provide something els

Re: The Chaordic Dance Continues! The talking stick

2007-01-23 Thread Diana Larsen
Hi Raffi, Louise, and all, Instead of bringing my own much-loved talking stick, I've shifted to watching for what might emerge in the group as a meaningful "talking object", maybe like your marker, Louise. That's the best because it's attached to the group mind. It doesn't always happen tho

Re: The Chaordic Dance Continues! The talking stick

2007-01-23 Thread Harrison Owen
ssage- From: OSLIST [mailto:osl...@listserv.boisestate.edu] On Behalf Of Diana Larsen Sent: Tuesday, January 23, 2007 2:40 PM To: osl...@listserv.boisestate.edu Subject: Re: The Chaordic Dance Continues! The talking stick Hi Raffi, Louise, and all, Instead of bringing my own much-loved talking stick, I've shi

Re: The Chaordic Dance Continues! The talking stick

2007-01-23 Thread Raffi Aftandelian
Thanks to all fellow spaceholders for your replies. Chris, first time I've heard that there may be no wrong way of holding the Talking Stick. I find the Harvest Moon OSonOS idea intriguing and would love to make a Vancouver OSonOS. Catherine, thank you for sharing about use of the egg as a tal

Re: The Chaordic Dance Continues! The talking stick

2007-01-23 Thread Chris Corrigan
No wrong way to hold THAT talking stick. In the cultures of the West Coast of Canada here, there is definitely a wrong way to hold a talking stick. Protocol is very important in ceremonies here, in fact diplomatic relations can chill markedly over the way someone acts in the longhouse, including