new postfix mysql dovecot sasl server relay access denied

I know the subject seems trivial, but i launched a new mail server Friday night and have been fighting this all weekend. Very desperate now. I truly think it boils down to SASL configs. I've made so many changes in past 72 hours I can't even remember my name. Please help. --Brian

postfix mysql dovecot cyrus-sasl relay access denied

Sent the first one from a broken mail acct... Here is my postconf -n and saslfinger outputs: alias_maps = hash:/etc/mailman/aliases bounce_queue_lifetime = 4d broken_sasl_auth_clients = yes command_directory = /usr/sbin config_directory = /etc/postfix daemon_directory = /usr/libexec/postfix