RE: [QUAD-L] Warning.....Sexual.

2007-12-21 Thread Silas Shelburne
list@eskimo.com Subject: Re: [QUAD-L] Warning.Sexual. Funny how 40 years of SCI, 35 years of happy marriage, three kids and foleys can dampen the 'urge' so it mostly goes away. Intimacy gives way to stability and security, lust turns into gratitude for what lengthy cohabitation br

Re: [QUAD-L] Warning.....Sexual.

2007-12-21 Thread David K. Kelmer
Hi Jim, I was lucky to have a PT that advised me not to listen to the ''Experts'' and to listen to my inner-self in all areas. She was so right. One of my first insights was not to tie my sexuality to my erections. I was getting erections with a brush of a nurse's hand, or a position ch

Re: [QUAD-L] Warning.....Sexual.

2007-12-21 Thread Jkrocks
it's been so long since I have had any intimacy with a female that I would probably pass out with excitement at the first caress. Jim **See AOL's top rated recipes (http://food.aol.com/top-rated-recipes?NCID=aoltop000304)

Re: FW: [QUAD-L] Warning.....Sexual.

2007-12-20 Thread John S.
: William Willis <[EMAIL PROTECTED]>; "quad-list@eskimo.com" Sent: Thursday, December 20, 2007 2:47:46 PM Subject: Re: FW: [QUAD-L] Warning.Sexual. I know that sex gets a little complicated as a quad. But I thought guys never give up. I know there are times when you might feel ba

Re: FW: [QUAD-L] Warning.....Sexual.

2007-12-20 Thread wheelchair
Ha, better yet HA HA. Men get lazy and let the women do all the work, lol It's just an effective ploy. Best Wishes W In a message dated 12/20/2007 1:48:57 P.M. Central Standard Time, [EMAIL PROTECTED] writes: I know that sex gets a little complicated as a quad. But I thought guys never

FW: [QUAD-L] Warning.....Sexual.

2007-12-20 Thread William Willis
CTED]>To: [EMAIL PROTECTED]: Mon, 17 Dec 2007 7:17 pmSubject: Re: [QUAD-L] Warning.Sexual. I don't think that too many members on the list are brave enough to respond to this one. Thus the tiny thread. While microphones or things like that are more important! LOL I know the topic

Re: [QUAD-L] Warning.....Sexual.

2007-12-19 Thread oconnelldb
#x27;m on a diet, it's ok if i look at the menu.   no matter where i get my appetite, i always come home for dinner.  Dave -Original Message- From: Lori Michaelson <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> To: quad-list@eskimo.com Sent: Mon, 17 Dec 2007 7:17 pm Subject: Re: [QUAD-L] Warning

Re: [QUAD-L] Warning.....Sexual.

2007-12-19 Thread Lori Michaelson
Amy added every ingredient that I neglected! Thank you girlfriend! Intimacy can take a million different forms. It is important not to lose the intimacy even daily. My injury occurred when I was 15 years old and when I got with my first boyfriend/fiancé sex happened numerous times a week when we

Re: [QUAD-L] Warning.....Sexual.

2007-12-19 Thread Lori Michaelson
John wrote: "Brave enough? Well, I'm sort of jealous. > Can you tell me more about this "partner" you keep talking about?" > Does it matter? No, it doesn't. But he was my ex of 12 years but that is a passed chapter of my life. My current husband of 10 years is an expert lover! I have been

Re: [QUAD-L] Warning.....Sexual.

2007-12-19 Thread Lori Michaelson
I would not rule out phone sex for many of you frustrated men as well. As far as infections... it never happened to me but that is also a consideration for the able-bodied population as well. It's a very common "myth" as far as having "too much sex" and acquiring infections. It's all about keepi

[QUAD-L] Warning.....Sexual.

2007-12-18 Thread wheelchair
Have you considered the services of an escort? Just a question. Then there is a sensitive issue about bacteria and infection. Quads bodies can harbor bacteria in their bladders. Its in their systems most/all of the time. I knew of a para couple who each time they had sex, the girl came d

Re: [QUAD-L] Warning.....Sexual.

2007-12-18 Thread John S.
-- Original Message From: Lori Michaelson <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> To: quad-list@eskimo.com Sent: Monday, December 17, 2007 9:17:16 PM Subject: Re: [QUAD-L] Warning.Sexual. I don't think that too many members on the list are brave enough to respond to this one. Thus the tiny thread.

RE: [QUAD-L] Warning.....Sexual.

2007-12-18 Thread Silas Shelburne
PM To: quad-list@eskimo.com Subject: Re: [QUAD-L] Warning.Sexual. I don't think that too many members on the list are brave enough to respond to this one. Thus the tiny thread. While microphones or things like that are more important! LOL I know the topic of sex has been brought up b

Re: [QUAD-L] Warning.....Sexual. My 2 cents

2007-12-18 Thread SCIQuad96
Jim writes: Clip> I still get sexually frustrated at times but nothing like I was after my injury so, I guess I can say sex is not that big of a deal anymore. Although it would be nice to try. Clip> I must say I do miss any sexual encounters I had before and after SCI. I use to te

Re: [QUAD-L] Warning.....Sexual.

2007-12-18 Thread Jkrocks
I have heard so much about "mental orgasms" and what pleasure they bring but I am one that cannot achieve this. After my injury back in 2000 my wife had nothing to do with me sexually. The only erection that I achieve is once in a while in the morning. Since I'm a SCI "virgin" I do not

Re: [QUAD-L] Warning.....Sexual.

2007-12-18 Thread DAANOO
Thank you for sharing. It is a great topic even if one does not have a partner. Thank you **See AOL's top rated recipes (http://food.aol.com/top-rated-recipes?NCID=aoltop000304)

Re: [QUAD-L] Warning.....Sexual.

2007-12-17 Thread Eric W Rudd
guess u can decide which one ;-p Eric W Rudd [EMAIL PROTECTED] shaking head Eric W Rudd [EMAIL PROTECTED]

Fw: [QUAD-L] Warning.....Sexual.

2007-12-17 Thread Eric W Rudd
Eric W Rudd [EMAIL PROTECTED] - Original Message - From: Eric W Rudd To: quad-list@eskimo.com Sent: Monday, December 17, 2007 8:51 PM Subject: Re: [QUAD-L] Warning.Sexual. shaking head Eric W Rudd [EMAIL PROTECTED] - Original Message - From: Lori

Re: [QUAD-L] Warning.....Sexual.

2007-12-17 Thread Quadius
I had it happen to me once. I wish I knew how to re-create it, I would do it everyday. I also noticed I had a tremendous amount of sediment in my urine, which at the time was very unusual. Later I speculated as to whether I had actually had a wet dream winch went back into my bladder. Still don

Re: [QUAD-L] Warning.....Sexual.

2007-12-15 Thread DiannaL767
In a message dated 12/15/2007 7:38:39 PM Eastern Standard Time, [EMAIL PROTECTED] writes: I know they say your brain is the most powerful sex organ but damn, I wasn't expecting it to be like that. My question is have any of you ever experience this and if so how can you recreate it? Well, I

[QUAD-L] Warning.....Sexual.

2007-12-15 Thread airgantone
Hello guys, Let me get right to it.? This morning I was in the middle of the most erotic dream I have ever had since my injury when I was awaken just at the moment we long to remember (the big orgasm).? This dream felt s real that when I woke up I felt just (well, pretty darn close) like I