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Can Saudi Arabia's first anti-domestic violence advert make a difference?
By   Daisy Carrington , for CNN
May 13, 2013 -- Updated 0308 GMT (1108 HKT) CNN.com 
Can Saudi Arabia's first anti-domestic violence advert make a difference?
Saudi Arabia's King Khalid Foundation ran the country's first anti-domestic 
abuse ad in national newspapers on April 17 and 18, 2013. The campaign, 
titled 'No More Abuse', is timed to promote pending legislaton to 
criminalize domestic abuse.
(CNN) -- Last month, thousands of people in Saudi Arabia 
opened up their newspapers to find a full-page picture of a woman with a black 
eye clearly visible underneath her burqa.
Below the image ran the slogan in 
Arabic, "Some things can't be covered", and a list of phone numbers for 
local domestic abuse shelters. In a culture that tends to turn a blind 
eye to the issue of violence towards women, it was a shocking and 
powerful image.
"It's a problem that's been swept 
under the carpet for years," says Scott Abbott, the creative director 
for Memac Ogilvy, the Riyadh-based agency responsible for the advert.
When Ogilvy approached the King 
Khalid Foundation, a charity that focuses on issues of advocacy and 
developing the country's non-profit sector, they weren't sure what type 
of reaction to expect.
"I think that there was always a real concern that, given the subject matter, 
it would never get through," says Abbott.
A major push came from Saudi 
princess HRH Banderi A.R. Al Faisal, the foundation's director. Though 
the campaign has captured the public's attention, both within Saudi and 
abroad, where an English version has made the rounds online, Al Faisal 
says she doesn't see the ad as shocking.
"My media and PR team were a bit 
nervous going into this, saying, 'Are you sure you want to do this?'" 
she admits. "I didn't understand why. I don't understand what is so 
controversial. Who will say, 'Yes, it's ok for women to be beaten up'?"
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Saudi women are legally reliant on 
the permission of their male guardians to travel freely, driving is 
still a socially contentious issue and there are no laws that protect 
victims of domestic abuse. According to Al Faisal, however, change is in the 
air.
"For several years, domestic abuse 
was sort of the elephant in the room. There was nowhere for a woman to 
go if she was abused because a system wasn't set up to handle that," she 
admits. Though the issue is still not completely out in the open, she 
notes the last few years has seen a rise in shelters that cater to 
female victims of violence.
It has been a watershed year for 
women's rights in the conservative country. So far, women have been 
accepted into the government's advisory Shura Council, given the right 
to vote, gained entry into a range of new professions (including 
engineering and law) and granted permission to have their own IDs 
without guardian permission.
Adam Coogle, a Middle East 
researcher at Human Rights Watch, admits that though these measures are 
impressive, more needs to be done to protect women inside the country.
"There are no laws that protect 
women specifically. If, for example, a woman claims rape, and a man says it was 
consensual, she can face a counter charge of adultery," he says.
Though there is currently no law 
that punishes a man for beating his wife, the King Khalid Foundation has 
prepared legislation that would do just that. In fact, it is the 
pending bill, which would decide the punitive measures abusers could 
face (a mix of imprisonment, financial restitution and loss of custody), that 
spurred the campaign to begin with.
Last year, the Shura Council pushed through similar legislation the foundation 
helped pen protecting the 
rights of children in abusive situations. Al Faisal is confident that 
the drafted legislation will meet with the same level of success.
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Coogle, however, says that Saudi still needs to overcome considerable social 
hurdles before the situation improves.
"Women who speak out about 
emotional abuse or neglect often face societal judgments. There is a 
prevalent attitude that if a man hits his wife, it's acceptable, because she's 
not being a good wife."
Coogle points to a ten year old 
study in the Journal of Muslim Affairs where Saudi men were polled on 
whether they ever hit their wives -- 53% answered yes.
Al Faisal agrees that the Saudi 
mindset has to change and notes that a major obstacle is the naturally 
guarded nature of the culture.
"This is a very private society, 
and we tend to try to deal with things discreetly. We do not air our 
dirty laundry in public, as families or as communities," she says. "The 
negative side of that discretion is that it allows abusive behavior to 
thrive, because it is not stopped."
A main goal of the campaign is to 
create a countrywide social dialogue. In that regard, says Abbott, the 
campaign has been successful.
"Outside of the two days of ads we 
ran, it's been printed on the front page of national newspapers," he 
says. "People are talking about it, and it's been largely 
well-received."
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