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Makanya diperlukan sebuah pembelajaran dan pembiasaan diri jika tidak mau terkukung dalam mentalitas takut mengkritik dan dikritik. Sudah menjadi mentalitas jawa pada umumnya kalo segala kritik diidentifikasi sebagai sikap tidak suka. Akhirnya melahirkan peribahasa 'api di dalam sekam' yang merupakan perhalusan dari kata 'munafik'. Berbeda dengan mentalitas batak dan suku-suku lainnya di indonesia, dimana jikalau tidak suka silahkana dipaparkan, dibicarakan, dikoreksi dan masalahnya pun beres, tidak menimbulkan dendam ataupun sakit hati. Saya sudah pernah mengajukan usul ini ke rekan mario gagho untuk membebaskan moderasi. Cuma sayangnya mentalitas jawa tidak siap untuk menerima perubahan atmosfer ini. Mungkin orang-orang seperti kim2hook sangat diperlukan di Indonesia at least sebagai 'martir'. giving --- In ppiindia@yahoogroups.com, Faruq Saniyasnain <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> wrote: > dear kimhook, > > anybody knows that in order to be able to coexist with > each other we need to adapt and climatise with the > mainstream environment. a right-winger (so-to-speak) > like you obviously not a mainstream creature, > therefore it's you who should ajust with the new > environment here ini this forum. it's not the > mainstream and honorable members of this forum who > should adapt and ajust to you. > > the western guys, who you admire a lot, are widely > known as a people with very flexible and quickly > adaptable guys to the new environment. and if you > consistent with your admiration to them, you should > follow suit. > > just enjoy life in good and bad times, and follow the > sun. everybody will love you. and by then, you will > always aware of the fact how beautiful this life is... > > have a nice day, my friend. > > regards, > > > --- In ppiindia@yahoogroups.com, "kim3hook" > <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> wrote: > > > > > > Sudah menjadi kebiasaan, posting-posting Kim Hook > menjadi > > > bulan-bulanan moderator yang berbahasa Indonesia, > menjegal > > > nya. > > > > > > Pada awalnya, perusahaan Yahoo memberikan peluang > utk > > > setiap anggota milis yang tergabung didalamnya utk > > Faruq Saniyasnain > (Manchester) > > Send instant messages to your online friends http://uk.messenger.yahoo.com ------------------------ Yahoo! Groups Sponsor --------------------~--> DonorsChoose. A simple way to provide underprivileged children resources often lacking in public schools. Fund a student project in NYC/NC today! http://us.click.yahoo.com/5F6XtA/.WnJAA/E2hLAA/BRUplB/TM --------------------------------------------------------------------~-> *************************************************************************** Berdikusi dg Santun & Elegan, dg Semangat Persahabatan. Menuju Indonesia yg Lebih Baik, in Commonality & Shared Destiny. www.ppi-india.org *************************************************************************** __________________________________________________________________________ Mohon Perhatian: 1. Harap tdk. memposting/reply yg menyinggung SARA (kecuali sbg otokritik) 2. Pesan yg akan direply harap dihapus, kecuali yg akan dikomentari. 3. Lihat arsip sebelumnya, www.ppi-india.da.ru; 4. Satu email perhari: [EMAIL PROTECTED] 5. No-email/web only: [EMAIL PROTECTED] 6. kembali menerima email: [EMAIL PROTECTED] Yahoo! Groups Links <*> To visit your group on the web, go to: http://groups.yahoo.com/group/ppiindia/ <*> To unsubscribe from this group, send an email to: [EMAIL PROTECTED] <*> Your use of Yahoo! Groups is subject to: http://docs.yahoo.com/info/terms/ ** Mailing-List Indonesia Nasional Milis PPI-India www.ppi-india.uni.cc **
