Re: [QUAD-L] I'm going out of my mind!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

2012-08-09 Thread Derrick
bobbie, it is very scary to have a non-family member take care of you but it is necessary to give each other a break. he needs a caregiver support group to help him let someone else help you. isolation leads to chaos of mind... u will find an angel to help.keep looking & asking with positive t

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2012-08-09 Thread Bill Lang
Hi, I'm 63 hurt in1989. Got a ton of stuff wrong, but I wore it out. Shoulders were a huge problem, but I'm in a trial in which they drew my blood spun it down to platelets and then reinjected them into the shoulder. So far, eight weeks, and the shoulder is pain free. I have a follow up ultras

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2012-08-09 Thread lwillis821
Turned 60 on May 23' got hurt Aug. 7, 1971 at age 19. C5 diving accident. Biggest problems last 10 years: Arthritis in shoulders, chronic sore on tailbone, chronic stomach problems.and depression. Sent from my iPad Begin forwarded message: > From: "dbqjohn" > Date: August 9, 2012 4:22:02

Re: [QUAD-L] I'm going out of my mind!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

2012-08-09 Thread John S.
During that half hour, go to a bar and have a cigar and a stiff drink then explain that being fucked up doesn't make you a trainable thing. It isn't right for him to think that you should give up everything you ever had befor meeting him just to keep him. There has to be a comfy medium. This is

Re: [QUAD-L] I'm going out of my mind!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

2012-08-09 Thread wheelchair
Bobbie, I can't begin to imagine what you are going thru, but I'm truly sorry that you are having this experience. As always, I suggest that he let your doctor know of this issue and determine if it is a chemical imbalance, drug related or a bad time for you. I know its not the first time

Re: [QUAD-L] icy deck

2012-08-09 Thread wheelchair
Glenn, are you referring to the solid plastic, made from recycled materials, and is grooved for installation? Bottom side is smooth and top side rough? Best Wishes In a message dated 8/9/2012 10:54:35 A.M. Central Daylight Time, gah17...@aol.com writes: Anyone putting on a deck or ramp

[QUAD-L] icy deck

2012-08-09 Thread Gah17582
Anyone putting on a deck or ramp should consider composite decking. I dries quickly after a rain, does not ice over and I remove snow with a leaf blower. More expensive but worth it. Glenn Henry

RE: [QUAD-L] I'm going out of my mind!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

2012-08-09 Thread nichole rohling
Bobbie, I'm so sorry you are feeling this way. I pray peace for you. Wish I knew the answers but I don't think taking your life is a solution...39 years I a long time! When my mom was my caregiver we had to have breaks from each other and even now, just living in a house attached to my par

Re: [QUAD-L] I'm going out of my mind!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

2012-08-09 Thread Danny Hearn
I can completely relate to what all you guys are feeling and saying. I think life can be very hard at times for everyone--even able bodied people. Close friends of my wife and I, whom we have known since we were very youngcall or text my wife quite often about how it's so hard to go on-

Re: [QUAD-L] I'm going out of my mind!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

2012-08-09 Thread jume9999
Oh my gosh Bobbie, please don't do anything rash, I am assuming Pete is your husband? I was in a relationship b4 and found it best to not have your "lover" be your aideat least not full time. Can you have your friend start to take over some of the duties? Perhaps start looking for an additio